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Akv666:
Good day guys,

So I've been dating a single Mom for almost 4years now and we're ready to tie the knot, but recently she came up with a suggestion of me adopting her son legally. Her baby daddy has actually been irresponsible right from start, nigga last saw his son when he was 4months old and he hasn't even bought ordinary diaper for the boy right from when he was delivered.

Now I'm being skeptical about taking him up legally, please i need advice from you guys, no insult please.

Hello, I wonder why you would ask that question on NL when U know that most of the men here are immature (the so called redpillers, and alpha men).

The answer to your questions rests on you and your understanding with your bride.
In the Nigerian setting it takes a man, a good man to make a woman off a single mother. Guy U got my respect. Very well done.

It take a man with a larger heart to adopt the child of the woman. Think about it though. If your feelings are true for the mother then ofcos you can adopt the child as long as you intend to do good by that child and be the father that child so badly needs. Then U must make sure the mother understands and don't come between you both especially when U need to discipline the child.
Discuss well with your better half and come to an agreement then you do what needs to be done. It's a big move and a very good one. Best of luck.

Sammy07:
So by the time he comes back for his son after spending on him, Una go be looking like dundi?

Anyways, nothing better than ur child, there will always be sentiment when he grows up with ur Children.

Won't happen like that. Be real

Umueme:
This road still under rehabilitation, is the Aba-Owerri road. It starts from the ongoing Osisioma flyover and terminates at Bata junction.
The road will be powered with solar streetlights and decorated with flowers.

(So I heard)

Mods push to front page biko. The public outlook on Aba in this forum is bad.

What of PH road

seyi360:
How men cope with the thoughts that their daughter(s) will grace a man's bed someday is humbling. Especially during wedding receptions when an oversabi master of ceremony tells the bride's father not to feel jealous or uneasy during the kissing session. A man can only console himself knowing that his wife is also someone's daughter and the beat goes on.
How do you deal with that thought as a man?

Stupid question. Are U not warming someone else's bed or do U think it's only women that do that?

chatinent:
Hi fam,

A girl who asked me out early this year is pregnant now. She professed her love on Facebook.

She used the right words to win any guy's heart.

I wasn't just ready for commitment, and I responded her poetry with “thank you,” accompanied with an off-point “how was your day” to send the message that I deemed it a compliment.


I knew it was a turn off. But it was as polite as I could go.


Ladies and gentlemen, I saw this lady yesterday with a baby bump! She was pregnant all through!


Why do ladies do this? Why transfer your neglect to sb else? I feel this is an emotional robbery.


What's your say?

Hilarious �� first and foremost, I doubt that poetry she wrote was for you. She could have copy pasted it to several other people. Take what U see on FB with a pinch of salt.

What is this world turning into. When young people now start wearing the title baby mamma and baby papa like a badge of honour. Something that has no honour in it. Something our parents turned their backs in shame. God help us.

squash47:
The girl never loved the guy. The antibiotics was just a way of testing her love.


A lady who loves you will not be quick to drop an engagement ring without a fight.

She just dropped the ring like that. Meaning that he never loved the guy that much.



Secondly, the girl should have placed the guy on a certain antibiotics too.

Testing her love?

I don't normally reply shit in NL but this one got me. He is testing her love? Her dropping the ring is plain she ain't desperate to marry. I congratulate the lady for that action. Nigerians should learn their limits. Nigerian women should learn that not marrying is not the end of the world for women. Nigerian men should learn not to be making unnecessary demands from our womenfolk.

nowhere:
Hahahahaha. Why don't you first start from human database and use forensic to be fishing out murderers, kidnappers and other criminals?

As those idiots are not ready to do the right thing. What else does one do.

Invitationn:
Nice bill...we are gradually entering the 21st century.

Yep, that's why it's s good deal. Think about it. If it helps us know how many cows in the country and who owns them, where the cows are. We could know whose cows destroyed people's farms and who to hold responsible for compensation

dre11:
https://thenationonlineng.net/proposed-database-for-cows-by-senate-sparks-outrage/

It's a good bill. Hope it gets passed

Doesn't make sense. The north and west have local police so what gives? Why should it be different with the East? Abeg move to 1 side. I hate double standard

It's called puff puff roll

Basalt:


You are very funny bro. The guy really pissed me off with his extremely pessimistic view about Germany.
Na such people dey discourage our youths from trying their luck outside Nigeria.
Imagine what he posted immediately I shared my story


People should really stop talking much about the future, only God knows the future.

Has nothing to do with pessimism. Yea, noone can know the future but too much blind optimism is also unhealthy. Am done with this topic.

fuckingAyaya:
Trump has been vindicated

No he has not

Printing naira without backing na recipe for Desaster. No wonder Naira is on free fall

iamadonis2:
Hey Man.

It’s 2021, Nigeria finally became that El-dorado you passionately argued it would be 2 years ago on this thread. I hope they got you a villa right next to Buhari’s in Abuja?

Beautiful country Nigeria is now, I tell you. In spite of the whole noise we see on TV my two big companies still give me monthly returns of $10M.

Tell you what?! I’m that average Nigerian you fought for. Remember the one you said was earning 150k a month back in 2019? Yup, that’s me.

Thank you for upholding the dreams of our forefathers. How’s your end?

Am scratching my head trying to remember the said conversation you highlighted. I doubt it's me you had that discussion with.
God bless.

These are not Huskies

Explorers:
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-9433391/Egypt-holds-spectacular-parade-transporting-22-mummies-famous-pharaohs-museum.html

They tried

Just little thing

DaddyRochie1642:
Love still dey shack this one

Tomorrow na you'll start Weeping and gnashing your teeth saying this girl "Used Jazz on me".... How can the girl know your password and have Unrestricted access to your phone and Privacy and she'll deny you access to hers with Idiotic excuses.

Oga are you not a Man that knows what he wants, I believe you have goals and priorities that you wish to accomplish in this Life, So why is it difficult for you to Let that girl know that you're not here to "Play games", why is it difficult for you to Express yourself and let her know with a serious tone in your voice that you will not tolerate such behavior and excuses from her.


Oga it is your type that finally gets married and start lamenting "I Made a Horrible Mistake by Marrying this Woman", meanwhile it is your Fault from the beginning because you failed to set Boundaries and stamp your Authority as a man that knows what he wants.

People won't like to hear this and I personally dont give a FÚCK, nowadays, Respect is what makes a Relationship last longer and Stronger especially when the Respect is Mutual, Love is just secondary.

If that girl had a good Percentage of Respect for you, she won't have the guts to go through your phone and your Privacy and start giving excuses when you want to go through hers.

You're seeing the "Red Flags" now and you're forming gentleman, your eyes go soon Clear

That was too hard. Some guys need that kind of beating but atleast be a little humane when you give such a beating.

To the OP, the guy I quoted may have been too mean or brash in his approach but he has said it all.
I will just add that, since U are a gentleman then find out why she is crying? Find out everything. It could be that she cheated or she didn't. Find out and decide for yourself what U must do next

BigDawsNet:
You studied for 3 months for just a course and you have to write a hour exam about it...that doesn't sound like a difficult thing to achieve success...

Really! But only that some lecturers have a knack to set stuffs they didn't teach

completeskills:
If this was in Nigeria. You would have seen newspaper reports like" Mystery illness kill hundreds in remote village ".
People should know that everything that look like food is not actually food.

U took the words right outa my mouth

To even imagine that this charlatan was trained as a doctor. One wonders why his colleagues should be striking on his watch

fergie001:
NAF lost radar contact with an Alpha Jet conducting a routine mission on Wednesday evening in the Sambisa forest area of Northeast Nigeria. This is what happened to the jet...
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A ball of explosion covers a Nigerian Air Force Alpha Jet. Screenshot from a propaganda video released April 2021


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Alpha Jet spiralling to the ground.

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Insurgents removing aircraft component

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A Boko Haram fighter armed with a machine gun stands on the aircraft debris.

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What appears to be a 105mm artillery system.

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Fighter with an RPG-backed Boko Haram gun truck.

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NAF Alpha jet armed with rocket pod


Humangle_

So it has finally started! We will not carry last in this fight

GuyWise101:
Nna mehnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn

I went to Aba today and couldn't believe my eyes

Okezie is working

If you don't show Portharcourt road then all you posted is propaganda

Casalindal:
Good morning guys, how are we all doing? Let me go straight to the point. So yesterday my thread was the. Most talked about although yesterday and it drew some attention to me, but something funny happened today on my way heading to church. I was on my way to church and while we were being stop by the traffic light the was this guy, at the next car beside us he started calling me ashawo and a stupid girl not even minding my husband and daughter was all with me. It’s painful he started calling my husband hiv and all kind of name.. I’m in pain and I have cried my eyes out, we could not make it to church as we drove back home my husband has left the house as I speak and it really sad. I shared my story here because I want a form of closure and also inform people what we lady go through when we love a man regardless.

My husband has asked me to leave his house and not to return. This is really sad and I’m broken beyond measure, God know I love this man and I did will never make any mockery of his health but was trying to educate people out there that it’s possible to still be marry to your partner regardless of his status because there are medical teams that can make this possible.

You are not making any sense.

Olalan:
He's right....forget the fake Talk about not needing a husband to live a fulfilling life as some say just to save face, many of them wish to be happily married.
BTW there seems to be a wide difference in women who are happily married and their unmarried counterparts especially in a working environment. Thus for me a happy marriage makes a woman better.

That's your chauvinistic point or view

MrGist:
A Nigerian man who took to Facebook to dish out advice, disclosed that many ladies in their late 30s never saw it coming.

  According to the Nigerian man, ladies who fall in this category had plans of finishing their ‘first degree, masters, a job, a promotion, make money, be independent and settle down by 30, latest 32’.  He further disclosed that only few men would marry a 35-year-old woman who is independent and opinionated when we live in a highly hypergamous (act of marrying someone wealthier than you) society.
He wrote;



News from Gistmore - http://gistmore.com/many-ladies-in-the-late-30s-never-saw-it-coming-nigerian-man

Actually marriage is overrated and a woman doesn't need a man to make her happy

Bornsinner7:
Funny.. I was having a chat yesterday with my brother and he was telling me about this same (exact) story he stumbled on somewhere on the social media..

I don't know what marriages are based on.. I always thought it was love and trust..

The woman doesn't love nor trust the man and she only sees him as a tool to be used to fulfill her plans on whatever she's planning..

That man should just separate himself from her because no matter the amendments she try to make he won't be the same anymore.. that's an everlasting scar in his memory.. What's the point being with a cheat and betrayal??

Move on.. sell all the properties you have in both names.. she doesn't deserve a life with the good man..

I mean her dad who is supposed to correct her when she's looking wrong is the one making sure everything is going on secretly.. man! you're caught in a family of doom.. it's a trap!!! the husband should get himself out before it's too late.. they may be apologizing but in their hearts they are not happy he found out

It's a hard lesson for anyone to learn and an even harder lesson to give especially when U consider the marriage is 6 years and they have children.
But how long can a man be angry esp with a wife he married? Ofcos Oga is justified to be pissed off, I would be livid with anger but I would handle it elaborately. He is not talking to her, telling her nothing by his actions, hanging her on. This is not his girlfriend but his wife, mother tongue children. Regardless of her mistake, she deserves a little lifeline.
He should have been clear in his actions but also show he has a forgiving heart. Then ofcos not make her privy to any of his hard decisions anymore.

NwaNimo1:
Its a start....

It's useless

Penguin2:
Uzodimma is very vindictive

Are U serious? Did U really the write-up upside down or what? Ok, let me explain to U in clear terms. Richard allocated 49 plots or land to his sister for an aimless purpose which was not done. Uzodimma has revoked those now. U hope it's now clear?

raker300:
you don’t seem to know anything about onitsha.

Onitsha is now an oasis of the orient..all those junk propaganda won’t fly anymore

It is also the dirtiest city in the east