Politics › Re: EndSARS: Pathologist Tenders Autopsy Reports Of 99 Persons Killed During Protes by drnoel: 2:35pm On Oct 22, 2021 |
Junk Journalism!! What does the autopsy report say, that's what we are interested in |
Romance › Re: Janemena's Husband Appropriate Reaction To His Wife's Scandal by drnoel: 6:59am On Oct 22, 2021 |
siofra: As a virtuous man, Janemena's husband is supposed to go on his knees and pray to God to save his marriage. It's not easy but what God cannot do does not exist  BS! One of the largest problems Nigerians have is hypocrisy |
Family › Re: I Offended My Wife And She Is Denying Me Sex by drnoel: 12:19pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
Paulajeigbe: I know this may rock the table at various point with various reasons. Yet, I want to ask the women and the wife's, who may be in this at this time or who have done this before as a get back response to pepper their man just for offending them. Did this solve the matter? And then I am asking, please what lesson or point do you want your man to get or gain, when he offends you and he is asking to be intimate with you and you are carrying the gateway to his kingdom away?
Has this pepper him approach solved any thing? I don't think so.
I wish we know that sex in marriage is a powerful tool. And so to use it againt your husband is like using a weapon against yourself. It does not end well. It will affect your whole family. Because once your man is no longer focused at work,all he now sees are ladies in the mini's and the bikini's and the spaghettis and noodles, things he has been seeing but because he has a woman who is giving it to him well and with joy, na wahala dey knock o.
So what should you do woman? Your bobo offended you, and one way or the other he hasn't apologize yet. He is forming and shurning and not even paying attention to you. So it looks as if the both of you are doing Tom and Jerry in your home.
Then 10pm he is coming close to you bringing his key. He want to enter Into the tabernacle and just be lost there. Abeg wife, woman, this is not the time to turn , then you look at him , and then you now hissed and cover yourself with the duvet. Noooo!!! He has only come to resolve matters. Lol! Welcome him, calm him down and then take him to paradise gradually and steadily. Don't raise the matter of what he has done yet. While he is still worshipping and doing all of the different worship styles let him. When you have taken him there and then back, this is the time to open up your heart. Tell him his offense and how hurt you have been. Pour out everything.
I know some men are insensitive. Immediately they have stood up from the place of worship, and then dash out leaving the woman just their. Yet, for a majority this is the time they just want to listen and truly listen. When a man truly know what it means for him to have been taken to the tabernacle of worship and back by his wife whom he has offended, he will apologize. For someone like me, I won't only apologize alone, I ma take her shopping, I will make feel like the woman she is. I will kindly that light again. Sabi it was the tabernacle you she took you to, Kai !!! Wait until she takes you to paradise all because you triggered the girls and the beautiful woman in her.
We men have lost our wives because we weren't sensitive. And by the time we are realizing the damage has gone too deep and things done spoil far.
So in summary, and in conclusion, denying your husband sex because of offense isn't the way. There are better ways and approaches that brings the result you desire.
Kindly leave you comments I would be reading and replying. Peace. A matter of opinion really. Probably is when U make Ur wife know how much it pains U, women are bound to do it purposefully to irritate U. An example is this: a friend of mine's wife know that her husband her husband hates seeing dirty dishes in the kitchen sink. When they both have an argument madam will leave the whole dishes from breakfast for him to come and wash once he returns from work. So the man bought a big dishwasher for the house and once they have an argument, he makes sure the dishes of the day before are washed and cleared before he leaves for work. He works far and has to leave very early and he sometimes has to return very late. But what does madam do? Dishes of breakfast, lunch and dinner all nearly packed for him in the sink when he returns. Ofcos that is without action in the night. On my own, my wife knows it irritates the hell out of me when she drops the fone on me middle sentence. And when I annoy her she does exactly that knowing I would freak out. That is women for you. They sometimes act like children to gain attention from their spouses. Nothing new there. But sex shouldn't be weaponized in a union. On that one most men are different. My wife knows she can't use that one against me and she doesn't. |
Family › Re: Should A Wife Wait For Her Husband Before She Eats Or She Should Eat Alone? by drnoel: 12:05pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
vibbb: Lol, for new couple at honeymoon stage (1- 2 years) 100% allowed. But at see finish stage if u meet your food on the diny table you are blessed not to talk of eating together because mostly at this stage you are tends to dish your food all by yourself. A matter of opinion really. Have been married for 10 years and have kids and still ask my wife permission to take food from the pot i.e if she is the one that cooked. And if I made the food she still asks my permission to take more after we have each dished. I can add though that some Nigerian friends that have been opportuned to join us at the table have sometimes asked each of us what's wrong with us  I believe it depends on the hand you gave your partner or started with. Probably that's why some Nigerian friends find it odd, their problem not mine |
TV/Movies › Re: Bbnaija: 'Boma And I Didn't Have Sex'- Tega Again Apologises To Nigerians(video) by drnoel: 6:58am On Oct 12, 2021 |
Digmygold: This Tega would castigate even more if she wasn't the one at the receiving end. She's the real hypocrite trying to.play smart like say we no see wet in she do. Let her go.and settle with God first. Married woman my foot. Still no one's concern really. It's the problem of her family, children and hers. Why Nigerians are mixing issues with her/them and carrying headache/drinking paracetamol over it is the hypocrisy. |
TV/Movies › Re: Bbnaija: 'Boma And I Didn't Have Sex'- Tega Again Apologises To Nigerians(video) by drnoel: 5:45pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
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Family › Re: Stop Living With Sickle Cell Disease. See This Now!!! (Pics) by drnoel: 7:49am On Oct 07, 2021 |
ModelLook: Lool...
Am sorry to laugh but your ignorance just makes me laugh. I'm sorry.
I feel for you and understand where you are coming from but I will suggest you stop saying what you don't know so you won't hinder an innocent person's breakthrough.
You are entitled to your own opinion. Keep it that way and stop coming here to embarrass yourself biko.
Have you taken care of any Sickle Cell Patient before? Have you treated any Sickle Cell Patients before? Have you managed any Sickle Cell Patient before? Have you seen any of these Sickle Cell patients you have taken care of get cured? Have you seen any of these Sickle Cell Patients get cured and Genotype changed from SS to AA?
Well my answer to all these are YES...YES.. YES...YES...YES...YES...AND YES.
If the people that have been cured and their Genotype Changed from SS to AA had listened to people like you, by now they would have still been living with Sickle Cell Disease.
Don't hinder somebody else's breakthrough before God gets angry with you.
I come peace. My ignorance  U are here perpetrating a lie and U said my ignorance? God help me. I have submitted your details to a friend who works with the necessary authorities. Good luck |
Family › Re: My Wife Is Having An Emotional Affair With Her Pastor by drnoel: 9:07pm On Oct 06, 2021 |
truthCoder: hnmmm.
first, stop reading blogs that define relationships.
lets go practical. I speak the truth and it might hurt.
your wife and you got married not because you are best of friends but because you both seem to meet certain societal requirements you both set for yourselves. You wanted a virgin and a church girl from a good home. She wants a good man with a good job who will love her.
This is where the problem starts. You and your wife might be married but you are not friends. She needs someone to be free with and currently you are not..the pastor is.
Here is what you should do.
First ball is you. Are you the kind of guy that is not easily approachable by the wife on petty things? If you are, you need to change. She must have access to you on everything. If she thinks about ABC, she must be able to gist about it with you. Be more open. As regards sex, she is a learner...teach her...Sex is not just the penetration. Learn about taking it sloowwwww....For the next few days, make love without penetrating her. make her relaxed, give her a good massage, help her clean her ear, arrange her hair, help her try on different clothes, just lie on the bed and gist, kiss and cuddle, give her head, cut her toenails, do everything that involves touching but no penetration. This will loosen her more.
Take the pastor's phone number. Call him and tell him you are XYZ's husband. Don't allow him to 'pastorize' you. Tell him you have seen the chats and you are disappointed. Tell him he should never contact your wife again or he is going to see hell on earth. Tell him you will come into the church during service to embarrass him if he doesn't stop contacting your wife. Tell him you will report him to Winners Headquarters in Ota and via social media then hang up the call.
Next ball park is your wife. Sit her down and have this conversation with her. Tel her the most important relationship she has is the one with you. Every other one is secondary. Tell her you would love her more if she can make you her friend. If she has any thing to discuss, She should be free to do so with you. Show her love. Show her that she matters. Gist with her.
You will win her back Was well said but harsh. The said moves could drive her further outa reach ofcos depending on how far emotionally she has gone with the pastor. I agree with all the stuffs you mentioned for the OP to do but where I disagree is attacking the pastor. I agree the OP should meet the pastor and not allow him minister to him. My own take though on this portion of it all is that the OP should meet the pastor and build a friendship with the man. Then slowly extricate his wife from the grip of that devil. And after he has successfully done that to cut all contact with the said pastor |
Food › Re: Eggs In UK Have Expiry Dates Stamped On Each,Can't This Happen In Nigeria? (Pic) by drnoel: 11:02am On Oct 06, 2021 |
hisexcellency34: My cousin just bought eggs in London today and observed the expiry (Best Before ) dates of the eggs were stamped on each eggs as well as the case.
Can't we have the same here in Nigeria to avoid situation where you have five eggs. You cracked four good eggs but the last one was bad and spoilt the whole thing. That's not news |
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Family › Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by drnoel: 3:10am On Sep 30, 2021 |
Ficient: Unfortunately some of them know how to forget easily when things change Na U Sabi. Genotype changes is a lie. No medical college would even listen to such BS |
Family › Re: Stop Living With Sickle Cell Disease. See This Now!!! (Pics) by drnoel: 3:09am On Sep 30, 2021 |
ModelLook: What do you have to say about the 6 to 7 Sickle Cell Patients that we treated and got cured with their genotype changing from SS to AA?
Or the remaining who have gone on to live healthier lives free from any thing called Sickle Cell?
I'm not here to convince you or any body.
I'm just here to let everyone know the evolution that has taken place.
Don't be misinformed dear. The world has fully evolved. You data is false. U can treat symptoms but not the SSD |
Family › Re: Stop Living With Sickle Cell Disease. See This Now!!! (Pics) by drnoel: 3:08am On Sep 30, 2021 |
ModelLook: Suit yourself Sir.
People have been getting cured and will continue to be getting cured and getting their genotype changed from SS to AA from year 2021 and above. Pls stop mentioning genotype changes. That's a lie, can never happen. |
Family › Re: Stop Living With Sickle Cell Disease. See This Now!!! (Pics) by drnoel: 3:06am On Sep 30, 2021 |
yemmit90: Nothing is impossible in this world sir. Never say never, dont know about SSD but people are getting cured from Diseases tagged with no cure by scientists. Not diseases that are caused by gene mutations. |
Family › Re: Stop Living With Sickle Cell Disease. See This Now!!! (Pics) by drnoel: 6:41pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
ModelLook: What do you have to say about the 6 to 7 Sickle Cell Patients that we treated and got cured with their genotype changing from SS to AA?
Or the remaining who have gone on to live healthier lives free from any thing called Sickle Cell?
I'm not here to convince you or any body.
I'm just here to let everyone know the evolution that has taken place.
Don't be misinformed dear. The world has fully evolved. It's misinformation. There is no way on this earth that genotype changes from SA to AA. For that to happen U must have to change the gene of the person. Don't be naive ans stop deceiving people. On the other hand, give us your location so we can send experts to you to confirm your findings. |
Politics › Re: Ibrahim Obanikoro To CBN: Close Domiciliary Accounts For 12 Months To Save Naira by drnoel: 2:59pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
lalasticlala: A House of Representatives member, Ibrahim Obanikoro, representing Eti-Osa Federal Constituency, Lagos State, has called on the Central Bank of Nigeria (CBN) to close all domiciliary accounts for the next 12 months.
Ibrahim B Obanikoro wrote:
"I am not the CBN Governor but at this moment, I'm of the opinion that CBN should mandate that all dorm accounts be closed for the next 12 months. Let's see the effect on the Naira. After all you can't go to any of the Western world and open a foreign currency account. Your opinion."
Nonsense suggestion! But what effect does dorm accounts have on the currency of a country? |
Travel › Re: General German Work And Family Re-union Visa Enquiries by drnoel: 12:41pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
MolecularSponge: Hello Nairalander, Please, I am a wissenschaftlich mitarbeiter (Research scientist) in Germany, please how can I bring my wife to Germany…I don’t know how to go about this. She has applied for a reunion visa since October 2020. We don’t know when her appointment for visa interview will be. Is there any research scientist here that has brought his wife to Germany and please how did you go about it and how was the experience like ?. Do I need to tell the city office that I would like to bring my wife over, Is there any advantage a research scientist has over other when its come to family re-union. Please anyone with a legit answer should reply to me as a whole pressure is one me right now before I go paranoid. I look forward to contribution from the general house Thanks my people Requirements is on their webpage. Follow it judiciously. Pls don't give anybody money to do the process that you can do on Ur own. |
Family › Re: Stop Living With Sickle Cell Disease. See This Now!!! (Pics) by drnoel: 11:47am On Sep 29, 2021 |
ModelLook: Some weeks back, I heard of how someone died of Sickle Cell Disease. And guess what? he was just in his late thirties.
4 days later, I heard of another young man living on the next street close to mine who died that morning from Sickle Cell Disease also. He was in his early twenties.
3 children between the ages of 7,10 and 13 collapsed while in school as a result of Sickle Cell Crises. They were rushed to our sister hospital and died on the way. So sad.
6 out of 10 Individuals living with Sickle Cell Disease die daily in Nigeria and more all over the world yet these numbers keep increasing daily. Sickle Cell Disease is a KILLER!!!
Having handled cases of patients living with sickle cell disease and the success stories I have gotten from them, I decided to write a book that will educate you all on the steps you need to take in curing that Sickle Cell Disease you battle with daily.
Our patients have been cured and some have even gotten their Genotype Converted from SS, SC to AA. Laboratory tests have confirmed it. We have their before and after. While the rest have gone on to live healthier lives.
You too can be free from Sickle Cell today. Save yourself or help someone you know save him or herself today by gifting them a copy of my eBook.
I wrote this eBook for everyone. I believe it's going to be a blessing to someone and restore hope to so many lives out there. It's a must read and a copy goes for just N1,500 Only.
Don't sleep on this. Knowledge is Power. In life, there is always a solution to every problem. That is a saying by one of our cured patients. She used to be SS. But now, she is AA.
To place your order for a copy of my eBook, send a DM NOW!!! This is misinformation. SSD has no cure |
Crime › Re: "Baba Ijesha Defiled Minor Twice", Child Forensic Expert Tells Court by drnoel: 7:37am On Sep 29, 2021 |
Romanoff: Who could have thought we had such experts here in Nigeria?
I was wondering if our police force even has a Special Victims Unit for Sex related offences cause I never hear am before.
It's commendable that we have social behavioral experts like this. Lol, we have such experts. But they are few |
Romance › Re: My Rich Neighbor Makes Me Think She's Out Of My League by drnoel: 7:27am On Sep 29, 2021 |
LagosNissan: Tired of talking to naija girls.
They are only interested in talking about their issues-- issues that only money can solve.
No meaningful discussions. Nothing. They will always talk about it indirectly.
I asked one why she hadn't been to work one morning, she said no transport. She indirectly hinted she hadn't eaten too.
I pitied her and asked her to come wait for me at the bus stop by 9 am at Access bank ATM, because I was going out as well.
We met there and gisted a bit and she was complaining about low salary from workplace .I gave her 2500 and bought fruits of 500 for her too.
I intentionally did this to test her sincerity and sense of responsibility.
She thanked me and bid goodbye.
She hasn't chatted me since then.
I called her twice 2 weeks ago, she didn't pick. I haven't bothered chatting or calling since then.
Maybe she was expecting to get 50k from me. Lol.
_________________. _____________. ________ So bro, why do you need to get close this girl (debit alert) especially since your neighbour fuuocks or is close to her?
Is it because of touto? Or what? Didn't want to comment but Ur last question got my attention cos that's what I also asked. My questions are plenty and some are: 1) Why do young men like causing problems for themselves? I mean OP saw a lady visiting his neighbours in the night to leave in the morning? 2) What does OP think they do there all night? Prayer and fasting  3) Why has OP not spoken to said neighbor about it? I mean guy neighbors are always in good terms regardless of who has more dough as the other one. Ofcos there are exceptions. 4) why is OP interested in speaking with said lady? To continue said prayer and fasting  ? 5) Why is OP quoting Hardon? The person behind that handle is a kid with no experience. 6) Why is OP seeking answers on NL? I mean it's interesting to read certain comments from people here but this is not a platform to seek serious advise from serious people. Lol Anyways comments here are so funny |
Family › Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by drnoel: 9:02am On Sep 27, 2021*. Modified: 12:44pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
Ficient: Unfortunately some of them know how to forget easily when things change Yep, women are built that way. Nothing new. Shouldn't make a man run out of his house. If madam talks and talk and turns to nagging, U walk out the door. When U do that a few times the nagging always reduces. If she asks for divorce don't force the issue. After all ones piece of mind is golden |
Family › Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by drnoel: 5:19pm On Sep 25, 2021 |
chatinent:
This scenario reminds me of Jude and Eniola Badmus that was always cartoonized on The Sun Newspaper.
That means if she were the one providing the meals, ọ ga -esiri gị ike ga ahu banana nke a rapuru fo.
Mehn..
Nothing dey vex me pass references to every little efforts you make forgetting my daily stabs to make you happy.
Most women cannot be men even for a day.
Only one evening my cousin sister took me out, I never even remove my shoe naim I read her status: “I like the woman I am becoming. Always learn to man your womanhood.”
The only thing most women tend to appreciate is credit alerts..or send your account number. They will become so emotional..they can even cry.
Let the case be the reverse.
Make she just take care of you for two days.
You go hear weeen. She go even remind you how she carry you for stomach for nine months.
“Richie, what is this na, can't I have peace after coming back from work again? How can you eat and cannot wash your plates again! What's this na!”
“Baby, why are you shouting? The neighbours are at...”
“Don't baby me. What have I not done to make you happy? Will I kill myself? Am I the only married woman in the world..what is this na.”
(You try to hold her hands to calm her down...she slaps you damn hard).
“(She is crying now..tears flowly freely). Just see what you made me do. Just see it. Everything is just wrong with this world.”
You mah wey dem slap go still go meet am for parlour where she dey cry dey pet am (and that if after checking your cheeks if blood dey comot). You go come humbly tell am say no bi you eat, say na the one she eat for morning..but anyways, you forgot to wash it.
Another matter don dey brew.
She will now come to the parlour and sit, ask you for the remote and change the football to Telemundo and mutter these words you'll never hear: “work e won't work, such a failure. It's only remote e can pass.”
You will try to look at her with your side eyes but meet her full eyes staring at you in disgust. Mumu you go come smile enter bedroom.
As you are walking into the bedroom, the volume of the muttering is increasing but it's still inaudible.
In the oza room, just respect yourself. Don't even dare..unless you want the whole world to know how you will be idle and want to kill sb’s daughter after working all day!
“oh, it's your plan, Richie, baa? To kill me so that you can now go and meet Ishilove, baa?”
Only you go dey like Stone Cold Steve Austin sleep.
It will be normal...the “honey, darling etc.” is going to die. You will be called your name...two seconds, she will stop calling your name and just be giving out orders.
Abeg, don't even remind her you are the husband. You will get the insult of your life. She will say “no, say it loud na, let mama Chisom hear you. How many husbands stay at home watching football and their wives are left to do all the work!”
But na you still dey pay rent, buy foodstuff, and children fees.
Baba, kuku collect that responsiblity back. I hate to talk much. No dare shift any of your responsibility to woman...even if she persists to want to help. E kuku better she dey do am willingly than you register her name on it.
Only women, babies, and pets are loved. Men, are respected when they man up. Na the respect we dey translate to love. Bros, if U are in a toxic relationship walk out |
Family › Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by drnoel: 5:01pm On Sep 25, 2021 |
reel14: Hello Nairalanders. I got married late last year. Even though I got married late, I.made sure I was gainfully employed before taking the giant stride I love my wife and she loves me too. I carry 98 % of the home responsibility, recently, because things are on the high side and my wife is working as well, I told her to be taking care of filling the gas while I handle other bills. I have observed that anytime I go near the gas maybe to make food or boil water, she will remind how expensive gas is right now, after all, if it finishes, I won't give money to fill. These words hurt me alot as this is the only thing you do for us in this house. I know how much I pay for rent, DSTV etc with other utility bills. My thoughts now are; How do men which their wives are feeding them cope with insults and embarrassments that come will every meal? How do unemployed/ underemployed men cope? What if anything happens with my job, will I be able to stay in a verbal abusive home? Lol, it's good she is doing even that. Give her more responsibilitie to take care of and you will see her biting U on every issue. Then U remind her that you have been doing it before now without complaints |
Politics › Re: Nigeria's Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala Covers Time Magazine by drnoel: 4:53pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
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Romance › Re: Nigerian Girls And Entitlement In Foreign Countries by drnoel: 3:54am On Sep 12, 2021 |
NuCypher: I have to say that Nigerian girls are about the most entitled lot in foreign countries. My experience with this bunch of people is, what can I say, completely underwhelming. Like what are you feeling like? This is what I also hear from some of my friends who are here in the US and Canada, and based on their experiences, they have decided to not touch Nigerian girls with a long spoon. This then is why most of them are very lonely in these countries. What are the problems you ask?
1. They believe they are the ones to "give" you sex. And that after having sex with them, you should show committment. I mean, biatch, you enjoyed it too. And I was working myself out for you to enjoy this session. What do you mean you "gave" me sex? 2. They expect to say "yes" first before you guys starting dating. After some romance here and there, the next question is "what are we?" Really? Okay, we are the world! I mean, come on!, you are in a foreign country, not Nigeria. Wake up, madam. 3. Once you say "hi" to them, they start to think you have ulterior motives. Just "hi" o! Nothing else. Abeg, madam, na your textbook I wan borrow o. I no even get interest. Yet, they start strutting up and down , thinking you have an agenda. 4. When, or rather if by some miracle, you get their number and start talking to them, they expect that you should be the one buzzing all the time, asking after them, checking up on them, in other words attention! Like you are not a human being yourself who needs to be checked up on. And when you don't bother to text them regularly, they just don't look your side anymore, don't even care if you are dead. This attitude is something they have imported from Nigeria, and only God knows how far they have taken it in the west.
In short, some of the most archaic dating practices is what they have stuck in their head. Somebody needs to tell them the truth. Little wonder, most naija guys here don't even look their side anymore. I have extrovert friends who are sexually active and who will tell you for free that they will never touch a naija girl. Very sad.
The strange part of this whole thing is that if the guy involved is not Nigerian, come and see how these girls will be running up and down to check up on the guy and act totally non-Nigerian. This part is something I'm still trying to understand.
Anyways, Naija girls una need to wake up. Unless una go grow old for Yankee without boyfriend and husband. It's actually the same attitude of lots of women not necessarily Nigerian sisters |
Family › Re: Why Are Married Men Quiet And Condone Rubbish In Their Homes? by drnoel: 8:30pm On Sep 09, 2021 |
Crossroad1: Let me use my uncle as an example here...
This is a very hardworking man who doesn't drink, doesn't smoke, doesn't watch football and doesn't womanize. An extreme introvert who doesn't even keep friends but he got married to a very temperamental woman but it wasn't so initially. Shade (not real name) was very loving when they first met, it was love at first sight.. Though she was the outgoing, party starter type, but she was a good cook, and like egbon said, she can allow him have sex with her anywhere and anytime.
Her promiscuous side wasn't in the open all these while. How she manage to keep it a secret is still a mystery though egbon is someone who is always busy at work and the wife though a graduate choose to learn hairdressing to keep herself busy.
Shade is a very pretty woman. When I mean pretty, I mean extremely pretty.. If you are seeing her for the first time, you will believe she is an half caste. But she get angry for no reason, small argument or admonishing, she can just get angry, get out of the house and egbon will looking for her.. Maybe it was because of the beauty or the good food, or the not denying of sex, I don't know (egbon always believe with time, he can tame her) but she had a great influence over egbon..
Even when the family was beginning to notice her bad attitude, egbon choose her over the family cos he really love her, he loved her pass love self...
Egbon wasn't well to do when they met, he was living in a face me I slap you house wherr they share toilet with everyone..
While they live together, it is sometimes 1-0-1 or 0-1-1 or 0-0-1 but she stood by him all through that time.. So they got married despite almost everyone was against it.
The real problem started when she started giving birth. She threw caution to the wind and became abusive. She was very strict to family members, manipulative and self centered... She came from a broken home anyways, she was raised by her mother but in all fairness, her mother was a good woman who doesn't love trouble and she often wonder where her daughter got her own skuchy from.. Omo, shade get serious craze o..
After 3 kids, egbon couldn't tolerate her again.. She keep late nights and she doesn't even come home most times. Egbon endured her for 12years before he let her go leaving the kids behind..
She was free to do whatever she wanted. Let me just fast forward to years later when egbon has sent his kids abroad, he didn't remarry but kept a girlfriend after years of begging him to do so..
While egbon suffered the torture and torment of his wife, he didn't bring the matter to the family, though they know what he was going through..
Many years later, aunty came back using her kids as excuse.
The flower tattoo she drew on her shoulder was already looking like an ugwu leave during harmattan. Because she was beautiful, her thoughts everyday was maybe someone like dangote or otedola will just wife her.. She is the lazy type that wants to live the lifestyle of alakija.
This is not a fiction.. How come I know so much?
I started living with egbon when I was 14yrs old. My own eyes too see pepper and shege..
Why egbon endured it all was because of the kids. Most times, egbon said he wished he can run away but the kids keep holding him down cos even on her kids, she no dey get mercy.. My own wife too na dangbana choko and immediately she gave birth to the second child, I catapult am go abroad. The only diff be say, my own wife can die for her kids..
So let's have it. Why do married men keep quiet and tolerate nonsense in their matrimony?
What prompt me to write this story? He just called me now from the USA and we talked and laughed about so many things he went through. Even him self now dey claim hard guy and redpill. He is not just the type that like trouble, simple |
Culture › Re: Olu Of Warri Dissolves Council Of Chiefs by drnoel: 6:54am On Sep 01, 2021 |
Mikelarteta: Ayiri don buy market Immediately I saw this news I knew they were targeting Ayiri and his followers. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Tony Blair Describes The US Withdrawal From Afghanistan As "Imbecilic" by drnoel: 10:05am On Aug 22, 2021 |
ecolime: In other words, Biden is a slowpoke 
The world misses the Presidents President.- J.T Trump No actually, the person he was referring to was Trump. Being that he Trump was the one that opened that can of worms |
Politics › Re: States Government, Not FIRS To Collect VAT Federal High Court Declares by drnoel: 7:48am On Aug 10, 2021 |
VillagePipu: "Some countries" What does Nigeria's constitution say about tax? Remember the judgment is not based on the constitutions of "some countries" but on Nigeria's constitution.
If Lagos joins this suit, the FIRS is finished. They never give up their rights as regards taxation. The Hotel consumption tax is a case study. Yes I think it may have to be built into the constitution. I didn't think of that when I wrote my comment. That's something those idiots in the house will quickly do. Besides its actually obvious the country needs more revenue so how else can they get it? Tax the hell out of the populace. |
Politics › Re: States Government, Not FIRS To Collect VAT Federal High Court Declares by drnoel: 11:12pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
Actually irrelevant ruling cos FIR can also collect tax when they realise they can. Some countries have both state and federal tax for all products. Them next wise up yet |
Education › Re: No Graduate Of Medical Radiography Is Unemployed, Anywhere On Earth! by drnoel: 4:44pm On Aug 03, 2021 |
Hizzy: Good morning sir can a radiographer become a radiologist Unless the said radiographer intends to go to medical school, finish it and then go for residency in radiology and finish it also. All in all we are talking of 12 years outside youth service if in Nigeria. |
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