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Chachamiliano:
As for me, any child that I witness his/her birth, paid school from childhood till adulthood is my child. DNA or no DNA

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27 trillion? Budget used to be 4 trillion under Jonathan and I wondered why so much money. See how balablu plus APC disaster has reduced the value of our currency?

You would think Nigerian Police doesn't have a functional intelligence unit until they need to work for someone that holds the bag.

francotunsco:
Funnily, it's only me.

My wife of about 17 years doesnt really know half of me.

You keep secrets?

Minimum wage is 30,000 and has been so for almost 10 years, whereas the price of goods have skyrocketed by more than 300% in the same time. Yet you question if poverty rate is being exaggerated? What a stvpid question!

immortalcrown:
Very shameful.

He must provide the baby and compensate the girl and her family. I wanted to say he must marry her but that might be against her wish.

Compensate? What he committed is a criminal offence and not one that can be resolved with some compensation.

Stevenbright:
She can't change to using gas because of you as it might not be profitable for her business.

If all the windows in your flat are not on that side, then you can find a solution to it for yourself. What I will suggest is during the day/early morning when she cooks, permanently lock those set of windows and only open them at night.

You can then plan your leaving that house if you can't manage it this way indefinitely.

These people buy firewood and it's not cheap either. Switching to gas would not affect her profits.

xavuv:
Leave the apartment. Don't bother meeting her. She wont reason with you at all. That is her source of living you are talking about. If you were to be that woman nko?

Me sef no like wahala

These people into cooking business make enough money to invest in industrial gas cookers, but they are stuck in their old ways while inconveniencing others. It's bad.

One million grant should be given to under 20, not under 45.

Reading some nairaland threads can significantly dumb down your IQ.

DJInfluence:
Somebody please explain to my tiny brain how these people are claiming they have removed petrol subsidy?
My brain tells me that if the fuel is being imported and Naira has lost a lot of value to the dollar (1$ to #1000+), and fuel is being sold at #620-700 per liter. How's that possible without subsidy.

Subsidy has been returned since August.

The way Emefiele's name keeps flying around, one would think he was Nigeria's president for eight years. APC is a curse!

DrAda:
Oh well, lets agree to disagree. I tend to dish out compliments whenever I need a favour. It works like a charm. I understand clearly how it works and I refuse to be swayed by it as a team lead particularly if it is wielded by an incompetent staff.

If you did it that way consistently, sure someone could see through the ruse in no time. My idea of giving compliments is to make people feel important in themselves, not because I need something immediately, but because I value an environment that exudes positive energy.

DrAda:
On the contrary they don't. People tend to embellish on compliments only when they need something from you. I don't mind anyone doing that but I tend to distrust your motives especially when it is out of character.

The best way to curry my favour is to do your job well. That alone is hard enough to do now considering the general lack of morals and discipline in this present generation.

Trying your utmost best to do your job diligently is all the compliment that i need because it saves me time and stress which Interestingly can aid to improve my overall health and avert the onset of premature wrinkles.

In a nutshell, ditch the compliments. It is off putting

I'm sure a lot of other folks who have had issues with female bosses did do their jobs correctly, no?

Giving genuine compliments works everytime. It weakens defenses. You know it, that's why you have your walls up against them.

DrAda:
For me, simply do your job and we are good. Compliments do not work

They do, although the brain may try to rationalize they don't.

PewpewS32:
Nobody will be living outside in a tent when temperatures dip below zero. Let's get that straight right now. If you think Canada is going to leave people in those temperatures in a tent, you are gravely mistaken. After reading the news here on the story (as I'd not heard about it until seeing it here), there has been a massive number of people seeking Asylum all at once. A large number from African countries (Nigeria being the biggest number). Temperatures here currently have not gone below zero yet. The moment we do I can guarantee there won't be anyone in a tent. If Canada let's that happen I'll be the FIRST to admit that the government here (in Canada) is not doing what they are supposed to, but I assure you, this really shouldn't happen.

Pew - Windsor, ON, Canada

Please ignore. These are APC paid bots placed here to discourage people from "japa" after their government have succeeded in destroying the country.

Lovemeharder:
She should walk away because if she forgives him immediately he will do more.
Take a look at May Edoche, she's living her best life. Some men are very wicked and weak.

Ginaz:
but I should run errands for them abi? who eats the food i sent them ingredients to buy? ordinary to buy tomatoes and fish to cook food they will end up eating is now a crime abi??

If they help wash plates they used in eating or sweep house is such a big crime right? on top me that entered kitchen to cook for them. I swear the mother can't do such for my kids the way I treat hers with care.

abeg get out my front ... I don't have your time.

Wait, are you short? I mean, are you physically brief in height?

ahnie:
Just learn to mind your lane and keep them at arms length,nor be everybody dem dey do good for.

The truth's she's not comfy with you around her and judging by her situation.
It's Gon hurt you for few days,trust me you Gon be fyne dear.

What is this?

Newdawn30:
I thank God on your before... Bukuru has always been a rough place especially at night.

Yeah. I knew then, was just being stubborn but I learned.

Newdawn30:
Really! Sorry about that, what happened

Was returning from somewhere uptown around that time. Had a stop at Bukuru and needed to take a connecting bus. There was barely any vehicle in sight until I found one. As soon as I entered driver made U-turn and started heading in opposite direction. My demand for explanation was met with jeering. I was already mentally alert before, na once I jumped out of the moving bus use head nack ground multiple times. Na so I take tear Usain Bolt reach house.

madscientist88:
jos rayfield,stefans and elims top suits are alive at night mees palace is another place to visit.crime rates are low in jos but still be careful, average gunfire per night is 3.

Which Rayfield? Jos has no nightlife at all. Almost got kidnapped by 8pm.

Nextt:
Israel may have agreed to ceasfire for some days but it is obvious they will never cease operations on fishing out Hamas supporters in whatever capacity they operate or wherever they hide.

They said it themselves that the war on Hamas continues after the ceasefire.

KingOfAllIgbos:
Lol. Because Obi lost...you want chaos ?

Na your shops for Sabon Gari dem go loot ooo.

Na their first point of call .

I knew one id**ot was going to mention Obi here.

UnproudLife:
It's unbelievable to me and I can't afford it at the moment.

100k

No sir, what Africa is practicing presently is not western democracy.

AbuTwins:
Of course you can look for that hidden word at home!

Found it in you already, no bothers.

AbuTwins:
Let's hear from the Russians too!
USA, Zionists and Isreal are good in propaganda against their perceived enemies!

I knew some id**ot was going to mention USA here.

Was unlucky to ply this route a few months back. We spent three extra hours on the road, not like there was any serious traffic there.

Keepamsafe:
For two weeks now, my next door neighbor who is a young single lady has been constantly bringing different meals for me after cooking.
Please note: I have never asked her for food before, as I cook at home and enjoy doing my things myself.

The second time she brought me a meal she wore a skimpy dress. I didn’t mind tho, I just told her she is a very good cook and I enjoyed the first meal. Since then, she’s been bringing different dishes to me now. Sometimes she even calls to know if im back from work that she’s cooking something.

Also note, I have never given her any money for this meals she’s been giving me.

My question now is, should I continue eating? do I have anything to be scared of? Could there be another motives behind this her kindness? Or maybe im over thinking?

Advise please.

File Photo for illustration

You look malnourished; she is trying to epp your laif.