Beremx: Sign of dehydration. Please give him water to drink everyday. Avoid giving him strong antibiotics to avoid stories that touches the heart. I am talking from experience.
Best answer. Baby is not feeding enough is severe dehydrated. Pls increase feeding and fluid without overloading baby
SpecialAdviser: This guy should take over Gtbank if Nigeria is a country that respects the law.
Just that too much wayooo and injustice full the country.
But one with God is the majority.
Lol, he can't take over the bank. Am sure the bank has more assets than 32 billion. What may be done is that they convert his money into shares and he gets a percentage of the bank.
Penguin2: Just that I personally, and over 99 percent of men, will not put a ring on your finger if you can’t relate with my siblings. I will never.
If I were him I would dump your ass straight away because you going back to say you have accepted his siblings will only amount to pretense just for the marriage to happen then you go back to hating his siblings.
People like you cause your husbands to be detached from their families after marriage.
Change your ways!
99 % of men you know if probably what U meant and that speaks a lot about the kind of person U are and Ur mindset. Marriage is not the end, women should know their worth.
Jman06: Y'all should cut the guy some slack abeg. Always looking for means to blame guys in everything related to women.
The guy's siblings are actually right. If the guy can build a rapport with her own family, nothing stops her from doing same. So, she should put in more efforts or get herself off the way for the guy to look for another lady.
U forget there is no right or wrong on this issue. There is only what is and what's possible.
To respond to Ur comment. The OP has already said that she is introverted and her guy is an extrovert. Normally such relationships work well cos their characters pull on eachother to form a balance where they both can thrive in the relationship. But word of warning here is that they both have to work on it to find that balance.
To go back to the topic in question. The guys Siblings are wrong. They can't be more wrong that it even hurts to think about how wrong they are. You can't use the fact that someone is shy and introverted and make a definitive judgement about the person. Not everyone has the Charisma to be overly entertaining. Does not make such persons proud, bad or in their point or view feeling big. The OP should be herself and attempt to be friendly and accommodating to her guys people without being overly pretentious about the kind of person she is. I can tell U that nothing she does would change whatever opinion they have already. Her guys people will probably already see her as proud and fake and desperate. Hence the said comments from one of the sibs. That is where see finish comes in. I mean, did the men who married the sisters put them thru all that shit? This issue where our girls put all their hopes in marriage should be overhauled. It's unfair. If her guy doesn't see her worth enough to put a ring on the finger, it's his loss. Ofcos that is if she is gainfully employed and keeping her own.
Havilaah1: Really wish he can see this. They're making it look like all brides to be are usually close to their in laws before marriage. When one saw me during the wedding, she jokingly said see our wife that we'll soon sack. Didn't know they've been saying this.
Only happens when women put all their hope in a man. U can only do so much. Try to reason things with him, tell him where it hurts. Seek a compromise with him. If he still insists that his way is it, then U are better of without him
Havilaah1: Good day all, i want to pour my heart on what's bothering me and get people's view and possible solutions to the issue.
I've been in a relationship with my boo for a couple of years now and it's a serious relationship, we're are very close.. infact we're practically besties aside relationship. For some months now i noticed he no longer gives me attention like he used to, the vibe between us dropped and it was getting me angry. He stopped doing the things he knows i like, he knows my love language is attention/care as well as complement but he stopped doing all these. I'd send him a photo where i look so beautiful and he'd only say you look good, at a point i started preparing my mind for the worse.
Just yesterday he told me there's something he wants us to talk to me about and it's been bothering him and i asked him what it was, he said it's about us. He said 2 of his siblings asked him same question on different occasions but, he didn't see it as a big deal the first time but when it was asked the second time he got angry and that's the reason he hasn't been flowing well with me.
The question was how can you get married to someone who is not close to your siblings, when he said this i was weak. I know when we started the relationship he told me his siblings are free people i can relate with, i told him i will try. I was in contact with 2 of his sisters before this year( i sometimes chat, text or call during birthdays, new month and festivities).
This year i started chatting with the 3rd sister, her wedding was coming up and she sent me IV. I congratulated her and she asked if i will be around, i told her i will try and create time so i can travel down to attend. I really did travel down to attend the wedding, she was surprised when she saw me but i noticed my boo wasn't happy with me all through the event. Now he's saying he's in close communication with my mum and siblings, they talk all the time but same can not be said about me. He was thinking how can he get married and his siblings will refuse coming to his house because there's no relationship between us.
I'm a very introverted person while himself and his siblings on the other hand are extroverts and ambiverts, i don't find it easy building up ties with people from a distance. I have very few friends, i can be in a place and i won't talk if I'm not used to the people or there's no serious thing to talk about (that's the reason i talk to his siblings during birthdays, new month or festivities). I don't know how to build up a strong relationship with them before marriage, it's even worse because we don't get to see often cos they're in a different state but I've visited them on a few occasions. How do i handle this issue. I was in deep thought all through the night, i couldn't get up to 4 hours sleep.
God knows i love his family as much as i do mine, he himself said he knows i care about them 100% but his family cannot read my mind to see that i have them in mind. After our discussion last night i couldn't sleep, I've been feeling bad about the whole thing. Introversion is making me look like I'm not a good person.
I really don't know how to go about this, please i need advice from people who have been in similar situation. Moderator please help move to front page to get a wider view. Roctation farano Please help move to front page for wider view.
Your guy is making an issue out of nothing. If he would listen to words of wisdom, then I will write this. It is best to have Ur relationship intact than allow the issue of "see finish" destroy the understanding you have built with someone over the years. U must not be close to his siblings or relations before he has put a ring on Ur finger. It is good if you are but U must not be, that is not mandatory. That he is close to Ur family is good and it just reflects his personality, nothing more. The issue of see finish is a problem and I am writing this from experience. I have said my own.
Juliusmomoh: I don't even know the right section to post this..
I lost my uncle some days ago and we put him into the mortuary. Our plan to buried him by january...
What brought about thread is that the mortuary attendant called us to take our corpse on the ground that he fight with the other corpse there.
We went there early morning yesterday to comfirm ourselves. What our eye see mouth no fit talk... E shock us.
He fought other corpse there. He even hang some on the window Attendant don beat him tire, they will still wake up in the morning and see other corpse scatterd and only him enjoying the room.
We where told maybe he's a cultist or he's in some spritual stuff before he died..
They ask us to take him away but we don't want to bury him now due to some family issues. You know.
Please exprience nairalanders, what do you suggest to do now to him?
Nigerians and ghost stories are like 5&6, whether true or false. One can't know but believe nothing till U see yourself. Especially disbelief what U see on the pages of NL except the dailies. After all those written above, I can only say that I have heard of such but never seen. While in school, I was reading in the mutuary of the school with few friends. What we saw there can't be explained in pages of NL.
amaifehenry: A Twitter user @Bongoldeas notorious for insulting celebrities and bullying people on social media was caught by some of his victims (celebrities) on a live show and disgraced!
It was a sorry sight for the bully who looked stupid as his horrendous comments about people were read out to him.
It’s alleged that some of his victims had depression.
The ladies took turn to disgrace him. ��
Say no to cyber bullying � Depression is real. People can commit suicide from your wicked words all in the name of clout.
So they invite this poor guy on live TV to make a mess of him. What is different from what he did on twitter with what they did on live TV? Two wrongs don't make a right. What they did was very wrong.
If I might add. What is frustrating in the whole things is that they are unteachable and go calling anyone that disagree with them simpletons. Imagine small boys...
Favfables1: First.... The concept of "real man" is a fallacy and the interpretation of it's meaning is subject to the individual in question, thus no one interpretation fits all...
Secondly... The word "responsibility" means "obligation" ((et al., depending on the context to which it is applied))...
Now ... All you wrote up there is valid within the context of a MARRIAGE RELATIONSHIP, but it's sooooo invalid in something as fickle as a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship...
In other words... YOUR GIRLFRIEND IS NOT YOUR RESPONSIBILITY, you're not obligated to doing anything for your girlfriend just because you guys are together. In fact sef, taking care of your girlfriend's financial needs is RUBBISH in my opinion...
Yes there should be a "sense of responsibility" in a relationship, but not to the extent at which is protrayed in your write up...
Well said bro and am sure many men agree with this write-up. The thing there is kids or this generation confuse this with redpillers BS or alpha male BS and that is not the case
Nonpartisan1: I see Kanu denouncing Biafra for his freedom very soon.
Won't change the struggle. The status quo can never remain forever. If U disbelieve, look at the USA. See how the republicans are imploding on themselves cos of Trump and false narrative. Trying to change reality to an alternative one. The status quo can't remain forever
Patrioticbreed9: First of all who is a man? A man is the male gender of a human being. .who is a simp? A simp is neutral man who still follow relationship the way it has been going on for long e.g following the common rules in a relationship. .who are the redpillers? The redpillers are group of activist who are trying to change the way relationship have been going on for long especialy reversing the level of female importance in a relationship. .Now who are the real MEN? simple the so called simps. why? maturity! the avrage guys is emotionaly matured and reason like a father, what is the essence of loving who you dont care about, the redpillers for me are planely imatured. why? because matured people take responsibility. the redpillers are group of mentally unstable people trying to avoid responsibility. as for if my babe cry, i cry, if she is disturbed, am disturbed, if she is feeling bad,i cudle her, her pains are my pains! when she cheat on me! i move on.. and that's maturity! so awon redpillers grow up.
Lol, there is no need mixing word with those children who call themselves redpillers or Alpha males. The idea is no childish that it doesn't even deserve a response to their shit
saintokwuluora: The first time he ran for Governorship and lost, he went after those he gave car gifts to retrieve them and that dealt his political acceptance a huge blow. He has learnt his lessons both on spending before and after elections. Way to go.
There is next election loading. This is just setting the stage.
Gadafii: I had a cousin then when I was small, she used to wear this local waist bead, I never knew why, until I eave drop on my mom and her mom talking about her spiritual husband's, , say na that waist bead dey keep him away, I just weak
Somehow I started liking the idea of seeing waist bead on my girl's waist recently, she doesn't wear and she has told me she does not like it
I use to detest nose ring, multiple ear piercingsankle chain and that waist bead, but recently when she told me she wanted to pierce her ears one more time, somehow I wasn't angry, I was even curious to see how it would come out, I just told her don't get more than one extra piercing, and she just smiled, then I asked her playfully "do u also want to start wearing waist bead and anklet, make I know who I dey deal with" she just burst laugh say she no fit them. So OP, while many of this girls wear it for fashion, others wear it to check their fat, while some wear it to let people know codedly what they are.
I can't say about your girl why she wears it, you will need to get to know her better, go do some back ground check wear she stays those boys for her area go play you her tapes if she get any, that's if you have plans to have something serious with her,
Davash222: [/b] One of the oldest lies invented by women. They use this lie to manipulate men.
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Question for high power.
OP, you're smart. Your thinking faculty is very much active.
Don't fall for those gimmicks from her. No man will abandon a nice woman.
Not true bro. Happens, I know atleast 3 women it's happened to and 1 of em is my relative. The men come from abroad to play around not caring who they hurt. Can happen to anyone
SundayNightGist: Honestly, I used to believe some things belonged to the red light district. Or is it just me? Seeing that I was raised a church boy with little to no experience chiking babes, I couldn’t imagine myself ever dating a girl that now makes me think twice. Like, am I now mad or what? How did I get here?
Since I met this my new girl, it’s just been as if the veil of "ignorance" is beginning to fall off my face; abi guy man don dey spoil go be that ni?
Or how else can I explain to this honorable forum that my current girlfriend, though a manager at her company, likes to wear waist-beads? I mean she even wears it to work!
Although I somehow like the sight of it on her waist, I just can’t get the idea of thinking she might be a corporate olosho out of my head. This thing is sowing seeds of mistrust in me and I really don’t know what to do again. And it’s not like I haven’t told her. Everytime I do she will just look at me with a side-eye, rub my head, and laugh briefly. Shey I never carry load wey no be my own like this? Abi na my mind? Make e no be say na person glory dey on the line so o. The thing dey fear me walahi.
Nairalanders please advise a brother urgently.
U have too much time on Ur hand. God help us. What immaturity.
Nothing new in it again. Trouple relationships happen now and many our peaceful. Alicia keys is in a trouple relationship. Just know Ur boundary and never get involved in his other family unless they let U in
gwafaeziokwu: I think it was a mere coincidence this time around. Aguata is one of the largest local government in Anambra state and they have paid their dues in Anambra electoral process.
KoladeChris24: I have this girl who is the only one I love, but she said she can never attend catholic church.
I told her it's not an issue - that as my wife, she's free to attend any church she likes, but she insisted our family would have to attend the same church.
She won't marry me if i stick to my Catholic faith. Please advise me, she's the only one I love, and I can't start over anymore.
Then she can go, if she can't see that her feelings for U should be more than the church she attends or the pastor there
ChiefSosa: Will smith is a fvcking moron_that deserves no pity, and I say this with all love. Someone like Jada should be thanking God everyday that Will smith even knows she exists. This is WILL SMITH we are talking about; one of the best black actors of our lifetime. Someone that attained godlike positions, especially during his 'Men in Black' days. The reason people talk about Jada is cause of will. I'm seriously baffled that someone like Will smith will be going through this, especially in the hands of Jada. Someone like will smith should be hanging around super exclusive females. Jada is really making will smith look like a complete fool. Jada really belongs to the streets. The only way I'll believe Will smith is taking all her nonsense is if he didn't sign a Prenup and he's afraid Jada will take all he's money and assets.
Lol. That's not love bro, that's pure and undiluted stupidity. Jada is someone that use to sell drugs and hang around guys like 2PAC. Will picked her up, helped her get her life together and even married her. Rather than being eternally grateful and behaving herself, she still went ahead to have sexual relationships that lasted for months with a guy that is old enough to be her son. Imagine! This is Will smith she's treating like this o. Or has she confused Will smith with Speed Darlington?.
Ah! This one is more than Kanyamata o. I'm suspecting Ugandamata, Zimbabwemata, Ghanamata, etc Jada really finish work for will smith head.
This one na too much talk. The hand U allow a woman is the hand she will take and even attempt to do more. Will shod have kept mute about this. Or just said he loves Jada but she is going thru trying times cos of menopause and the issue is settled. He didn't have to drag himself to the mud with her.
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