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I know all your mind is that there is no GOD not the Bible, although Bible/Quran is the fundamental book of believing in God. If I may ask you:
>If there is no God, what do you think it will happen to the people living on earth in terms of violent and distructions?
>If nature form out of nothing, who is controlling the law of the universe? Because you can't tell me something happened by chance and be perfect.
>Why planets obey the SUN?
>The particles that formed STARS and PLANETS where did they come from?
>Do you believe in charm?

I thank God all this terminology you people are using few Nigerian christians understand it, and I pray those who understand will not turn back.

I was once like you but God is real.

Definately all the Northerland leaders know something about Boko Haram. Anyway I don't have a say since Nigeria don't have leader.

I saw one today that resemble somebody I know and it's even a female type. Guess what she resemble my ex.

CrazyMan: Call centers are very rare here in the east...infact I can't remember when last I saw one.

What exist here are just recharge card dealers, sim card sellers...etc. But you would hardly find someone here that's into phone call business.

So its almost impossible to patronize them.

My Broda, I was so surprised when I saw it. I know recharge card dealers are very common.

I saw a small banner where they wrote "GSM call is #20/min". I ask myself do people still visit this place?
When last did you make call from business centre? As for me I can't even remember.

1 I’d rather settle for him/her than be alone.
What’s wrong with being single? You’re not alone ( Hebrews 13:5). If you are settling for an unhealthy relationship just to have a warm body near, you are missing the amazing indescribable intimacy God offers you; He will continue to politely step aside as you choose to accept less.

2. I love him/her.
"It's a true saying that the person will love may not love us in return". But at least they should have above 80%. There is a difference in loving and being “in love” and fully committed to the person you KNOW you were meant to marry...for better for worse.

3. We've had s.ex.
My biggest fear was that I had to stay with him/her simply because we had s.ex. Is this how you feel? Well, it reminded me that sex outside marriage is a sin. Because you have already begun is really not an excuse to continue, STOP it now and continue your life.

4. I’m waiting until Mr/Miss. Right comes along.
I will continue to manage him/her till I will meet the right person then what will happen if unexpected thing happened? Let’s get serious! If Mr/Miss. Right crosses your path, he’ll consider your low standards unattractive and beauty. Your present relationship portrays evidence of the needy, insecure person you are choosing to be.

5. We’re engaged, already committed.
Have you agreed to marry him/her, but now you’re having doubts? If there is doubt, DON’T! Use the valuable opportunity you have now for a “time-out” to reevaluate or choose to live the rest of your life with regret! “But,” you say, “I’ve already started planning a wedding, and I’m looking forward to a honeymoon.” Get your eyes off worldly things and ask God to open your spiritual eyes.

6. I don’t want to hurt his feelings.
Has your heart left the picture, but you're still hanging around because you’d like him/her to stay happy? Maybe you feel bad leaving him/her because he/she has spent so much time and money on you. You’re not stock; this isn’t an investment game. Have you tried to walk away, but his craftiness persuaded you to stay? You’re not a puppet; pull your hearts strings from his grip.

7. He’ll change for the better!
Naturally, we think we can turn a frog or even a snake into a prince with a kiss! But, sometimes a snake is just a snake and we wind up bit.

8. Real Husband/Wife are scarce.
Actually it's true but always have the believe and faith, that your own husband/wife will surely come.

They say "fear is our number one greatest enemy, it crippled our faith and freezed our creativity".

Truth be told, you need to run the other direction. Bad relationships are poisonous.
“I can do all this through him who gives me strength.” Philippians 4:13

ARE YOU TEACHABLE?

"My ideas are mostly the ideas of other people who didn't develop themselve". Edison (elecric bulb inventor). You must stayed open, hungry for knowledge and teachable, and to succeed, ask yourself; whether you're teachable.

>Am I open to other people's thought and ideas?
>Am I willing to change my opinion based on new information?
>Do I listen more than I talk?
>Do I readily admit when I'm wrong?
>Do I think and observe before acting on a situation?
>Do I ask questions always
>Am I willing to ask a question that will expose my ignorance?
>Am I open to do things in a way I haven't done them before?
>Am I willing to ask for directions?
>Do I act defensively when critised or do I listen openly for the turth?
>Do I carried out self examination everyday?

During AIT 8 O'clock NEWS yesterday night one of the headline was "Women seek for Divorce law review".

According to the report "divorce law was established in 1970 to safe guard women's right in their matrimonial home".

For me I support the review and more punishment because the rate marriage are broken nowaday's is too high.

www.aitnews/women-seek-for-divorce-law-review.com

Before I open this topic I already knew it didn't happened in Nigeria because all niegria ancestor's are regreting wherever they are now.

All these saying are they true about Lagos?

>If you're selling sh.ii.t in lagos somebody will buy it.
>Lagos accomodate both lazy and thief. Is it only Lagos?
>People in Lagos they don't usually sleep. I dey sleep like tomorrow no go come
>Some people are living in Ogun state yet they tell people they are living Lagos.
>If you enter Lagos and you have never been to Mushin, you never know Lagos. Na so Mushin fine reach?
>There are three men statue at the entrance of Lagos that says Ogbo do rindin(don't act like an slowpoke); Ogbodo ya mugun(don't be a fool); Ogbodo suegbe(don't slow walk at all).
>You may not get to where you're going because "of conductor" the way they call bust-stop.
>Molue don't wait for person, you have to run.
>Bridges in Lagos are many you can't finish counting them.
>Beach usually pursue people.
>Eko akete "Ilu ogbon", (Lagos where wisdom dwell)
>It will almost take you a day to move from Abado-Ijaye to Epe.

1. Courtship is not about playing, doubt, or uncertainty. In this stage, you are about getting married. Only enter courtship when you are ready to marry.

2. A courtship doesn’t have to develop into marriage because a couple can decide theyare not for each other and simply remain friends, which is perfectly OK.

3. In courtship, you are both praying together and seeking God to lead the relationship in the right direction.

4. Courtship will not happen many times in your life, assuming you are approaching relationships from a healthy perspective. Remember, courtship is where you are exploring a deeper relationship with marriage being the goal. So, you will not be doing this often if you are approaching the dating stage with healthy boundaries.

5. Dating is a temporary place and should be a safe place for getting to know someone. Courting is for a loving and secure relationship.

6. Courtship is not for the spiritually and emotionally immature.

7. Sex is not for courtship. Sex should be a gift of marriage.

8. Courtship is for positive intentions.

9. Courtship is done with the goal of having a future spouse.

10. You should not enter into a courtship until you can be happy alone and not attempting to heal emotional wounds through a relationship.

11. Courtship is a selfless relationship. If youare a selfish person, you should not even have a serious relationship until you are mature enough to share life with someone without seeking to gain something for yourself.

12. Selfishness should not drive a marriage,nor should it be the driver of your courtship. (Philippians 2:3)

13. For the men who are reading this, your focus should be on becoming an Ephesians man. (Ephesians 5:25)

14. You should treat the man or woman you are in a courtship with as your brother or sister. (1 Timothy 5:1-2)

15. If you can’t see yourself marrying the person you are dating, delay the courtship. Only enter into courtship with someone youwould consider marrying.

16. Courtship is when you should meet and spend time with each other’s family.

17. Courtship requires the couple to be honest and transparent so both can make achoice about life together.

18. A successful courtship requires love, prayer, patience, and oneness.

19. You should avoid hiding your feelings during courtship.

20. The habits you form during your courtship will bleed over into your marriage.

21. A healthy courtship should bring the best out of you.

22. A healthy courtship has strong communication.

23. Courtship is where you can become best friends. We all know the best relationships or marriages happen when couples are best friends.

24. Pray for discernment concerning your courtship and the potential for marriage.

25. When in courtship take time to discern God’s will. No rushing…..

26. Courtship will help a couple determine if they should get married.

27. Only enter courtship with someone youwould consider marrying.

I believe in one way or the other we have different Bible whichin some are new while some have stayed long (Old Bible).

In my own case we have many old Bible at home which I may not even touch for almost a year just because I have bought new one.

Now my question is:
Is it good to burn or dispose old Bible?

Nice write up!
Thank God mine is still far, dancing Kekure

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Remain my own cake ooooooo.
Happy Buffday

ooman: you want to tart that again?

I can't argue with you on that again but I want you to know is that God really exist because I have a personal prove

ooman: [size=15pt]GODS OF MEN[/size]

Gods does not really exist

Must you comment? Afterall you don't have concrete evidence of your believe.

Man U enemy will cry nd get hypertension today

The right people you select for your building determine the life-span of your structure.

Civil/Environmental specialist have been mixed up today by people which has direct/indirect effects on their choice of choosing a right person for their project.

Let me start with:
1. Urban & Regional Planning/b]They have a popular name known as [b]"Planner" They are the one whose responsibilty is to maped out/carried out a regional survey plan, they plan the city by marking out all the areas that Government may make use of in the future i.e Airport, stadium, railway lines, high ways e.t.c and they approve individual residential building plans. You can consult them to know a particular land that belongs to goverment or where government will make use of in the future
2. Land Survey:- They have a popular name known as "Surveyor". They are the one that responsible for individuals land planning called "Survey plan" that shows all the natural & artficial features of a partcular land/site. You need them to produce your survey plan
3. Architectural:- They have a popular name "Archi/Architect". They produce Building plans i.e floor, 4 elevations, roof, 2 sections, and schedules & specifications. Also, sometimes, they provide a Modelling "a small scale design of how the building will looks like when completed" An Archi will need your SURVEY PLAN & your BRIEF before proceeding.
4. Quantity Survey:- They have a popular name known as "Estimator/Building Accountant". They prepared building estimate using BOQ(Bill of Quantity) and Build Up Rate to determine the TOTAL cost of your project.
5. Building Technology/Engineering:- They have a popular name known as "Builder". They are specialist who responsible for buildability and maintenability. They supervise your project right from inception to completion and continue to carry out maintenance on the building. They work with all plans and document produce by other professions.
6. Estate Management:- They are called "Estate Valuer" they place value on your properties and compare it with the current economy of a state (that is why Land & Building are great asset), and act as a caretaker. (You need them if your property is to be demolish)
7. Contractor:- They are not specialist, they can be individuals, firm (private & govt). They just have opportunity not that they are specialist though they may/may not have any experience of construction. "You too can become a contractor"
8. Civil Engineering:- They are called "Civil Engineer", sometimes people refers to them as a BUILDER but they are not because their own work is more wider than building. They have three options; Structure, Highway/Road, and Water. It is the structural aspect that people confused with Building. Structural Engineer's design types of foundation and other structural elements i.e columns, beams, slabs e.t.c. But they can't construct it, like "Architect".

Why all these?
Before you embark on buying a land, do a little research, go to urban & Regional Department in that L.G and ask for the "master plan". Master plan indicates all the nearest future development, GRA, population growth, and posibly the traffic growth. To eliminate any future obstruction against goverment plans.

Then, the service of those you need to handle your project.

Don't foget all the document you need from each specialist.

Don't forget to approve your Building plans & survey plan.

Finally, don't employ wrong people to handle your project. "Not all specialist are expensive"

Wiseword "5 naira you failed to spend today may cost you 1000 naira tomorrow"

In thinking of who to employ and how to go about it, in case you need them. This is an opportunity for you to make a good decision on whom to choose.

drnoel: Facebook love is not real

I will been meeting the one in my state this week by God grace I thougt as much but until I meet her.

nky19: . What I I'll say to u is that always have it in ur mind that anytin that doesn't make sense is a lie..it's not even normal to love someone u don't even knw. So I think u shld use the word lust thn love

Is not my fault. I never knew I could fall a victim of it to me is not lust because I can't just explain.

Dis Akpors no dey undastand simple thing. Lol

weldone guy

2015; year of drama in nigeria. Just passing by

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ignis: Hello all,
Please i need help on how i can get to Cross river camp from kano state. I learnt there is no direct route. Please someone should enlighten me on the easiest and best route.
Thanks.

If there is direct bus from kano to calabar enter or stop @ abuja from kano then enter calabar @ abuja tell the driver u are coming down at IKOM or OBUBRA junction then take a bike to camp. Gudluck

gunners160: Sumtimes dhr is no much crime in double datin.d 1st thing u just hv 2 do is 2 try and meet d both of them in person.then try nd observe them surely wit time u wuld love 1 of them beta dan d oda 1.but pls try nd meet them in person

I will try to do that tanx.

ogugua88: [size=13pt]Best of luck [/size]

Tanx

ogugua88: @OP, how do you love two people equally? You may be getting the emotions mixed up with infatuation or lust.

If you don't want to date both, then eliminate one. If you live in the same state with one of them, then meet with her. She might be everything you expected and more. She might not be. Go from there and see how it goes.

Honestly, I can't explain that because I didn't take them serious at the begining. Even I never believe that I can fall into it because I'm a type that don't believe in distance relationship.

I came back last week to my state, so I'm planning to meet the one in my state next week.
Tanx

Exponental: Well....if u rate them equally, toss a coin! After which, u stop contacting d loser if u cant confront her.

thanks for your contribution

I met a lady on facebook middle of last year initially I don't have intention of serious relationship with her. Three Month's later, I met another lady on facebook but based on my past experience in relationship I didn't take them serious. Recently, the two of them have been showing sign of serious commitment, and I never plan of double dating in my life but i'm totally confused because I'm getting much more involve likewise them. Sincere speaking I love both of them even equally but my concern is that I don't want to double date but for me to say I'm no more interested is difficult.

We haven't seen each other as I'm talking now but we have been talking on phone, 2go, and facebook, and I have various picture of them took in different places. None of them ever ask me for money or material thing, and the relationship is going beyond control. Please I need your advice.

I don't want to mention their name or where they live but One and I live in the same state while the other one lives in another state, and we are both from South West.