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Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by Endlessgrace: 12:27pm On Aug 19, 2022
This place has finally turned to Oyingbo market.
Here comes the millennials and Gen Z.

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Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by Endlessgrace: 11:36am On May 11, 2022
ProfJYK:
Please who can help with a link or plug for NIN enrollement in the Manchester Area as a prerequisite for Nigerian Passport renewal. We are also willing to travel far if that solves our problem.

The steps listed online insists on a "pre-enrollment" to be done online and all the portal has been unresponsive for two weeks now. Can we skip the pre-enrollment phase and just book an appointment/turn up for capturing

The person to be enrolled is a minor whose passport will expire in August.

https://iq-online.net/book-uk/
You can book your appointment here.

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Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by Endlessgrace: 1:20pm On Apr 22, 2022
Viruses:



Next of kin is different from beneficiary. But since we are putting next of kin in context here as someone that will get benefits. I will say trust begets trust, if he does not trust you enough to use you, be the first to show trust by using him, explain what it means and show him it is for the good of the family.

Some people don't use their spouse (mostly when there is no child yet) because they feel the spouse will take the money to his/her own family or use it to marry another person and the new partner will be the one to enjoy their labour. Before I got married, I wasn't using some of my brothers as next of kin because they hardly pick calls but I use them as beneficiaries.

The oga kpatakpata of them all is Will.

I’m sorry to say, but oga you just said absolutely nothing. So why do people get married if you can’t trust your spouse to make decisions on your behalf in times of emergency or even be a beneficiary of your will.
Like others said, I’ll advise the lady to have a heart-to-heart discussion with her husband and let him know how his action made her feel.

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Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by Endlessgrace: 3:43pm On Apr 07, 2022
grin
dustydee:




Ah! Eeeweh!! shocked grin
Or am I overreacting? lipsrsealed

Walahi you’re agbaya
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by Endlessgrace: 12:44pm On Apr 07, 2022
For those recently processing their Nigerian passport, my child’s passport was delivered 6 weeks after capturing. Just to help with the timeframe.

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Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by Endlessgrace: 9:00pm On Apr 06, 2022
MichaelUde:


Lol, HR, me too dey wait.
Abi them no dey give Nigerians work in fraud prevention units? grin
Nobody should come for me, biko, even though I'm not fasting.

You’re a clown.
I work in financial crime prevention and i know quite a number of Nigerians who work in the financial crime space.
I cant speak on the GDPR issue but i can assure you we are permitted to check customers’ (current and prospective) social media platforms. Infact Screening of profiles on LinkedIn is part of my day-to-day work, although it’s not expected that you use your personal LinkedIn profile to check a customer’s page as this is unprofessional and classed as tipping off the customer.

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Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by Endlessgrace: 9:35am On Mar 29, 2022
Please does anyone have the phone number or email address for passport office in London. It’s over one month we went for capturing and still haven’t received the passport.
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by Endlessgrace: 12:28pm On Mar 19, 2022
tolajay:
There's nothing wrong with outsourcing.

It's more like delegation, however, one must supervise/review the process/outcome.

Your brother's friend is super lazy.

The least he could have done was to check for plagiarism and errors.


Are you for real? Outsourcing your dissertation? Because people do it doesn’t make it right. I dont have issues with people who do things the wrong way but i have issues with those who proudly display their wrongdoings.

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Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by Endlessgrace: 11:18am On Mar 18, 2022
nellaluv:


Abi you're right about writing nonsense. I will try my best and do it, I will just have to put in more time

I’m speechless!!!
One of my brother’s friends outsourced his dissertation and now he’s been accused of plagiarism and will have to retake his dissertation. That’s extension and extra tuition fee.
Just try your best at it, you’re better off with low grade than an extension.

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Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by Endlessgrace: 6:04pm On Mar 15, 2022
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Yes, I captured on the 5th of February and I received my passport last week, I did not pay priority fee.[/quote

Thanks for your response. My son had his capturing on the 21st, hopefully we’ll get it this week or next.
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by Endlessgrace: 5:57pm On Mar 15, 2022
Ray7878:


You mean at Ikeja TLS? For which sort of visa?

Sorry, i meant passport renewal at nigeria high commission in London
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by Endlessgrace: 12:08pm On Mar 15, 2022
Anyone who recently had biometrics at Nigerian High Commission in February, please have you received your passport?
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by Endlessgrace: 8:23pm On Mar 14, 2022
mex551:
thanks for this. I registered yesterday night and my credit card is on its way. Despite being less than 3 months here. At least it's a good way to start, even though nah £250 dey inside. Am sure it will assist with improving my credit score

That’s the spirit. I started with £200 credit limit with capital one some years back and now have a credit limit of 18.7k across 3 cards. Just ensure you keep your credit report clean and up to date.

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Travel / Re: Parenting In The UK As A Nigerian Migrant. by Endlessgrace: 8:26am On Mar 11, 2022
Ticha:


It's not just trades though. There are apprenticeship routes to many professions. I know that Network Rail for example will take 17/18 year olds for an Engineering apprenticeship. They qualify 3/ 4 years later with a qualification, good wages (above 24k) and 3/4 years experience. Of course there is a ceiling to promotions and growth but those engineers can then head off to university for a conversion degree most times sponsored by their workplaces which then takes them past that ceiling. I have 2 friends that their sons went this route and by age 26/27 were earning well, had almost 10 years experience under their belt with a degree to boot.

Even with the trades, my expectation for my child will be that they master it quickly enough to employ others as that is often the way good money can be made.

My sister in law started off an an assistant in a vet clinic cos she has a small zoo in her house and loves everything animals grin, after about 5 years of being an assistant/ emergency vet nurse/ general dogboy for the Vet practice, she went off to uni to study Vet medicine at age 26 and works as a locum Vet Dr now. She works 4 nights a week providing emergency Vet cover and generally lives a cushy life.

Almost all universities have a path for mature learners that means years of experience will enable them segue into the path they want to head. The access to science diploma is a good example of how this happens.

We left the UK in 2017 for New Zealand. Husbot was offered a transfer within his company. Basically in April 2017, he was asked if we would consider a temporary transfer. We said yes. We submitted our documents in June 2017 and were here in Aug 2017. It was my 9ja police check that delayed us by about 3 weeks. We got here, found out our combined wages enabled us qualify for residency and we applied. So the 2 years trip has now morphed into 5 years. We have PR. We qualify for citizenship next year and will head back to the UK once we get it cos NZ too far from everywhere abeg.

It's made me realise that the only thing holding us back is our passport. Do you know that New Zealand classes Baristas (coffee makers) and chefs as skilled workers? But that visa category although not stated is seemingly only open to people from certain countries! It's a 2 year work to residency visa. Imagine!

I am not dissing a good quality education. Just saying that sometimes, we do have to be open to thinking outside the box. I struggled at uni honestly and barely scraped through my masters but did very very well in my teacher training as it was fully practice based. Majority of my assessments were practical and even the written work was based on my practice - reflective journals. I can see how an apprenticeship route would have been perfect for me.

This write up resonates with my thoughts. Thank you for the words of wisdom.

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Travel / Re: Parenting In The UK As A Nigerian Migrant. by Endlessgrace: 3:22pm On Mar 10, 2022
Peerielass:


I have lived in this country for over 15 years and during that time I have learnt that education is not the be it all and end it all in this country. Yes it is good for children to learn the basics in the school but the career path they eventually choose does not matter as long as they are successful in their field. I stayed in one of the Scottish Isles for a good number of years and I can tell you that most of the men on the island didn’t go to University nor did they pay attention in their maths class but majority of them are now earning over £150k per annum as plumbers, fishermen, electricians, sea farers, and even farmers. This is not hearsay, I used to complete their tax return so knew how much they were earning.
We have to realise that this is not Nigeria where there are no jobs and no opportunities. There are heaps of opportunities in this country and we should not stifle our children by moulding them into Nigerian’s idea of success.

Thank you for this. I’m still waiting for a day i could do thorough article or write up on ‘academic expectations from the view of Nigerian parents’.
I was privileged to study both in Nigeria and in UK and i can categorically tell you most of us stress out unnecessarily over the academics of our children especially with all the extra lessons and all. Most of my mates during my degree and masters years never had extra lessons in primary or secondary and trust me when i say they had good grades in graduate and post graduate levels and could confidently defend these grades.
School is not only for academics but to give our children all round development and exposure that would help them navigate life as they grow and into adulthood. As parents we should work hand in hand with the school to help them develop their potentials and not enforce our old ways of learning. Not everything is black and white, may God help us all.

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Travel / Re: Parenting In The UK As A Nigerian Migrant. by Endlessgrace: 3:08pm On Mar 10, 2022
Safeob27:
Hi guys , I might be wrong o but based on research, there are a lot of catholic schools in the Uk and most times they have the best ofsted rating . Is it possible for a non-catholic child to be accepted ? Or its strictly for practicing catholic families

Let me burst your bubble on these catholic school mentality that most Nigerians have - It’s not always applicable in all levels, maybe primary schools but definitely not high schools. My whole family are baptised Catholics but none of my kids has attended one, my first attended one briefly for 2 weeks and then we had to move him to a better school nearby. Most of them here dont have good ofsted ratings.
When my son was about going to year 7 i did all my research and i had to go for one farther away from home instead of the catholic school at our doorstep, the girls have their skirts up to their bum, sometimes i see their students smoking or vaping on their way to school.
Everyday I’m thankful for the choice of secondary school i made, the students are always orderly and well behaved even when you see them in public places.
I’ll advise that you do your research thoroughly and dont pick a school based on religion.

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Travel / Re: Parenting In The UK As A Nigerian Migrant. by Endlessgrace: 6:29pm On Mar 09, 2022
isaacola57:
but no jail term?

There is now a possible jail time. Scotland has passed this into law last year, spanking a child is now dealt with as a criminal case and i heard England is following this.
Travel / Re: Parenting In The UK As A Nigerian Migrant. by Endlessgrace: 12:41pm On Mar 09, 2022
Akorkor:


Mine has gone through the necessary diagnosis in US before coming back to Nigeria. I have been on this a while. May God help all mothers.

Virtual hug for you, the lord is our strength.

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Travel / Re: Parenting In The UK As A Nigerian Migrant. by Endlessgrace: 12:34pm On Mar 09, 2022
TheGuyFromHR:


I can speak to what the situation was with a relation's child in England.
The child had speech delay and he (for some reason it mainly seems to be male children?) was assessed by a HV and referred for speech therapy.

There was (and that seems to also be somewhat common) a very long waiting list for the council service and at some point my cousin made queries and was told that she could explore the private option if she wished. Prices were very high, but she paid for an assessment and got a twice-weekly hourly slot for which I think she was paying in the region of 150 or so (I'm not very sure). They were able to cover the costs (her husband is a doctor) and this was a while ago when exchange rates were still manageable.

I don't know if the council later reimbursed her.

Speaking from personal experience, most times speech delay is an underlying indicator to ASD or other social communication disorders. The earlier one gets a diagnosis, the better and quicker things fall in place.
I’ll advise the parent to get the child into school or nursery asap so that necessary referral could be made and the child could be put on waiting list for therapy, although its a very long waiting but you’ll get necessary support while on the waiting list. Going private is not cheap and I remember being quoted £1600 just for assessment.
Note that your GP can also do the referral but it’s quicker when it’s from an educational setting.

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Travel / Re: Parenting In The UK As A Nigerian Migrant. by Endlessgrace: 12:01pm On Mar 09, 2022
cdieli:
I have been in the UK for 6 months now, my children have started school and its all fun they have been learning new things.
A few advise for those coming with the family:

1) Once you come register with a GP.
2) Report yourself to the council they will advise you on schools nearby.
3) Look for a local white church, here in Scotland I attached the family to salvation army. They come every week to see that all is well, Christianity here is different from Nigeria.
4) Learn not to shout for your children, neighbors reported me and my wife that we are always shouting for the kids and police came to question the family. Always put fear on them that if they tell strangers that dad and mum beat them they will take them away cheesy

Its been an experience

Instead of putting fear in them to not talk about being beaten, why not try cultivate the habit of not beating them. I know it’s not easy but trust me you can raise a child without the rod.

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Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by Endlessgrace: 4:12pm On Mar 07, 2022
Mamatukwas:


Lol I’m here wondering how massage oil got on the wall grin These folks won’t kill somebody. Thanks a lot. I feel much better now.

I just tire, maybe he wants to cast every spirit from previous owners grin grin

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Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by Endlessgrace: 10:11am On Mar 07, 2022
Mamatukwas:


Lovely thanks. To be honest I’ve been very worried. I have 3 young kids 2 of whom are boys so they can be a bit much. I told my husband we should get someone to repaint everywhere and try and return the house as close as possible to the original, but his ancestor friend today said not to bother as long as we are ready to leave our deposit.

I sha don’t want anyone to come and claim ridiculous damages for something we can quietly fix ourselves. That’s why i want to be very sure.

I’ll still try and repair as much as I can sha but the fear has reduced small. Whew.

I feel your pain sis, i have two sons who did quite a number on her last rental. But as others said it’s greatly dependent on the kind of landlord you have. All my door handles was broken, my sons’ room has massage oil on the walls that wouldn't come off and there’s an iron burn patch on the sitting room carpet but i was surprised when all my deposit was refunded without any deduction.
I did a thorough cleaning though and the house was spark and clean when i left.

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Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by Endlessgrace: 9:07am On Mar 02, 2022
canadaishome:
Has anyone ever had trouble with paying for passport renewal?

I am having issues with making payment for passport renewal via the website.
I applied to register my card but it was refused because I erroneously didn't add a picture of my card.

I have been trying to register again with all three documents but it keeps failing and asking me to
enter the correct billing address which I have done multiple times.

Send a mail to support@innovate1services.com, they should be able to sort it out.

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Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by Endlessgrace: 4:03pm On Mar 01, 2022
HYFR007:
What’s the process of getting a divorce in the uk. The couple got married in Nigeria but living in the uk. One is on student visa while the other is on tier 2 at the moment. None of them is visa dependent on the other at this point in time. No kids as well. Thanks

https://www.gov.uk/divorce

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Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by Endlessgrace: 11:44am On Feb 28, 2022
onibokun10:


You don't understand or maybe I didn't frame it simple enough, but I did mentioned in the post we'll alternate roles. Whatever she earns go back into her masters and my worry is that she'll be a girl I've not known before. It's just a proactive measure of an overthinker to buy time.
I've gotten answers anyways, Major opinions negate the idea..

This here is why the rate of divorce has skyrocketed recently, people getting married for wrong reasons. This will definitely result in premium tears for both parties bro, take it easy.

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Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by Endlessgrace: 11:35am On Feb 21, 2022
zeb04:
Hello guys, i am relocating to the Uk. Precisely to Manchester( that is where my office would be)

Are there any surrounding neighborhood you can advise i check out for accommodation for a family of 3?

Secondly my child is 3 years old and would be four by December. Would she be able yo start elementary school.


You can try Middleton, Ashton, Rochdale or Leigh, all of them have direct buses or trams to Manchester city center.

Your child can only access 15hours/week funding for now and then start reception class in January 2023 when he/she is 4.

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Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by Endlessgrace: 10:46am On Feb 19, 2022
Estroller:
Good day house, hope everyone is well and safe. Please how is council tax handled when moving houses? The new house will be empty for some weeks to allow for renovation, so moving is delayed even though we've completed. Does this mean we will be liable for council tax on two separate addresses while the renovation is going on?

Different councils have different policies on this matter. For me i notified the new council of my completion date and told them when I’ll move in, my billing only started from the date i moved in.
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by Endlessgrace: 8:55pm On Feb 13, 2022
kode12:
@justwise, @ticha, @lexusgs430 et al.
House, does anyone have recommendations on good mortgage brokers?
I’m looking for a lender but these people are a pain if you don’t have five years history in the UK. A professional might be able to work some magic.

Try Meridian Mortgages. They were able to get me a mortgage when other advisors couldn’t. They are fabulous and their service is top notch.

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Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by Endlessgrace: 6:06pm On Feb 07, 2022
omopapa:
People of God, Abeg which institution can you recommend for a LISA account, April is just next tomorrow

Moneybox

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Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by Endlessgrace: 8:37pm On Feb 04, 2022
jesmond3945:
Please what is the NIN website

https://iq-online.net/book-uk/

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Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by Endlessgrace: 8:25pm On Feb 04, 2022
Viruses:
Please can I get an idea of monthly electricity bill.
Heating in one room always on (regulates itself though), fridge always on (regulates itself as well), electric cooker, microwave oven, electric jug, laptop and phone. No TV even.
Mine is £170. Scared of what it will become post increment.

I think you mentioned earlier that your heater is electric and not gas, that might be the problem. There’s this platform where people with electric heaters were moaning about their energy bills due to the heaters. Some even advised it’s best to avoid such houses like plague.
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by Endlessgrace: 3:14pm On Feb 04, 2022
Lexusgs430:



Bills are going up by over 52% per annum........ cheesy

I got this from British gas this morning, it feels like dem dash me money. Covered till 2023, advantage of being on a fixed rate.

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