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IamBroke:
What's your view on a man washing his wife undies?



Can you boldly tell your friends "hey guys I'd wash ma wife's undies"

Can you actually do it?
Anything wrong with that?

Let's hear from you guys




Lalasticlala

frankly!!

It's not our fvcking business

As a proud yoruba woman, even i believe the DSS is stretching things a bit much here.

Lifeisnotfair:
I hope everyone is having a good day. Here's my story and I'd try to be brief as much as I can.

About four months ago I met this white girl on Instagram and since then we've been talking day in day out. I'm surprised af how quick we both connected in a very short time and to be honest I can tell that she's crazy about me and I'm as well. As a matter of fact she broke up with her ex boyfriend so she could focus on our relationship because according to her she hasn't met someone as sweet as me and I was actually cool with it since no girl has shown me such love in my entire life.

We are both in our early 20s (24 years old) and we 've both promised each other a lot, we plan on seeing for the first time in Nigeria very soon but after last night's conversation, I actually don't feel the same way I felt for her when we started talking.

She confessed to have been with 8 guys after I asked her how many guys she's dated in the past, then she said 9 and later 10 and said she has lost count of how many times she's had sexx. And oh I haven't asked her to be my girlfriend yet though but last night I was about to and after hearing all of her confessions I had to go offline and she's been begging me for forgiveness but I've been ignoring her.

I'm confused and I don't know what to do. I'm deeply in love with her and I see a future with her as well but her past disgusts me so much and I don't feel sexx with her would be something special when we finally decide to get married in the future. Should I continue to lead her on till when I get a green card and just ditch her afterwards or should I just cut ties with her now that I have the opportunity to?

Ps: She's based in America while I'm in Nigeria and for those that would say I'm not a saint, oh well I'm sorry to burst your bubble but I'm still a virgin and haven't had sex in my entire life. I'm not saying she should be a virgin but I feel like 10 guys in the past is a bit on the high side. Please NL members, I need advice on what to do. Thank you in advance.

what did you expect, white girls are allowed to be promiscuous, especially during college days

Sachiopropty:
Good

Get a mobile toilet today end open defecation

Call 08187692998

how much?

Apparently, nigeria is now the open defecation capital of the world
About 1 in 4 nigerians practice open defecation.

This bill is a good bill

flexyrule:
Remember my days at Garbson School of Engineering and Safety...

Chaisng Oil and Gas money...

have you caught it?

[quote author= post=101039145]Our position on this as at 24 hours ago.[/quote]so you are interested in child pornography.

KosiGee:
You will live long...Self respect and discipline will take you far and enable you to scale many obstacles and dangerous traps.

I don’t think the girl has been considerate, respectful and appreciative of your help...maybe because of the relationship between your family...maybe she see you as a brother or one of her siblings and felt entitled.

I think this girl acts like this at home and the parents and family might probably be aware of this side of her.

Locking her out for days seem a bit too harsh. You’ve sacrificed your comfort to accommodate and make her more relaxed and welcomed...sit her down, talk sense into her...we don’t all reason the same...a simple lack of consideration, responsibility and appreciation on her part had made your relationship with her worse. It might affect the relationship your family has with hers. I’m sure you were trusted so much by her family hence why they felt assured that their daughter is safe with you...

Maybe you need to talk to your mum and hers as well. Don’t let the narrative change in her favour. Speak to the girl, allow her access to her stuffs.

I’m sure lessons would’ve been learnt and there wouldn’t be a repeat of former behaviours towards you and she’ll think twice before she acts like that towards another person...I might be wrong.

The title of this thread should be...:

Shekau don jam Bin Laden.

when she was rude, no one thought ut was too harsh.

Let her pack out

Kylekent59:
I can't believe that some people are supporting the way you locked her out. She is stranded and needs a place to sleep.

I wonder why you are acting supreme because you own the room. Please let her in.



Let me tell you, this life turns around. You never can tell if she would be the one to help you in the future.

99% of people supporting the op are religious be it Christians and Muslims.

Since you are the boss of the house, change her, let her know your rules.


I can not support the multitudes here. With the mindset of people here, I can say that this country is filled with bad people.

300+ supporting the op....

hmmm.

I'm not religious, but I support Op's decision.

I talk to you and you pretend I don't exist?! In my quarters?! The audacity of the ungrateful girl.

I will simply tell her to move out since she doesn't have respect. Then call my parents

Telstar:
OP, have a change of heart. She is someone's daughter.

And so?! does that mean dhe should forget that she is squatting rent free in Op's flat?

Op should report her to her parents and his parents too.

Then evict her

Radarada oshi!!

What is N-EXIT?

Grace456:
Help Me Before I Make The Greatest Mistake Pls

I'm a single mother in my early thirties, my daughter is just 2year old and the father is not ready to marry me or take any responsibility on her but still hiding me and his secret wife and won't let me go but I have decided to leave becos he's no adding any value to my life n my daughter's either.

Fast forward
I met a guy online who claims he lives in the US and I discovered I like him since I've met him and now he said we should settle down and marry. I own a duplex in a choice area in Lagos, completed though still small loan I'm paying on it. I agreed to settle down with him but since I told him he can't stay in my house that he needs to get a house, he started acting funny.

The second one, I asked him to show me proof of ID or his work ID, for me to be sure he's who claimed he is, he changed it for me. I tried to let him know that I'm just trying to be careful, don't want to fall prey again but he won't listen to me. He stopped calling and when I call him, he will return my call after like 5hours.

Pls advise me, is it polite for a man to marry and come stay in a woman's house because he said he will soon travel back? This is someone I like to support to get another apartment somewhere else but I haven't told him that. He has really changed in days.

No insult pls...pls ignore rather than insult me pls.

he's a hobosexual and a scammer.

The writing is on the wall

Focus on yourself and your daughter

Vivien458:
it funny how you stay in Nigeria and believe a white man is better than a black man. Are you not ashamed of yourself. Making our men look inferior to them.

Are they not?

See How they manage this country?

See the trash they spew online?

Look at the crimes they commit?

I'm done.

Cutie09:
Be careful what you wish for, a prophet is not respected in his home town. Nigerian men are the best worldwide just know that

they're team foreign men#

Zooposki:
If I’m the wife I will just put herbs in his food that will deaden his sexual urges, while I enjoy my life with young boys with pr**ks as hard as wood.

Oil dey your head

For the man to have the effontery to post this on social media.

If I am the woman, I'll treat his fvck up.

saphiere:
Media personality Bodmas Kemepadei has taken to the media space to appreciate his wife for standing by him for over 11 years and still loving him regardless of his flaws, WonderTV media reports.

He uses the medium also to advise women not to leave their partners because of infidelity. Rather the should share their men with other women.

He wrote:



https://www.facebook.com/wondertvofficial/posts/262440115615533

she's a fool

From one cult to another. Once brainwashed, always brainwashed

heykims:
I'm stating facts for u, please don't mislead the public. And the evidence is there in the public glare, just google and download the CONMESS salary structure and see the basic annual salary from CONMESS 3 upwards.
Moreso, I know for sure u ain't a medical doctor because ur moniker could send the wrong info.

K

heykims:
Haba stop saying what u have no knowledge about. Even some junior staff in hospitals have basic of more than 60k.
For your info, post NYSC doctors are placed on CONMESS 3 and basic salary is more than 200k. That's outside other allowances. Of course tax would still be deducted.

you know what?

Believe what you will

Kinematics:
You are talking about government job right?
Because for private practice these figures are even better. Only in States like Lagos, Rivers and some northern states you'll get this or a little bit better in private practice.

it's worse in private sector

heykims:
Concocted figures. Medical doctors post NYSC are even placed on grade level 13. Pays are higher than what the op posted. They are notwithstanding still underpaid though.
I'd agree if u say these figures are basic salaries without allowances.
Where in Nigeria did u see nurses even in private hospitals being paid per hour.

I can speak for doctors that the800 per hour rate is for locum jobs which are usually for short periods which is maximum of a month, it is usually employed by the private facilities who are in urgent need of a health worker.

If they now employ you full time, the rates are lower than #800 per hour, because it will be per month which can range from 80k -170k.
The usual working time will be 8am-4/5/6pm on weekdays and 48hr calls every alternate weekends.
That means in a month, the average doctor in the private sector only gets 4 days off. Which is the 2 weekends that he is not on call.

Hope you understand now.

heykims:
Concocted figures. Medical doctors post NYSC are even placed on grade level 13. Pays are higher than what the op posted. They are notwithstanding still underpaid though.
I'd agree if u say these figures are basic salaries without allowances.
Where in Nigeria did u see nurses even in private hospitals being paid per hour.

basic salary is 60k for a doctor, it's call alowance that now boost it up to that 150/198k you are seeing

sunbreaker:
ask me oooo

well, if someone increased your suffering by 2 more years nkor?

FunkyAlhaji2015:
Nigerian doctors will never tells Nigerians that in the U.S. that they speak so highly about doctors pay to enter housemanship.

They will also not tell us that Nigeria is one of the few countries that pays house officers.

A doctor on housemanship is at the hospital to learn, why will any sane country pay someone to learn his practice?

Nigerian doctor are so full of deceit

people like you are full of ignorance.

Zoe99:
Interns assist in surgeries and see patients if there's shortage of residents.

which is all the time.

olatunji390:
U want to compare private hospital 50k to Government 200k +

Are you minding them?

Benwems:
Stop lying. Nigeria does not have one of the cheapest health care. You doctors are liars and propagandists. Health care in Nigeria is expensive and yet consultants do not come to work leaving the inexperienced registrars to do most of the jobs so please stop lying here. UK, India, Germany, Austria all have free health care. Their citizens only pay taxes. I have attached a screenshot to show you list of countries with free health a care. You doctors are liars and propagandists.

these are countries with high cost of living where the people pay a lot in taxes.

Or do you think thier governments gives free healthcare with thier teeth?

Google the salaries of the healthworkers in those countries with 'free healthcare'

booscy:
Abeg shift.

Nigerians have been surviving by mixing drugs from CHEMIST shops or drinking AGBO concoctions.

DO WE HAVE A HEALTHCARE SYSTEM?

Taa make we hear word.
Many HAVE DIED PREMATURELY via the carelessness and trial and error experimental by these people ABEG!!!!

Yet their services are not affordable.

who do nigerians go to when chemist shops and agbo concoctions mess upwhich happens often?

The unpaid doctors. Let that sink in