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ZINIBANKS:
Pm bro I studied mechanical engineering in the polytechnic of ibadan just ND
But I don't want to go as a student because after my studies if mistakenly I don't get a good paying job if I extend just a day there am already an illegal immigrant and this is what I want to avoid.
And I don't know anyone there
I think my chances of getting there is not sure
And I also heard they don't give Nigerians visa
But from what I read up there you sound like you know more about
My question is - Have you applied for their visa before.?

No I haven't applied for their Visa so can't advise u as regards Netherlands. Though have lived in Germany for years so I know the EU cos am well travelled around Europe.
Am sure u know the idiom "nothing ventured nothing gained". Make attempt.
Since u don't have people in Netherland, go the student way. U could be lucky to wed a citizen and that would solidify Ur status but only do it for love. U may be lucky to come across someone that likes exotic origins and it clicks for u both
Cheers

Onyxnaija:
To my knowledge, Canada does not give the same level of Advanced standing that Australia gives to drs with at least 1 year uk practice experience. Australia will allow such drs to come here and practice either in Gp or hospital, and after 1 year they are given full general unlimited registration. Thus removing the burden of AMC 1 and 2 exams.
I’d not rush to Canada as an overseas trained doctor / IMG with 1 year uk experience. Best to attempt that with uk / Irish specialist registration. Any time sooner and you’d be frustrated. But the terms and rewards of medical practice here in Australia is the best of all all the developed world.
My apologies for late reply. All the best. Cheers

Yes that's true. Canada is a lot different for IMGs, even those with years of experience like my brother and I.

hazard7:
Confused? Well that's your fucking opinion

How fucking got into it, I don't understand. Looks like this man is gay that's why he is antiwomen

HRwells:
I normally ignore shit like this but come on it's 2020, how can be ppl still think this way

Baffles me too sometimes but Nigerians are extremists. Ignite not religion, it's something fetish, if it's not tribalism, it's bolo haram. That is how they are built.
I have learnt to just wake pass. Learn the same

hazard7:
Looks like you have a real case of jitters

Says the guy who is confused?

ityP:
Lol. This your talk eh. Those girls already having sex knew how to exchange or promise sex for whatever they wanted from the boys. Don't get it twisted please. That's not experience. That's olosho work. So if you are looking to date a lady with olosho working experience, I say, WEHDONE SIR

Anyways, I didn't know olosho work was being done in secondary schools. Na wah for the secondary school u went to, mine was a refined one though all boy but we had a girls school close by.
Anyways, no one said anything about dating anyone. That's Ur own talk. U should get married and free urself from all this small girls who only know about money and dick.
Cheers!

ityP:
Lmao. You conducted any survey on this, or you know someone who did
On your second point, I'd have you know ladies (not virgins) of the younger age bracket are largely inexperienced or naive

Oh! I forgot to say if one were to make a survey, that was my personal opinion. I was talking based on life's experiences.
Yes, ladies of younger age bracket are generally more naïve, that is true. But remember back then while in secondary school. Those girls in our set that already had boyfriends and where having sex, already knew how to turn boys their age around their fingers but the ones that were still virgins were still learning work. That e.g alone also adds to my point.

Kingsteve:
There was this girl I met back in the day.
saying she's the most beautiful is an understatement.
She was the definition of beauty and pretty combined.

One day, as I was walking down the street in my neighborhood, I saw her and made a move.

I approached her and started a chitchat.
As we were exchanging numbers, and my focus was on the screen of my phone, immediately I looked up to tell her I'd call her...
Lo and behold...what happened terrified me.

I saw her levitate!
Yes, right in front of me, she started ascending into heaven.

So many things came to my mind at once.
I thought the rapture had finally happened and I was left behind.
But no...as this girl was ascending, next thing, she grew wings and flew away like a bird.

It later dawned on me I probably met an angel.
pheew!

What did u smoke?

IamPlato:
okay Clap For Yourself.

U are welcome sir.

ityP:
Well good for him. My point, no even trust your own wife 100%, talk less of trusting someone else's wife that was once a runz girl

Depends or Ur relationship with said person before marriage. I know the guy trusts his wife and she does him, but that's their problem not mine.
Me on my own, trust my wife cos I sabi what she can or cannot do. How u live Ur life is Ur problem.

ityP:
Lmao. So, those who are experienced are those who have sex in their relationships? And a virgin isn't experienced in keeping a man because keeping a man actually involves sleeping with him? Lmao. Just so you know, virginity has everything to do with being strong-willed and patient. Virgins are pressured almost daily to break their virginity. Guys with sweet mouth, those with money, funny guys; all want to shift her pant. Her resisting all those pressure isn't being strong-willed Plus, I hope you know say even virgins dey feel Hot. She wants to knack. But for some reasons, she wants the knacking to take place in her matrimonial home, by her husband. So she waits. If that's not patience, then I don't know what the hell it is.

U can understand what I wrote however u want to. Makes no difference, u will keep Ur opinion. And I never said sex was necessary to build experience in a relationship.
Anyways, let me stress this though. If u take a sample of virgins and non virgins, u will see that virgins rarely keep a relationship ofcos we know some variables that may be the cause. There are more non virgins in long-term relationships and experience is built in that way. That's one way to look at it.
Another way to look at it is this. More Virgins are in the younger age bracket, it's not so easy to find older virgins not that there are none but it's even rarer to find older virgins in long-term relationships. We know the younger a woman is the more likely inexperienced she is cos u need the factors that help one build experience to be present.
So in the nutshell, virgins are inexperienced and naïve.
U don't have to agree with me but it's true.

IamPlato:
dont Worry, in This Same Way And Worse people Will Talk Shit about Your Children and Their Ideas When They Try To Make Any Reasonable impact In Life.

Lol, u are trying to make impact in life by selling shit? My 4 year old knows better than that and can definitely write better stories than u can. If any child of mine comes out to write the shit that u are writings I will flog the devil out of that child. Hilarious!

ityP:
As I said, the fact say you never catch am, no mean say e don change. Nobody on earth hides infidelity like a woman. I just hope the husband has a little over 100k to do DNA test for his first child most importantly. The earlier, the better

Am not in their marriage so that portion no concern me. If a man insists the children are his, DNA pales in the back. His decision, his stress. I won't carry panadol for another man. But I believe that DNA part wouldn't be necessary as the kids are their fathers carbon copy.

ityP:
Being a virgin doesn't translate to being naive either. You think virgin girls don't know dicks and what sex is? You think they don't have intense cravings for sex? Lol. You're mistaken. Virginity is strong-willed. It is self-control. It is patience. You can add other adjectives to that list but I hope you get the gist. My babe is a virgin. Hasn't tried any type of sex (vaginal, oral or anal). But she isn't naive to what having sex entails.

It translates to being naïve bros. That one knows about sex and dick doesn't make u experienced about relationship or how to keep a man, among other things. U are purposefully being myopic. Virginity has nothing to do with being strong-willed or patience. Fine, maybe the self control part, I can relate with that one. Bros u can't throw the baby with the bath water and stop thinking restricted, open Ur eyes and see.

ityP:
Well, what I know is, ONCE A RUNZ GIRL, ALWAYS A RUNZ GIRL. If you never catch am no mean say e don change.

Told u I know this one, we still keep in contact. She is not running shit now, just her mother's company. I still jab her about her university days and she blushed anytime I mention it, and begs me not to tell her hubby. It's not like the man has no idea but he didn't run things with her so only knows the superficial things she did. Such is life.

IamPlato:
dont be a fool, the book is for you not women

Made my point for me. U have no atom or idea of what u are talking about. U charlatan.

1StopRudeness:
The large bodycount-women only agree/ emphasize the fist part of ur above statement because thats the only place they can technically compete with virgins..
But they will never agree with the other paragraph cos they always want to desperately show there nothing special about being a virgin...
that’s one of the reason some people now feel men should no longer settle for less that all this women with high body counts are the ones raising our children in marriage with the same ideology by spreading legs for multiple men in the name of dating and having fun....and it almost seems like the truth.. cos mothers no longer teach their children these values anymore...

Also not true. I know a lady that was raped 3ice. She won her school pageantry those 3x and I suspect the organisers where the ones response. The last issue was more dastardly than the rest. Over 20 guys went thru her or so we heard. Anyways, she is married with 3 kids and is homely.
I also know another issue or a runz-girl that is married and not giving her hubby stress. U can't use abstract issues to arrive at a misnomer

21cents:
@bolded, thank you very much sir.

I've never seen a virgin without good character so all the noise about good characters being synonymous with non virgins are baseless. you already gave your virginity on a platter to someone that didn't marry you and you're claiming it has nothing to do with good or bad characters.
if you've good characters yourself why would you thread a path of immorality in the first place?

my younger sister at 22 is still virgin. good character, homely religious girl that stays at home all day, never lets peer pressure trumps her wills, not a sucker for material things, intelligent and as a matter of fact, a good wife material by all standards. - thanks to my no nonsense parents.
All our tenants have turned her to a bank just because she's someone you can trust with your money or anything.

I've always commended her good behavior and prayed I find someone like her to marry cos most of the girls I've been coming across are already spoit.

This statement is silly esp if u make the mistake to place both virginity and character on similar pedestal. That would be wrong cos they are both abstract variables.
U can so place virginity with naivety and it what u mean by good character is naivety then u are making a big mistake. Cos people don't get naïve for long. Once the lady in question has had several children then u will see her true character. Then how u treated in the past comes to play and if she is good then u don't have a problem. If she is bad, Ur own don finish

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How can a man be writing a book for women? What the hell does he know about them? Nothing, so the book is just a waste or energy and space. Pls throw in the dustbin after u have bought

HRwells:
OMG just how shallow can mortals get? ..left to me na annihilate all humans so hopefully in the next life una go get sense .. spirit wife, jazz, Las Las na relaxer dey all of una brain wey type those fictional rubbish

Lol, allow people believe what they must. I don't believe those shit though but people do, won't make me insult them

justnock:
I find this your story terrifying in a hilarious way

The reason for the story wasn't to scare anyone but to state that there are diehard men out there

ZINIBANKS:
Even me I haven't seen any thread on Netherlands
I wan to apply for permanent resident and work permit don't even know how to go about it

Read my last comment. If Ur area is IT, Engineering or healthcare then u are good to go.

ZINIBANKS:
Even me I haven't seen any thread on Netherlands
I wan to apply for permanent resident and work permit don't even know how to go about it

If u want to apply for EU blue, u need to have a job offer already on ground. If u have a sister already there, let her do Ur homework for u. Best ways to move are either u have a job and apply for Blue card or u get masters and go as a student. The student route is good but there are no assurances that u will get a job after the masters. So I would say the job offer is the best route, since u already have family on ground.
Let ur sister contact headhunters and find out possibility of finding jobs for someone in Nigeria. Chances are scarce though cos they prefer someone already on ground.
Also jobs making waves now and easily gotten are IT jobs, Engineering and health jobs. So if u don't have documents or certification in these areas, the job aspect may be slim, unless Ur sister knows someone who has a law firm and is willing to employ u for a few years.
I doubt u would get much information on NL for the Netherlands for someone who has a law degree. So pls refer back to Ur sister, if she doesn't know let her ask her husband who I would suspect has been there for donkey years. Let him ask around.

grafixdon:
I'm not a Saint. Reason I'm still faithful to her is that I don't like spending unnecessarily. And adultery is very expensive. How can I spend almost 100k for a side chick because of sex? Chatting and calling is very tiring, I'm too lazy to start chatting or calling.

This man is lazy

seankafor:
its ok you dont believe but dont make people who experience these look like fools or liars.

I doubt I passed that message. I did post one that happened to a neighbor of mine that I am aware of so how u arrived at Ur statement baffles me.
Anyways, doesn't matter

cRobo:
Na their life be that

She is dying for you but because of pride she won't accept

I won't say a word

Best answer! She wants u so let her do the work for a change. U Just have to make her jealous enough to want to kill u

Chamber2000:
This happened in the year 2000 when I was in my finals in secondary school so check if I have time for those kids stuff

Stories like that are not scarce. We hear such often. I don't believe those shit though.

justnock:
Every yellow pawpaw lady is possessed...in the mind of an average Nigerian.

Let me tell you a story;
A friend of mine went to his church on Sunday morning. He sat beside a very pretty lady, in the church hall. He had a chat with the lady just before the service commenced properly. He asked her for her phone number but she said after the service. My homeboy was cool with that. He had fallen for her, already.
During the service, the man of God began praying and the lady started to manifest.
She fell to the floor and started rolling like a snake.
Question: If you were to be in my friend's shoes, would you still collect her phone number after the service?

I know guys who would still collect her number. U only fear what can kill u.
An acquaintance and neighbor of our once picked a lady from the road when we were in Aba years back. There was one very popular road being known to be associated with ghosts and spirit things.
Later in the night we heard screams of Terror and the boy ran out of his apartment naked only clutching his bedcover screaming where is she where is she. We woke up and ran into his flat but the lady he had picked was no more there. Guy says he woke up to pee after they had had several rounds and slept off. He says act was uneventful apart from his noticing she was physically very cold, her body was alittle too cold, colder that normal when two people are nyashing. He said she was lying on the bed when he returned and the lady that was lying on the bed suddenly was standing by his wardrobe naked and then she suddenly grew lots of hair and was no-more there. That scared the hell outta him and he ran out screaming.
Anyways we didn't find it funny, we looked for her outside. Even drove around but never saw her.
One would have thought the guy would have grown a brain but he didn't. Drove out the next night to look for another lady to bed.
I didn't see it myself so still doubt whatever happened that day. I don't believe such things though cos the guy could have dropped her or saw her off and forgotten he did.

Chamber2000:
And I wan toast u before. Sorry no vex for my thought.


I dey fear mammy water and Pappy water biko.


I had this classmate back in my secondary school days who always stay to herself and rarely contribute to anything nor discussion. I was her only friend because I was good in government and English Language.

My seat mate one day got her angry and the next day he came back with stories of how the girl flogged him in his dreams that he cries like a baby. I told the girl what my friend said and she just laughed that I somehow believed my friend.

One day out of Puberty syndrome that people call konji today I playfully touched the girl's breast because her breast were firm and look succulent from her school uniform. Na there my problem for SS3 start. She playfully told me not to do it again which is Amber and Green if you know you know.

That night I saw the girl in my dreams and the way I was flogged by her and her seat mate. I cry like pikin that I had to wake up in the midnight and couldn't sleep. I was like why this girl go flog me like this for only breast wey I press when Anna our neighbor has not broke my head for squeezing her own.

I accosted her the next day and she laughed over it then I warned her seriously and told guyz in the class what happened. People were just looking at her like a witch in class and it even got to my Form mistress.


That night the beating I got was so severe by her and some ladies that I had to start screaming and my uncle and his wife ran into our own room and my aunty started praying and she put this Catholic Scapula on me.

I explained to them what happened and they scolded me and told me to go apologize to the girl. I went and apologize to the girl the next day and I only told my seat mate that this whip mark on my neck was from the girl lashes.


Fear woman.


Fear women

Which Nigerian movie is that?

samtinx:
I concur and I am also not in anyway saying that the non-virgin lady should not be a blessing to her man, but come on bro with the rate of paternal drama we have been seeing of a recent shows that our generation needs to be encouraging virginity on both sexes because my brother we have failed Grace, and we are at that point of abusing it already

Ah well! Me think it's a personal thing. Ofcos we advise our children and family to stay Virginia and all but ofcos implementation is another thing.
I think where we should concentrate is character building and making them understand situations and how to tackle it. If we breed and raise monsters, then it won't matter who is a virgin or non-virgin

Omar09:
Lol if we no yab, na women go yab am. With time and with the right big bros, he will grow bolder.

He has already lost the lady.

Looks like that doesn't it? No he hasn't lost her just yet. He reminded me of my days in school, I made such mistakes too but had to learn fast. He only needs time to brush his game up.
His best action now is to remove all form of contact. Since he is soft with her, he removes anything that will remind him of her or make him weak when he sees her. He has to show strength, he has to make her question her power over him. Once he is able to do that and keep her uncertain, he slowly starts winning back what she thinks she has over him. That's just the first step.

hazard7:
Am surprised that guys like you still exist in this 21st century. You made a mistake that's all,just don't try to force the issue. You can still get your girl back by:
1)DHV (demonstrating high value)
2)Reading Ubunja's miseducation and apply it.
3)Go and make money as some SIMPS will tell you.
Whatever choice you choose may the force be with you.

Lol, looks like this Jewman @ hazard7 or is it @hardon is back again with his myopic views. But I was really surprised to see that he actually gave the OP the best advice so far apart from the Nr 2, pls at no time must the OP read that crap written by @Ubunja. I can only advice, but what the OP does is his problem.