₦airaland Forum

edwife:
I agree that the society has something to do with it,but the women themselves too.I know Nairaland is very fake with many pretentious folks who derive the pleasure of portraying something they are not.There is a site i visit,it is when i realise that things were not really what they seem to be,this is not to mock women or those ladies writing there because i respect them for their honesty and courage but to just see the real situation and i honestly wish them well.
Now looking for serious relationship and the percentage of ladies to men is 90% to 10%.

Just a few...

Those quotes of yours are absolutely depressing. Didn't you feel forlorn just reading a couple of their maniac depressive comments?

Phema:
Damn! The men are going to hate this.

How dare you breathe without them?

LMAO!!!

Howdy babes? Saw how you crushed Mr Handsomeytayo or whatever his name is/was. Pity he had the thread closed just when the fun was beginning...

Mindfulness:
Well, your posts reveal a lot about you. Your marital status, the number of your kids, your educational background, your lifestyle and attitudes. Advertising agencies pay a lot of money to get the info you freely share with the rest of the world.




Your government signed contracts.



The neighboring countries do not stand for the values the EU, your chosen homeland, stands for.

Then make them. Rome wasn't built in a day.

Mindfulness:
Yes, I know you. I have had the pleasure to read many of your contributions on this forum.
Terrorists will find their way to enter Europe anyway like other illegal immigrants also have in masses. And the fact that there are terrorists that may enter the EU is not a reason to not help innocent people who are trying to save their lives and those of their families.
The 9/11 terrorist attacks were NOT committed by refugees but by immigrants who have lived in Europe for a long time. Should we send all Nigerians home now because they may be recruited by Boko Haram?
I do so because I believe in humanity and fundamental human rights. I also do it, because as history has shown, my life in safety, comfort and security is not to be taken for granted and I and anyone else, who today is in such a position, should not only be grateful but remember that it is not necessarily a permanent condition. You don't know tomorrow so do onto others as ...
The peace you have been privileged to enjoy in Europe has been here for less than hundred years. In the first half of the 20th century, Europeans were the ones to seek refuge abroad and they were granted it.
Who says I can't? I can and I do so.
And even if you do not share my ideals, know that my ideals are what the European Union, your chosen homeland, stands for:
"Asylum is granted to people fleeing persecution or serious harm in their own country and therefore in need of international protection. Asylum is a fundamental right; granting it is an international obligation, first recognised in the 1951 Geneva Convention on the protection of refugees . In the EU, an area of open borders and freedom of movement, countries share the same fundamental values and States need to have a joint approach to guarantee high standards of protection for refugees. Procedures must at the same time be fair and effective throughout the EU and impervious to abuse. With this in mind, the EU States have committed to establishing a Common European Asylum System."
http://ec.europa.eu/dgs/home-affairs/what-we-do/policies/asylum/index_en.htm

Reading my contributions doesn't equate to you knowing Jack about me.

Re: the rest of your post, no need for long story. Fortunately for us (taxpayers), and unfortunately for you (noisemaker), our government doesn't share your views.

But being the humanitarian you are, why not divert your energy towards the neighbouring countries which you so assertively claimed had little or no regards for human rights? They've got the money. They've got the space. Infrastructure. And most importantly, they've got more in common (religious beliefs & cultural practices) with the refugees. Yes?

So, Mr Mindfulness, now's your chance to fight the good fight and make the world a better place.

njokusboy:
I no protest oh...
It's allowed..

Lol!

njokusboy:
Blood of God

What??

Abeg close your eyes jare.

What a man can do, a woman can do even better...

KanwuliaJara:
This man is on a mission o!
E wan take "fake daughter" catch babe for NL o!
Seeeeee RRRRRRUNS!!!!!

You don click on all doz ghyehs profiles?
Heeeeeeeey!!!!
This NL na real WONDERLAND!!!!

Kei menini!!!!!!

So many fake stories on here.

That aside, wetin this bobo wan take all of them babes do?

Desperation in full action.

KanwuliaJara:
Where are the NL "men"?

Lol! KJ's on a "mission" tonight!

Howdy babes? Happy weekend.

Dafe20:
Respect!
Efemena If you are above 31, Diwor . . . .If not, butu sharpaly ooo

Definitely the former.

Vrendo.

KanwuliaJara:
Make we gif am benefit of "DAT"!
Look im profile.

He is "following" 1 million women and only one "man"!!!!

Habaaaaaaaaa!!!!!
How the "wife" nor run lef am?

LMAO!!

ogbonnajoe:
i am beginning to ask myself what really nairaland stand for, because the moderators are rather becoming ''immoderate'' if there is a word like that. Apart from triggering disharmony among forum members through thier actions and inactions, they encourage ''literary theft''.

I created a topic in this section on 17th Aug but it never went to the front page' but now on 17th Sept the same topic was created in this same section and is already on the front page in less than 72 hours.

This is the tread i created www.nairaland.com/2532562/hear-what-mother-told-daughter

To Seun, with all respect your person and status, i think you should up the conduct of the moderators except if nairanland has some hidden agenda. Thank you.

So, because your article wasn't pushed to the front page means there is something going on with the moderators?

This is so, so, unbelievably petty.

Crazy woman.

Dafe20:
We need to teach our daughters that, there are five (5) main dresses a woman should wear in her lifetime.
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.
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These are:
1. School uniform
2. Matriculation gown
3. Graduation gown
4. Wedding gown
5. Maternity dress
Let our daughters know this too;
That if any girl skips the second dress, she will not get to wear the third one.
Our daughters must not rush to wear the fifth dress just because a man has promised them the fourth......More so, the fourth one fits better and more prestigious if worn before the fifth dress.
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If you choose to circulate this message, it will
change the future of our young ladies.

Lol! Nice one!

Worn them all, though.

KanwuliaJara:
Awwwwwwww! Ow LLLLOMANTIC!!!!
Removing LICE for each other's head kwa nu?
Sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo, I am supposed to be carried away by this?
I don tink I want ANY NIGERIAN NIGGGA THIS CLOSE TO MOI IN MY OLD AGE O! Hiaaaahn!!!!!


Nor be who find real love go h-enjoy companionship for ol h-age?
Abegggggggi!
With Nigerian marriages, na so-so AGGRAVATION!
Efrybarrry h-ansa im papa name o!
Make I die ROTTEN for MY OW. ROOM JEJE!
Shiooooooooooor!!!!!

Lol! You this woman.

How you sef take know say na lice dem dey pluck?

Re: the bolded - couldn't agree more.

Comedy at its peak.

Gross.

Jozzy4:
This is one of the reasons why we should be careful of our spellings , infact we have to be very careful since a single mistake might ruin ones family and reputation .

Check this picture

True that.

So maybe you should take your own advice, go back and amend the omissions and grammatical errors in your write up, starting with your thread's title.

Mindfulness:
I expected you to do better

Do better how? Do you know me?

Mindfulness:
but if it were your family and children fleeing from war, at least then you would have better answers.

And how exactly can you tell the difference between genuine cases and those that aren't? How do you know the perpetrators of the crimes in Syria aren't disguising themselves as the victims?

Mindfulness:
By the way, what are you doing in Europe?

Why are you carrying Syria's matter on your head? Why can't you make space for them in your own country?

Nitefury:
Bisi is hurting.

Reminds me of a thread asking why Nigerian men shy away from responsibilities once they know their wives are capable and willing.

You're husband is just being very selfish. He understands you wouldn't slack paying your kids tuition or take up his responsibilities so he just relaxes. Trust me Bisi, you hubby understands what he's doing perfectly well. His thinking is after all, you got his ass covered even when you dated, so why should you stop when you're now married? If you ask me, i think he also understood earlier on you wanted him for his looks and at the end of the day, he settled with you knowing your (family's) financial capabilities.

No be only women dey dig gold sha. Your hubby just do fine-boy fine-boy catch you.

Things like this drive women away from their partners emotionally.

Absolutely spot on!

And I really do feel for her. Poor girl.

SAMBARRY:
THE GODS ARE SMILING NOW


ABEG SOMEBODY SHOULD FIRE ME FREEDOM BY PHARRELL WILLIAMS

Fried pork.

Fried.

What were you thinking?

Ewww.....

Mindfulness:
Who said ALL?

Okay, we can't take in anymore. We're bursting at the seams as it is. Does that answer your question now?

Mindfulness:
Small island?

No, we're a continent. The 8^th to be precise. Happy now?

Mindfulness:
How is the infrastructure stretched to full capacity?

Where would they sleep? On the streets? How would they be looked after if / when they fall ill? What services?

Mindfulness:
Which countries exactly?

Google is your friend.

tearoses:
sis it happens up until now

In the UK??

Mindfulness:
What is there not to get? That they want to help people who flee from war with their children?

We can't take them all. We're only but a small island and our limited infrastructure is stretched to full capacity as it is now.

The neighbouring countries should take them in. Afterall they do have a lot in common, both culturally and religiously.

juicee1:
When a marriage is full of quarels, fights, poverty, barreness, cheating, lack of progress, falsehood, malice etc, people often conclude that such union is failing or has failed. If a woman is involved in a troubled marriage where she finds no happiness, it is often said that she married the wrong man. People might even say she must have toyed with the man destined for her during her single days.

When the man is the one plagued by the woman's problem which could be any of the above, many might say he probably married the wrong woman. They base their opinion on the bible passage that spoke of how God took a rib from Adam and made a woman out of it. This woman became Eve, the wife of Adam. Based on this, they say a man married to a nagging and problematic wife, who only causes trouble and gives him sleepless nights probably took another man's rib, that's why he's faced with an unhappy marriage. This definitely means that his own rib is still out there.


Since he's married, what will happen to the missing rib?


Will the rib also be making a huge mistake if it tries to get married to someone who isn't the owner?

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Nigerians!!

Reading the bible upside down, and interpreting it to suit their selfish desires.

What you just described up there for the woman in a "troubled" er...union, is not a marriage but hell on earth, and despite that, no suggestions for her to move on?!

Meanwhile, the man here has it easy, and yet thinly veiled suggestions encouraging him to go find his missing rib??

tearoses:
In some familys after the women put to bed the woman leaves her home with the baby and goes and live with relatives be it on her side or the husbands side

My concern with this is, when does the man get to bond with his new baby and wife? is this a good time for a couple to be separated?

The wife too needs her husbands support, his warmth & his presense round her. Is it not stressful for her to move to another house? A house that probably has different "rules" that she needs to adapt to. . . then add that to her hormones and tiredness. Is this emotionaly healthy?

Im just thinking that in todays age, good planning and with all the information at our fingertips, and with so many men hands on anyway, Do they need to leave their homes and husbands or is this a tradition that should be phased out?

That's so archaic. Who who does that now? And where? Here? Or in the village??

Sagamite:
Baby, abeg remove all the youtube links above from all your quoting me so the page can load faster when people get on it.

You can leave the quotes just remove the youtube video links.

Done

Chillis:
You want Mr chilli to send me to my father's house abi

Lol!

Goodnigt darling.

SAMBARRY:
ok the English one should be Facebook babes

Lol!

Seen it dear - thanks!

Chillis:
Me too .

Good night dear.

Efe , see what you do but in all cases your body will tell you when to stop
The scale is not a good measure.
Bmi also doesn't account for muscle mass.
So be careful when using it

I know.

I don't think the BMI standards are applicable to us blacks jare.

Okay oh ladies, una wan abandon me tonight....dia is God oh!!

edwife:
See these ladies o,God pass una.I have an early morning,this time is good bye for real...

Eds stay small biko.

Don't want this weekend to end.

Choi!