Dreamhighnow:
You mean this empty hall. ANa hin aides full the place sef. Spit

If u undrstnd say na 0.000001% dey control dis our world u wl kw dat no be every goat n chicks go dey der

Growing up I watched how my dad and others dad's in the community struggles on daily basis.
I remember we can't even think of saying, Baba please buy me Bicycle or Ball, all you can hope for as a kid is to get the next meal for the day.
Between 5years to 10years I also discover there are others who can buy whatever they want.
I discover most of the kids in that house select food they eat unlike us that just hoping to see anything even if it's Garri and Saccharine or just Garri.
Fast forward to now, 80% of us can only say thank God for life and atleast we dey see something.
This struggles still on and very few made it though and can boarst of Car, House, Business and Millions in the account.
From the Ghetto where I grow up, alot still look upto us as dose who are lucky because we got a job working in the bank or some known companies.
Most cases with your Degree, Same office, Same branch, you will be the security or office assistant while the other is your manager, HR.

Yet at that we can't meet ends need Daily, Weekly, Monthly and Yearly without taking loan, borrow money, sell few things to get others done, bring out money for emergency, can't assist your best friend with 100k, can't send 50k monthly to your parents, can't do giveaway, visit the opharnage for support, feed few widows and lots more.

Just few people can conveniently do this things.

Why this Money Hard like this?

Why be say with all the struggles na few people still fit do basic things conveniently?

I no just understand how this life is.

If he likes let it strt in next 1seconds.. We got no bleep to gv

Its prevents new Corp Members to be jumping into dem for Job applications

U left SS and SE and gave Kogi that produce 80% of its food and still surrended by states dat produce 80% of der own food as Number 1
Una analysis ehhn even Fooool wl nt come up wt it

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
agbado man don go print form post online. govt of propaganda

U are sick in all ramification sir

To be Muslim he better mk i die religionless

Ikaeniyan0:
I wander why the people of Ogun state voted for him again

dey didn't vote... PDP was destroying him until he did his wickedness

From Agbado to Oke Aro, Aro Lambo to Lambe...U wl nvr like dat man called Abiodun...Dat man na Satan

amalgram69:
Abeggi. Una no talk before him die oh.
Una just dey use him name now dey trend.

Wen u no dey Alive..may be u dey Coma past years

U see Ogun Governors and dis current one
Dey are cursed
Worst roads in Nigeria na Ogun state.

I will never allow my daughters or sons to marry frm dat state bc be like ancestral curse dey der blood.

Shame shame shame shame shame

EkelediliBuhari:
Let’s agree this is my story….

Pardon my long write up but I needed to get a perspective from a fresh eye/mind. I’m married for 3 years now with 2infants.

Am I overthinking or does my wife have other plans?

My dad is an established accountant with over 3 decades of experience at the highest level of his occupation in 2 multinationals. He is now retired and consults. Presently, he lives a day at a times cos he barely has plans for his firm (he is over 70 and doesn’t have anybody he’s training his my mom).

I have a good career earning almost a million monthly with side gigs that keeps me liquid (meeting all my family’s basic needs). Monthly upkeep of 200k mainly for feeding while I pay utilities and still bring out cash (no fixed amount) from time to time. Presently am setting up a firm for contracting and consultancy.

My wife is a caterer (she loves cooking and baking) whom I have supported over the years. She has gotten much better and I have invested in her business. Presently she has all the basic requirements for her work and she works from home. We live in a 4 bed and converted one to her studio (fully furnished - AC tables shelves etc).

Over the years I have encouraged her to focus on entrepreneurship. This will give her total control of her time. This way the kids get her attention while she handles business which I hope to one day retire into. I make sure she doesn’t contribute her personal funds to the home as I advise her to save for rain days. I have encouraged her to work closely with my dad to earn experience as they share same profession hopefully take over the firm in time while I groom mine for which she is the major shareholder (I’m not even a shareholder).

Overall, do not look for a 9-5 like me, let’s grow a business.

However, she applies for jobs here and there. Just this morning she woke up as early as 4:30am applying for a customer service position and had to wake me up to correct her cover note.

At this point I feel like giving up on her. I feel she just wants to have a paying Job for whatever reason. But I know know the downsides; no time for the kids, 40-80% of income goes on expenses, work stress, regrets - now you can’t quit because you have to prove you can do it.

Am I being unreasonable telling her not to work and focus on developing her business skills?

NB: I have never discouraged her in her business rather encouraged/ advised and funded.

Modified: for those insisting I let her be, how do we plan our future if we share separate visions?? When has working ever made anyone rich??

If she gets an IOC opportunity I’ll definitely support tho, but these are not the toes she’s applying for 100k -300k

Please allow her to work.. Humans are never satisfied until dey hv to pay fr it one way or the other.. Especially married women.
Let her get her job n by time she see shege, insults, stress, restlessness, pressure from Customer service job ehhn na she go run comot by den don't gv her any support immediately until her head totally format fr good.
Dis may sound like waste of time like 1yr but dis current one u are dragging can tk 5yrs to 10yrs to settle n na u go still chop blame

Women wahala too much as dey are Born or Naturally Brutal but men are pushed to it.

My advise as a Married Man.

izonborn098:
Another nonsense post....

hahahahahahaha experience is the best teacher... No married man wl be against it or disagree totally.
Women are naturally born Brutal, bc ur mom is nice to u no mean say she good to her husband, inlaws or her helpers in d past.

iammo:




Personally as a guy, you can't be my friend if you don't have one of this vices

Smoke

Drink

Or

Womanize


Men without vices are very strict, boring and sometimes wicked


.

I don't do any of dis and am good to go.
I love women but I don't womanize.

Women lies in court bc dey kw dey wl be heard
400 times.. Even wife u marry keep fr house una no nack 400 times in 5yrs 😂😂😂 wen no be Toto person com life naack
Habba Kafiri dont be fulllisgh

See as Igbos and Christians dey see appointment like play.
Yet we dey shout MM tkxts and so forth

Fix the ECONOMY
Fuuuckkk NIN

Ppl wey use Gregory cashout no small
All lies about Tinubu is shaking, unhealthy.. We nvr see anyone sha ooo

helinues:
Do those people qualified to be in that position?

Without their relatives, if they are capable in their professions, wouldn't they be offered an opportunity by whoever?

life is not run dat way.
In Nigeria if we are to consider best hands fr Military som tribes best at it, business som are best, Administration som are best and so forth.
So bc Benue ppl are bat at Military shld mk dem all occupy the military.
There is wht we call spread of power, wealth and decency.
He can easily cover up fr his dad and vice versa
Mk God gv us wisdom and good ppl

doggedfighter:
Thought yorubas aren't into this kind of thing.




Was I wrong ?

It is rife in Igbo land.

Able bodied men, parents and even married sisters shamelessly dragging properties with a late man's wife.

Sometimes they accuse the wife of killing the man just to justify their greedy selves.


It's been receiving condemnations lately even though much is yet to be achieved.



Why should you take all and leave a man's widow and children with nothing?


It's shameful and no responsible and self respecting family should be involved in this.

wht if na side chick she be?
U see dis Lagos wey I come so ehhn..i don see yeye tins plenty.
Most ppl u think are married just moved into d man's house n continue havin babies.
Dey can live lik dat till dey reach 100yrs die
If dats her case ehhn.. Mk she just go fight fr her child

Opon say na Obi dey vote
Tinubu wife shld hv considered states dat got dem der first.. Like Benue, Sokoto, etc

Revolution2022:
Sir publish your CSU certificate online let's compare with your fonts, signatures of CSU president,year of graduation and logos with tinubu's.I am sure there will be some discrepancies in both.

get a life n hv peace.
Tinubu don pass both u and una papa and political fathers.
You are left behind and suicide may be ur last hope

how is dis our issues here.
Her choice, and u can mk ur own choice too
Bc i no see why dis na issue at all

Dat one no still mk am get sense

So as i dey lik dis frm Primry school to NYSC Camp...person fit threaten me say i no go school...hahahahahahaha Allah Tinubu no go the school.

Me sha I abi APC and Tinubu person

ValarDoharis:
Thubv pretending to be doing something tangible abroad. Looking for a way to sneak to see his doctors

see who dey talk...gv ur type as u are currently to be incharge of ur LG u wl faint aftr 6weeks...Tinubu is vry strong..i respect d man wen he was able to move around fr his campaign...u think its easy to hv a sleepless night fr weeks..try doin somtin dat requires ur brain 3nights n see if u wont be admitted

Obidients wont like the last paragraph...Biden has destroyed dem patapata...chaiiii

Righthussle:
The religion is a fraud. Bunch of old thieves and liars.

I hear you but I will chose Christianity 1Bilion times to Islam..Infact i will chose to become an Herbalist to Islam

Good day guys

Please guys can you share experience with the best Power bank at 20k to 40k range.
I work from home and my Gen have suffered me too much, sometimes when working midnight and no light, Gen wont work.
Secondly fuel of 20k no dey do me for month, plus i buy data of almost 15k monthly.
The stress and fear of power can even kill one before the job does because your mind wont be at rest.
Solar power is not part of it, I have worked years with solar companies and they still pay us for fuel every months, meaning Gen is 50% more reliable than Solar.

hammerFC:
AFTER SUPREME COURT, NEXT IS THE STREET.



EITHERWAY, WE WILL REMOVE TINUBU.



NO PRRSIDENT IS ABOVE THE PEOPLE, THAT IS NOW IN THE PAST.

Wch ppl? The 6M against Tinubu 8M?
1 on 1 una go finish we 2M go still remain. 😁😁😁

If dey pack dat tin well..dey wl find many human remains der plus babies... Places lik dis in Lagos.. If ur waka pass am around 10pm to 2am ur name na gone.
You see dat Agege National road linking to Oshodi express ehhn... No just treck d road from 9pm to 2am..Ritualist go gbab u

garriAndsugar:
You can never learn the truth from this government

even if na u visit d site today post development of wht u saw.. Ur types here on Nairaland wl still call u a Liar.. So save ur energy cuz bleep no more available to gv fr free