₦airaland Forum

Kimoni:
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Efe, how come the emboldened is the first point you mentioned? Just asking ooo lol

Army, oya bianeba

**open your eyes let me look deeply
**open your palms, I need to observe something very important

Hmnnnnn...babes, what have you been up to recently

Skyken99:
He wanted to marry me and he attends another church.He has all the qualities I need in a man.My parents accepted but the proble now is that my church will excommunicate my family if I marry him because he doesn't attend the same church with me.

SHOUILD I GO AHEAD AND MARRY HIM OR SHOULD I FORGET HIM BECAUSE OF MY CHURCH AND THEIR TRAIT TOWARDS MY FAMILY?

Gaborone:
It is up to a man to express his love for his wife one way -this way- or the other.

It is also up to another to allow his wife go through all the stress there is in the world, while he maintains his traditional man posture as she crumbles under the weight. However, he shouldn't come complain to us that 5 years after contracting the marriage, the wife has started looking like his mother...

eluquenson:
Fantastic people of NL, here's another topic for us to discuss.....

"Is there anything wrong with a husband going to the market for his wife...?"

Let's hear your views

Kimoni:


Choi! This is the real "CHANGE" Nigerians have been searching for...lol

MRBrownJ:
it is PARENTS responsibility to cater for their children's needs, and not "elder brothers". if an elder brother can help once in a while then fair enough, but if you expect him to settle you every months while he clearly says he AINT got the money, then yes thats begging, and he has the RIGHT to complain endlessly about it.... as if being elder means you CANT be broke?! NONSENSE

stop trying to shift the issue here, and you shouldnt even have opened this thread, since you make your own money... "supposedly".... as we can clearly see that spending on small things such as Tfare and recharge card is an issue for you.

Kimoni:
Yeah, off limits. The blood cells are 'C" in shape and not "S" otherwise they have the same characteristics though doctors say the "C" is somewhat stronger than the "S".

Again, the "C" trait is found much more in the Caribbean, so you can guess where I truly come from but in the African continent, it's found more in Ghana.

There are other funny shapes/alphabets actually. I didn't realize this too until I retook the test in UK and had to go for for counselling. I thought the Jamaican woman attending to me was counting A, B, C...when she was listing the other alphabets that existed. lol

omonighoblessing:
spending much time with my family these days brings a lot of memories back......
I remember when I was much younger how I used to play on the mud.......cook food with sand and leaves...hahahaha bath my dull and dress her up.hahahahahahaha good old days ,yes good old days.
now seeing my kid sister do the same makes me wonder "don't these things fade out?"......attached here 're some of my kid sister play things.--imagine she would bath this dull 5 times a day,the dull has a nett fragrance than she.....lol.have fun

Kimoni:
Does the issue stem from your genotype?

I am AC and tend to have this issue during pregnancies or when I overwork myself but it normalizes once I start my iron supplements, take enough greens and give myself enough rest.

Pls take enough greens and rest well. I'm sure you'll be just fine.

armyofone:
Ladies, was told my iron is low even though i have been on iron suppliment....and the doc is planning to have me go on BC (Mirena or nexplanon)
I'm not really a fan and it's so confusing and draining.
I'm so getting twisted with the side effects I read about (weight gain, mood swing, depression) etc
I eat healthy so not sure what is going on.

EfemenaXY, Chillisauce, Kimoni, damiso, Edwife etc

ponkitibobo:
My friend is in a deep matrimonial sheet. I know some Thomases will not believe am routing for my friend. Anyway I will report the matter the way it is. And serious advice is solicited because life is involved.
My friend met Cynthia (an o level holder) during his days in the university. They parted ways wen my friend was about to graduate and Cynthia was not too serious about life. Fast forwarded to 2015 after parting for over 20yrs. Both have married. One thing led to the other they got connected back thru a friend who gave my friend Cynthia no.
My friend discovered from Cynthia (on phone) that she was having matrimonial issues. She has bn unable to have a child ( though not wedded) and her husband has gotten 2 children with another woman outside. She was in this trauma when my friend obtained her no. Her husband have sent her parking.This generated some sympathy in my friend. She initiated a vist and my friend granted. It was an outstation visit. That night she told my friend that her husband for over 4 yrs rarely have intimacy with her. May be thrice or four times in a year.
Cutting the long story short , they made love that night. Unprotected sex, despite d fact that he bought condom , he got carried away and did not wear it.
The lady got pregnant, ( no controversy about who is responsible cos the lady convinced us by swearing. She even said that if she knew she can conceive she would done it outside and leave her husband)
Issue of abortion is out. Last week the lady got delivered of a beautiful baby girl.
My friend has bn financially supportive. No more sex with her except that one that caused the pregnancy.
The issue is how should he handle this matter from here. Should he inform his wife about it. Or Neglect the woman or what ? Pls ur advice is needed. Because of my friends integrity the whole matter is between my friend, I and the lady. Pls ur advice is highly needed.
Mod kindly push it to FP for more response. Its an emergency pls
Lalasticlala abi wetin b ur monicker....wen less important issues like "Buhari is opening a bottled water all by himself" make the FP but mine because I no dey ur club abi. U no won push am go FP. Why not break this jinx for me once and for all

Kimoni:
it was Efe's birthday Awwwwwwww

Happy birthday to the "bluntest" soul on NL

May this be your best year ever!!! God bless your new age

Check out your gift below (your favorite face )

edwife:
Of course you know my stand on that... he is right. There might be a few exceptions but that's how women nowadays are wired.

I would have love to contribute but it is going to be very long and mostly i will pass as a female hater.

Dyt:
I don't think anyone here has escaped betrayal
We just have to deal with it and move on
I have been batteredly betrayed
My trust has been amended that it can't even glue again

I have seen it all but we learn to manage it and become better
Ndo

edwife:
I couldn't help it. Beautiful submission

Sagamite:
I am personally not a fan of marriage, but I am open to giving it to someone if it is that important to them.

They would need to prove to me they are worthy to be given it and they need to gaddamn sign a prenup.

If they can't do both, then "No marriage".

Mindfulness:
Whatever rocks their boat. If they desire a rich man, then so be it.
I wasn't looking for money when I was single.

I wanted a man who would respect and understand me, someone who respects himself, someone who tries to be the best he can be, someone who would be a caring father, someone who is smart and with whom I can have interesting and inspiring conversations, someone who is independent, someone who is honest and trustworthy, someone who values family, someone who is relaxed and enjoys life as much as I do, someone who appreciates art and literature, someone who is interested in politics, economics, traveling and foreign cultures, someone who is fun and has a good sense of humor, someone who likes to socialize but also lets me have time on my own, someone I can cook with together, someone who is open-minded, someone who loves to develop, someone who is not only into my appearance but who wants to know my soul and connect on a deeper level and OF COURSE someone who is handsome and attractive.

I didn't want a jobless and lazy man but money was not what I needed either. I have my own.




I am yet to meet a man who runs from a rich woman. I have never met such a man.



Not my business. As you make your bed ...

SirShymexx:
Loool.

I guess you've never had a partner higher than you.

A chic with power is a control freak and any time you get into any tiff, she's going to remind you of everything wrong with you and ya life.

My Ijebu chic won't turn into that type of monster cos we're from the same background, and I would've vetted her properly before getting involved with her. Yes, folks do change but she definitely won't change into a control freak.

SirShymexx:
Celestial PSA (Courtesy sukkot):

This is a message to all the uncouth, bitter, insolent, and illiterate overgrown village kids with daddy issues in this section (you know yourselves, even under ya alternate handles): you can rant all you want, abuse ya mums, cry as much tears as you can, and throw all kinds of hissy fit on the thread – but please don’t quote me. I’m not responsible for ya bitterness and daddy issues and, I’m not ready to baby-sit overgrown kids. I’m not ya dad. If you’ve any issues, go look for ya dad and straighten things out with him. Quote me and you won’t get a reply.

As for the sensible ones – you can shoot. I’m here to have fun and read interesting inputs for comic relief.

dangotesmummy:
lol.Ok I get it

How's your family tho

akike:
if I am interested, I will complain o but I don't think I can stand it without some mutual agreement!

And there is no way in hell, I would help out unless you are doing a general cleaning.

akike:
I totally agree with you. I am afraid I am never going to understand that ret.arded logic!

Someone told me that I need a man even if it is to fix bulbs. I felt like slapping him. I need a man to make babies, for intimacy but to fix a bulb .

Which seems more masculine? Farming or fixing a bulb?

akike:
I totally agree with you. I am afraid I am never going to understand that ret.arded logic!