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doyin13:
I wouldn't be able to live with myself bro. . . . . .

Why put her through the pain of 'living without you'?
How sre are you that she'll be able to 'live with herself'?

Hannibal:
I hope Osama is reading this. . . . .
You are a suicide bomber material.
Afterall, your ideology is: Live And Let Die.

Nah . . . it's: Live and Let's survive this together
If Jack and Rose had thought of swithcing positions every five minutes, or looking for a better plank, they'll have married in New York
But no, James Cameron didn't want it like that, he wanted 17 Oscars and record breaking Box-Office openings

doyin13:
Eeeeeyah nothing. . . . .I take my job as a man seriously

And I see it as the highest honour when a man puts his life on the line to protect his woman

What of me that wants to live only to protect the rest of my family

Hannibal:
If Celine Dion experiences 1% of the abject poverty in Nigeria, she would change her ideologies.
In this modern era, money answereth all.

Now comes the question, which is more powerful?
The wealth of the guy? or the poverty the girl grew up wiv?

onyinye2:
hmmm, i have problem with the highlighted area. i feel a marriage is 25% spiritual, 25%, love, 25% romance, 25% substance.

Yeah we know you went to that marriage seminar

@Hannibal
She's Sheniqua, can't you smell it already?

mekaboy:
They say love is blind, But the naija love, the eyes dey shine red like person wey smoke WEED.

Hehehe

Queenisha:
meka abeg don't blame the girl jo.
who wants to suffer ?
she must have fancied the carpenter genuinely until she loved him no more.
She has a right to change lovers

Yeah . . . you get more money from getting a new job than asking for a pay rise

doyin13:
Ladies like H.R Hotness(the cheek ) will tell you the head usually plays a part in the love equation.

I disagree. There is something of the irrational about love. It will not be love if it succumbs to some
calculus.

We are not Hindus who practice a caste system.

Abi ooh
I saw on BBC sumtime ago that we tend to overlook the inadequacies of pple we have emotional attachments for
Like how pple that fall in love with the disabled pips, is it their desire to carry pple about?

Love is not worked by the brain

ASL33:
What a foolish post, does it mean that carpenters aint going to marry? real love don't care if u are rich or poor. Unless you are telling me that real love don't exist any more.

Nah . . . it means carpenters will only marry women that are not as high in the wealth ladder than they are

Hannibal:
Make that MIRACLES because most times people make their own lucks.

Have you ever heard of one small thing like that . . . they call it EUROMILLIONS

[quote author=HR.hotness link=topic=148530.msg2470209#msg2470209 date=1215385638]the "genuine" love u talk about is pure fantasy
if wealth is the basis of any relationship, it obviously will not last long if summin happens

i choose to base my love on sumthin else or a combination of many things. . .  It all comes down to personal choice and decisons[/quote]Then tell that to the poster, and to the Bible too

BTW what's the difference between love for money and love for sumone if both of 'em bail out when the going is tough?

[quote author=HR.hotness link=topic=148530.msg2470143#msg2470143 date=1215385010]Like I said, love is over-rated. . .

the survival instinct kicks in when we love one person and not the other.

A girl who is comfortable with her life and has no great desire for wealth will find it easy to love a poor man

A girl who has a hard life and is despreate for some financial security will equally find it easy to love ant guy who offers her that.

Greed aside, its human nature that we attracted to that which we desire[/quote]That where the word 'GENUINELY' comes in
If you're attracted to what you desire, what happens if, like in nollywood, sumn happens?

Hannibal:
It's no brainer. . . . .
No woman would set out to marry a poor man. . . . . . .not in these last days.
Money makes the world go round!!!

Still leading us back to the answer to the topic

Can A Poor Girl Love Genuinely ? NO!!!

[quote author=HR.hotness link=topic=148530.msg2470077#msg2470077 date=1215384295]Not greed (in many cases anyways)

like david said, its the survival instinct[/quote]So love conquers errthing but not 'survival instinct'?

[quote author=HR.hotness link=topic=148530.msg2470085#msg2470085 date=1215384414]How would you then classify those who hang around the streets waiting for handouts and free money[/quote]Those ones know the type of girls they ask out
We're talking bout the sensible poor man, not touts

doyin13:
I thinkl a poor girl will probably not fall in love with a poor guy who is making no effort to
climb out of his poverty. . . .

I am sure there are many poor girls, from my experience as well, who have fallen in love
with lots of guys who are poor but just don't sit down at home.

C'mon there is no poor guy that sits at home watching TV . . .
What section do you put the uni graduate that has gone everywhere to find a job

Take it or leave it, 'Girls tend to stick with the wealthiest guy available'

The Sly:
Did you just know that!! ??
Naija chicks have redefined . . . . .For better for worse
Most of them now says there is nothing like for better for worse no more even if they are married
Its now. . .For better i stay. . . . . . .For worse i go. . . . . . . . . .

Sumone said it's For better for BEST

Hannibal:
@ Eldee,

The most shocking thang about UNILAG chics is the fact that they have normal boy/friends on the campus.
But as soon as the sun sets and those SUVs with dayton spokes start rolling in. . . . .They become hi-klass hookers.
All those little boys running errands have bug albums of pictures displaying these girls in different postures(nude n unnude). . .
Is that REAL LOVE to their chewing-gum boy/fs??

And you'll see the same old men on TV screaming that the standard of education has fallen
How will it not fall when the girls now spend more time shagging old men than studying

And remember the school boyfriend needs his service too

[quote author=HR.hotness link=topic=148530.msg2470010#msg2470010 date=1215383500]I'm inclined to disagree,
there are people who believe in the idea of love and would brave any challenges in its name. . .
the poor girl may have space for genuine love but the pressures of a life full of hardships will take priroity over whatever fanstasies she has.[/quote]As Stillwater said 'A woman sells herself for the comfort of herself which always empowered by the greed of her own heart'

[quote author=HR.hotness link=topic=148530.msg2469952#msg2469952 date=1215382864]Poverty brings with ot frustrations and resentments. . . its just human nature,

its extremely difficult for love to grow and be nutured in that kind of environment[/quote]Good point, can we then authoritatively say 'Love conquereth all things' is fallacious?

Or agree that the poor girl has no space in her heart for genuine love?

The Sly:
Right!!
And the if she finds another guy that would treat her better than the first two??. . . Wahala wa ooooooooo!

Yes ooh . . . the ladder goes up, till she finally meets Bill Gates

It's so hard for her na . . . some of them are brought up with their parents' minds set on marrying them off to the first Ezego that comes around

@Hannibal
I watch naija movies ooh
I've seen it all

@HR
Why can't she grow to love the poor guy?

Can a poor girl love genuinely? Yeah

Will a poor girl (that needs school fees and other things) love a poor man? HELL NO!!

everchris:
I don't understand your post, can u please explain it?

Anyone that can be as legendary as eldee is my ideal patner

moshoodn:
Why is everybody real crazy about 9ice?

Because he dropped a hit song everyone could relate with

moshoodn:
  Is is song really special?

It's not just about the song, it's about being able to identify himself with his roots and with really hard lyrics too

C'est fini, any more questions?

@topic
Have you taken your eye test for this week?

acidrop:
who?

Eldee

Eldee-like, Eldee-esque, Eldee-ish, [b]Legend[/b]ary

@topic
One dude whose name rhymes with CANNIBAL and one chick that everyone thinks of when they are THIRSTY

Don't tell me you'll survive on 50p

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Awwww this is beautiful[/color]

You mean frightening?

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=148141.msg2463348#msg2463348 date=1215223439]He says it to her in his actions.
Rev, don't tell me you haven't noticed [/quote]I have ooh . . . actions [size=1pt](like arguing Nas Vs JayZ)[/size] speak louder than words

Hannibal:
I apply diplomacy. . . . .  

So you're a 'greenlight' person like stillwater too?

@Hannibal
So do u tell HER 'I love you' [size=1pt]or do you jst go for 'alofus'[/size]

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=148141.msg2463328#msg2463328 date=1215222509]you and still of course - I heard y'all are on your e-honeymoon. :-XOkay - sorry about that. You know you'll always be legendary in my case [/quote]Awww, sexiest . . .u never cease to thrill me . . .
Infact, I love juice

@topic
I concur with Rubi [size=1pt]even though I have no idea what she's saying[/size]

Hannibal:
Thanx Mr. Moderator.

The vermins are crawling in quietly to join issues with intellectuals.
Buncha ponces.

Erm . . . the topic
This thread is too interesting to be locked

doyin13:


So people dey wey jus wan discuss the topic. LOL

Stick to the topic . . . otherwise

doyin13:
This Stephen P. . . . . Your own don dey too much mehn

You go write poem on one hand. . .  .Na you dey take sexy picshurr for beach, You no dey swear,

You dot your i's and cross your t's.

Your face no get freckles. . . .Bloody hell, e be like say you just emerge from movie screen.

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=148141.msg2463276#msg2463276 date=1215221121]My signature means exactly what it says. When men say you're intelligent it doesn't mean they think you're seductive.
In other words - men are freaking shallow!!!!!!!!!!!! lmaooooooooooooo! you're not serious el!
I said Deacon Sly is my own legendary one.
I am pure and innocent. Tell all of Nairaland how I was loyal, faithful and kind to you during our courtship
I sent you thunder for claiming innocence.[/quote]That was during our courtship
Now you brought Deacon Le Sly into this
Telling me to share my title with the ORDINARY

Hannibal:
Even at the point of penetration??
StephenP, if u lie here. . . . Someone would call on thunder to make u bald.

Trust masculine pride na

I LOVE JUIIIIIIICE!!!!

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=148141.msg2463241#msg2463241 date=1215220135]I know what you mean by the casual one but obviously we are talking the romantic one.
You don't have to remind every second now - just everytime you think about how much you're in love . . . . . . . . . . . . . .

I don't need any confession!
How can my Rev. be impregnating choristers along with his fave deacon?
You lot need the confession not this pure, innocent lady here. [/quote]What if Idon't like saying it?
Why do we have to start learning gibberish that sound like it

'Alofus' 'I love booze', WTF!!!

Pure innocent?
In the same post with J-girl?
The same one that sent the thunder of manmade gods after me?
Thank God for the fire . . . hmmn

@Hannibal
Can you imagine her telling me that Deacon Sly is legendary?
I was shocked

Esss:
Wrong what?? You see the amazing foolishness of our leaders. If Osama bin Laden came to Nigeria tomorrow, they'll rename Murtala Mohammed Airport after him. If Neyo visits abuja, they'll probably name the National assembly after him. And just wait till beyonce visits the president, she'll be the face of the new 500Naira note

They renamed a street after him, so what?
In some parts of Lagos, the first person to build a house on a street gets it named after himself
So WTF are you on?

My cousin is 25, his dad named a street after him in Edo state
The Local Government Certificate is still there
I can scan it if you want