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PrimadonnaO:
What is 1414?

Yes, things happen. But an adult has to be fully responsible for the choices he/she makes.

There were other people to date, but they chose to date a likely voodoist, and a criminal.

In our time it was 14 14 they called them

PrimadonnaO:
How is life unfair? Did they force them to date the yahoo boys?

Speak for urself. If u are not in a certain shoe, don't attempt to understand it. I don't support 1414 or whatever they call it, neither do I support promiscuity. But in this world, things happen

Tominix:
WHAT YOU SEE IS NOT WHAT IS THERE
THE BIBLE SAYS"WE WALK BY FAITH NOT BY SIGHT"
IF YOU ARE SMART YOU WILL UNDERSTAND
i dnt get scared of a so_called pastor/OR PROPHET
let it be a war for oUr GODS
I KNW WHO I SERVE AND YOU KNW YOURS . . . . . . .

U don't know shit. U don't know the scriptures. U are not strong in the faith. Read the passages I gave u and go and pray. Also, I am not a member of TB Joshua's movement. I thought u were that was why I made that comment.
May the lord be with u as u grow in the faith. But pls stop misinformation.

Tominix:
WHAT YOU SEE IS NOT WHAT IS THERE
THE BIBLE SAYS"WE WALK BY FAITH NOT BY SIGHT"
IF YOU ARE SMART YOU WILL UNDERSTAND

One wonders how u can believe in the Bible and it's words and still be talking about mermaids? Shows how really sick u are. "Therefore, rid urself of all malice and all deceit, hypocrisy, envy and slander of every kind"- 1Peter2:1.
What u are doing is slandering the evil one. Go and read book of Jude 1:8-10. "For such people are false apostles, deceitful workers, masquerading as apostles of Christ"- 2Corinthians 11:13.
U obviously don't know the scriptures.

chukxie:
And who said it was something new? Sex has been with mankind since the days of Adam and Eve.

The foreign women liking exotic meat is not new

chukxie:
Make una let the man talk na. Haba!
Before I got married, I had sex with a few married women, too. All Chinese! Them like black prick but them can pretend die! Anyways since getting married several years ago, I've NEVER 'played away match', and I don't intend to.

Nothing new there

Ok so who will date or marry them na? Life is unfair

Nbote:
Read again slowly... She even mentioned her hubby was fine

So what is Ur point?
So does that mean it was coronavirus or not? This flu is not so new to man but it's new on the current precedence we are seeing it so everything is still unclear.
Only positive testing confirms the virus

Osesedney:
What makes a man matured is the ability to know what he wants and be able to stand by his words, discipline and focus., if you like undermine the girl u are with right now for someone who wants you only because another person has you.....
I smell pity around you if u play into her hand...

That's the general summary of many ladies. Many of them only want u when they can't have u. I don't care to even understand why but from the experiences I have had, it's cuts across more than a 3rd of ladies I have met

ZINIBANKS:
Thanks bro for your concern I really appreciate it
But how is life in Germany over there
Can you advise me on going to Germany
And on which travel route aside from studying

not everything on Nairaland is bad. Cheers!

haleymoon:
Move on with your life, don't be captive to any woman. This reminds me of a girl I had a thing for, cared for her, loved her, she understood all these, only for her to be playing too hard to get, seeking unnecessary attention,likes & mentions like some nairalanders. I decided to end it with her after all I didn't even see the colour of her underwears but who cares, I finally hooked up with a beautiful damsel who was more beautiful than her, she was in her prime of beauty. Any time this other girl sees the both of us, she resorts to bitterness, anger, resentment, her face will completely be a manifestation of hatred. I really enjoyed seeing her reaction when I was with this other one but to a certain point, I stopped, make she no use vex pour my girl acid, maybe carry knife 4get for my scrotal sac , I know wan appear for front page . Some women are confused, If you know what you like, go for it. She don apply all the seductive formulas to get me back, even the beg me make I come make she spread her legs up in the sky so high for me, oboi na so I bounce her ooo...

Lol, I don't know why this Ur comment made my day but it did. Probably cos of Ur front page comment, lol or was it cos of Ur other comment on scrotal sack. Anyways, story is similar to mine to.
But mine was that the ladies mom owned an eatery and a bar where we loved hanging out. In my younger days I never went after a woman for more than a few days. This lady I actively pursued for a whole week, she was acting Tyra Banks. I forgot to add she hates ladies accompanying us to either the eatery or the bar esp if I was there to, that's how I noticed her and started yearning her up. She once walked up to us when we were celebrating my female cousin's birthday (she came with 5 of her female friends) and asked my guy (she was close to that my guy) which one of them I was dating.
Immediately the week ended, I did a turncoat which was my usual moves. Stopped calling, stopped everything. But since we had good credit opportunity at their bar we always visited there and that didn't stop.
Usually when I visited I would seek her out if she was manning the bar that day but when I didn't do that on 2 consecutive times she knew something was amiss.
Anyways, when she finally saw my woman she almost died, as if she swallowed something that was bad for her stomach. After then I never went there to drink cos I didn't want someone to poison me.

In this age of coronavirus that somebody is sleeping and opening mouth. Ayama!

cruxgemmata:
Now thats a miracle. People's brains are now functioning effectively

Hallelujah! Hallelujah! Some say Amen!

Nbote:
Dis is by far d most in depth analysis of how d virus works and symptoms to take note of instead of spreading panic.. She's quite brave and dis would go a long way to saving lives...

The day u believe a blogger is the day u world ends. I noticed she didn't say she was tested positive in her write up. Am just saying.

ZINIBANKS:
Thanks bro for your concern I really appreciate it
But how is life in Germany over there
Can you advise me on going to Germany
And on which travel route aside from studying

Since u are still young and unmarried. There are many options. There are many threads on traveling abroad here. Just take Ur pick and study it.
Go to the Canadian EE thread and read from beginning. There are also threads for Australia, UK and Germany. UK now offers chances to work so it's also a possibility.
Educate urself.
Cheers

holusormi:
Once had a similar experience with one girl I picked up at the club , she stepped outside and I didn’t see her again , searched and searched , turns out the idiot was so high she somehow stumbled to the back of my tank scalfolding and fell asleep there

Lol, that one na classical ghost story. U can imagine what the story would have turned to if she was never found?

ZINIBANKS:
Thanks bro for reaching out to me
I studied mechanical engineering I think am good to go
But I know no one there
But I read it in one thread that they don't give Nigerians visa
Am thinking of going to some of this UAE country
To Hussle and after two years of work I can go
From there

Pls take note. Most western countries are looking for professionals to boost their workforce so I doubt Netherland will refuse u visa if Ur application is solid

ZINIBANKS:
Pm bro I studied mechanical engineering in the polytechnic of ibadan just ND
But I don't want to go as a student because after my studies if mistakenly I don't get a good paying job if I extend just a day there am already an illegal immigrant and this is what I want to avoid.
And I don't know anyone there
I think my chances of getting there is not sure
And I also heard they don't give Nigerians visa
But from what I read up there you sound like you know more about
My question is - Have you applied for their visa before.?

No I haven't applied for their Visa so can't advise u as regards Netherlands. Though have lived in Germany for years so I know the EU cos am well travelled around Europe.
Am sure u know the idiom "nothing ventured nothing gained". Make attempt.
Since u don't have people in Netherland, go the student way. U could be lucky to wed a citizen and that would solidify Ur status but only do it for love. U may be lucky to come across someone that likes exotic origins and it clicks for u both
Cheers

Onyxnaija:
To my knowledge, Canada does not give the same level of Advanced standing that Australia gives to drs with at least 1 year uk practice experience. Australia will allow such drs to come here and practice either in Gp or hospital, and after 1 year they are given full general unlimited registration. Thus removing the burden of AMC 1 and 2 exams.
I’d not rush to Canada as an overseas trained doctor / IMG with 1 year uk experience. Best to attempt that with uk / Irish specialist registration. Any time sooner and you’d be frustrated. But the terms and rewards of medical practice here in Australia is the best of all all the developed world.
My apologies for late reply. All the best. Cheers

Yes that's true. Canada is a lot different for IMGs, even those with years of experience like my brother and I.

hazard7:
Confused? Well that's your fucking opinion

How fucking got into it, I don't understand. Looks like this man is gay that's why he is antiwomen

HRwells:
I normally ignore shit like this but come on it's 2020, how can be ppl still think this way

Baffles me too sometimes but Nigerians are extremists. Ignite not religion, it's something fetish, if it's not tribalism, it's bolo haram. That is how they are built.
I have learnt to just wake pass. Learn the same

hazard7:
Looks like you have a real case of jitters

Says the guy who is confused?

ityP:
Lol. This your talk eh. Those girls already having sex knew how to exchange or promise sex for whatever they wanted from the boys. Don't get it twisted please. That's not experience. That's olosho work. So if you are looking to date a lady with olosho working experience, I say, WEHDONE SIR

Anyways, I didn't know olosho work was being done in secondary schools. Na wah for the secondary school u went to, mine was a refined one though all boy but we had a girls school close by.
Anyways, no one said anything about dating anyone. That's Ur own talk. U should get married and free urself from all this small girls who only know about money and dick.
Cheers!

ityP:
Lmao. You conducted any survey on this, or you know someone who did
On your second point, I'd have you know ladies (not virgins) of the younger age bracket are largely inexperienced or naive

Oh! I forgot to say if one were to make a survey, that was my personal opinion. I was talking based on life's experiences.
Yes, ladies of younger age bracket are generally more naïve, that is true. But remember back then while in secondary school. Those girls in our set that already had boyfriends and where having sex, already knew how to turn boys their age around their fingers but the ones that were still virgins were still learning work. That e.g alone also adds to my point.

Kingsteve:
There was this girl I met back in the day.
saying she's the most beautiful is an understatement.
She was the definition of beauty and pretty combined.

One day, as I was walking down the street in my neighborhood, I saw her and made a move.

I approached her and started a chitchat.
As we were exchanging numbers, and my focus was on the screen of my phone, immediately I looked up to tell her I'd call her...
Lo and behold...what happened terrified me.

I saw her levitate!
Yes, right in front of me, she started ascending into heaven.

So many things came to my mind at once.
I thought the rapture had finally happened and I was left behind.
But no...as this girl was ascending, next thing, she grew wings and flew away like a bird.

It later dawned on me I probably met an angel.
pheew!

What did u smoke?

IamPlato:
okay Clap For Yourself.

U are welcome sir.

ityP:
Well good for him. My point, no even trust your own wife 100%, talk less of trusting someone else's wife that was once a runz girl

Depends or Ur relationship with said person before marriage. I know the guy trusts his wife and she does him, but that's their problem not mine.
Me on my own, trust my wife cos I sabi what she can or cannot do. How u live Ur life is Ur problem.

ityP:
Lmao. So, those who are experienced are those who have sex in their relationships? And a virgin isn't experienced in keeping a man because keeping a man actually involves sleeping with him? Lmao. Just so you know, virginity has everything to do with being strong-willed and patient. Virgins are pressured almost daily to break their virginity. Guys with sweet mouth, those with money, funny guys; all want to shift her pant. Her resisting all those pressure isn't being strong-willed Plus, I hope you know say even virgins dey feel Hot. She wants to knack. But for some reasons, she wants the knacking to take place in her matrimonial home, by her husband. So she waits. If that's not patience, then I don't know what the hell it is.

U can understand what I wrote however u want to. Makes no difference, u will keep Ur opinion. And I never said sex was necessary to build experience in a relationship.
Anyways, let me stress this though. If u take a sample of virgins and non virgins, u will see that virgins rarely keep a relationship ofcos we know some variables that may be the cause. There are more non virgins in long-term relationships and experience is built in that way. That's one way to look at it.
Another way to look at it is this. More Virgins are in the younger age bracket, it's not so easy to find older virgins not that there are none but it's even rarer to find older virgins in long-term relationships. We know the younger a woman is the more likely inexperienced she is cos u need the factors that help one build experience to be present.
So in the nutshell, virgins are inexperienced and naïve.
U don't have to agree with me but it's true.

IamPlato:
dont Worry, in This Same Way And Worse people Will Talk Shit about Your Children and Their Ideas When They Try To Make Any Reasonable impact In Life.

Lol, u are trying to make impact in life by selling shit? My 4 year old knows better than that and can definitely write better stories than u can. If any child of mine comes out to write the shit that u are writings I will flog the devil out of that child. Hilarious!

ityP:
As I said, the fact say you never catch am, no mean say e don change. Nobody on earth hides infidelity like a woman. I just hope the husband has a little over 100k to do DNA test for his first child most importantly. The earlier, the better

Am not in their marriage so that portion no concern me. If a man insists the children are his, DNA pales in the back. His decision, his stress. I won't carry panadol for another man. But I believe that DNA part wouldn't be necessary as the kids are their fathers carbon copy.