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the guy is actually Hot. cant you all see it in his eyes?

the bride is happier of course, while the groom sits there planning in his mind how to pay for the canopies which was hired on credit.

sorry its a good omen that u are coming out of the feeling. gosh i really need to read threads before i reply

bad omen. thank God u are coming out of it

like i said before, poverty really has a way of turning some able bodied men into sex peddlers. any ways keep up the good work. money na money no matter how you get am. abi no be so?

by putting your mind to more purposeful things thats how. when me and my ex broke up, it felt as if my world had crashed. but then, i decided to take up one of my hobbies and develop on it (as a diversion so that i would think less of her and the hurt she caused)
it worked for me as in no time, i overcame the feeling. try to school your emotions. its not easy but it helps. moaning and groaning over it wont help. get up and face reality. thats what a man is cut out for.

whatever u choose to do, remember that STDs exist. remember that u'll one day have daughters of ur own and i hope u'll be happy when some other guys uses ur daughter like a banging machine.
not like i'm trying to sound religious, but my guy, the choice u made aint worth it. what if in the course of ur 'vandalization' u mess with ur future wife? surprised? yes, many people have messed up their chances because of recklessness that stemmed from unguarded anger and the thirst for revenge.
man, get a life and move on. let God take care of the rest.

she was more of a disappearing act kind of lady. one moment she's with me, the next, she's disappeared for like 3 months with no calls from her and she not picking mine. it was all to frustrating.
there were nights, long lonely and wet nights when i was dying to share the pains in my heart with her, she was not there. i bore my problems and travails alone.
words started going round that she was dating the manager of her outfit. later, i found out it was true. i bore the pains alone.
one morning after months of her disappearing antics, she called at my office. she wanted us to start all over again. i suudenly realized that i no longer loved her. we had drifted apart. i had moved into my protective shell and my heart did not stir inspite of her tears. there was no trust - nothing but an empty space where her thoughts once occupied.
i made her realize that she left me when i needed her the most. only God knows what must have happened between her and her manager that made her come running back to me.
i told her that her moves had extinguished a once roaring flame. there was noting left but cold ash in the chimney of my heart. i told her to move on with her life that as for establishing a relationship again, that i dont see it happening. it was over between us. she had killed what mattered the most and there was nothing she could do to win that love back.

TO HELL WITH GIRLS WHO THINK THAT MATURITY CAN BE MEASURED BY AGE. that is why i feel sorry for them. my guy, leave the girl alone. she has been busy sampling older men's 'abunnas' and feels that she will be stooping low to date u. move on and find other girls jare. that is why many of them end up being dangerous spinsters at 45

continue being friends with her. show her care but not suggestive ones sha. like you said, she is going through a traumatic time; maybe she is trying to get over the pains of a failed relationship and she sees starting another one is the fastest way out of it. just be good to her, with time she'll understand.

most stupid thing i did for love was having a bike accident in 2002 simply because i was trying to revive a fast-dying relationship. funny enough, the girl did not pay me a visit at the clinic; though my friends confirmed that they told her.

my brother, prepare yourself for anything. like a popular pidgin english stated 'old firewood must catch fire'. that is what your girl is experiencing now. look do the best u can. talk the length u can. act the capacity u can. your relationship is going through trying times. u have to be realistic in approach.
u did well by stating the edges u have over the guy but the point is u never can predict what rocks a woman's boat. why do u think mel gibson did the movie 'what women want?' step up and show her more care and attention. relationship no be only fanta and meat-pie o. there are some times u have to deal with the gravels.
but if no headway in the results, my guy bolt.

this piece is actually meant for the ladies in the forum but the guys are ever so welcome to say something.
ladies, assuming u are ready to settle down and there are 2 guys that u have to choose from. guy 1 is so poor that he can hardly afford to get garri to drink yet, he is prolific in bed and can make u feel like a woman anytime. guy 2 is drop-dead rich but the problem is that u will never enjoy sexual bliss in your matrimonial home because of the fact that his 'machinery' will never function for life. both are caring guys in every aspect.
the question is who between the two guys would u choose?

what complications are we talking of here? is it painful sex? well, yes. that is as a result of the rupture of the hymen during intercourse.

babe 1 is definitely ruled out of the game by my own assessment. relationship needs time to bud and blossom and if only one of the partners is providing it, then it will not work out.
the choice is now between babe 2 and 3. babe 3 seems more like the favoured pick but there are no details about her homely nature. does babe 2 have those domestic traits in her? can she make a good home manager? cos beauty does not make a good pot of soup nor is it a mark of respect for the hubby to be.

online crush. careful girl. not everything is as good as it sounds

i'm a disvirgined virgin

una don start again.

you see, na only chicks na im dey contribute for this topic. go out with the one you like

guy get your life back on its groove. you saw her holding guy on the neck and you dey lament like this? what if you had seen him banging her brains out? you would have jumped in front of a moving trailer? guy move on joo. she is not the only girl in the world.

can anyone in the forum please send me the lyrics of paul play's 'angel of my life'? my brother is giving me sleepless nights over it.

@ topic : not again! dont you ever learn? you've raised this same alarm sometime ago and some members of the forum gave you useful suggetions. did you not find any of them good enough? now you are pregnant again? are condoms extinct in your area or is his semen 'acid- venom' that it melts through the thing?

dont seem to understand you here. could you be a lil bit more explanatory?

there is no need keeping a relationship that you get beaten up, milked out dry of all your finance and then left emotionally abused. see, at this age and time, you need to have focus in a relationship. what and what do you need from a relationship? that you should ask yourself. if your guy does not respect you and treat you like the queen which you are now that you guys are having an affair how are you sure he will improve when you guys are married (that's if that happens).
i've learnt to think and make long-term plans in any relationship i find myself so i dont get carried away by the illusions of the present; cos we have a saying in our land that says: i no fit climb tree na for ground dem dey talk am no be when you don hook for one branch becos to come down fit be wahala.

i wonder why you are giving yourself headache. just join the church one time and your problems are over trust me.

that was in 2001. had a terrible malaria attack. i started seeing things-dreadful things like beautiful naked girls chasing me all around.

i wonder o