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China’s CCECC secures $3.02 billion Nigerian Eastern Railway contract

RailwayTechnology.Com

29 Apr 2021


https://www.railway-technology.com/news/ccecc-nigerian-eastern-railway-contract/

If they were going to sell the country they shouldn't start in the east

Newstractor:
My boyfriend is a fuckist just like we have rapist but the difference is that he does not force me, I like it. He messes with my brain during sex that I'm about to go pay my own bride price.
I know it sounds crazy but I'm not here for advise but just to rant my stupidity.
He bleeps every reasonable sense in my head that all I have is an empty brain moving. Like I'm not functioning like a human being. If I try to complain he hit my body herder and I get more stupid. I know I'm stupid because this man is jobless, a school dropout, has no focus or ambition. All he does is have sex with me, eat and play video games and this he has done for 4 years with me. While I go out to work he doesn't cheat, has never cheated and will never cheat. All he says he want is just for me to Open anytime, crazy enough I don't ever get tired my body is always ready.
It's been 4 years and I asked where the relationship is leading and he said once I pay my bride price, he will marry me.
We talked about it and he decided to marry me but I will provide everything and give him my bride price to pay. I'm about to take that crazy decision now. Don't advise me just wish me luck. Let me wallow my foolishness in peace, I just want to rant and tell all the foolish girls like me who are not bold enough to accept my foolishness that they are not alone. This platform has helped me a lot and I'm sorry to disappoint you all that after all the stories I read I did not learn anything but ended up foolish. Pray for me. Good evening.

Nothing new here. It happens. I know a lady that the boyfriend gave her away to the man that married her. He walked the isle with her to hand her over to her husband. Both men are friends till today. I fear women but that one made me have a strong respect for their strength.

It's a case of 2 people with too much pride. A relationship is giving and taking. When both parties default little on both it becomes difficult

ijustdey:
https://www.pmnewsnigeria.com/2021/05/17/adamu-garba-cows-more-valuable-than-oil-and-gas/

Ok, then the cows better produce more revenue for U guys than the oil and gas

Kwanza:
https://thenationonlineng.net/third-party-will-emerge-if-tinubu-is-denied-2023-presidential-ticket-oyo-lawmaker/amp/?__twitter_impression=true

Jokers

AjalaDtraveller:
You don't seem to understand I am in Germany already. The process is hard to get approved for marriage here. Anyway different scenarios

If U have a visa either go back to Nigeria and marry or get to Denmark

App222:
I did not authorize anybody to adopt my son. Never.

Pls Nigerians, what kind of wickedness is this that this evil lady wants to do with her man? Pls Help me to get my son back to me.


I read this thread below which made front page today.

https://www.nairaland.com/6542942/should-adopt-fiancees-son-legally


I am the father of the boy the man was talking about and I never authorized anybody to adopt my son and will never authorize or allow anyone adopt my son.

There are 2 things that made me to know from the story that I am the one he's talking about.

They are:
1. He said it's 4 years now that they've been together. This corresponds well to my story. 
2. He said the child is a boy. This also corresponds well. 

I am a very responsible man and I'm not irresponsible as he claimed. That must have been the lie he was told by the lady. She's a liar and has always been a liar.

She actually ran away with my son since then. Ran away to an unknown destination with my son and packed all my properties away with her. Properties worth a lot of money.

That was after she planned to kill me and assassinate me and I ran away from her to save my life. So she later after one year, ran away with my son and said she would give him to her new man friend, even after I had already planned to enroll the boy in school to register him in a school but she denied me access to the boy till today. I've not seen the boy till today. 

Her dad doesn't even know where she lives. She's a complete liar, a pretender, a Jezebel and a green snake under green grass. You're a dead man if you marry her, mark my word.

She now turned round and said she had registered him in school and that I should be sending school fees in order to be extorting money from me continuously, just like she was extorting money from me while we were together and she ended up wrecking me financially and collecting all the money I had.

How can you ask me to send you school fees for a school I don't know? Location I don't know. Class I don't know. 

Mr man, you want to marry a Jezebel and a manipulator, you are digging your own grave by marrying her. 

Return my son to me, I want to put my son in school so that he can be trained properly with good morals. I don't want him to be taken to club every night as she takes him to club to do evil things. This is a very wicked and evil lady. You want to marry a devil, continue.... nobody will tell you when you will begin to regret it. 

You people will never know peace until you return my son to me. He's not your son, he's my son, so you're a child thief for wanting to adopt my son when I the father I'm still alive and I've not seen my son for 4 years now. 

Return my son to me or else..... 


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Another NL warrior is back here with fake follow up story. Anyone that believes this is dumb

wisewordd:
He can't adopt the boy in the first place except the mother claims the dad is dead which is pure evil.

Lol, he can adopt the boy without the mother claiming that. She only needs to prove that the father has abondoned his responsibilities. Nothing more.

Richy4:
Yes I agree with you @ bold man. but when he is traveling outside the country, is he gonna travel alone without the mother?

There are spaces for declaration in terms of visa purposes... when a form is filled, you will be asked how those accompanying you were related to you.. (A step father can be declared)... It is a not an automatic disqualification because you were not the biological parent... what it will only take will be 2- 3 weeks for the documentation and verification of IDs to be delayed just to make sure he was whom you said he was...

But issues and complication of this kind of thing supersedes only traveling document and purposes.. eg
<< Who is the real first son of the family?
<<< If the man is from Igbo land, there are certain traditional things they will like the biological son to do.. if that should happen, that boy will feel insulted...
<<< what about the issue of a troubled son that does not what to see himself as the second son and demands to take his rightful position as the biological child.. this can be avoided now...
<<< If he adopts the BOY now, and maybe.. Just maybe... issue of divorce comes up later in their life, do you think OP will find it easy?
This whole thing is complicated... I wish OP can just be a father figure to the boy... do his best as a father and forget this legal thing..

Yes but pls note. A step father is different from a man married to the mother. Step father by name is not legally adopted. The legally adopted carries more weight in court.
Ofcos no one wishes for divorce or such unpleasantness in a union. The other thing is that we should learn to allow people reach their own opinions about something without attempting to project our own impressions on them

JONNYSPUTE:
....So you are also minding your business by telling him to adopt him without due consultation?
The op is hiding something. He doesn't want to tell us that he is In luv with a woman who doesn't even know the real father of her child.
What does it say about her?

Still sentiments. Like I said, mind you business

wisewordd:
He'll need the dad's permission as long as he's alive. Again, she's evil. She'll do same to OP.

Once he adopts the boy, he doesn't need the man's permission.

wisewordd:
I guess you're the lady . Stop defending her. That thought of her is evil and shouldn't be accepted. OP you better run away from all of it or do your findings. A lady can live with a man for 20 years without him knowing anything about her.

Lol, sorry am not feminine. Am a guy but definitely more matured than you. You are a child, go look at my posts.

Richy4:
If you were in love with the mom... and the step son is gonna be living with you, who will he see as a father figure?...If you treat him the way you will be treating your own son, is there really a need for that?.....in my opinion that's enough....

OP, the question I have to ask you is this, If you have a baby mama somewhere and you heard that a man who intend to marry your baby mama was planning adopting your child, would you be happy? even if you were not present in the child's life... If your answer is no,

Then tell her that you cannot do that to a fellow man like you irrespective of their differences which was in the past...That if someone should do that to you, that you will not like it...Just assure her that whatever a father will do for a son to be successful, that you will do that for the boy.. that your word is your bond....I understand she wants to secure the future of the boy but it doesn't work that way.. You don't need going into any legal procedures...

This is sentiments. There are some countries you can't go to with another man's son hence the need to adopt the boy. I believe that's why the OP is asking the question. If the biological father is out of the picture and has been for a while. There is nothing against adopting the boy. Pls remove sentiments out of logic.

wisewordd:
It's just annoying how these ladies paint men bad. You'll never see a girl that cheated on her ex, it's always the guys. That lady is a lier.

Ofcos women lie but so do men. Forget sentiments. The question was should he adopt the boy or not. I say if he is into her, he should adopt the boy ofcos after he has settled terms with the lady.

wisewordd:
She's evil and lying about everything including the fact that she loves you. She's just manipulating you because of her vagina. Get the baby dad's number without letting her know and talk to him. This is why we advise against baby mamas. They're never at fault, it's always the guys.

Comment is silly

JONNYSPUTE:
....So he should just blindly believe her story?

If he has been with the woman for 4 years and doesn't know by now the kind of person she is, why would U be the one to tell him? Learn to mind your business.

wisewordd:
what if the baby mama is preventing the baby daddy from being a part of the childs life? I will advise the OP to get the baby dad's contact without letting her know and talk to the guy. He'll find out what he wants to marry. No woman is ever at fault, it's only the men.

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