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No evidence

Was she counting it?

It was best she said over a 100 times, that stating 400 times.

Samantha124:
No, I don't want to.

Even your people here in SA don't bother learning our languages.

I am not talking of native language.

Just like queen's english, pidgin english is also a general spoken language in Nigeria.

You have to learn pidgin, by hook, or by crook 🤝

Samantha124:
But you're the one who went looking for the stress by quoting me..😂😂😂

Why should I learn pidgin when I'm not a Nigerian or based in Nigeria?

You have to learn it, because you are using Nairaland.

Why you no dey ear word?

To arrest this man dey hungry me!!!

Let him return back the private jets he uses back to his gullible members.

Nigerian pastors are living in opulence, at the detriment of their members, through seed sowing, tithing, offerings and freewill donations and contribution.

Samantha124:
Can you just for a moment forget my nationality and have a decent interesting discussion?

I mean we're all Africans after all... So why are you trying to put up a barrier by bringing in my nationality in this discussion when it has nothing to do with it

😂😂😂...

Because you are stressing me mentally, you need to learn pidgin english, or better still, find a Nigerian lover.

Keepamsafe:
Im sincerely confused and will go straight to the point.

I met this girl about a year back, fair, pretty and hardworking. I could tell from where i met her. We got talking and all that, but then we just stopped talking along the line but still having each other number and viewing status. This went on for about 8 months.

Just about 3 weeks back, the thoughts of her occupied my mind, so i texted and ask us to hangout. And we did..  I wanted to do it the traditional way, so I asked her out that day, that I wanted her to be my girlfriend.

She was surprised cos we was not talking for months and now all of a sudden, I want her to be my GF. So, she said she would think about it and it's been 2 weeks now and she hasn't given me an official YES or NO.


Just few days ago, I invited her over to my crib and she came, spent the night... Wow. And we had a hot night... sěx inclusive...


So, I'm confused, is the sèx an indirect yes? And i can start my boyfriend duties? Or i should keep waiting for an official yes?


Mynd44  OAM4J Mynd44 Rocktation Nlfpmod Seun Dominique lalasticlala help for wider opinion please

Abeg which one be boyfriend duties?

Samantha124:
Meaning?

Meaning; Is that how you guys behave in South Africa?

Samantha124:
But you guys are missing something here, let's be honest here... I father can no longer be financially supporting a daughter that is no longer a virgin.

Because immediately she starts sleeping with men, she becomes their responsibility, unless she's working and is able to provide for herself.

Imagine a girl that's sleeping with her boyfriend anyhow going to her father to ask for money for sanitary pads, when she has a man that's been drilling that same hole she needs sanitary pads for.

Immediately a girl becomes sexually active, then her mother should become her father's only responsibility since she's his wife and the one sleeping with him... Unless the father still insist on sending her the money.

Na so una dey do for South Africa?

Samantha124:
1. I wouldn't have to worry about monthly periods disturbing my peace.
2. I wouldn't have to buy any sanitary pads or tampons.
3. I wouldn't have to worry about the society expecting so much from me.
4. I wouldn't have to worry about getting pregnant and nurturing the baby.
5. And I want to know what it's like having that morning wood..

Jesus wept 😁

southsouthking:
Those are sensible questions he was asking there.

Nigerians can sometimes become too emotional.

Just listen to yourself, when there are so many evidence that shows that Nairamarley is behind his death.

Well, as far as i am concerned, if it were to be my brother, those men will go down, one by one.

Klass99:
Why do men (husbands) stand by and watch their wives maltreat helps, without intervening and putting an end to the maltreatment?

What I find most annoying is how you men who are supposedly the head of the family/household, allow these things to happen and repeatedly occur in your homes. While saying nonsense like madam will accuse me of taking sides with the help or accuse me of sleeping with her.

Where does all that logical, alpha male energy you like flexing, suddenly goes to, in the face of cruel treatment of helps? Is the logical thing to do not to caution your wives and end the maltreatment? You people will not do it but will continue to shout we are logical.

Some of you married folks will sha not make heaven because of this issue, both of you, as in, husbands and wives, who do this.

Modified to add; You men are unbelievable . I logged in to see 12 mentions of this post. And not one of you has made a valid point in defence of the lackadaisical attitude you display when your wives maltreat helps. The only thing I have read is excuses......one excuse after another and claims of men not being aware of the maltreatment.

Newsflash, every true life story of a help being mistreated, which I have read on this forum, was authored by a man/husband. Meaning men are often aware of what goes on in their households. Now, most of you are claiming the men are not usually aware. Please tell me another story

Your complacency in this matter makes you just as guilty as the perpetrators (your wives). Excuses are tools of the incompetent, they that use them are not wise. You all can do better o. Please flex those muscles and know when to be an unrelenting hard ass in your homes and quit making excuses. It's nauseating coming from men who should be taking charge.

You have nothing to say!

Because most of the time, the women don't maltreat the househelp in the presence of their husband.

[quote author= post=125811188]Headless mobs as usual.
Why not wait for the people in charge to carry out a thorough and due investigation to know the actually cause of Imole's death?

We are one of the people that this boy's death really got to,
For personal reasons.
But we just see that people are just throwing around many names and everyone just following themselves sheepishly and foolishly.
If Naira Marley is found guilty, then he should face the consequence.
But let proper investigation be carried out instead of all these abeg.

Rest in Perfect peace Imolenization.
It is well.[/quote]Which stupid investigation are you talking about?

When the police PRO and commissioner has been dining and wining with the culprits.

What do you expect the investigation report to be?

Acekidc4:
Ndi Ala People are trying Small Small but it will take them 650 years to measure and catch up with Lagos Current and Present Level right now Which will never happen cos Lagos will keep Developing at an Alarming rate!! They will continue doing Catch up till eternity!!

So what happened to Ogun, Osun, Oyo, Ondo 🤣🤣🤣

Nigeria is a Beast Of No Nation

Once you are rich and powerful, you can get away with heinous crime like this one.

No respect for the rule of law, the judiciary is nothing to write home about.

What a country

Every year they keep shutting 3rd mainland bridge down.

What a nation.

Angelfrost:
How??! Didn't the royal council release a letter dissociating themselves from his actions??!

What did you expect them to tell the public before?

Angelfrost:
Did the entire Elegushi community harm the late singer??!... It's so easy for you people to call for war, but if e start now, una go first run.

With the way it is, elegushi community are supporting Sammy Larry.

Since the police are protecting the offenders, it is high time ikorodu boys do the needful against elegushi community.

Beast Of No Nation 😡😡😡😡

inoki247:
Lol Nigeria Police and always having story to cover dere cluelessness....


A dead man is defenseless....


This life be contented before you av a friend or join any group do ur research nd findings mak u no go put ursef for Journey of no return Justice no dey Nigeria.....


When he was having issues he should av jus gada money find one small European country or even US at least where you know there's some sanity be Singing if na for TikTok challenge song nd just stick to dishing out Song online nd maybe avoid physical shows this would av save him from all the physical exposure he was getting nd getting bullied....

Mohbad was already making money, what he ought to have done is; When ever he has shows, he is supposed to move with 10 strong men from ikorodu, coupled with police men numbering about 5.

Terrible

Ukafor:
My gf got pregnant (5month) by mistake, abortion wasn't the ryt option i have no other option than to take responsibility, the problem here is that she need anti and post natal care the nurse tel me that the baby is not in good position no proper care for the baby and can't pay for the hospital bills(40k) am an aprentice as u all know it very hard to take care of her am earning litle from the work i as an aprentice pls nairaland should help save my gf and the bady b4 it got to 7 months pls am afraid pls any amount pls 2217978727 zenith bank 4 months from now my baby will be born all this insult wil be my past they is always a way were they is no way, if u insult me bcus i ask for help well karma is real what comes around goes around.... Wil b back when my baby is born.

Just listen to yourself fess, this format ain't gonna work.

Nobody send your papa 🤝

LeoDeKing:
Thief pandora Obituary right now.

U dey laugh a fulfilled billionaire, when you future get k-leg

Thug advise thugger

Glitcher:
I don't want to sound tribalistic but more than 90% of the people spoiling Nigeria's name abroad is Igbo and they never ever condemn it. Its normal to them but the wrongs other do is sin. This is hypocrisy.

You don't want to sound tribalist, but you are sounding tribalist.

The other crimes being committed by the Yorubas are what?

Nice2023:
Say what u know. Industrial milk is gotten fresh and used for the production of cheese,butter and name it but to convince u more.

Buy a Dano refill milk and go to any shop that sells from the big bag and ask them to sell u a mudu from the big bag...then u will understand that what i am saying. They are the same both in smoothness,colour and taste.

Do u also know that we have milo in big bag.?

That a topic for another day.

My man, so because they have same colour, taste and smoothness, makes it domestic use?

Margarine and butter looks and tastes almost the same.

Tell me how, and where in the world, a company will produce a product, such as milk in larger quantity, and sell it for domestic use.

Being a 25kg bag automatically makes it an industry milk.

Although it might be ok, for direct consumption, but i am 1000% certain, that this milk, was produced for industrial usage

If Nigeria police pay you that money, make i bend...

Hunter has been hunted

IconicR:
No I don't need anyone's likeness here
I'm talking about outside here, I'm surrounded by love

Madam no right thinking soul loves you, the only love you get are the love for the same tribalist political agents just like you.

IconicR:
Thousands do
So you are insignificant

Yes, other thug ass lickers like you

IconicR:
You can't call me out till after one year
I believe everything is fine

I don't like you ❌❌❌

They couldn't buy a proper coffin or what?