₦airaland Forum

Patrioticbreed9:
First of all who is a man? A man is the male gender of a human being.
.who is a simp? A simp is neutral man who still follow relationship the way it has been going on for long e.g following the common rules in a relationship.
.who are the redpillers? The redpillers are group of activist who are trying to change the way relationship have been going on for long especialy reversing the level of female importance in a relationship.
.Now who are the real MEN? simple the so called simps. why? maturity! the avrage guys is emotionaly matured and reason like a father, what is the essence of loving who you dont care about, the redpillers for me are planely imatured. why? because matured people take responsibility. the redpillers are group of mentally unstable people trying to avoid responsibility. as for if my babe cry, i cry, if she is disturbed, am disturbed, if she is feeling bad,i cudle her, her pains are my pains! when she cheat on me! i move on.. and that's maturity! so awon redpillers grow up.

Lol, there is no need mixing word with those children who call themselves redpillers or Alpha males. The idea is no childish that it doesn't even deserve a response to their shit

Mleeperbother:
LMAO at omo igbo.

Hey bro, you sent me an email. I don't have access to that email now so would appreciate it if you write me the message here.

saintokwuluora:
The first time he ran for Governorship and lost, he went after those he gave car gifts to retrieve them and that dealt his political acceptance a huge blow. He has learnt his lessons both on spending before and after elections. Way to go.

There is next election loading. This is just setting the stage.

Gadafii:
I had a cousin then when I was small, she used to wear this local waist bead, I never knew why, until I eave drop on my mom and her mom talking about her spiritual husband's, , say na that waist bead dey keep him away, I just weak

Somehow I started liking the idea of seeing waist bead on my girl's waist recently, she doesn't wear and she has told me she does not like it


I use to detest nose ring, multiple ear piercingsankle chain and that waist bead, but recently when she told me she wanted to pierce her ears one more time, somehow I wasn't angry, I was even curious to see how it would come out, I just told her don't get more than one extra piercing, and she just smiled, then I asked her playfully "do u also want to start wearing waist bead and anklet, make I know who I dey deal with" she just burst laugh say she no fit them. So OP, while many of this girls wear it for fashion, others wear it to check their fat, while some wear it to let people know codedly what they are.

I can't say about your girl why she wears it, you will need to get to know her better, go do some back ground check wear she stays those boys for her area go play you her tapes if she get any, that's if you have plans to have something serious with her,

This is ignorance

IamWonderful:
Either Tinubu or Osibanjo, we are still moving

Best Osibanjo, Tinubu has nothing to offer

Davash222:
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One of the oldest lies invented by women.
They use this lie to manipulate men.

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Question for high power.

OP, you're smart. Your thinking faculty is very much active.


Don't fall for those gimmicks from her. No man will abandon a nice woman.

Not true bro. Happens, I know atleast 3 women it's happened to and 1 of em is my relative. The men come from abroad to play around not caring who they hurt. Can happen to anyone

SundayNightGist:
Honestly, I used to believe some things belonged to the red light district. Or is it just me? Seeing that I was raised a church boy with little to no experience chiking babes, I couldn’t imagine myself ever dating a girl that now makes me think twice. Like, am I now mad or what? How did I get here?

Since I met this my new girl, it’s just been as if the veil of "ignorance" is beginning to fall off my face; abi guy man don dey spoil go be that ni?

Or how else can I explain to this honorable forum that my current girlfriend, though a manager at her company, likes to wear waist-beads? I mean she even wears it to work!

Although I somehow like the sight of it on her waist, I just can’t get the idea of thinking she might be a corporate olosho out of my head. This thing is sowing seeds of mistrust in me and I really don’t know what to do again. And it’s not like I haven’t told her. Everytime I do she will just look at me with a side-eye, rub my head, and laugh briefly. Shey I never carry load wey no be my own like this? Abi na my mind? Make e no be say na person glory dey on the line so o. The thing dey fear me walahi.

Nairalanders please advise a brother urgently.

U have too much time on Ur hand. God help us. What immaturity.

Nothing new in it again. Trouple relationships happen now and many our peaceful. Alicia keys is in a trouple relationship. Just know Ur boundary and never get involved in his other family unless they let U in

gwafaeziokwu:
I think it was a mere coincidence this time around. Aguata is one of the largest local government in Anambra state and they have paid their dues in Anambra electoral process.

Pls what dues?

KoladeChris24:
I have this girl who is the only one I love, but she said she can never attend catholic church.

I told her it's not an issue - that as my wife, she's free to attend any church she likes, but she insisted our family would have to attend the same church.

She won't marry me if i stick to my Catholic faith. Please advise me, she's the only one I love, and I can't start over anymore.

Then she can go, if she can't see that her feelings for U should be more than the church she attends or the pastor there

MRDEE01:
A loyal wife has her husbands heart.
But a cantankerous woman will kaput him before time

abeg na hunger cause this motivational speaking


I am an experienced bolt driver based in abuja.

I am looking for a partner who can provide me a car to drive on Bolt platform,either on weekly remittance or hire purchase basis.

Thank you.

That is why marriage is not by force. The door is always open, U can walk out anytime

What use is an online certificate of return? Abeg make we hear word

ChiefSosa:
Will smith is a fvcking moron_that deserves no pity, and I say this with all love.
Someone like Jada should be thanking God everyday that Will smith even knows she exists. This is WILL SMITH we are talking about; one of the best black actors of our lifetime. Someone that attained godlike positions, especially during his 'Men in Black' days. The reason people talk about Jada is cause of will. I'm seriously baffled that someone like Will smith will be going through this, especially in the hands of Jada. Someone like will smith should be hanging around super exclusive females. Jada is really making will smith look like a complete fool. Jada really belongs to the streets.
The only way I'll believe Will smith is taking all her nonsense is if he didn't sign a Prenup and he's afraid Jada will take all he's money and assets.

Lol. That's not love bro, that's pure and undiluted stupidity. Jada is someone that use to sell drugs and hang around guys like 2PAC. Will picked her up, helped her get her life together and even married her. Rather than being eternally grateful and behaving herself, she still went ahead to have sexual relationships that lasted for months with a guy that is old enough to be her son. Imagine! This is Will smith she's treating like this o. Or has she confused Will smith with Speed Darlington?.

Ah! This one is more than Kanyamata o. I'm suspecting Ugandamata, Zimbabwemata, Ghanamata, etc Jada really finish work for will smith head.

This one na too much talk. The hand U allow a woman is the hand she will take and even attempt to do more. Will shod have kept mute about this. Or just said he loves Jada but she is going thru trying times cos of menopause and the issue is settled. He didn't have to drag himself to the mud with her.

Set up. Nigerians are hypocrites

Junk Journalism!! What does the autopsy report say, that's what we are interested in

siofra:
As a virtuous man, Janemena's husband is supposed to go on his knees and pray to God to save his marriage. It's not easy but what God cannot do does not exist

BS! One of the largest problems Nigerians have is hypocrisy

Paulajeigbe:
I know this may rock the table at various point with various reasons. Yet, I want to ask the women and the wife's, who may be in this at this time or who have done this before as a get back response to pepper their man just for offending them. Did this solve the matter? And then I am asking, please what lesson or point do you want your man to get or gain, when he offends you and he is asking to be intimate with you and you are carrying the gateway to his kingdom away?

Has this pepper him approach solved any thing? I don't think so.

I wish we know that sex in marriage is a powerful tool. And so to use it againt your husband is like using a weapon against yourself. It does not end well. It will affect your whole family. Because once your man is no longer focused at work,all he now sees are ladies in the mini's and the bikini's and the spaghettis and noodles, things he has been seeing but because he has a woman who is giving it to him well and with joy, na wahala dey knock o.

So what should you do woman?
Your bobo offended you, and one way or the other he hasn't apologize yet. He is forming and shurning and not even paying attention to you. So it looks as if the both of you are doing Tom and Jerry in your home.

Then 10pm he is coming close to you bringing his key. He want to enter Into the tabernacle and just be lost there. Abeg wife, woman, this is not the time to turn , then you look at him , and then you now hissed and cover yourself with the duvet. Noooo!!!
He has only come to resolve matters. Lol! Welcome him, calm him down and then take him to paradise gradually and steadily. Don't raise the matter of what he has done yet. While he is still worshipping and doing all of the different worship styles let him. When you have taken him there and then back, this is the time to open up your heart. Tell him his offense and how hurt you have been. Pour out everything.

I know some men are insensitive. Immediately they have stood up from the place of worship, and then dash out leaving the woman just their. Yet, for a majority this is the time they just want to listen and truly listen. When a man truly know what it means for him to have been taken to the tabernacle of worship and back by his wife whom he has offended, he will apologize. For someone like me, I won't only apologize alone, I ma take her shopping, I will make feel like the woman she is. I will kindly that light again. Sabi it was the tabernacle you she took you to, Kai !!! Wait until she takes you to paradise all because you triggered the girls and the beautiful woman in her.

We men have lost our wives because we weren't sensitive. And by the time we are realizing the damage has gone too deep and things done spoil far.

So in summary, and in conclusion, denying your husband sex because of offense isn't the way. There are better ways and approaches that brings the result you desire.

Kindly leave you comments I would be reading and replying. Peace.

A matter of opinion really. Probably is when U make Ur wife know how much it pains U, women are bound to do it purposefully to irritate U.

An example is this: a friend of mine's wife know that her husband her husband hates seeing dirty dishes in the kitchen sink. When they both have an argument madam will leave the whole dishes from breakfast for him to come and wash once he returns from work. So the man bought a big dishwasher for the house and once they have an argument, he makes sure the dishes of the day before are washed and cleared before he leaves for work. He works far and has to leave very early and he sometimes has to return very late. But what does madam do?
Dishes of breakfast, lunch and dinner all nearly packed for him in the sink when he returns. Ofcos that is without action in the night.

On my own, my wife knows it irritates the hell out of me when she drops the fone on me middle sentence. And when I annoy her she does exactly that knowing I would freak out. That is women for you. They sometimes act like children to gain attention from their spouses. Nothing new there.

But sex shouldn't be weaponized in a union. On that one most men are different. My wife knows she can't use that one against me and she doesn't.

vibbb:
Lol, for new couple at honeymoon stage (1- 2 years) 100% allowed. But at see finish stage if u meet your food on the diny table you are blessed not to talk of eating together because mostly at this stage you are tends to dish your food all by yourself.

A matter of opinion really. Have been married for 10 years and have kids and still ask my wife permission to take food from the pot i.e if she is the one that cooked.
And if I made the food she still asks my permission to take more after we have each dished.
I can add though that some Nigerian friends that have been opportuned to join us at the table have sometimes asked each of us what's wrong with us
I believe it depends on the hand you gave your partner or started with. Probably that's why some Nigerian friends find it odd, their problem not mine

Digmygold:
This Tega would castigate even more if she wasn't the one at the receiving end. She's the real hypocrite trying to.play smart like say we no see wet in she do. Let her go.and settle with God first. Married woman my foot.

Still no one's concern really. It's the problem of her family, children and hers. Why Nigerians are mixing issues with her/them and carrying headache/drinking paracetamol over it is the hypocrisy.

damilola4162:
Former Big Brother Naija housemate Tega has again apologized to Nigerians for her relationship with fellow housemate, during the just-concluded season 6 edition of the reality show, Newspremises reports.

In an interview with with Chude Jideonwo, immediately after she reportedly disabled her Instagram account due to bullying from Nigerians, Tega said she and Boma never had sex in the house as people claim.

She maintained that they only kissed but said she's aware that even that is wrong since she's married.

According to her, she never set out to hurt anyone, adding that she was just going with the flow of the show.

She however, asked Nigerians to forgive her because she's still a Nigerian and cannot be thrown away.

Watch her speak in the video below:
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Source: https://newspremises.com.ng/boma-and-i-didnt-have-sex-but-it-was-wrong-as-a-married-woman-to-be-kissing-tega-apologizes-for-her-behaviour-in-the-big-brother-naija-reality-show-video/

Nigerians are hypocrites!! Quote me anytime

ModelLook:
Lool...

Am sorry to laugh but your ignorance just makes me laugh. I'm sorry.

I feel for you and understand where you are coming from but I will suggest you stop saying what you don't know so you won't hinder an innocent person's breakthrough.

You are entitled to your own opinion. Keep it that way and stop coming here to embarrass yourself biko.

Have you taken care of any Sickle Cell Patient before?
Have you treated any Sickle Cell Patients before?
Have you managed any Sickle Cell Patient before?
Have you seen any of these Sickle Cell patients you have taken care of get cured?
Have you seen any of these Sickle Cell Patients get cured and Genotype changed from SS to AA?

Well my answer to all these are YES...YES.. YES...YES...YES...YES...AND YES.

If the people that have been cured and their Genotype Changed from SS to AA had listened to people like you, by now they would have still been living with Sickle Cell Disease.

Don't hinder somebody else's breakthrough before God gets angry with you.

I come peace.

My ignorance
U are here perpetrating a lie and U said my ignorance?
God help me. I have submitted your details to a friend who works with the necessary authorities.
Good luck

truthCoder:
hnmmm.

first, stop reading blogs that define relationships.

lets go practical. I speak the truth and it might hurt.

your wife and you got married not because you are best of friends but because you both seem to meet certain societal requirements you both set for yourselves. You wanted a virgin and a church girl from a good home. She wants a good man with a good job who will love her.

This is where the problem starts. You and your wife might be married but you are not friends. She needs someone to be free with and currently you are not..the pastor is.

Here is what you should do.

First ball is you. Are you the kind of guy that is not easily approachable by the wife on petty things? If you are, you need to change. She must have access to you on everything. If she thinks about ABC, she must be able to gist about it with you. Be more open. As regards sex, she is a learner...teach her...Sex is not just the penetration. Learn about taking it sloowwwww....For the next few days, make love without penetrating her. make her relaxed, give her a good massage, help her clean her ear, arrange her hair, help her try on different clothes, just lie on the bed and gist, kiss and cuddle, give her head, cut her toenails, do everything that involves touching but no penetration. This will loosen her more.

Take the pastor's phone number. Call him and tell him you are XYZ's husband. Don't allow him to 'pastorize' you. Tell him you have seen the chats and you are disappointed. Tell him he should never contact your wife again or he is going to see hell on earth. Tell him you will come into the church during service to embarrass him if he doesn't stop contacting your wife. Tell him you will report him to Winners Headquarters in Ota and via social media then hang up the call.

Next ball park is your wife. Sit her down and have this conversation with her. Tel her the most important relationship she has is the one with you. Every other one is secondary. Tell her you would love her more if she can make you her friend. If she has any thing to discuss, She should be free to do so with you. Show her love. Show her that she matters. Gist with her.

You will win her back

Was well said but harsh. The said moves could drive her further outa reach ofcos depending on how far emotionally she has gone with the pastor.
I agree with all the stuffs you mentioned for the OP to do but where I disagree is attacking the pastor.
I agree the OP should meet the pastor and not allow him minister to him.
My own take though on this portion of it all is that the OP should meet the pastor and build a friendship with the man. Then slowly extricate his wife from the grip of that devil. And after he has successfully done that to cut all contact with the said pastor

hisexcellency34:
My cousin just bought eggs in London today and observed the expiry (Best Before ) dates of the eggs were stamped on each eggs as well as the case.

Can't we have the same here in Nigeria to avoid situation where you have five eggs. You cracked four good eggs but the last one was bad and spoilt the whole thing.

That's not news

Ficient:
Unfortunately some of them know how to forget easily when things change

Na U Sabi. Genotype changes is a lie. No medical college would even listen to such BS

ModelLook:
What do you have to say about the 6 to 7 Sickle Cell Patients that we treated and got cured with their genotype changing from SS to AA?

Or the remaining who have gone on to live healthier lives free from any thing called Sickle Cell?

I'm not here to convince you or any body.

I'm just here to let everyone know the evolution that has taken place.

Don't be misinformed dear. The world has fully evolved.

You data is false. U can treat symptoms but not the SSD

ModelLook:
Suit yourself Sir.

People have been getting cured and will continue to be getting cured and getting their genotype changed from SS to AA from year 2021 and above.

Pls stop mentioning genotype changes. That's a lie, can never happen.

yemmit90:
Nothing is impossible in this world sir. Never say never, dont know about SSD but people are getting cured from Diseases tagged with no cure by scientists.

Not diseases that are caused by gene mutations.

ModelLook:
What do you have to say about the 6 to 7 Sickle Cell Patients that we treated and got cured with their genotype changing from SS to AA?

Or the remaining who have gone on to live healthier lives free from any thing called Sickle Cell?

I'm not here to convince you or any body.

I'm just here to let everyone know the evolution that has taken place.

Don't be misinformed dear. The world has fully evolved.

It's misinformation. There is no way on this earth that genotype changes from SA to AA. For that to happen U must have to change the gene of the person. Don't be naive ans stop deceiving people.
On the other hand, give us your location so we can send experts to you to confirm your findings.

lalasticlala:
A House of Representatives member, Ibrahim Obanikoro, representing Eti-Osa Federal Constituency, Lagos State, has called on the Central Bank of Nigeria (CBN) to close all domiciliary accounts for the next 12 months.

Ibrahim B Obanikoro wrote:

"I am not the CBN Governor but at this moment, I'm of the opinion that CBN should mandate that all dorm accounts be closed for the next 12 months. Let's see the effect on the Naira. After all you can't go to any of the Western world and open a foreign currency account. Your opinion."


Nonsense suggestion!

But what effect does dorm accounts have on the currency of a country?

MolecularSponge:
Hello Nairalander,
Please, I am a wissenschaftlich mitarbeiter (Research scientist) in Germany, please how can I bring my wife to Germany…I don’t know how to go about this. She has applied for a reunion visa since October 2020. We don’t know when her appointment for visa interview will be. Is there any research scientist here that has brought his wife to Germany and please how did you go about it and how was the experience like ?. Do I need to tell the city office that I would like to bring my wife over, Is there any advantage a research scientist has over other when its come to family re-union. Please anyone with a legit answer should reply to me as a whole pressure is one me right now before I go paranoid.
I look forward to contribution from the general house
Thanks my people

Requirements is on their webpage. Follow it judiciously. Pls don't give anybody money to do the process that you can do on Ur own.

ModelLook:
Some weeks back, I heard of how someone died of Sickle Cell Disease. And guess what? he was just in his late thirties.

4 days later, I heard of another young man living on the next street close to mine who died that morning from Sickle Cell Disease also. He was in his early twenties.

3 children between the ages of 7,10 and 13 collapsed while in school as a result of Sickle Cell Crises. They were rushed to our sister hospital and died on the way. So sad.

6 out of 10 Individuals living with Sickle Cell Disease die daily in Nigeria and more all over the world yet these numbers keep increasing daily. Sickle Cell Disease is a KILLER!!!

Having handled cases of patients living with sickle cell disease and the success stories I have gotten from them, I decided to write a book that will educate you all on the steps you need to take in curing that Sickle Cell Disease you battle with daily.

Our patients have been cured and some have even gotten their Genotype Converted from SS, SC to AA. Laboratory tests have confirmed it. We have their before and after. While the rest have gone on to live healthier lives.

You too can be free from Sickle Cell today. Save yourself or help someone you know save him or herself today by gifting them a copy of my eBook.

I wrote this eBook for everyone. I believe it's going to be a blessing to someone and restore hope to so many lives out there. It's a must read and a copy goes for just N1,500 Only.

Don't sleep on this. Knowledge is Power. In life, there is always a solution to every problem. That is a saying by one of our cured patients. She used to be SS. But now, she is AA.

To place your order for a copy of my eBook, send a DM NOW!!!

This is misinformation. SSD has no cure