They are only interested in talking about their issues-- issues that only money can solve.
No meaningful discussions. Nothing. They will always talk about it indirectly.
I asked one why she hadn't been to work one morning, she said no transport. She indirectly hinted she hadn't eaten too.
I pitied her and asked her to come wait for me at the bus stop by 9 am at Access bank ATM, because I was going out as well.
We met there and gisted a bit and she was complaining about low salary from workplace .I gave her 2500 and bought fruits of 500 for her too.
I intentionally did this to test her sincerity and sense of responsibility.
She thanked me and bid goodbye.
She hasn't chatted me since then.
I called her twice 2 weeks ago, she didn't pick. I haven't bothered chatting or calling since then.
Maybe she was expecting to get 50k from me. Lol.
_________________. _____________. ________ So bro, why do you need to get close this girl (debit alert) especially since your neighbour fuuocks or is close to her?
Is it because of touto? Or what?
Didn't want to comment but Ur last question got my attention cos that's what I also asked. My questions are plenty and some are: 1) Why do young men like causing problems for themselves? I mean OP saw a lady visiting his neighbours in the night to leave in the morning? 2) What does OP think they do there all night? Prayer and fasting 3) Why has OP not spoken to said neighbor about it? I mean guy neighbors are always in good terms regardless of who has more dough as the other one. Ofcos there are exceptions. 4) why is OP interested in speaking with said lady? To continue said prayer and fasting ? 5) Why is OP quoting Hardon? The person behind that handle is a kid with no experience. 6) Why is OP seeking answers on NL? I mean it's interesting to read certain comments from people here but this is not a platform to seek serious advise from serious people. Lol Anyways comments here are so funny
Ficient: Unfortunately some of them know how to forget easily when things change
Yep, women are built that way. Nothing new. Shouldn't make a man run out of his house. If madam talks and talk and turns to nagging, U walk out the door. When U do that a few times the nagging always reduces. If she asks for divorce don't force the issue. After all ones piece of mind is golden
This scenario reminds me of Jude and Eniola Badmus that was always cartoonized on The Sun Newspaper.
That means if she were the one providing the meals, ọ ga -esiri gị ike ga ahu banana nke a rapuru fo.
Mehn..
Nothing dey vex me pass references to every little efforts you make forgetting my daily stabs to make you happy.
Most women cannot be men even for a day.
Only one evening my cousin sister took me out, I never even remove my shoe naim I read her status: “I like the woman I am becoming. Always learn to man your womanhood.”
The only thing most women tend to appreciate is credit alerts..or send your account number. They will become so emotional..they can even cry.
Let the case be the reverse.
Make she just take care of you for two days.
You go hear weeen. She go even remind you how she carry you for stomach for nine months.
“Richie, what is this na, can't I have peace after coming back from work again? How can you eat and cannot wash your plates again! What's this na!”
“Baby, why are you shouting? The neighbours are at...”
“Don't baby me. What have I not done to make you happy? Will I kill myself? Am I the only married woman in the world..what is this na.”
(You try to hold her hands to calm her down...she slaps you damn hard).
“(She is crying now..tears flowly freely). Just see what you made me do. Just see it. Everything is just wrong with this world.”
You mah wey dem slap go still go meet am for parlour where she dey cry dey pet am (and that if after checking your cheeks if blood dey comot). You go come humbly tell am say no bi you eat, say na the one she eat for morning..but anyways, you forgot to wash it.
Another matter don dey brew.
She will now come to the parlour and sit, ask you for the remote and change the football to Telemundo and mutter these words you'll never hear: “work e won't work, such a failure. It's only remote e can pass.”
You will try to look at her with your side eyes but meet her full eyes staring at you in disgust. Mumu you go come smile enter bedroom.
As you are walking into the bedroom, the volume of the muttering is increasing but it's still inaudible.
In the oza room, just respect yourself. Don't even dare..unless you want the whole world to know how you will be idle and want to kill sb’s daughter after working all day!
“oh, it's your plan, Richie, baa? To kill me so that you can now go and meet Ishilove, baa?”
Only you go dey like Stone Cold Steve Austin sleep.
It will be normal...the “honey, darling etc.” is going to die. You will be called your name...two seconds, she will stop calling your name and just be giving out orders.
Abeg, don't even remind her you are the husband. You will get the insult of your life. She will say “no, say it loud na, let mama Chisom hear you. How many husbands stay at home watching football and their wives are left to do all the work!”
But na you still dey pay rent, buy foodstuff, and children fees.
Baba, kuku collect that responsiblity back. I hate to talk much. No dare shift any of your responsibility to woman...even if she persists to want to help. E kuku better she dey do am willingly than you register her name on it.
Only women, babies, and pets are loved. Men, are respected when they man up. Na the respect we dey translate to love.
reel14: Hello Nairalanders. I got married late last year. Even though I got married late, I.made sure I was gainfully employed before taking the giant stride I love my wife and she loves me too. I carry 98 % of the home responsibility, recently, because things are on the high side and my wife is working as well, I told her to be taking care of filling the gas while I handle other bills. I have observed that anytime I go near the gas maybe to make food or boil water, she will remind how expensive gas is right now, after all, if it finishes, I won't give money to fill. These words hurt me alot as this is the only thing you do for us in this house. I know how much I pay for rent, DSTV etc with other utility bills. My thoughts now are; How do men which their wives are feeding them cope with insults and embarrassments that come will every meal? How do unemployed/ underemployed men cope? What if anything happens with my job, will I be able to stay in a verbal abusive home?
Lol, it's good she is doing even that. Give her more responsibilitie to take care of and you will see her biting U on every issue. Then U remind her that you have been doing it before now without complaints
NuCypher: I have to say that Nigerian girls are about the most entitled lot in foreign countries. My experience with this bunch of people is, what can I say, completely underwhelming. Like what are you feeling like? This is what I also hear from some of my friends who are here in the US and Canada, and based on their experiences, they have decided to not touch Nigerian girls with a long spoon. This then is why most of them are very lonely in these countries. What are the problems you ask?
1. They believe they are the ones to "give" you sex. And that after having sex with them, you should show committment. I mean, biatch, you enjoyed it too. And I was working myself out for you to enjoy this session. What do you mean you "gave" me sex? 2. They expect to say "yes" first before you guys starting dating. After some romance here and there, the next question is "what are we?" Really? Okay, we are the world! I mean, come on!, you are in a foreign country, not Nigeria. Wake up, madam. 3. Once you say "hi" to them, they start to think you have ulterior motives. Just "hi" o! Nothing else. Abeg, madam, na your textbook I wan borrow o. I no even get interest. Yet, they start strutting up and down , thinking you have an agenda. 4. When, or rather if by some miracle, you get their number and start talking to them, they expect that you should be the one buzzing all the time, asking after them, checking up on them, in other words attention! Like you are not a human being yourself who needs to be checked up on. And when you don't bother to text them regularly, they just don't look your side anymore, don't even care if you are dead. This attitude is something they have imported from Nigeria, and only God knows how far they have taken it in the west.
In short, some of the most archaic dating practices is what they have stuck in their head. Somebody needs to tell them the truth. Little wonder, most naija guys here don't even look their side anymore. I have extrovert friends who are sexually active and who will tell you for free that they will never touch a naija girl. Very sad.
The strange part of this whole thing is that if the guy involved is not Nigerian, come and see how these girls will be running up and down to check up on the guy and act totally non-Nigerian. This part is something I'm still trying to understand.
Anyways, Naija girls una need to wake up. Unless una go grow old for Yankee without boyfriend and husband.
It's actually the same attitude of lots of women not necessarily Nigerian sisters
Crossroad1: Let me use my uncle as an example here...
This is a very hardworking man who doesn't drink, doesn't smoke, doesn't watch football and doesn't womanize. An extreme introvert who doesn't even keep friends but he got married to a very temperamental woman but it wasn't so initially. Shade (not real name) was very loving when they first met, it was love at first sight.. Though she was the outgoing, party starter type, but she was a good cook, and like egbon said, she can allow him have sex with her anywhere and anytime.
Her promiscuous side wasn't in the open all these while. How she manage to keep it a secret is still a mystery though egbon is someone who is always busy at work and the wife though a graduate choose to learn hairdressing to keep herself busy.
Shade is a very pretty woman. When I mean pretty, I mean extremely pretty.. If you are seeing her for the first time, you will believe she is an half caste. But she get angry for no reason, small argument or admonishing, she can just get angry, get out of the house and egbon will looking for her.. Maybe it was because of the beauty or the good food, or the not denying of sex, I don't know (egbon always believe with time, he can tame her) but she had a great influence over egbon..
Even when the family was beginning to notice her bad attitude, egbon choose her over the family cos he really love her, he loved her pass love self...
Egbon wasn't well to do when they met, he was living in a face me I slap you house wherr they share toilet with everyone..
While they live together, it is sometimes 1-0-1 or 0-1-1 or 0-0-1 but she stood by him all through that time.. So they got married despite almost everyone was against it.
The real problem started when she started giving birth. She threw caution to the wind and became abusive. She was very strict to family members, manipulative and self centered... She came from a broken home anyways, she was raised by her mother but in all fairness, her mother was a good woman who doesn't love trouble and she often wonder where her daughter got her own skuchy from.. Omo, shade get serious craze o..
After 3 kids, egbon couldn't tolerate her again.. She keep late nights and she doesn't even come home most times. Egbon endured her for 12years before he let her go leaving the kids behind..
She was free to do whatever she wanted. Let me just fast forward to years later when egbon has sent his kids abroad, he didn't remarry but kept a girlfriend after years of begging him to do so..
While egbon suffered the torture and torment of his wife, he didn't bring the matter to the family, though they know what he was going through..
Many years later, aunty came back using her kids as excuse.
The flower tattoo she drew on her shoulder was already looking like an ugwu leave during harmattan. Because she was beautiful, her thoughts everyday was maybe someone like dangote or otedola will just wife her.. She is the lazy type that wants to live the lifestyle of alakija.
This is not a fiction.. How come I know so much?
I started living with egbon when I was 14yrs old. My own eyes too see pepper and shege..
Why egbon endured it all was because of the kids. Most times, egbon said he wished he can run away but the kids keep holding him down cos even on her kids, she no dey get mercy.. My own wife too na dangbana choko and immediately she gave birth to the second child, I catapult am go abroad. The only diff be say, my own wife can die for her kids..
So let's have it. Why do married men keep quiet and tolerate nonsense in their matrimony?
What prompt me to write this story? He just called me now from the USA and we talked and laughed about so many things he went through. Even him self now dey claim hard guy and redpill.
VillagePipu: "Some countries" What does Nigeria's constitution say about tax? Remember the judgment is not based on the constitutions of "some countries" but on Nigeria's constitution.
If Lagos joins this suit, the FIRS is finished. They never give up their rights as regards taxation. The Hotel consumption tax is a case study.
Yes I think it may have to be built into the constitution. I didn't think of that when I wrote my comment. That's something those idiots in the house will quickly do. Besides its actually obvious the country needs more revenue so how else can they get it? Tax the hell out of the populace.
Actually irrelevant ruling cos FIR can also collect tax when they realise they can. Some countries have both state and federal tax for all products. Them next wise up yet
Hizzy: Good morning sir can a radiographer become a radiologist
Unless the said radiographer intends to go to medical school, finish it and then go for residency in radiology and finish it also. All in all we are talking of 12 years outside youth service if in Nigeria.
Drwinz: It was a disaster as most areas of lekki phase 1 were nearly engulfed by flooding which emanated from the heavy rain that fell on Friday 16th of July 2021.
People's home, properties and the major road which leads to ajah, lekki free zone and epe became dangerous for motorists and even the pedestrians.
It is no joke that the power of water knows nothing about high building, bungalow, luxurious hotel and cars, or neither does it respect individual status.
Some European countries have recently recorded numerous death resulting from the incidence of heavy flooding. May we not have such experience this year coz it seems the raining pattern of this year might be very unfriendly.
Lol, for those buying land and houses in Lagos lagoon
dignity33: Mbaka on his Adoration ministry told his congregation that Federal government came to him wanted to offer him two slots but he refuse and requested for his own slots, watch the video.
Freestainworld: This is why I prefer migrating to some decent European country's than this over hyped America, gun violence is increasing each day there coupled with gangsterism.
I mean, how does another human being shot someone 64 times? It means they shot him, the bullet finished and they reloaded. The 64 bullets is outside the ones that missed the he victim. It's madness
Coldshisha: They can't revoke his citizenship since he never commited any crime on UK soil.... If it had been in the UK he did all his nonsense with ESN, then his citizenship might get revoked after jailing him
Angy55: Please what advise would you give to someone who is about leaving his job (pay is 120k ) in Nigeria to Georgia?
His current job location is in the part of Nigeria where cost of living is on the average. He is not paying house rent. Dad is alive, so He gave him an apartment to stay. N.B: The apartment is not in where His parents are residing.
He tried Canada 2 years ago but he failed and now it's Georgia.
Travelling is not the issue but the country he is moving to.
Nairalanders please advise.
Question would be do your mean Georgia as in the state in USA or Georgia as in the country?
benjackugo: Nigerian Student Sleeps in his Matriculation Gown, Cooks With It. See Why (Photos)
A Nigerian student, Malachy Chizoba, has gone viral for what he has done with his institution's matriculation gown which he rented with N5000, IgbereTV reports.
He shared photos of himself using the matriculation gown to cook as well as sleep in his house.
According to him, he cannot rent the gown for that amount and return it the same day. He has to get full value of the money he spent for the gown.
Abdul05: I can't imagine how could a fugitive be travelling on chartered private jet to several countries without being scared.
To my mind and to be honest,
The best thing , is to distribute money or whatever you need for the operations to your brothers and the mission will be carried .That ought to be the natural course of things abi?
Pierocash: So this girl hasnt realised that men are no longer persuasive in chasing women. Once they woo you and you say no they move on.
So because you don't like some kind of fruit means your friend shouldn't eat the fruit right? You are confused
I did same,I proposed to her about marriage,she was sounding incoherent, I moved on and proposed to another more prettier babe she knows quite well,because of that she stopped greeting me when she discovered we are deeply in love and sees us often. Who cares?
But it took men almost half a century to realise that
Activist001: I fear who no fear government. In fact, after God, fear and respect the government!
Kanu was feeling like a mini God when jobless Igbo youths he had successfully brainwashed started following his orders to attack law enforcement officers and cause mayhem in Igboland like zombies.
The ESN militia he formed to fight "Fulani herdsmen" never apprehended any gun wielding Fulani herdsman for once, instead they were busy attacking policemen, soldiers and even innocent airmen who were chilling in their force base in Owerri.
This guy is also the major reason why Twitter was banned in Nigeria. He really provoked Bubu and oga Lai.
Kanu charges go long like my secondary school biology note. He's in for a long long thing with Buhari!
jaybenugo: Tonto Dikeh had lovely time with her new lover, Prince Kpokpogri who celebrated his birthday party over the weekend, IgbereTV reports.
The high point of the party was when Tonto presented her man with the keys to an expensive gift. She got so emotional when he received it and gave her a kiss.
Fixing of roads is something we should all give the Dullarrrrd standing ovation right?
You should be ashamed of yourself for showing a road that substandard materials are used to construct, and this construction is done by a whole mighty federal govt under the watch of the Dullarrrrd.
Allow those charlatans. Having good roads is basic. But cos the country is plagued with incompetent leaders any small thing is over blown. Besides that Owerri-Okigwe road is a perpetual torn in the flesh of that region cos it never stays fixed for long. Another perpetual torn in the flesh of that region is the Owerri-Aba road and Owerri portharcourt road
Crime › Re: "Baba Ijesha Defiled Minor Twice", Child Forensic Expert Tells Court by drnoel: 7:37am On Sep 29, 2021
