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Thomas Tuchel on Kai Havertz:

"He is far from being ready. He is still super young and he needs to grow into it."

[via @JacobSteinberg]

Somebody in the mud

Tonnyray:
Man2Man talk

As it pertains to this issue of the Gender equality bill thing, instead of just having puerile fights on here with the "woe is me/heaven is falling on our head" camp versus the "never ever ever/taliban4life" camp, can someone please dig up the bill draft let's analyze it here.
We will then see the vicious clauses they are subtly trying to use to shackle us and the next generation of men and communicate to the right quarters in the legislative chambers to reject these outrightly. It makes more sense we bombarding the relevant social media platforms of these lawmakers and the official pages of the 2 chambers over this than concentrating on social media posts of online ratchet hoes and their retard3d tweets.

True, my thoughts exactly.
I have said nothing on the bill issue, cause i don't even know the contents of the bill.

donstan18:
Fraudvertz was supposed to be a creative midfielder in EPL

Very funny.

What you bought vs what you got.

E shock you abi?

FIFPRO world 11 nomination list is a joke. tf is dani alves doing there.
If you dont believe that these awards are nothing but polling booth awards, then you need to think again.

Smartb0y:
You forgot they end up not being happy and dissatisfied

Yep, she leaves a 5/10 in search of something "better", only to find that above 5/10s just find her good for sex (thats if she still has the body for it anyway ), nothing more, pump and dump, ejaculate and evacuate, till she starts feeling numb and start wanting something more "meaningful", her options now are below 5/10, worse than what she had at first, it's that moment that pain and regret sets in.

posty56:
and during divorce, them go they drag man property, seriously the Western society don't know what they doing will affect them in the future, women think they're winning but mark words a Time Will come were even to find male partner to marry go hard, let them continue man can adapt.

As Coach Greg Adams always say "they don't win in the end"
They either end up hopping from one dick to the other or settle for a beta chad (cause no alpha will settle with them), how's that winning?

larryking540:
when relationship day sweet day come ,most partners don't restrict their mobile phone from themselves ,but when there is something fishy going on with the other partner like cheating trust me ,he or she ready use knife daggar you if u know hand over e phone back , because within them they know the little opportunity they have with you is gone ,it could be free sex ,free financial assistance ,free ETC ......this implies to both male and females... phone restrictions is what u should look out for ,, forget about looking for apps ,it's definitely a waste of time , except you will just run off to the next flat with her phone acting like u forgot it inside you pocket ,and remember her password also ,then u can also draw conclusion

I understand your point better now.
Thanks.

Lightway:
What a stupid advise from a child

Until she gives you incurable gono, or HIV abi

Just relax, sing kumbaya and you're good to go.
But be sure to chip in a fair warning that a breach of trust will terminate the relationship and that all infidelity must be done discreetly, after all na who them catch na him Bleep up

Bwilliam:
There is something our fathers did and I think we need to keep alive, even though in recent times it has been given a negative connotation by the women folk - Stalking.
In those days, before any man approaches a lady, he must have done his due diligence by first of all observing her, asking people around her about her character, knowing about her family, the type of person she is and the type of friends that she keep.
This was the vetting process of the time and the reason is simply because people act differently when they know they are being observed and evaluated, but they are however a different animal when they believe no one is watching them.

If you don't know the type of person your partner is before starting a relationship, then you might just be sailing the high sea without a compass that points true North.

Very true, nowadays it's after "proposal" that couples start asking of genotype and other forms of compatibility.
Last year, a lady i know had her proposed marriage canceled based on genotyoe mismatch, i wonder what they were discussing during the 3 years of dating leading up to making marriage plans.

You are a very wise man, you summarized the major problem of modern marriages in this post, kudos.

larryking540:
show me a successful man without a marriage ,if u feel his linage as a man should end with him without transfer of generational wealth he can stay single

The world has changed, those shits doesn't matrer that much.
Plus the world is facing an overpopulation problem, its a win win for evolution.

larryking540:
see looking tru your partner phones is a pure waste of time ,let her be the one saying check this check that ,bro let her pick her calls ,see ,u see cheating na who day catch fuvk up ,till u catch her red handed ,also I like it when guys tell their ladies if there is a bridge of trust in our relationship or cheating ,that's the end , relationship everyone has a part to Play,that's y there are some beautiful chicks on fb who people send dm or compliment,but will never reply back except with thank you ..e get why

I should give her a free pass till i miraculously catch her?
I am asking what can be done to speed up the process of catching a guilty partner.

posty56:
omo eh, I see all those videos on tik tok girls(even some men too) looking at the camera forming cute, I cringe for be those kind of videos, what a narcissistic trait.

I hate guys who do that shit. Reeks of feminine energy.

I would like a discussion on gut feelings and looking through a partner's phone.
I am one who believe that trust shouldn't be given until its earned.
Do you think its cool to snoop (especially of you have the gut feeling to do so)? Or do you think its shows insecurity?
If you think not, what other vetting method do you think is reliable, or do you just trust till it's broken?

larryking540:
very easy to manipulate after marriage

Must he marry?

Havertz10:
https://www.nairaland.com/6893122/romelu-lukaku-return-serie-strikers

first he deleted his twitter account, man child cant handle criticism now he is using his agent to force the club's hand, they should sell him quickly, the sooner we see the end of this disastrous transfer the better things become for all parties involved particularly Chelsea, sell him january to anybody that is willing to buy even if its china, i dont care but get that person out of my club

You cry too much, making an issue out of every little thing. What is the problem exactly?
Today's its mount's fake gesture, tomorrow its another thing, but your darling Havertz does everything right, dfkm.

#UCLdraw at 2pm UK Time.

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��� BREAKING: UEFA have agreed to re-do the Champions League draw.

donstan18:
Just reading that..

Make them no try am o.
Madrid are saying they want to maintain Benfica too, as they say that was a legal draw

Them Wan redo the draw due to the mistake.

Donnie835:
Hi Guys
I really appreciate everyone here for your immense work so far.
Ubunja, caveadullam, Martinez, heart of city and many others.

I'm a young man in my late twenties, a university graduate but still trying to gain ground financially, I earn 40k monthly.
I met this young lady 23 years around February this year and we became friends. In the course of our friendship, she was down to earth, the attraction was there for each other, submissive and she depicted good characters too. So, we became friends for two months, then I asked her out in May, she said YES after a week.
The redflags and issues started 3 weeks into the relationship, she started saying she wants "a man that can take care of all her needs" I never took those words to heart then. Reality sets in when started demanding and desiring many outings. I tried my best with the little I earn to take her out and she had fun, on different occasions.
On my birthday in September, I received the first gift from her which is a cap, I smiled and I appreciate her for that. On her birthday too, in the same month, I did my very best to put a smile on her face and she was glad about it.

When I started noticing that this babe is all after what a man can offer her, materialistic, I started withholding my resources, then last month, She labeled me that "I am not giver" despite what I have done for her in the past few months

Cave, Martinez, bloodysperm and others,your comment please

You have said all that needs to be said.
Will anyone here tell you to continue with a leech? I doubt so.
Modified: "she wants a man to take care of her needs" doesn't she have a dad? Is she crippled? Like you said you saw this as a red flag, but still went ahead to indulge her, lol.
As for her not remembering the past, of course, na their way.
You have only one course of action, hoard your resources, if she can't cope, bid her farewell, you are no one's daddy.

I just finished watching "divorce corp" documentary, Omo.
Divorce is a losing game for both parties involved. But the lawyers make women who initiate it believe that they will win, lmaoooo.
If you ever leave the shore of this country, don't get married, I repeat, don't try it.

Not saying Nigeria is safe though, just use your head.

Being abroad made your case more difficult.
Still I will advice you divorce her, you may have to ay monthly support and maybe even give up your house.
The important question is, "is your peace of mind worth the time what you will lose in the process of divorce?".

If you are abroad, just remove your mind from marriage, e get why. But if say you want to marry for whatever reason, OYO is your case.

Some of my friend tell me I'm too harsh with women, in the words of a male friend, I'm the biggest misogynist he's ever seen, and i told him I'm proud

I am naturally good at identifying shit tests right from time, even before I found the redpill. Even in my childhood, statements like "be a man" "don't be a lazy boy" often produced an adverse effect. I always refused to be manipulated into doing something I don't want to do, much to the frustration of my mother and siblings, even at loggerheads with my dad cause of the same (he's late now though).
I can't count the number of times I've been lazy shamed, so much that it started sounding like a compliment . My younger brother was actually the opposite, he seemed to get an ego boost from being called hardworking, my sisters turned him into an errand machine. Thank God he took heed to my advice when he got a lil bit older, and toned down on the work he does, much to the displeasure of my sisters.
Till date my sisters complain that I am too cold, not caring, bla bla bla. I actually love and cherish them, but not in the simpish way they'd expect.
From my life experiences, I picked the following points;
1. Charity begins at home, yes. Women perfect their manipulation techniques at home (on male within their space) before taking it into the real world, and in the same vein men are prepared for manipulation through the same medium.
The most you will ever be manipulated is by members of your house, the most you kindness will ever be abused is in your house, know this, and know peace.
2. Most of them bad blood you get from females when you fail to fall for their manipulations is them wondering why it doesn't work on you.
3. It's better to start from the lowest point possible and move up from there if you want. In my experience, anytime I did something little, my gesture was met with awe and appreciation (mainly because I did nothing previously). Some guys starting relationships from the highest point in terms of drive and attraction are setting themselves up for failure, cause the other party only thinks "why is he no longer as caring as he used to be", not minding that the previous standard he set was unsustainable.
4. No go dey do pass yourself, it's as easy as that, why should you work so hard only to receive praise as a reward? Ha, you are hardworking, you are caring, you are loving. Do what you consider necessary and rest. You aren't meant to die before your time, you aren't meant to go to bed tired to death for the sake of others, if it's for yourself, then good for you.

I've learnt so much from this thread, this is me giving back, peace.

Saw this and started laughing uncontrollably.
In the end, she needs a man to value and respect her
Why doesn't she doesn't she value herself and rest since she is so precious

Zabiboy:
2/3
So what should we be discussing now, PRACTICALS... What you noticed in your interaction with men and women, how you were able to maintain frame and avoid manipulations, how you walked out on things not worth your time but couldn't do so pre-TRP, difficult situations you were/are in and how to handle it better next time, changes you noticed both mentally, physically and otherwise since you knew about TRP, Any financial Opportunity you feel would be worth sharing, how you controlled a konji without paying for sex/wanking e.tc.

Nice suggestion, everything can be going on simultaneously though, I like those pictures, it reminds me what the redpill has done for me, in a way.
But I agree, we need to tone up on the testimonials, post about your shortcomings and what you learnt from them too.
#Stay redpilled

heartofcity12:
Some simps deserve anything worse than paternity fraud, your typical modern woman would see her getting married and say to herself ‘if she can get married why wouldn’t I’. The statement is exactly why they say ‘bad girls end up with good men’. It’s practically impossible for women that have explored multiple sexual fantasies to be loyal.

Imagine dating someone whose unclothedness is 200kb away.
Assuming she's still capable of giving birth, going by statistics there's a high chance that her children will be exposed to her unclothedness
But now she has given her life to Christ, the past doesn't matter

Vickho6:
your number Na

Can I join the group?

“Tomorrow, we play for first place against the Premier League leaders and the Champions League winners,” Allegri said at a press conference.

“Without Lukaku, they have different characteristics differently. They’ll have fewer reference points and do more counterattacks.

“Lukaku is a reference point. They gain speed without him and defend differently.”


Allegri seems to believe we play better without Lukaku.

Ibime:
This is Nigeria. You want them to hold machete?

Or baton

zeusis:
why are those animals holding guns?

They are security personnels not animals.

MJBOLT:

wahala no dey finish
https://www.nairaland.com/6848420/psg-star-reportedly-signs-all#107580573

This guy is an irredeemable simp.
It serves him right, she turned him against his family..
She wasn't even an agent or knew anything about agent work, he just sacked his previous agent and made her his agent. She made him hated at inter with her absurd drama and demands.
someone whose contract is signed in his wife's name, he would have lost 95% if he didn't sign this deal sef, he had surrendered totally to her in the past and is only continuing in simphood now.

remi1444:
I read somewhere that exposure to a carrier doesn't automatically means the victim will "carry" bag. That the possibility of once exposure leading to contracting it is above 50%. Anyone wanna shed light on this?

My aunt married an HIV positive man without knowing, they were married for 5 years and had lots of unprotected sex, surprising my aunt didn't contact it. But the moment she found out, that was the end of the marriage.
She went to church for days doing testimony for how God saved her
HIV is a deadly thing one can't take chances with it.