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A001:
Before you start discussing about a subject you know very little of, first get good books of Africa's history or black race history written by African/black historians and read, not the crap you've been fed with by hegemonic European or Arab historians.

You clearly know very little about the ancient Egyptians, who called their land Kemet and were black/African people, not European or Arab as mischievously painted in history books written by whites or Arabs or by their media houses.

Related: https://en.lisapoyakama.org/the-ancient-egyptians-were-black/

Ancient Egypt used to be a superpower in the olden days, just like the US is today.

I don't even need to waste time in this sort of discussion considering the fact that even though Africa is the second largest continent in the world by both population and land mass after Asia, our continent is represented on world maps as if it's much smaller than the other continents and even countries in Europe and Asia.

It's not surprising that many white people see Africa as just a small country, not a large continent.

This simple yet highly significant misrepresentation shows how the whites have twisted many facts about Africa to Africans themselves and to the outside world.

They also did the same thing to the histories of ancient Egypt and other parts of North Africa.

Your comments here on this subject show these white supremacists did an excellent job of distorting the history of the black race.

Many leaders and historians in Africa and black nations outside the region wrote that book for people like you to educate yourself about Africa's real history and bin the trash taught to you over the years by the white and Arab supremacists.

FYI, in the oldest parts of Europe, the Americas Asia, and Australia, their indigenous people are black, even including Saudi Arabia.

FYI, the world owes Africa every aspect of the civilization achieved today, not the other way round. That's a fact.

I don't understand the effort to rewrite history.
Now I am not saying that account of the whites is accurate and faultless, I am saying that the disparity isn't as grand as you believe them to be.
Now whether civilization started from Africa or not, doesn't matter, what matter is that at the point of contact between the Europeans and Africans, the Europeans had more advanced technology that made it easier to take control of Africa. They took control and devised means to maintain that control. That's what matters.

Look at the two world wars and the increase in technology that came with it, no African country could boast of that. The European living conditions made them given to innovation and invention, and that made it possible for them to dominate Africa.

If Africa was left alone, we would have developed at our own pace definitely, but at the point in history that matters, we were not as technologically advanced, and you won't blame us, we had totally different cultures and priorities. We were simply not prepared to withstand invasion.

@ your last paragraph, that may or may not be a fact, even if it is, how does the knowledge that the world owes us civilization help our current state?

Be your own mental point of origin.
Let every decision be for you.

You own yourself, so make it all about you.

pu7pl3:
Add squid game

LOL, I have been hearing about it for some days now, na now I know say na series.

abduleez1:
Penny Dreadful
The Outsider
Krypton
Vikings
Homeland

Thanks bro.

I watched krypton till season 2, I think it was stopped, did they resume?

Ronnnie:
Nice one boss..

I will fulfill my promise...but the fact she kept blaming me for making her take the loan when it was for her own good just makes it illogical...it's like am rewarding her for her bad behaviour..

Welcome to the world of women, they have no business with logic.
You see you can fulfill your promise and still punish her for her bad behaviour.
This way she knows she's being punished for bad behavior and not because you don't want to fulfill your promise.

Martinez39s:
You guy has been doing well, but the important question is, what is his end-goal? Is it that he is not interested in anything with her or does he want to fuçk her or what? It's either of the two. What is his end-goal?

Having a defined end-goal will ensure that he doesn't go astray and it will put him in a position where he can be properly advised, relative to his end-goal.

NB: If he just wants her to keep chasing or being interested till god knows when (that is, he thrives and basks in her doing the chasing and all that), then he had better stop. He is unintentionally putting himself in the realms of emotions and, if care is not taken, he might gradually fall for her withdrawal and distancing without knowing, except he is smart about it and he is just toying with her for the sake of it. Let him just live his life; there should be no competition on who can play hard to get the most or on who can get the other's attention. No need to start flirting with other girls to send a message to a girl (no man should do this, I can explain why if you don't get); if he must flirt with other girls, let it be that he is doing it because he wants to. He has nothing to prove to anyone.

I hope you grasp what I am trying to convey.

Very valid contribution.
I think most guys need to learn to have a purpose for every action. If he knows he will still want her, then why allow her attention peak and then fade, before he starts running around to get her attention again.

Game is always about timing, and your purpose helps you determine how you go about your timing.

Ronnnie:
Girls and thier entitlement...lemme gist you all what am facing now...

My girlfriend had this throat issue (dunno what it's called) around August so she had to go to the village to get it locally removed Kos it was an infection..I do keep her money so the saving she had with me I sent it back to her so she could travel and get it operated,she also bought some drugs which made her broke and finished all her money...
So she was stranded in the village for more than two weeks and her dad and mum isn't that bouyant...she was feeling moody always anytime she called me,as she was saving up to further her education from her work..I felt pity for her and I asked her to borrow from anyone(6k) and I will pay back (Kos I was broke also by then but was expecting some money)....
So luckily she saw who to borrow from and came back and she began to work... unfortunately,the money I was expecting didn't work as planned so I told her about it,she got angry and said the girl she borrowed from has been disturbing her with calls and so she paid back when she received her first payment from her work..
Last month,she began saving again with me and she raised the matter again saying I should pay back, but I bluntly refused Kos she has paid for it and told me not to border,she got angry and ended the call on me...I didn't call or apologise..
She called the next day So we resolved the issue and this Sunday wen we were talking,she brought it up again pleading that I should add the money to her savings for her education...I agreed Kos it was for something meaningful and told her that it will be her birthday gift,she got angry and ended the call on me(the second time)..I didn't call back or do anything....now she is calling me with different number and I am ignoring her since that day...
Redpillers what's your say on this?

I will say your word should be your bond, since you promised her, you should have fulfilled your promise.
Next time, avoid making a promise.

But I wonder, if you didn't promise to pay her the money after she borrows, was she planning to stay stuck in the village?

I think for the very fact that you made a promise to fulfill, then you should give her the money (that's if you have it). Just send her a text that you have added the money to her savings, then keep ignoring her for as long as you deem enough, i don't think you will loose frame this way.

You are punishing her for ending the call on you, that's her crime, but you seal your own part and make her feel bad, knowing that she handled the matter badly, since the fact you refused to give her the money isn't going to serve as a justification for her anymore.

raumdeuter:
Salah is the greatest African to ever play the EPL

I said this 3yrs ago and many disagreed

Abeg how many EPL does Mikel have jare?

As at 3 years ago, that was a bold claim.

As Salah closes in on Drogba's EPL goals, is Salah the greatest African player to grace the Premier League or does Drogba's 4 epl trophies tip it in his favor?

DeusMagnus:
funny enough when they started, you'll see the man been macho and all that but as time goes on, betaization starts to set in, the woman begins to betaize the man. The man starts loose guarding in the name of he wants peace and before you spell Buhari finish, they have switched roles in the family. #StayTaliban kings.

Long term relationship and marriages are the fastest way to simp, with the number of red pill guys still saying "I can only do this for my wife", it's not surprising that even most of our red pill guys will loose frame in their marriages.

Guys, please stop loosing frame for women you are in long term relationship with, be fair in all your dealing with her, but never shift the frame, and believe me, that little shift here and there is what will get you there. Till you're wondering, I "where did I get it all wrong?"

Maintain frame, no matter the circumstances, maintain frame.
No say dem no tell you o.

ProphetJeroboam:
You and I are on the same page bro. I told him, he is not in love with this girl, he doesn’t really want her, he misses the attention she gave him and her obsession with him. He misses the ego boost. I advised him to let go completely and focus on other girls because this case seems dead to me. She wants him to chase her now and if he makes the mistake of doing that, he is finished. She will NEVER take him back if he chases her. Since he is not desperate to get her, he should maintain frame, flirt with other girls, women want what other women want. Maintaining frame till the end is key, if she wants to go then let her go. He already took two L’s by inviting her over twice and she declined. Now he must save face by dropping her completely.

If he truly wanted her, he would have gotten her since.
You have given him the right advice, he should forget about her, that ship has sailed. maybe next time, he will learn to get his timing right.

If he still decides to go for her, then he can follow the other things I said, but I strongly advise against it.

MJBOLT:

he go still pay
https://www.nairaland.com/6786502/girlfriend-asking-549k-cause-she#106453644

MJBOLT what is going on now, is it that these guys are trolling or men like this seems to be on the rise?

549k

Not only that, she cheats without remorse, obviously, she has his mumu button, nothing that will be said will stop him from sending that money. If he doesn't give her the full money, he will still beg her to accept the "little" he can give, finally, simping is a disease.

ProphetJeroboam:
My RP family, I would like your input on this matter. What would be the best course of action? I don’t want to give advice solely based on what I feel is right in my eyes so I would like several inputs. I want inputs from anyone who wants to contribute.

A girl I’ll call F chases after a guy I’ll call M, she calls all the time, texts all the time, basically begs for the guy’s attention and literally sets up a sleepover meeting at the guy’s house but the guy plays hard to get, doesn’t give attention and cancels on her sleepover meeting. All of a sudden, she stops begging for attention, gives hints that one of her female friends advised her not to get worked up over one guy as there are lots of rich guys out there who will spoil her. Now the thing is, she withdraws over texts and calls only as she doesn’t call anymore and text once in awhile to ask for random information about school. She is always the first to reach out to said guy In public literally every time, she walks over to him first all the time, smiles sheepishly and can’t maintain eye contact. She is receptive to touch and wants to touch the guy’s face, arms and sit really close to him but the problem is she has refused two invitations to come over. Most plausible thing should be to ignore her as she’s basically sh*t testing. I advised said guy to hang out with more chicks and let her see this because all of this is happening in a school environment and women usually come around with this method. I also advised him to not respond to her usual random school questions she asks once in awhile as this would push her to desperation. Give me your inputs in this case guys.

You see the thing about game, is picking the right moment to play a card, if a girl gives you green light, you shouldn't play hard to get for too long, especially if you have the intention of taking her. Just like most women do, they don't give in too early or too late, desire that is not responded to, will reach a peak and begin to slump, it's that peak you should be aiming for.

That being said, she is trying to move on, and you can't blame her, so far she has learnt restraint in his absence, but she hasn't gotten over his presence, that's why she does those things.
The guy is at risk, because if he wants to get it to work, he will now be the one doing the chasing, he fvcked up. He's about to enter her frame, he went from hunted to hunter.
Your advice seems counterproductive, she's already loosing interest, why make her loose it more, now if he doesn't want her, that would have been perfect.
I think the best course of action for him, is to count on the flame she previously had, and give her just enough attention to get her back on his timeline, if she takes it fine and good, he can seal things up, but if she doesn't then he should move on, he must never chase her.

Enavie:
Hi guys.

Sometimes ago, I made up my mind to never get married. I just did not see any point in it, and this thread has shown me more reasons to not consider it.

However, I am starting to reconsider.

I am a person who takes their health very seriously. And of recent, something started to dawn on me: if I ever find myself in an emergency and do not have anyone around, this decision I am making could lead to my untimely death (Imagine collapsing while I am alone in the house. Imagine bed-ridden that I can not even stand to take care of myself). I have parents, brothers, and sisters, but considering some things that occurred recently, I would be very stupid to think I can rely on any of them. I feel, if I get a quite good girl (I feel some can still be managed) and play my game well, I may have someone who is going to love me so much that she would be willing to go through a great deal to provide the help I need during such periods.

I thought of having an assistant I am going to employ to help me in periods like this, but I do not think this option is reliable either. I do not think such a person would do a great job during those potentially tough times: it will be just a job to them.

I really do not want to get into a marriage, but at this point, I feel I do not have a choice.

I would like to hear what you guys think. Do you feel it is still a bad idea? If yes, let me in on your thoughts. Or do you know of another option I can consider?

Good thinking.
You see the thing I with life ehn, you can't predict the future. And I tell you, going your own way has its own benefits, but you need to be fully ready to bear the costs of it.

Remember, you'll get old anyway (if you're lucky enough), or sick like you have thought, and if all your family members or your wife or children are working, they will definitely contract your care to others, while they chip in with little time here and there when they are less busy.

There is no point of you making a decision on an ideology, only to end up as an old man full of regrets. What I am saying is, if you go into MGTOW without having a strong conviction, you won't even face this kind of scenario, you will be lost before with your parents bugging you, relatives, bloody everyone, asking you to get married, the natural instincts of procreation, and satisfying your urges, etc.

Now, for me to come up with an answer for you, it has to have been my own dilemma, but I am not a MGTOW person for now, and I haven't given such things thoughts. Instead I offer advice, that should guide whatever decision you decide to take.

Take this as a test to see, if you are only scared of marriage or a true MGTOW, depending on your answer.
I'll advise, make a decision that you'll stand by, no matter what.

MJBOLT:
https://www.nairaland.com/6785837/girlfriend-boyfriend-please-advise-me#106437752

With all the red pill being sold in every corner, great simps of this magnitude still manage to rise, time after time, all being stvpid to shocking degrees.
Ha, heaven help those who cannot help themselves, cause I will not.

DonMoel:
Like I said earlier, I've tried cutting off the communication but she would always come back and act like nothing happened.

I just don't want a situation where she feels I totally discarded her because I couldn't get what I want...kind of immature to do that, for me.

This is exactly what she was counting on when she told you her battered ex story, clearly, you have fallen for it, and now don't want to break her heart further.

Mr. Man, better avoid ladies that wants to infect you with their confusion. She's either ready or she's not, you need to take a stand asap, don't fvcking cage yourself man.

I mean, you are clearly not getting what you want, how long and how much will you compromise?

popizaino:
The only reason why we are going to be too predictable is because of Jorginho,cus everyone is aware of what he is going to do with the ball.He's never going to move forward with the ball or neither is he going to try to beat a press press or pick out his wingback running on the flank so tell me why we aren't going to be too predictable with such a limited player.

You come carry this Jorginho matter for head pass sir ibi.me o

popizaino:
You see Foden and Jesus have just switched sides?......that is football

We bought a dynamic player that can't switch wings .

It is football that torments some players.

MJBOLT:

why my sisters no dey see this kain simp??

I will tell you boldly that the difference between the ones your sister have seen and this one is the amount of money they have.

topoftheworld:
Is good to be Redpiller.
A guy in my working place was weeping profusely last Friday bcus of his babe..
The guy said he had invested so much on this babe, bought a car worth 6.8m for her, took her to almost 7 different countries, bought car for her father, built house for father, the simp even placed all his investment in the girl's name, I didn't believe the guy in the first place until he began to show us the pictures of those properties and how he and the lady traveled.

The problem now is, the lady is into drugs, she will left the house and comes around the following morning bcus she & the guy stays in an estate together, the worst of it all is, the babe said is now doing again and dude keep begging her n still babe said no way, the guy was abt to run mad that day.

Is good to be Redpiller Abeg..

Men!!!

Our mumu never too much?

MJBOLT:

if e continue like that then it's only a matter of time before the kids start to disrespect him.

It always gets to that point.

A house ruled by a woman in the presence of a man (especially) is a recipe for bringing up brats.

Uncultured females and effeminate males.

Junnior:
No one said you must have romantic relationships with with all women. But must you have a platonic relationship (friendship) with any woman? If you must, can you? Can you have a genuine Platonic friendship with either party not secretly wanting to fvck the other?
You can relate as work colleagues or class mates. That's easy. But we're talking friendship here -- the type that you have with your fellow guy.

You can't have the type of friendship you have with a man with a woman, that's a fact. A woman having a breast and toto changes the dynamics of the relationship and therefore changes the definition of platonic.

You obviously didn't understand my question. Perhaps you should have allowed who it was intended for to answer it.
From your second point here, it is clear that the friendship the girl and your guy had was not genuine. He was using her for her academic prowess while she secretly wanted to fvck him and have his total commitment. How's that genuinely platonic?

It's a platonic whether genuinely or not.
You seek to get different things from people, whether you get it another thing.
A girl having a guy on her friend one list considers him to be a platonic friend, for the guy, it's another ball game.

Just like who you consider a friend may only consider you merely an acquaintance.

Sure. Now, the big question, what exactly can a woman offer you that will make you keep her as a platonic friend? And what will you be offering her that will make her remain your true friend? Compare what both sides would be offering and let me know if they're balanced.

We can relate strictly on business term, school terms etc. The point is you bring what you want to the table and keep it strictly on your terms.

SOZINN:
GOLD

I have found peace by keeping things uncomplicated, let colleagues be colleagues, friends be friends, Exes be in the in past, business partners remain so, fvckmates be fvckmates.

If at all it gets complicated, as it does sometimes, I judge the situation and keep it simple.

Skepticus:
You'd be surprised at how many Nigerian guys walk around with this mindset, hoping to mumu like the OP when they attain some wealth.

Lol. The guy (side-dick) visits her in the house he rented for her. He also rejects her food when he is pissed.

I better not have that fool as a blood relation, I'll physically beat "sense" into his empty head.

Did you just say side-Dick?
From the story senior uncle is the side-Dick
She fvcking consults the other guy in everything.

posty56:
when you replied me I knew you were hurt, some people think you just wake up and become a redpiller overnight it doesn't work that way it's a gradual process,redpillers here call it the anger(abi na revenge phase?),the only way I avoid simping is my one rule "never fall in love use your head instead of your heart",I don't know for others but that's how I overcame simping , note this rule doesn't mean you should be bitter however it teaches you to approach women from logical point , instead of being emotional and fantasizing about a girl who probably is not thinking of you.

The red pill is a process not a destination. We will never get there, life keeps testing us, The koko is to from the mistakes of both yourself and others.

Junnior:
I was expecting someone to counter at least some parts of this post so that we can all learn more. But everyone just chorused AMEN!

Thanks for your submission. Great post.

I have some reservations though. But for now, I'm only interested in highlighting one:

You talked about having platonic relationships with women. You claimed a man is not redpilled if he ain't able to do that.

Because I genuinely want to learn, perhaps even change my prenotions, I'm not gonna say you're wrong, but I want to ask

Is it possible, as a man, to have a genuine and balanced platonic relationship with a woman? Kindly explain well. Cite good examples. Thanks.

Point 1: You can't date or have romantic relationships with every woman you come across, part of the red pill has to do with building relationships and boundaries to accompany those relationships.
There are women that will be useful to you in business, school or other places, we have many men thinking with their d1cks and ending ruining a business plug with sexual advances.

Point 2: In some cases a man can be the one keeping the relationship platonic, if he judges that he doesn't need the current relationship to be complicated based in what he gains from her.
A friend had a read mate in school, he told me she helped him a lot academically, and she was giving him green lights, but he knew he would never date her, because if they do they will break up after some times and that will definitely put an end to the current benefits he was getting, he prioritized his academics over pussy in this case.

Point 3: If you gain nothing from a woman, absolutely nothing, then cut her off, it's that simple. But if you decide to keep her for sexual purposes, better make sure your resources, time, energy, aren't suffering seriously as a result.

Skepticus:
"Senior mumu uncle" even concluded his tale with: "She told me she has not slept with the guy that it's just chat jokes"

That's how multiple Nigerian men are tricked into raising the child of other men.

Someone that was asked to bring hammer and condom
That guy is too much of a simp for his own good.
He'd rather swallow the lie.

coolbreezy01:
Fathers forgive me for I have sinned. Been lowkey following this wonderful page for months now. Digesting all the redpills. My babe for 2 years recently started visiting my guy. Talk to her about it, she said dey got close wen i said we should take a break some months back. I asked to continue the relationship as i was in school wen i asked for a break. Now she's telling me that we are 3 and she'd think about it, i told her i don't drag so gave her a day ultimatum which she still didn't gimme an answer, so i backed out. I found out that my guy was the second person which she didn't want to admit at first. Told her she's talking like a cheap bitch and blocked her on whatsapp. I later unblocked her as i find it childish tho didn't send any message yet. Just tried her 2 lines and they were busy, seems she blocked me. And the guy is dating tho his babe isn't around here so I know it will end in tears for her. Am totally redpill to other girls, except her sadly. She claimed i am her best friend and she still likes me. Should i just ignore her going forward?

You asked for a break, and she has moved on already, you should too. The moment you exchanged words with her and blocked her, you would have kept it that way, i promise you if you guys get back together, she will have some leverage over you (she knows it's hard for you to let her go). Just lock up, make your Bleep up no pass like this.

She even went for someone in your close circle (or he went for her), that's unforgivable.
You know it will end in tears, then chill and watch in HD.

At the bolded, where strong feelings for a girl goes, simping follows. It's universal, that's why I subscribe to the "chosen" principle. Being in love will a girl will put you in a position of weakness. The only way out is to skillfully hide that feeling, but that's one of the most difficult things in the world or avoid girls you are strongly attached too emotionally, to avoid a case of "like moth to a flame".

My two cents.
I trust you will make the right choice. Plenty of fish, happy fishing

That Mount's shot that Lukaku was free, do you think he could have passed to Lukaku?

I am asking a genuine question, no carry any agenda come reply me o

User09:
Havertz10, Remember what I said about Havertz and Lukaku in each others space on the right. Take a look at our shot and pass map against Juve, they were mostly in the same spot

Looks like its a real issue TT's gonna have to deal with

Tuchel may have to bench Havertz or play Havertz on the left (but someone that knows havertz more than Tuchel says he isn't good on the left ), so most likely the bench will solve the problem.

I am still looking forward to seeing him as a false 9 sometimes, his best Chelsea performances have come from there.

Havertz10:
oya na

You are Nigerian, no matter your location, tribe or age, the odds of you becoming a dollar billionaire in your lifetime is 1 in 500,000, there are only 15 black billionaires in the world, so your odds are exponentially greater

Even with an idea that is feasibly and sustainably possible the odds are not still in your favour, when we talk about institutional racism, you people underrate it's effects

Being a billionaire matters because you can effect change, leave a legacy and create a dynasty for your family's name, agree or disagree but every family competes to be the most successful even among relatives


You are obviously working for someone, earning a living wage, you would commit the most productive years of your life bearly creaking above the international poverty line, passing for a local middle or upper class citizen, all your productive years would be spent increasing and optimizing the profit margins of another man's business or if it's the government, you would be a small cog in a bureaucratic machine that breeds unfulfillment, resentment and tribalism, leaving you frustrated and miserable after a lifetime of service, particularly if you don't steal, with inconsistent pensions that would make you a nuisance to your family and society, if you didnt have foresight to plan ahead

Social pressure will come and you would marry an average babe that is bearly good enough for you but because she also has low expectations of herself, she would be loyal, she would have your kids and you might or might not eventually manage to save enough money to build a bungalow or mansion depending on how much growth opportunities you were afforded at work, your educational qualification, how much influence you can exert and the company's profile

You would be 60 years and look back at your life and wonder, what if? organ failures would begin then or earlier, depending on your habits and consumptions, the severity of their effects would be evident then

you would have sons or daughters, they would inherit the little you built and might or might not use that as a starting seed to grow enough to finally give your family's name the prominence you dream of, enough to build a dynasty but generational wealth transfer never works, trust funds and blind trust exist for a reason, given that you are Nigerian


In a few thousand years, you would be forgotten and no one would even remember that you ever existed

Fresh new information

I thought I said "say something new".

All you wrote up there is something anyone with a functioning brain knows.

Not impressed.