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Mindfulness:
Good evening hun, how has your day been? Let's have some fun.

Lol! Not here three's a crowd. But do carry on.

P.s: the bold, red bit reminds me of a drunken weekend with some sisters aeons ago. Beautiful memories.

Kimoni:
Waoh! Guess who is here

Efe, you didn't see what I just did, right? Errmmmmm I was actually on my way out you know

No, dear. I didn't see it.

What did you see?

[size=1pt]***whisper it to me...***[/size]

Mindfulness.

Your video clips...

Evening bae.

armyofone:
uses of destiny

@Efe,

Your story made me laugh. The reply the guy gave his friends was befitting. "Wifey, take my destiny and use it" hahaha.

Thanks dear.

I used that story (sorry, didn't have time to edit the grammar) to illustrate to Mr Bennyrazz and those with a similar mindset that it works both ways. Most local beer parlours and drinking spots are particularly guilty of hosting men sharing stories of / advising their fellow menfolk against successful wives, even though such "advisers" are unaware of the dynamics of those homes.

lofty900:
fine, I'll be missing for a while because tomorrow morning I'm travelling to the north, kebbi state to be precise and I heard that no network over there, nothing like 3g, it's only 1g they have over dia

Lol! "g" na "g" be it ^1/2 a "g" or 1g, all join.

Journey's mercies.

bennyrazz:
those that compare themselves by themselves are foolish. Women running to their friends for advice in their relationship usually end up getting the wrong advice. I wish people could learn from this, your best friend may be your greatest enemy it only takes a discerning spirit to recognize this. Nice article @op.

Oh pls!

Going by the following excerpt, men are also guilty (and very gullible) of this too.



A man married his heartthrob. After almost 10 years in the marriage the wife became an Oil tycoon. She runs a thriving business that takes her to almost every part of the world. The husband. Still scraping by.
The woman loved her hubby. He drives her everywhere and she seeks out his opinion on almost all matters. Jolly fellows. The husband has 5 out of the 9 cars on the fleet. With the least being a 2012 Prado. Big boy. His wife takes care of him.
Okay the meat of the story. The man was with his friends at a regular hangout and the conversation that ensued is both hilarious and a huge lesson:
Friend: "You! I am sorry for you. Your wife has used your destiny. She's soo rich whilst you're merely scraping by. Doing fake big boy. We all know your wife is the source of all your bigboyism. Oloshi! You better think twice. Snatch your destiny away from her!"
Husband: "Thanks for the advice. You see let me tell you something you don't know o. I am 45 years old and for 35 years I never knew how to use my destiny. I was suffering. Even to eat na wahala! Now I got married 10 years ago to my wife and she knows how to use my destiny. Now I ride latest cars and travel with her to any part of the world that even you my friends haven't been before. I am going home now to inform my wife to continue using my destiny o. Infact! She must make sure she finishes it all. It must not remain"=

Source: Unknown.

lofty900:
but why did she marry him in the first place. By the way, long time no see

She married him on the assumption that he had the complete package, hence the abstenience.

Yeah, long time indeed-ie. How've you been?

dacovajnr:
Your point Exactly?

Her point is: sexual compatibility is a deal breaker in a marriage. You don't ask a newly wedded young wife to live without that key essential ingredient for the next 30, 40, 50, or possibly 60 years of married life.

lofty900:
She should accept the offer to cheat and remain married afterall the husband approved. EfemenaXY what do you think?

Sexual incompatibility. No kids (yet). She isn't happy with him.

She should leave him and start afresh. With someone whom she would find happiness, fulfilment, and content with.

Mindfulness:


Go ahead. I am following.

ezefelix:
Some years back, he got her pregnant, she delivered a boy, got her pregnant again, she still delivered a boy. 3yrs later, he sent her packing for no reason.. 16yrs after(Now) he's coming back for the teenage boys.. He's even threatening to sue her to court.

NOTE: He never paid her bride price neither did he performe any traditional marital rite.

Are there chances he will win?? Please your candid opinion is needed.

(((Rolls eyes...)))

Full story pls. His side preferably.

Mindfulness:
It won't happen. You are my favorite.

Cool.

Now let me go collect a few more scalps. So many dumb threads on here...

frozenSun:
And u see them with their smiling faces on TV, Billboards, Flyers, Book covers, Magazines. They be smiling like ALL IS WELL.

you will be full of pity for most of these Pastor&PastorMrs if u knew what really happens behind the scene plus the great pain and suffering they go through to hide all their nasty dirty secrets just to look like a PERFECT COUPLE living the PERFECT LIFE.

There is no such thing as the "perfect couple".

You only see what they want you to see, which is perfectly understandable as most folks are interfering at best.

Mindfulness:
There is zero s.exual tension, believe me. I am the sort of person who can disagree and argue with you on one topic and agree with you on another. I don't hold grudges. As for the change part, don't we all change all the time?

Okay then "perceived".

Alrighty - I get you. Just didn't want to lose you.

Lezzlie:
You paint an extreem scenario, and I'll advise separation than an outright divorce in such circumstances.

Would you in the same vein advocate for a separation if the tables were turned? Or is it one rule for her and a different rule for him?

Mindfulness:
I play this "game" too.

Happy Sunday dear.

A very happy Sunday to you too darling

Come, what's with the unbridled sexual tension with Mr *** of recent?? You've certainly changed your tune of recent - I almost don't recognise you...

Hope you aren't leading the poor boy on?

KingEbukasBlog:
She is not married . We are friends . We are single . She is nubile . She is my date prospect. Do you get the picture now ?

Then go back and modify your post. It's misleading.

EggovinMma:
There is everything thing wrong In unhooking a females bra o.Na so sexual perversion dey start. Tomorrow he may turn out to be a PhD holder in mammary deflation through his orifice. Na to suck breeeast up and down go be him specialty,

Ignorance is a crime.

You're right, you know. The @op doesn't have to go into details for anyone with half a brain to put two and two together.

Male sexual abuse is real and has far reaching consequences which eventually rears its ugly head later in life. Many of such men are unable to hold meaningful relationships with the opposite sex. You see evidence of the sexual abuse they suffered during childhood manifesting itself via them becoming chronic womanisers, having trust issues with little or no respect for the opposite sex, or such men having a penchant for much older women, not to mention the psychological damage. The list goes on.

Based on the thread's title, I was expecting to see the picture of a sexually starved woman (however such a woman is supposed to look beats me though).

Gaborone:
They question is, would they even accept to marry you or your likes in the first place?

Flowing from the above, it is actually in your best interest to steer clear of them after all, even the paths they walk, else with their rejection of your advances, you run the risk of losing the self esteem and the machismo, which you never even had in the first place.

Happy Sunday.

Gaborone!!

I tell my four year old daughter several times a day I love her, and she responds likewise. Then I respond with, "No, I love you more". Her reply? "No I love you more, more." And I'll be like, "No I love you more, more, more",followed with kisses and hugs.

T'is always a competition between us both on who loves the other more.

Nigerian parents need to lighten up a bit. Acting all hard isn't always the best and sort of explains why the country is infested with hardened criminals and murdering extremists.

cococandy:
Exactly. Imagine 'policewomen are not easy to tame'. Who goes into marriage looking for who to tame except a control freak?

You got in there before me babe.

@op: may our daughters never come across the likes of you and your ilk.

Amen.

tayo60:
Is it a regular sex that makes a woman fat after wedding? I have seen a lot of slim or slender ladies turning to fatty orobo when they get married. And I wonder what could be responsible for their sudden change in stature. A friend told me that once a lady gets married and starts having sex, she may starts getting fatter as a result of sperm deposits in her. I quite disagreed with her and decided to bring it to this forum for proper enlightenment. So dear nairalanders, is it true?

Ridiculous as your question might sound, I think I get the angle you're coming from.

Yes, I've heard that statement in the past, from way back when I was at Uni. A girlfriend who came visiting pointed out to her ex-roommate across the street that the once scraggly looking girl appeared fresher and more robust, ever since she moved in with her off campus boyfriend and was obviously having more sex with him.

To be honest her weight gain could simply have been a combination of her reacting to whatever form of birth control she was using, plus her (obviously) having unlimited access to his kitchen.

The "fresher" look could also have been due to that inner glow a sexually fulfilled woman gets from having regular (and satisfying) sex with her partner, coupled with her being in a more relaxed environment.

KingEbukasBlog:
Im confused here . I have a close female friend with whom I often hang out but damn she changes her mood a lot ! I'm really apprehensive about her marriage because unaccountable mood changes can ruin relationships and possibly marriages .

How can a man tolerate such a woman ? I need tips please

Her marriage is none of your business, neither is it your place to "wonder" how she can be tolerated.

For all we know, you're probably the cause of her mood swings, spending so much time "hanging" out with a married woman.

Rapsowdee01:
Oga !!! Chill na !!! I'm not the victim of this post... Someone sent it to me and i decided to drop it here.. Moreover, i'm a boy !!!

So a woman married for 26 years - an obviously matured lady, probably old enough to be your mother twice over, sent the friend / acquaintance of a mere boy a lengthy email for marriage advice?

Chronic jokers everywhere.

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Did you read the title of this thread before pasting your whatsit pictures on here??

KanwuliaJara:
Who cares if he is snatched or not?
Free world abeg!

GOOOOOOD RIDDDDDDAAAAAAAANNNNNNNCCCCCCCCCEEEEEEEEE!!!!!
Na only im get BLOKOS?
Wetin else im dey contribute for my life?

Abeg! Dis na new era o!
Na WOMAN BE BREAD WINNER!
Shior!!!!!!

Telling it like it really is since 3000B.C.

@OP: Who cares if he cheats? A woman's life doesn't begin and end with a man. Get real.

She either puts up with it, or they go their separate ways. And if she decides to cling on, she either gets her freak on too, or she doesn't - and he decides whether to stay or not.

Life doesn't have to be complicated.

azeezlateefah:
Was told she's has been considering suicide! This is getting out of hand.

Really.

From hörny to sucidal.

Fake story.

Recycled gist. Read it before.

Sometimes, having a "Financial cheat" in a union might be born out of necessity, especially if one partner / spouse displays an irresponsible attitude towards money.

Michellla:
She's Your Wife.
Take Your Stand & Tell Her To Remove The PassWord.

Is his wife a child to be dictated to?

Mindfulness:
Unrealistic?

Recently Omotola Jalade-Ekeinde posted on twitter that her husband goes to the market and plenty of people commented that he is a dunce and that she is disrespectful.

I don't even know how to comment on such a topic and what to answer such people without offending anyone.

I've never known you to shy away from speaking your mind...