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BarristerAlarig:
Are you seriously taking sides with that vile creature?? What happened to you during your childhood to have made you like this??

If she had created her own thread to ask her question, her badly worded nonsense might have been excused. But on this woman's thread?? How low could she get??

A bitter soul comes to a concern parent's page to seek help on a sensitive issue and she had to make her feel worst

Was your childhood that dysfunctional?? I hope you get the help you terribly need.

ThothHermes:
You are a lot of things, but a believer isn't one of them.

DeeMain:
Chairman, you have a rigid mindset to knowledge acquisition. Everything about healing or cures is not about medical science. Wake up!

FrLukas just schooled you about hypnotherapy, one of the many solutions out there that can help autistic people and yet you are still pontificating and blindly arguing about something you know nothing about.

Sometimes our education is the very thing that hinders us from learning and growing...

Smh

amjustme2:
There are cases of remarkably improvement after taking stem cell therapy - STC30.

jamalnation:
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WITH JESUS CHRIST ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE ONLY IF YOU BELIEVE[\b]

FrLukas:
Well you didn't ask like you wanted to learn. But if you say that's the case then it's all well and good.

A lot of the cognitive and all of the involuntary functions of the human being are performed by the subconscious mind.

The autistic child or person seems to struggle with this part of themselves.

One of the best ways to reach the subconscious mind to reengineer and reprogram it is through hypnosis.

Timisamd:
You guys should stop being like this. You don't have to bring religion into every damn thing.
Autism as far as it is concerned has no literal cure. Should we say those kids that have it were to terrible in God's eyes or its just the way it is ? You don't have to involve God in some things. Don't be like that. At least in the realm of your religion, be a little bit realistic from whatever faith you weigh in your heart.

Volkswagen90:
is about affordability, if i can't afford it there is no need of contacting u whatsapp, say it here

FrLukas:
Lol. Experimental? Memory loss? You don't know a thing about hypnotherapy do you?


https://lcchinternational.co.uk/using-hypnotherapy-with-people-on-the-autistic-spectrum/

FrLukas:
GWagonlover

I think you should also consult an experienced and qualified hypnotherapist.

They should be able to help your child unlock the portions of his mind that he might not have access to.

banjo022:
you are a stupid bitch

dahmie2013:
If indeed you are a believer, then I am ashamed of you. The fact that your science has no cure to a disease, does not mean Jesus has no cure. I repeat, God created that child, him alone can cure him. God is the manufacturer and he has spare parts for everything he created. Deal with it!#BelieveThat

ststyreal:
What I am telling you is stop quoting people unnecessary. I didn't force you to accept my believe. Leave me with my believe and proffer your own solution please. This is my own view which has worked for me, I didn't force you to accept it, so face your own and leave me with mine please.

dahmie2013:
Please tell me what solution your so called "pragmatism" has provided. Autism has been with us so long, yet ur "pragmatism" has not brought any solution.

Op, your solution lies in Jesus. God created that child, him alone can cure him. God is the manufacturer and he has spare parts for everything he created.

ststyreal:
Please you don't have to quote me cos I didn't reply you. You should learn to respect people's opinions and views without looping into it. Give your own suggestions and let others be. This is what I believe in and I own you no explanation on why I should hold this believe. So please, stop quoting people unnecessary. Proffer your own solution and move on. I am a Christian and I believe in the power of prayers, which has been working for me and my family, so if you don't believe in it, that is your business.

Mcslize:
Read the write up and understand it very well. The op is simply saying, ladies should not always have that mindset of "it is a wealthy, already made man" they must marry as most ladies have already conditioned their minds.

He is simply saying, if our entitlement kind of ladies of our days see a hustling guy who is being able to fed for himself and has a hustling spirit, they should wait no further to start a life with such a man.

All already made men are wise now because no already made man or wealthy man will just accept a girl and marry her straight up cuz many had be gold dig by ladies.

And any lady that is coming closer to them displaying all form of niceness, they will sense it from afar as a gold digger. They will believe that it is because of their money they are flocking around him. He will never marry any of such girls that flock around him.

That's why our ladies should learn how to start life from scratch with a man not always looking for already made men who have wise up.

Nuttella:
An autistic child and a child with down syndrome, which is worse?

mutter:
I have an 8 year old son who was diagnosed as autistic and mentally handicapped at age 3.
He didn't talk till age 5 plus.
However now he is on a regular schol and his IQ is above average.
It was a long battle.
Please start by using the teaching aids that interest him.
People criticised me for letting him so long on the computer but that was the way i wsd able to reach him initially.
I have made a video where I spoke about my journey.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0mqUuN5-Q2I

ststyreal:
Don't worry your child will definitely grow out of it. From experience, just ensure your therapist is a good one and make sure you confides in the class teacher so that they can gently follow him up in class and also to avoid harsh reactions towards him as a result of him not coping faster like his mate in class. Remove sugar from his meal and follow up with folic acid. But most importantly, call upon our God who alone can correct every anomalies in our system and I believe he will heal your child and make him whole in Jesus Name amen!
Do not be afraid, encourage him, get him a lesson teacher also from the school. Surround your house with educational materials, so as to enable him constantly see them and memorise them gradually.
PRAY AND CONTINUOUSLY PRAY TO GOD AND BEFORE YOU SAY JACK, YOUR BOY WILL BECOME THE BEN CARSON OF OUR TIME. GOD BLESS OUR CHILDREN IN JESUS NAME AMEN

Kranediggy:
For your mind u just wan rush criticize the write up, make they follow hear your voice for this thread, without even reading it well or comprehending it. You're obviously the one with a myopic mindset here. I suggest you read this thread again before criticizing it or ask questions if you don't twig. Bro Nuel see your life, you'll just jump into conclusion and be sounding like you know what you're saying...I don't even know why people like you always like showing off how funny your mindsets are.

People like you only get mouth for Nairaland sha.

Danielhouston:
Thanks but there’s nothing to correct. The keyword is “rarely” and “almost never”. I did not say there are no black doctors in Germany. If they are scarce and very few, then it constitutes the “rarely”. I appreciate your opinion though.

tundepraiz:
I don’t even think @drnoel is in Germany. Compared to blacks population in Germany how many are in professional (degree wise) jobs let alone a highly regulated field like medicine.

Danielhouston:
I studied Economics (master) and I currently work at Zolando (a fashion and lifestyle company) in Berlin. That’s where most foreigners in Berlin work because you can work with English. Most jobs in Berlin are English speaking and international because there are many start-up companies here. Most people in Berlin work in IT.

I have done menial jobs like working at DHL, Amazon, Volkswagen, Edeka and factory work. The best were Amazon and Volkswagen. Even as a student you can get paid up to €2000 a month working there. They usually offer short term contracts to students and especially in Christmas season when there are high demands.

The first company I worked for was an agency that was recruiting for big factories. The manager was very racist and rude. Most black people working there did not have a choice because they don’t have papers or couldn’t find a better job. The Germans usually put Russians and Polish people as supervisors in those kind of companies because they are racist and can treat black people like slaves. Very hard job to carry heavy equipments. I quit on my first day. All the black guys I saw walking there could not stand straight.

After I quit, I filed a complaint about the company and promised to expose them and get the press involved. I hated the way they treated us. They eventually closed down the agency and reviewed the working conditions.

I also worked at Frankfurt International Airport. They scrutinized me for that job, including requiring a police report from Nigeria because it’s a high level security job. The experience was great, I met lots of travelers and got good tips but the salary was small as a student.

Many blacks here usually do “Ausbildung” (vocational training) that qualifies you to work in a specific field. Most of them work as nurses, at the airport, at a car company, or working with old and disabled people. It mostly the refugees that do this. Some with German passports do it too.

You will not find a black person working in the bank or at the front desk of a hospital. You’ll rarely and almost never see a black doctor. The day I went to a dentist in Berlin and my dentist was a black woman, I cried. She was smiling and crying as well. You rarely even see a black bus or train driver. Only a handful.

Berlin is an art city and most black people here are Black Americans who are artists and on a freelance visa. You’ll also find lots of Black Brits. A lot of black people in Berlin have professional jobs and are well paid to the standard of Berlin. Most working in IT or a start up company.

A lot of blacks here are refugees as well and most of them depend on “Hartz iv” (government benefits). They just sit at home and receive money from government every month. They receive from €600 to €800. It is an obligation of the government to support the non-working class. You’ll need to be refugee or German citizen to qualify for that. Also need to prove you’re unable to work and you’re trying to get a job.

In summary, you can get a professional job after you study. Just don’t sit in one city. Try other cities. I discovered that mostly Africans don’t like to change cities. They become comfortable getting their chicken change instead of moving to a better city where life would be better. Also try to learn German.

GWagonlover:
Dear Experienced parents and child development experts,

I have a 4-year old child suffering from mild autism which was discovered when he was two. As a concerned parent, i have taken steps by spending a lot in hiring speech and behavioural therapist, and seeing a development pediatrician with some success achieved at least in getting him stable to be able to absorb what he's being taught in class.

With diagnosis done confirming the mildness, i was encouraged to allow him do things regular children do which will help him grow out of the disorder.

Now i noticed that he has memory challenge in terms of ability to retain and recall information especially in his study which is a big concern to me. He also dislikes reading and writing but enjoy visual-based instructions.

In light of above, i need help from parents who have gone through this challenging phase with such kids and also autistic child development experts on how I can help my child over come the short term memory problem,repetition of words, writing and reading.

Please help!!!

sarrki:
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Rotjijatau:
My brother, you're 300% right... You need to be a marriage counselor

blackpanthar:
ok first, ARE YOU YOUR FRIEND?
because if you are a THIRD PARTY... then this matter does not concern you o.

Your post shows you lack details on what transpired or you just refuse to share.

also... A MAN WHO RECEIVED MESSAGE FROM HIS WIFE THAT SHE IS LEAVING... SHOULD NOT BE SHOCKED IF HE COMES HOME AND FINDS THAT SHE HAS LEFT.

LASTLY... it will be very very improper for any of us here to judge this matter without hearing from BOTH PARTIES... your assumption that they LOVE each other that they can die for each other is a TOTAL LIE....

To judge a matter by hearing from ONE PARTY is really not right, but to judge it by hearing from THIRD PARTY(you) will be very unfair.
They have parents and relatives... pls allow them sort it out and keep it out of nairaland.

PEOPLE SHOULD STOP BRINGING PRIVATE MATTERS TO THE PUBLIC. The public didnt choose their marriage for them... public opinion is not usually right.

ARE THEY NOT MUSLIMS OR CHRISTIANS? The cleric/pastor who joined them together should also help if both family's relatives are failing to correctly resolve the matter...


Your post is too VAGUE for any counselor to help or interfere. If you are not the spouse and its truly your friend, pls leave this matter and keep the internet media out of it.

Palema007:
One is certain here, most Nl Redpillers are the real Simps. It's useless arguing with them because they won't comprehend. Let them do their thing, I have nothing against them or their movements. The only time I drag them is when they try to bully people with their nonsense. Wishing death on Simps because they don't help Men (which isn't even true) is not something any sane being should do. Yesterday they got dragged for it, today they are here wailing that they were dragged.

Then you wonder what is really Alpha about these set of being.