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flyingpig:
not my fault, he's the most sellable to the North. He was turbanned by Emir of Daura Emirate ( Buhari's country home And emirate ). See attached picture below of the most sellable igbo man to the North.

The fact that it walks like a duck doesn't mean it must be a duck. Nigerians have short term memory. Anyone who was in Abia when Orji was governor can testify that the man would just wretch the country,even way more do than OBJ did. Igbo presidency must not be a do a die affair. We shouldn't sell our souls to the north and the devil cos we must have the crumps they have decided to dish out to us. Must we lean towards what is sellable to the northern caliphate? Can't tell not respect our decision by supporting whoever the igbos unanimously pick to lead? Afterall they pick Yara adua and Bihari and the Yorubas picked OBJ.

flyingpig:
E never finish?

Cc; foolbuster, 007inc, hollah123, kikake, pvision2020, misterdhee1, lipscomb, livinbygrace, thechameleon


E shock una? More consultations and friendship making. Keep denying it until you're caught pantsdown and un-aware

Any Nigerian wey say igbo man no fit become president make em destiny bend, iseeeee

Meanwhile pic of kalu and bubu below

So if there is an Igbo man to take that mantle you will even attempt to consider Orji Kalu? U are a joker.

dukeprince50:
u guys always put urself in trouble.
Before I met my ex gf, I was a playboy and I played my card well without girlfriend drama.
First I made the girl(let's call her girl A) fall in love with me and I told her I have a gf(though I do not have) we agreed on a secret relationship which won't make my imaginary real gf get upset, then I met another girl (call her girl B) and told her the same thing that I have a gf( she also agreed on a secret relationship) now they were both side chicks and there was no main gf, I told girl-A that girl-B was my main girl and I told girl-B that girl-A was my main chick, girl-B knows I am bleeping girl-A but she can't do anything about it cos she thought girl-A was the main chick, girl-B also thought the same thing.
I did not chop and clean mouth but continuously chop both of them without fear of getting caught, wen I got my main chick, I broke up with both of them, they cried but were powerless to keep me,, wen me and my babe broke up, i got this young lady in my dept that was married, she wants fun but will hide it from anyone, i enjoyed her without any fear cos we are neighbours and she deh give steady. life in school was fun. oh, i graduated with a CGPA of 4.38 so do not think i went to school just to bleep
@OP, now u wab break a girls heart, u are heartless and u will pay for it

The power to the game is getting out without any serious heartbreaks.

TheSourcerer:
No , No . Ritual killings are motive driven , a compulsion something compulsory to do in order to attain something could be money driven (greed) , protection purposes (again greed driven) these are taken out by sociopaths of the Society Emontionally driven crimes , crimes of passion (when these ritualists use family members)



Serial killers don't use family members( they choose strangers , only a fee percent derail and kill family members but rarely) , they are not provoked by anger , but a nessesity to kill , an urge to kill , even if they don't want to , it is painful mentally and physically not to follow your urge.
It's like been hungry for the first time in a whole day no one has ever felt hunger and you must eat , even if it is illegal.

Not true. One can be used for the other. Killing is killing, no matter how u attempt to assess it. Serial or Ritual. Once an individual or group perpetrates multiple killings, it's serial killings, be it with or without motive

NwaAmaikpe:




I don't think there are serial killers in Nigeria.
I mean psychopaths who just kill for the thrill and no other reason.

In Nigeria, every murder is either an accident, to conceal a fact or for rituals.
Nigerians are not that deep.

All Ritual killings are serial killings. If the acts are perpetrated by one person or groups then it's serial killing

DeeMain:
Autism's root is in the subconscious mind. Any tool or solution that can access the subconscious mind can help someone who is autistic.

1. Hypnotherapy: Hypnotherapy as a healing methodology has applications in many psychological and behavioural change issues autistic people have, not just depression. Whether it is anxiety, learning difficulties, social skills or changing repetitive behaviours often associated with autism.

Hypnotherapy can get such results because it deals with the subconscious mind and can unlock some of the subconscious blocks limiting the child.

2. Acupuncture/Acupressure/Traditional Chinese Medicine(TCM): The Chinese use their understanding of energy meridians and herbs to effect healing. You'll need to find someone who is versed in the treatment of autism using this protocol.

3. Indian Aryuveda: both the Chinese TCM and Aryuveda have been treating autism-like illnesses/diseases for thousands of years. Deepak Chopra has taken Aryuveda to a worldwide audience.

4. Timeline therapy: We can go back in time on a subconscious timeline and locate traumas /limiting fears/anger/limiting negative experiences in the autistic persons past and release them. The origin of such traumas can be at conception, during pregnancy or during an earlier generation(some traumas can be passed to succeeding generation,ie, some traumas are hereditary).

5. Neurolinguistic Programming(NLP): Understanding how the mind is coded and how language can influence the coding and wiring or rewiring of the brain is the forte of NLP. Someone that is versed in using this methodology in treating autism might be of help to you or your child

6. Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT)/ Energy Medicine/ Energy Psychology: According to Einstein, E=mc2. Understand that we are all made of energy. Any therapist with expertise on how to manipulate the human energy system can help someone with autism become better.

7. Mindfulness training: learning how to be present in the now can help an autistic person a lot.

8. CBT(Cognitive Behavioural Therapy): Thinking errors and perception errors can clog the minds of some autistic people. CBT can help straighten their thinking.

8. Spiritually/Prayer: You can access the spiritual world to gain some advantage or access some solutions or creativity or make some changes in the physical. That you do not know how to use this to help a child or an adult with autism does not mean that it's not possible or that others don't get results with it. The evidence to prayers efficacy is quantum physics/quantum biology.
According to quantum physics, everything is subatomic particles(spirit),. There is no space/distance and no time in the quantum world. There is synchronicity and simultaneity. There is infinite possibilities and infinite potential. Everything exists everywhere at the same time
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What keeps us from accessing these infinite possibilities ? The answer is the observer, you! Your beliefs and perceptions and programming. Prayer can help the autistic person unravel the blocks and access these potentials and possibilities.

Bottomline: spirituality can help with autism.

cc drnoel

Nicely scripted. I amire your view point. Many things u highlighted have their pros and cons but it's nonetheless something to chew on. Nicely written.
Pls we need more variety of views. Also give ur opinions on view points. Ofcos if something is alittle abstract we will know for sure.

Takotsubo:
@drnoel,
I totally understand your viewpoint.
For the unorthodox methods eg hypnosis I have not seen any scientific data to support the use of this. I believe it would be like CBT where some symptoms eg anxiety are addressed, a way to help correct some behavioural deficits nothing more.
I haven't found any evidence for Hypnosis though and would lean more towards tried and tested CBT.

No harm in prayer people if it helps them sleep at night..those who play pastors preaching may feel lifted if the pastor is preaching positivity ,I choose to think of it as another method of mindfulness and religious CBT,lol

Autism comes with other comorbidities eg ADHD,depression,anxiety, difficulties managing emotions etc..the memory issues and attention deficit could be ADHD..I would encourage OP to look into it.

Usually I would encourage DSM five guidelines or NICE guidelines to symptom check so when the pediatrician is talking,you are also armed with your own facts.

For an autistic child, information has to be broken down into simple words, Instructions should be very simple and easy to follow otherwise the child would become overwhelmed and frustrated then have bursts of anger( this is where CBT comes in,to teach the child how to recognize anger(and other emotions)and express them in an appropriate way)

If the child learns visually, use visual cues,use flash cards,constant repetition will help.

Learning should be in short bursts..if possible sit infront where teacher can monitor.

Child should have lots of breaks too.

Make lists with short instructions as a reminder for the child.

I'll be back later ..

This is very good information. Nice to have ur comments on this issue. Pls we need more comments like this. Thanx

DeeMain:
Healthcare professional closed to any other solution not termed medical science. So I was right after all, your education is limiting your receptivity and openness to learn other solutions outside your field that could help you get results or grow/improve.

Such condescending attitude to learning. It is well, bro.

Ok, bros no vex. Pls stop all the grammar. Let's stop this back and forward. Pls post the information u have so that folks here can learn. Forget my earlier attitude as u claimed that is limiting my learning new things. We are here to provide information to other people and also learn from others that have information. Pls come down ur high horse and give information to people. May God bless u as u do. Thanks.

DeeMain:
You are projecting your own perceptions on me. I said do not superficially google, which means if you dig deeper, even with Google, you can get wellsprings and golden nuggets.

I would have to told you more but you are stuck in your ways and not open to such constructive intellectual discourse.

It's never late though, the day you are ready your teacher will certainly appear.

Cheers and best wishes

The matter is a serious one. U obviously don't know as much as u attempt to portray. If u did, u would have attempted to discuss it. I am a healthcare professional, thanx I don't need ur kind of teaching.
But the floor is open to u to post information to the forum to help others that may need it. I suggest u use that option to share whatever limited information u have. If u don't have any, like I know u don't then pls keep quiet and read from those that have.
Thank you.

BarristerAlarig:
As expected, you have nothing to say. Best apologize to the guy you quoted. Good bye.

The person to apologize is u and to me. But I don't need ur apology. Anything that derails the thread can stay away

DeeMain:
Don't just superficially google a topic and believe you know all about it.

Hypnotherapy as a healing methodology has applications in many psychological and behavioural change issues autistic people have, not just depression. Whether it is anxiety, learning difficulties, social skills or changing repetitive behaviours often associated with autism.

Hypnotherapy can get such results because it deals with the subconscious mind and can unlock some of the subconscious blocks limiting the child.

Go beyond this surface digging. Dig deeper. There are other tools and resources out there that can help your child. Just because something is not yet mainstream does not mean it cannot help you get results.

Best wishes to your child.

It remains to be seen. I have this believe that no knowledge is lost, hence my interest to learn new things. No u are wrong about Google not being enough when one is seeking information. If u know where to look for and what the look for, Google can be a very dangerous tool.

If u have specific information on use of hypnotherapy in cases of Autism. Post it here so everyone can learn. From what I can piece together from ur statement, u also have no idea about how hypnotherapy is used in Autism. But that's ok, we are all here to learn more about the whole package.

Mowriyah:
Madam, sorry for the challenges you are facing with your son. I have a son with a similar challenge that has made significant progress overtime. Call me let's talk. You definitely will not find the solution with Nigerian doctors. You need to believe in God first, and then physical help counsel ( nutrition and therapy) from experienced mothers. You can call on 08155058336. I will be glad to talk with you.

If u have information on therapy and progress that u want to share, pls post it here and not ask parents to call u. For all we know u could be a scammer. So pls post ur information here.

supercase1:
Stop been a hypocrite,so Jesus will come down and solve your problems when God had given you brains to tackle problems.u think we are still living during the time of Moses when manna falls from heavens.u overzealous christian hypocrites are the reason why northners had dominated us all so much you just believe in miracles instead of working.faith without work is dead even the Bible said that.u can have your believes but you must work to tackle your problems not waiting lazily for miracles and if it's not forthcoming you run to scam pastors and daddy G.Os who feed fat from the proceeds of ignorant and lazy mofos such as you

Lol, well said. Those overzealous hypocrites surprise me sometimes

ThothHermes:
Like I said, you are not a believer

I know a part of you wants to try it, else you wouldn't have quoted me. That's the anointing on the messages already calling you.

Another hilarious suggestion. Pls leave religion out of this. I quoted u so u know u are wrong. I won't reply or quote u again. Pls post ur confusion in religion section not here. We are looking for medical / scientific solutions and understanding of the disorder not ur hypocrisy. Thank you

Alimat40:
Madam, engage in serious prayer to the Almighty God who can change unchangeable. I tell you , you will testify in Jesus name. It is well.

Lol, this is hilarious

ThothHermes:
Get a phone, download all the Joshua Selman messages you can and then play them out loud maybe on a Bluetooth speaker for the child. Since he's not getting any education why not let that be his education for now.
The messages are anointed believe me and sufficient time under them will change any situation.
This goes to the OP as well.
God bless you and yours.

I doubt that will help

ganiyud2001:
I also had a child that is twelve years of age diagnosed with down syndrome, can walk talk or sit properly and we had tried our best take her to different specialist no improvement lately a friend advise me to contact school that can help l did both in Lagos and abuja,they rejected the child saying they can cope ,the only one that accept gavebill of close to five hundred thousand per term and l don't have that kind of money and the child is growing without education, we had taking her for prayer but we are still expecting God healing meanwhile we can leave the child like that ,what can I do lam a low income earner of just frustrating having to carry the child to do everything pls what can l do.l had gone to different speacilost they just gave advise of physiotherapy but the child is growing without education pls what can l do l will be glad if is move to front age to help me get help thanks

Ur story is sad. Pls be advised that downs syndrome is a genetic disorder caused by the presence of all or part of a third copy of chromosome 21. It's a genetic disorder. So be careful what the church people ask you to do. Take care and remain blessed.

mankolo1:
The question is will u call Christ to cure ur child if u give birth to an albino?

Lol, allow those church charlatans. Those people are hypocrites.

BarristerAlarig:
Are you seriously taking sides with that vile creature?? What happened to you during your childhood to have made you like this??

If she had created her own thread to ask her question, her badly worded nonsense might have been excused. But on this woman's thread?? How low could she get??

A bitter soul comes to a concern parent's page to seek help on a sensitive issue and she had to make her feel worst

Was your childhood that dysfunctional?? I hope you get the help you terribly need.

U should do well to stop the insults. Cos next will be to start removing ur posts. I am only asking. Pls resist the temptation.

ThothHermes:
You are a lot of things, but a believer isn't one of them.

Neither are u sir. But Pls remove religion from this issue.

DeeMain:
Chairman, you have a rigid mindset to knowledge acquisition. Everything about healing or cures is not about medical science. Wake up!

FrLukas just schooled you about hypnotherapy, one of the many solutions out there that can help autistic people and yet you are still pontificating and blindly arguing about something you know nothing about.

Sometimes our education is the very thing that hinders us from learning and growing...

Smh

Lol, we are still discussing. Don't take offense if my opinion differs from another person. That is why we are here to learn together. Hypnotherapy has not being used so far for my son cos he doesn't have the depressive phase so far. I have heard about it's use before not for Autism and have never been directly exposed to it yet.
And I don't take things blindly, I research it thoroughly. U should too.

amjustme2:
There are cases of remarkably improvement after taking stem cell therapy - STC30.

If u have proof post it here

jamalnation:
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WITH JESUS CHRIST ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE ONLY IF YOU BELIEVE[\b]

In this case there is just more than that and ur belief is not enough. I won't reply u again.

FrLukas:
Well you didn't ask like you wanted to learn. But if you say that's the case then it's all well and good.

A lot of the cognitive and all of the involuntary functions of the human being are performed by the subconscious mind.

The autistic child or person seems to struggle with this part of themselves.

One of the best ways to reach the subconscious mind to reengineer and reprogram it is through hypnosis.

I don't know where u get it information from though but the last I checked, hypnotherapy was only used to alleviate depression in children who have Autism. Not all children with Autism show signs of severe depression though. Hypnotherapy is not used in the routine treatment of autism.
Pls when u give information, make it specific so u don't mislead people.
Thanx

Timisamd:
You guys should stop being like this. You don't have to bring religion into every damn thing.
Autism as far as it is concerned has no literal cure. Should we say those kids that have it were to terrible in God's eyes or its just the way it is ? You don't have to involve God in some things. Don't be like that. At least in the realm of your religion, be a little bit realistic from whatever faith you weigh in your heart.

Don't mind those charlatans. I am tired of them sef

Volkswagen90:
is about affordability, if i can't afford it there is no need of contacting u whatsapp, say it here

Don't even bother about the advertisement that guy is making for drugs he sell. He is just trying to rip venerable people off.

FrLukas:
Lol. Experimental? Memory loss? You don't know a thing about hypnotherapy do you?


https://lcchinternational.co.uk/using-hypnotherapy-with-people-on-the-autistic-spectrum/

No I don't, that's why we are here to learn isn't it?

FrLukas:
GWagonlover

I think you should also consult an experienced and qualified hypnotherapist.

They should be able to help your child unlock the portions of his mind that he might not have access to.

I doubt that would work. It's at the best experimental. Hypnotherapy works well in cases of memory loss not autism. If u have contrary opinion pls upload link of ur proof.

banjo022:
you are a stupid bitch

@nutella, pls ignore people like this. Shey this one was talking religion some moments back and is now insulting with same mouth. This is why I don't break my head about this religion thing cos most of them are hypocrites.

dahmie2013:
If indeed you are a believer, then I am ashamed of you. The fact that your science has no cure to a disease, does not mean Jesus has no cure. I repeat, God created that child, him alone can cure him. God is the manufacturer and he has spare parts for everything he created. Deal with it!#BelieveThat

I won't reply anyone that is still talking about religion on this issue because I don't believe they have worthwhile information that can help people whose children are suffering from this disorder.

I don't believe they understand the stress one has to go thru with ones child, the sleepless nights, the long sessions of diagnostics and then therapy, the long discussion with healthcare professionals, child psychologists, speech therapists, speech pathologists. They just have no idea because they are not directly involved and don't have to live thru it. Hence my stance of not replying silly comments on religion anymore.

For those other people that are directly involved and are either still looking for solutions, have found solutions and undergoing therapy. Pls you are welcome to give ur input. Let us learn from eachother as we share knowledge.

ASD so far has no cure. Science is still trying to understand how it is caused and there is so far no known cure. Many children afflicted tend to grow out it and may be able to live a normal life later in live.

I believe the aim of we parents is to be observant and not live in denial. Ofcos like I said earlier, the diagnosis is arrived at too fast in the western world.
Sad thing there is that as the child suffers so do the parents. Finding the correct balance between being able the help the child with socialising, school work and speaking is easy but it has to be done.
If u know u know

The person with the last comment above has too much time on her hand. Pls to stop her derailing this thread, I suggest we all do eyes right and move on with the thread.

ststyreal:
What I am telling you is stop quoting people unnecessary. I didn't force you to accept my believe. Leave me with my believe and proffer your own solution please. This is my own view which has worked for me, I didn't force you to accept it, so face your own and leave me with mine please.

U are still harping on this stale issue? Pls move on and stop derailing the thread. There are people that need the information. If u don't then do eyes right and move away