They still can't impeach him cos they still haven't formed a quorum. 14 from 23 lawmakers is just 60% while they need a 2/3 rd majority which is 75%. Remember 9 lawmakers refused to sign. In a sane society which Nigeria is obviously not then they can impeach him as was also they case for Trump.
igwegeorgiano: Being in a relationship with a destination on one's mind is a beautiful thing considering the joy of having the right partner in your world to make things happen. Am beginning to have a rethink about my present relationship with the most ungrateful of all ingrates of a lady on the planet earth.
Am presently in a relationship with a lady from the eastern part of Nigeria while I am from the south-south. We met over five months ago and within this short period I have spent well over 7million naira on this lady setting up a boutique biz for her getting her a befitting accommodation tastefully furnished and many more goodies to ensure she is comfortable including a car.
I don't want to bore us with other issues that cropped up which actually prompted me to share my experiences with this ingrate of a woman. I work so smart for my money as a certified mariner and I made my money from every available legit means am very comfortable to a very large extent but true love and affection is missing.
I went into a relationship with the sole aim of settling down with my woman whom I have done so much for. Just last night she called me and requested I assist her with with 500k to take care of some personal issues I agreed to give her the money but unfortunately I was able to raise 250k which I sent to her. Just few minutes ago she called to tell me that am a very stingy man. She told me I can't take care of her needs, yet I want to marry her. My people, am confused right now because I can't imagined myself going into marriage with this lady.
I have decided to relaxed any form of assistance to her henceforth so I can take my time to assess the situation of things in my relationship with her.
Wonder why it took u this long to reach this decision
Adonis86: Hello house, I'm a student in one of the universities In Anambra State. I live in Awka and I need your advice on this matter. In 2017, I was running a program in a university in Awka, I needed an accommodation though don't have enough money to get a place to stay alone, so I resorted to looking for someone who needs a roommate so we could share the rent. I came across one of the posters on the school wall looking for a male roommate, so I picked the number, called, discussed the price, paid and moved in to stay with the guy. I was diagnosed with an STD a year before this incidence, but I had to keep it to myself to avoid stigmatization, though I was already on medics. Six months into my stay with my roommate, he fell sick and was diagnosed with Hepatitis C. He told me about it and had to travel for the family to take proper care of him. Few weeks later, I also travelled to attend to some family matters. But the trouble started on sunny afternoon while I was at home, I got a call from an unknown number. The person introduced himself as one Dr. something... I've forgotten. He claimed he was a family doctor to my roommate, that if I know he's suffering from the above mentioned illness? I responded Yes. He went further to ask me if I live with HIV, that he told him that he usually see me taking a particular drug daily. At this point, I had to open up because, he told me he'll assure me of confidentiality. Afterwards he ended the call. I was troubled in spirit for everything, but I had to keep my cool till I returned back to school. When I returned, my roommate was not back, days later he returned with a news that he's been cured of the virus, stating further that his parents was briefed by the doctor, that he also told them that I'm likely to be a gay since he has not seen me entertain a female visitor In the house ever since I moved into the house, I was just listening. He went further to advise me to pack out, giving me a deadline otherwise that his father is already threatening to storm my apartment with his brothers to deal with me for living with HIV and kept it away from him for all those months. At that point, I was not ready financially for a new accommodation, but I had to leave to avoid an embarrassment. So, I reached out to my cousin and requested for money which he gave me. But I asked my roommate about my remaining five months rent, he said I should forget it, that his younger brother will be joining him soon, that his family will deal with me if they visit and meet me in the house, so I had to leave immediately, which he helped me to carry my luggage and still gave me a parting gift. Though I never visited the house again, but we still talk on phone and greet whenever our paths cross in the street. Then in 2019, I was on a social network 'Badoo' chatting with people when someone added me up and started chatting me, when I checked it was the so called doctor that messed me up a couple of years ago. He never knew I was the same guy he used to shine in 2017, but on my own side, I pretended I never knew him and was chatting him normal, until he started making sexual advances towards me. He wanted me to visit him and passed the night in his place. I was surprised he gave out his number and house address and started chatting with me even on whatsapp, telling me how much he wanted up to be together. Now, I don't know if to expose him as well, since I still have my ex roommate's number too. I'm thinking of visiting him and taking pictures which I'll send my ex roommate as well as the screenshots of all his rusty conversations. Please friends, advise me properly or if I should forget about it.
Also late last year, something happened in my office where I work. God's grace, I was able to secure a job in Unizik, in a department where I work. One day, a guy walked into my office because the university management informed all the overstayed students to come and clear their outstanding courses and graduate. So, as they were coming in and registering their courses on my table, this guy came in and was making case for her sister. He pleaded with me to find a way to help her graduate, that she is been suffering from birth complications and that their father is very frail and sick, that I should help her to graduate. When I inquired of her name to know how to be of help, lo and behold, it was the same family of my ex roommate. it was his elder brother soliciting for assistance on behalf of the elder sister. I asked him well and he confirmed everything, but I refused to disclose my identity, because my encounter with their family was not a pleasant one. As a result, I declined to assist, even when I know what to do to help him. I don't know if I did the right thing also, but I just need strong piece of advice from matured minds... Thanks! MOD, please help me push this to the front page.
To the last u did wrongly, never decline to aid if and when in ur power regardless of how u were treated in the past. To the first stay away from the doctor.
Raeheemwayne: Pardon my Typographical errors and the long Epistle.
So, for about 3 months now I've been off and on with this girl from my college. I really like this girl, but the big problem here is that she's not over her ex, and so after her calling me her "boyfriend" for about a month she realized that she wasn't "emotionally available" and so she broke up with me.
However, later that same day she said she missed me and asked for me to stay over, which I did. For the month following, we would get into these cycles where she would want to spend all this time with me and kiss me and snuggle and do normal gf bf stuff, but then she would pull away later and affirm that we weren't dating and should act like friends, which then lead to her asking me to spend the night shortly after. One day she decided to totally cut it off, but then drunk texted me and wanted me to walk her home 2 days later, which I did.
In the past 2-3 weeks I've recognized these cycles and have become more distant, and as a result she's become way more emotionally attached. She wants to see me and do "bf gf stuff" way more often than before and texts me constantly (the cycles in large part have stopped).
However, I'm getting tired of not being in a committed relationship, and I thought she might be getting over him. Just now I had a talk with her to ask if she was getting over him and she said that she "didn't know". She tells me all the time that she would never get back with her ex, since he was "an asshole and emotionally abusive". She just misses him, apparently. I probably should have cut this off a long time ago, but I really like her and I don't know what to do. Advice?
All insults will be accepted. but, I need an urgent matured advice. Mods should please help push this to FP. Thanks.
Myndd44.
Lol, to all the advisers above me. U guys are funny. U need to have been in something similar to understand it. She is using u as a rebound for where her heart is. She is confused about if she should move on or not. U seem to be a nice guy here but that won't get u far with this type of lady. U need to make ur mark and stop loving up. Loving up makes her comfortable with u, the problem there is that since it's a rebound. U haven't actively made ur mark yet, regardless of all u have tried. U really haven't. If u don't like her cut it off and move away. She will find u once her head clears. Then u chop to compensate for all ur heartaches and move on.
If u like her then give her a wonderful time she will never forget then u make sure u sleep with her. Many Nigerian ladies tend to have their brain reset after sex. It's like when u reboot ur Computer for them. Once u have had her, u start avoiding her. Her brain will definitely reset and she will start looking for u. Thank me later.
Pls Note: U have to remember that it u do all these and finally win the egg, that doesn't mean u can keep it. It just means she now has two men she has dated and she will still have to choose from them both. So be prudent how much of ur heart u invest even after u guys start dating. Ur question was advice on the girl u liked not how u will keep her. So thank me later. Cheers!
LudaChriz: A lot of people are used to complaining about various commercial banks in Nigeria especially the low income earners as regards the dubious charges perpetrated by these Banks.
So I want to ask, which Bank is more considerate in terms of their charges for savings account currently?
Don't forget to tell us your reasons.
Let's talk business
What of FCMB? Does anyone have any problem with them?
He should get used to it. A case of getting used and dumped like hot sack of shit. I know one shouldn't cry at other people's pain but Oshiomole got what he dished out back. Besides the north always wanted the reins of APC. They know how to get power but have no idea how to retain it.
Corporate2020: Tinubu never lost a political battle unlike Buhari and his gang who were serial losers before Tinubu came to their aid. Even Obasanjo that humiliated Buhari severally before Tinubu came to his aid. That Obasanjo fears Tinubu. The whole Afenifere council of useless Elders that ganged up with Obasanjo against Tinubu were humiliated and disgraced single handedly by Tinubu.
Tinubu humiliated and disgraced Reno Omokirikiri's benefactor, so what do you expect from such a bitter nincompoop?
Just watch the Jagaban's next move. He talks less but he is a ruthless political strategist.
Wait for it. When they grow too big they fall the hardest
HeavenlyCherub: Nigerian men as much as you want to deny this. You want a successful woman in your life. Just not one more successful than you. This has been the experience of countless women I have come in contact with. No matter how good or respectful you are to them, you making more money makes you an enemy. Jealousy in relationships is real as they start to feel emasculated.
Just because you help someone to come to yankee does not mean they have to pay you with life. God used you as a vessel to help that person, just as someone helped you. If and when things are not working just walk away.
Below is a 911 call for help when a Nigerian man killed his wife due to her financial independence. When you make it they will begin telling you, how you have changed, how disrespectful, bossy you are and look down upon them. God forbid they helped you get papers they start to think they own you. Do yourself a favor and don’t date down. This video is one of many that have happened. This is so rampant in the African community.
First thing first, u need to remove the mentality of that term "if u make it or when u make it or I have made it or u have arrived". One cannot compare one issue as such with another. Those issues as rampart as they seemed are also secluded issues. Ofcos I don't support such atrocities committed neither do I support envy, talkless of the husband having envy for the wife he brought in who bore children for him. I mean there are lines that one shouldn't cross. In as much as it has to be said, whatever u write now won't make any difference. Why? Cos u don't live with the said people and have no idea how they have been living, good or bad. As sad as it is, zip ur mouth and eyes right
Is it possible that the men's level of education plays a part in it all? Or is it an ego thing
BlackNeo: For a while, I’ve followed Romanceland from a distance. I’ve also observed the great work of foremost redpill praexologists, especially Ubunja. I laud them all and I’ve come to lend my voice to theirs.
Ubunja, I believe, has focused on praexology of redpill and I strongly believe it is time someone laid more emphasis on Game. It is not enough to give people the pill without teaching them how to move forward.
ndidibabe: You are a learner if this kinda story is new to you. Several 16 years have banged men old enough to be their father.
Lol, my son I can assure u learner is not one of the things I call myself. It's a thing of principles not a major feat that is not resistable. The man just has to have his principles. As long as there is no gun to his/her head certain things are not expected to happen. I can say it's inexperience that made u say what u did cos if u know, u know. So kid don't say what u have no knowledge about. Everything doesn't end with private part and bottom
GOFRONT: If you ve ever straff your maid........ Anytime your maid be like: Aunty, there is something i want to tell you, Na so your mind go want to jump out through your mouth
But why would a man want to jump his house help when he has a wife? Unless the wife is not representing. Cos I don't see what will push a man to go beyond his bedroom. I really don't understand it.
Kizzygentle: Rape is rape. And the definition remains the same be it Marital or not. If she is not in the mood let her be. If taken by force it is RAPE.. Married or not it is RAPE and there should be a penalty for it.
So u would go and be looking into people's marriages to see who raped who, that's the literal meaning of ur statement. Pls take a breather, depending on the situation there is nothing like rape in marriage. Unless the person performing the act bludgeoned the victim. If it's just the act without consent, then one can't classify it as rape. Unmarried people should pls be careful what they listen to.
XXLMANDIGO: Please don't end it like some liberals would and don't deactivate your moniker by the time he get reelected. I don't fancy your opinion enough to make you deserve a counter.
If u look thru my previous comments, u will see how I write. I rarely am this judgemental but Trump is a joke, it pains to watch. I don't see how am going to be deactivating my profile cos of this issue. The topic in question was if America was being respected now than before and the answer is definitely not. They had respect during Obama's time, but now definitely not. Trump can never be the president Obama was. Obama was one of their best Presidents so far and Trump is rated as the worse so far. Check their rating u will see. As regards to re-election of Trump, ofcos no one can say for sure if he would be re-elected or not. I would rather he looses but that is for the people to decide. After all he didn't win the popular vote with Hilary. He lost it but electoral college gave him the win. Am sure by now they would be regretting it. If he wins then he does, it will be sad for America though.
PS: I see u didn't get thrown into anger at my goading u. It shows maturity. Keep it up. But this topic on Trump rubs many of us the wrong way. The man is an idiot.
KingAzubuike: Most Nigerian doctors are perverts. They ask all sorts of silly questions that aren't related to your ailment. It has even gone as far as medical students on ward round , postings or clerking in teaching hospitals. Small boys wey never grow hair for prick will begin to ask you the last time you had sex before they diagnose you with typhoid or malaria. It's worse if you visit a teaching hospital. You might be used for live practicals in front of medical students during ward rounds or osce exams. If you have a knowledge of the medical profession, you'd easily understand. Later in the day, you begin to hear medical students and even interns gisting about their experience in O/G ward round , female medical etc. A doctor will diagnose you with malaria and when it's time to prescribe a drug, We know certain drugs or administration aren't suitable for pregnant people but instead of the male doctor to simply ask if you're pregnant, he'll rather be asking for the last time you had sex and if you're clean shaven down there
It's part of the clerking. It's required to exhaust all questions. Bear with them.
XXLMANDIGO: I remember how bad it was for USA during Obama tenure that Some America soldiers were captured and crying on Iran National TV. I also remember when the Saudi King didn't give Obama a rousing welcome when he visited the kingdom and only assigned one of his lieutenant to meet him at the airport. He was not given red carpet treatment.
The tide has changed and everyone now respect the USA and it's henchman. Just yesterday a Journalist in Iranian detention was released and flown back to America. That's a President with balls and gut.
You said Obama and democrats are not Muslim lovers but why did he impress it on European allies to open their border for Middle East and African refugees. Is that a sane thing to do in a country that witnessed 9/11 less than 2 decades ago.
Please let's be guided. Trump is the best American President after Abraham Lincoln and his rating is there for everyone to see.
Lol, did u just type the BS u did above? Who respects America? No one does. America is so well respected that Europe thinks the country is a joke. They think Trump is a joke. Did u not hear the statement between Macron and Justin? Even in the US governors don't respect Trump, even his staff don't respect him so where do u get misinformation from apart from fox and friends and far right pundits. Those are all pop dreams. Obama was at loggerheads with Saudi at that time cos Saudi was sponsoring terrorism in the middle East to gain political dorminance in the region. Do u think Obama is petty enough like ur Trump to mind such treatment, if ever such a thing ever happened. Believe me, America would have retaliated. So what u talking is BS.
Pls let me correct another myth. Obama is not the person that asked Europe to open it's border to Syria. The person that did that was Merkel.
America is a laughing stock within and without and also to the world. This is because of Trump and his divisive nature.
XXLMANDIGO: The Frustration of these liberals and their accomplices cannot be overemphasized, but Trump is the only Crazy Genius that can handle the Muslim loving, China apologists Democrats and match them craze for craze, drama for drama. I bet both Senator Ted Cruz and Marco Rubio now understand better that Trump is far ahead than them during the first primary, he is natural but strategic brawler that can handle all of the establishment and their antics. Trump will win come November 3 and there will be mass suicide, maybe even on Nairaland.
If they wanted competition for Trump, Bernie Sanders would have pulled a big weight but Joe Biden will be thrashed mercilessly by Trump.
Remember during the last debate with Hilary Clinton, CNN and all the democrats thought that was his end until he spring up a devastating surprise by bringing to the Hall the women Bill Clinton abused. That was what broke the camel's back .
And you know what, Obama might go to Jail
Also a stupid statement. Liberals don't love Muslims or China but believe in a free society with ideals of live and let live. Even the Bible supports that so it surprises me that republicans don't know that, means they have to be pseudo-christains
Not surprised about the outcome. China recently bought bullions of tonnes of cheap Nigerian oil. Ofcos they will attempt not to anger their current paymasters
1. From the beginning of the relationship, you have probably given this girl d mindset that if she leaves u, u r done for.
2. Bro, if u use money take open relationship, ready to dey drop money... So all this your expenses here and there na u cos am. Never use money as a means to hold down a woman, they're always in need, and most of them will go for the highest bidder.
3. I don't know who needs to hear this, except the girl na ur wife, never ever let a lady influence decisions that u know can make your life better. NEVER DO THAT. Make decisions to better ur life, Bleep whatever she thinks.
4. Boss, any girl when dey look for consent to marry you don go already. Forget her...
5. You're lucky you passed your exam, you for know afa
6. I can bet my left ass that your lady has someone already promising her the moon and the stars. SHE'S GONE BRO.
MY ADVICE: Brace yourself, retrace your steps and before she drops the bombshell on you, Break up with her in a very dope way, like stars do, no fight, no insults.
YOUR FUTURE IS BRIGHT MAN, take it from me, ON GOD.
*Drops mic*
For the avoidance of doubt, I highlighted the most impt point. I know ladies that braved parents and relatives to marry the love of their lives. One a classmate years back from PH waited 12 years to marry her boyfriend from Imo. She even fought the bf when he asked her to move on so she won't get to old to marry in the Nigerian setting.
Romance › Re: No Reasonable Man Will Marry A Lady That Has More Than One Ear Piercing? by drnoel: 2:45pm On Jul 07, 2020
