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another poster seeking for a gender war

vals day for me was hell raiser. i had planned to take the day off at the office. my manager agreed. but incidentally, one of our staff was sent on an official assignment. i ahd to stand in for him. my manager promised that i'd be at the office till 12 noon then i can go home. called my fiancee and told her the developments. she saw reasons with me. vals day: i had more than my fair share of work. clients swooped on me like hornets. i stayed till 3pm before i left.
stopped at the eatery to pick up some yummies for me and her. eatery was filled to capacity. when it got to my turn, they had run out of my orders. i left in anger. by this time, my girl had be 'flashing' my phone like i was lost. had to do a quick shopping for her.
took a bike. on the way, the bike was swerved off the road by a speeding trailer. we landed in the bush-though unhurt, my gifts were ruined - cake squashed, juice cans dented etc, etc. thank God it was near my home so i walked the remaining distance.
at home there was power failure. no music, no nothing. everywhere was hot and stuffy.
cooked a meal for her. but midway through my cooking, i ran out of gas. i had to look for kerosine to make up.
she came at last, looking all beautiful and sexy. i was yet to clean up the place. she did not mind at all. we had the most romantic dinner on the floor of the kitchen.

i live in benin.

raphy:
i think some people in da nl need to c a doc some 1 like badyru
u don't have manners taikin to people u beta see your doc k u well soo wht is wrong wit d thread u son of a dog or daughter of jezeble

all these insults are not necessary

you want the truth? what you are feeling is the kind of feeling that leads to distruction. for crying out loud, the pastor is married. imagine you are the wife and some girl from nowhere starts haunting your husband. i think you should retrace your steps and find the one for you and leave the pastor alone.

are they recruiting at the moment? i'll like to get more info about them

well, i do not know if doctors are greater flirts than other professionals, but one thing i know for sure is that there is this doctor that is stalking my fiancee all around and if care is not taken, i would be forced to 'deball' him

it was back in the days when i was in the secondary school. there was this girl i was trying to woo. so one day, the agricultural science teacher told us to get bamboo stems to support yam tendrils in the school farm. this girl then asked for my assistance. i saw this as a chance to play my cards on getting her. i went into the nearest bush and cut 2 heavy bamboo stems. dragging them through the thick maze of undergrowth was one story; the itch the bamboo caused me was another. not to talk of the blazing sun of the dry season that day.
guess what the cow of a girl said when i finally presented her bamboo to her? she just pouted her dirty mouth, let out a long heart rending hiss and calling my name , she said 'you are so lazy o. so of all the bamboo in the bush, na dis toothpick you see bring?'
i felt like committing murder that day!

option4301:
Aids will soon deal with you.Clap for having eight girlfriends!
Ride on with promiscuity!

then show your girl the test results. what matters is what your girl says and believes.

i once dated a girl who ploughed the same furrow yours is ploughing now. i was with her one fine valentines day when she received an sms. she read it and then just shrugged. i asked her what it was, she said that it was nothing important that it was just a 'toaster'. i left it at that.
2 days later, she told me to set the timer on the phone. she was using a really hi-tech and complicated phone and i just kept surfing and surfing and i did not know when i stumbled on the sms. out of curiousity, i read it. my God! i was stunned. come and see love composition. and to think that my girl still kept the message 2 days after it came.
long story short, she started having an affair behind my back. i had to kick her out before it became worse.
my brother, there is no need painting issues. if she has been doing all that you have said, then she is having an affair with her boss. ask her if her boss pays her for working extra hours. or is she the most dedicated and hard working in the entire company?
my bros, you have an edge if u confront her. no one is worth tearing ur heart apart for

if the kids did not pose a threat when he proposed to marry you, why do you think they would when he has tied the knot finally? see, let me tell you something, be the nice sweet and caring person that you are; i mean those qualities that you displayed that got both of you attracted to each other in the first place, display enough of it - both to the man and the kids. love is not about competition on who get more of the affection or who gets less, it's about complimenting. where one fails, the other assists. in that way, the love grows and the undestanding between partners improves.

love at 12? it is not a bit early?

what about sleeping over in your girlfriend's place?

well, if i got the 1st line of your post very well, you said you are in love with a man, heck! if you love someone, you love everything about that person. his family, his lifestyle, his religion. hope you get my point. if he's got all you want and he treats you like an equal, he does not allow the age gap to surface in the relationship; he treats you like a queen, the kids love you as well and you LOVE HIM too then go ahead: MARRY HIM.

mubowa:
dvampire
it already happened, i mean what happen to you, i never knew i was going to be the next victim

honeypie, life's like that. full of surprises at each twist and turn. my advice to you is that you move on. it's not easy at first but with time, your heart will heal up. i'm telling you this from experience. no man is worth dying for. that's the real truth. so please keep your head up and move on. surely, the guy who will appreciate your worth and treat you like the queen which you are will definitely come your way.

my guy, follow the 2nd girl. let the first one go. let her learn that she cannot play with your heart like it were a football field.

now, that is not fair. why do guys sometimes bring the hammer on themselves. i think you should be cautious and matured about this. i don't believe in risky relationships. if my partner starts this kind of thing, there's only one option= leaving the person before the person leaves you HEARTBROKEN.

i could not help noticing that you are a guy according to ur profile; but in ur post u referred to ur boyfriend and this kind of got me thinking. are u gay?

well, looking at it from now, it seems ok. hope something else does not come to scuttle it.

i just started the year on a sour note in my relationship. my girl (sorry ex-girl) said she is going back to her former guy that she still loves him. that is after making me spend my hard earned money on giving her great romantic and candle-lit dinners this christmas. and to think i was going to propose to her at the end of the month.(well, shit happens). then i'm trying to change jobs. and my family is doing just great.

guy, they have a saying in my native tongue that one searches for a black goat in the day time and not at night. now is the time for u to put your acts together and do those things that will make u stand out or else, she will be screaming the guy's name when u are on top of her (or is it the other way round?). whichever, i hope you get the gist.

@topic: don't worry. heartbreaks are a part of relationships. with time, you'll develop the kind of shock absorber that i have when it comes to dealing with heart breaks. right now, i'm shock resistant.

then keep your fingers crossed and wait for saturday. afterall there's nothing that the ear will hear that will make it bleed.

@ radiant: my sister it is o. i hate it when people just die in silence and then yell 'save me! save me!' at the dying minutes when its way beyond help stage.

nigeria would be ok

@mobuwa: thanks girl. i'm cool. it's just that i've been dealing with a lot of things lately.

your post is not clear enough. is it that u and her have been dating and she wants to call off the relationship or that she was tripping for u before and she was afraid to say it and now she wants to break the ice? details pls.

talk to him about so that u know where u stand

me thinks ladies do most of the breaking up. what are my reasons? most girls i've come across pick on slight things to call off a relationship. eg he does not care about my feelings, he is too disturbing, he does not give me space, he is stingy, he is a mamas boy. the list is endless abeg. not to talk of if the guy is not able to meet up with their financial requirements.