lordm:
Which bank?

So you just open thread without reading heading?

DonOG:
Good morning guys, an incident happened over the weekend which I would love to share with you guys so you can help judge the case because some of my friends are insisting I handled it wrongly.

A couple of my military friends, a navy officer and a soldier came into town last week and proposed to take my girlfriend out so we proceeded to her to pick her up from school. On our way we stopped by a fueling station to get fuel so I gave them a location to go wait for me while I take a bike to pick her up since the queue was a bit much. On our way out of school we came across two guys on the walk way, they exchanged glances and asked each other "what", one of the guys happened to be her coursemate that she already told me about sometime ago.

According to her, the guy used to be an errand boy for a notorious cult guy that used to ask her out during her first year, so the said guy was the one always coming to deliver messages to her. she didn't want to get involved with cultists so she would normally leave the guy hanging around without giving him a response to the messages. After the guy asking her out left the school the guy somehow started nursing a grudge against her.

While we stood at the school gate waiting for a bike the guy showed up again, this time with five guys with him and accosted my babe. He demanded to know why she talked to him rudely, before she could say jack he landed a jaw shattering slap on her cheek that nearly sent her sprawling to the ground. I was embarrassed but had to apply wisdom because the area wasn't my territory coupled with the fact that I was obviously out numbered. I held the guy's hand when he proceeded to slap her again and asked him why he would embarrass me by hitting a lady that was with me. Meanwhile my girlfriend was behind my back hurling insults at the guy saying stuff like he had the gut to hit her because he has started moving with cultists and other stuff I don't recall.

While I was trying to placate the situation, I noticed more guys closing in on us and knew I would be in danger if I didn't leave the place. I somehow managed to get a bike and took her away. My military friends were furious when they heard what happened insisted we go back to the school. I told them to die the matter because even if they are military guys we were still out numbered and we might get seriously injured before their backup comes.

They insisted on going back to the school, we went and as expected didn't meet any of the guys. They made a report to the school security and promised to come back the next day. On our way back they kept making calls and arranging a squad that would pick up the guy the next day while I kept trying to make them see reasons why it was going to be a bad move.

Firstly they can't possibly apprehend all the cultists in the school so arresting the guy will simply make the girl a moving target for the rest of the members and I wasn't willing to take that risk for someone that has just a couple of months to graduate. We might go and display power in the school and go back home while the girl will be all alone in the school without any form of protection, its not like they are going to assign a personal bodyguard to her. What if matters go south and a life or even lives get lost, it would be embarrassing to hear that it was all because of a girl that will move on to the next guy in a matter of weeks if anything happens to me. I was finally able to convince them and make them stand down.

The following day I brokered a peace meeting between my girlfriend and the guy through the cult guy's cousin that was also her friend though I didn't show up at the location. I even asked her to apologize to the guy for insulting him just to massage his ego so the matter could die down. My girlfriend recorded everything while the guy kept threatening her that she wasn't going to graduate for insulting him because she was with a guy. He went on to say that I was the target of the attack because they thought I would react to the assault on her and maybe fight back. They were even laughing at her that she's dating a coward that couldn't defend her in an attack, I just smiled.

My girlfriend was upset that she had to apologize to someone that hit her, but I told her that sometimes we have to choose our fights wisely. You don't go into a fight with someone that doesn't have anything to lose. Some of my friends feel I am a coward but I still feel I handled it the best way. What do you guys think??.....sorry for the epistle or any errors.

Bro, you're right for not letting the fight degenerate to another level. However, you still should've approached the school authority and police with the recordings which your GF made. The guy alone would've been invited not even by the school but the police or even the army and made to write an undertaking that nothing should by any means happen to the girl till she leaves the school. This undertaking will be made in presence of the school authority and a legal guardian of the boy. He will only be released when his legal guardian comes and witnessed the undertaking.

Similar case happened to very close paddy when we were in school...
In our year 1 he started dating a girl in our faculty up until year 2 second semester when they broke up, then in 300L when we left for IT she started dating one axe man but they broke up even before returned in our 1st semester 400L. So when we returned my guy and this babe now made up. One evening like that me, my friend and this babe were strolling when we saw this guy with his goons off campus. the guy called her to come but she refused, so he came to forcefully hold her hand which she reacted angrily and he slapped her and his friends started drawing close hoping he would do anything. My guy wanted to react but I held him back not to do anything that he is the target and not her. That same day the girl called her parents and they came to our school the next day and the guy was invited, he was then asked to call any of his legal guardian to come immediately else he would be rusticated immediately. A day later they came and the guy was made to write an undertaking that nothing should by any means happen to the girl else him go collect.
That was how the guy never said a word to the girl again till we graduated.

Weirdcamila:
Wisdom wisdom.
Why did she get involved with a cultist in the first place , there’s a way you carry yourself and you attract flies.
Bye

you no sabi read?...she said the guy's cult senior was asking her out which she refused and since then he developed hate for her, so does she has power to decide who should admire her or not?.

floret23:
We can't really say, the school management may be members of the evil political party that have been terrorizing Nigerians. They clearly know that youths and students are not on their side.
I wonder why Agbadorians want people disenfrachanced. What are guys afraid of? I think your party is the thing after sliced bread

Niger state is an APC state and alot students in that school are non-indigenes.

Tinububalls:
Is he now into spare parts business?
Smoke don finish em fingers.

See the brown teeth sef.

drake49:
Good evening Everyone. Please my Redmi phone was stolen. I had my Xiaomi cloud account logged in. I tried to track it since Saturday. This evening i go a message on one of my other number that “'Your cellphone is used by another SIM card, position is:
MCC:**; MNC:$$; CELLID:10##; LAC: ###’
Please what can i do from here?

If the phone is important to you then get a police report and proceed to tracking it.

Creamypie:
S.S matter eh, them no dey use love or emotion oh. Na objectivity and realism them dey use face am, no matter whose ox faces the brunt. Forget "I been love am" or "she love me" or "we are in love" gist. If at least one of the marriage partners no be complete AA, In this case, he has these options. 1. divorce her and marry another wife with AA genotype. 2. reman married, but no kid. 3. Remain married, have kids with SS genotype, and drain or strain you both emotionally, mentally, and financially, and who will suffer from birth till premature death, at 24 years at most 4. Remain married, with no kid, but have an AA side chick who will birth healthy children for u. Thank God am AA.I can marry any woman on earth

any SS lady that tricks a guy into marrying her is self centered and wicked. She didn't even think of how the unborn kids will surfer, na love matter to her the most.

Maxymilliano:
Hmmm ... There's trouble in paradise.

What happened to the restraining orders granted by the court ?

Same court order ordered the DSS to release Nnamdi Kanu but Kanu is still in prison till date. Nigerian govt only want to obey a court order when it's in their favor.

DeAdvokate:
This guy has ruined his career

he has not been found guilty on any count yet, so how has he ruined his career?.

he has only been away from football for 5 months only, there are players who went on 9 months injury but still comeback and have a flourishing career.

otipoju:
Any agency that tells you to pay them for so as to give you a job is a scam.

I've not seen any exceptions. They have their marketers go round the streets and write vacancies they have no links or contacts to and send you there knowing fully well you will not be hired.

Your and countless others have been taken advantage off.

Not all though. My friend got a job as the HR manager of Dana Pharmaceuticals in Minna through such agencies.

Johnthejohn:
Why did they sack her in the first place The last time i checked, it is the duty of women to get pregnant and born babies anyday anytime, once in a year

Don't mind them. But a policeman can impregnate someone and still keeps his job.

Banilla:
Don't you have a mother with two functioning breasts?

hahahahahahaha!......Good question. make him go suck em mama breast since na wetin be em problem be that.

ersonleads:
recently, so she doesn't know much

Na to marry her be the fastest and only way you can go and work full time in the UK.

Except you want to go to school too.

Zonefree:
Obviously, she's over 15 years older than the poor dude.


Nollywood ENPs are now targeting young boys to settle down after shouting "menascum" at their flower ages.

Nairaland ENPs are broke and wretched hence they can't attract any guy to remove shame from their body, the reason they always attack innocent guys on this forum.

bross off ya mic abeg!....

southsouthking:
Lunatic father.
Though I'm a stoner, but non of my kids Gon see me with a blunt anyday anytime.

There's no pride in been a stoner, most of us got into it through peer pressure and the tough street.

Do i regret it? Yes Yes Yes.

Would i want my kids to be stoners? No Never Never.

So why can't you just stop it since you regret it?.

Autobot05:


If it's TRUE friendship... I find no fault there
Just that women of this days are so loose

it is wrong in every sense!!!.

Allisgud:
how does pencom work,is it free consultation

pencom is the govt body that regulates workers pension both under private or govt sector and it's free to consult them.

Allisgud:
I need help oh,I want to sue my former company for failure to remit my pension to the pension company,because I didn't submit my RSA on time

me i submitted mine and they are still yet to remit it. I want to report them to PENCOM

miracood:


Quick Google search would have given u the answer.

But Okafor's law is of the veiw that u/ your can still smash an ex/u even if the relationship stopped 10 years ago... Even if she's married to the most powerful man or u're married to the most beautiful lady in the world.

you didn't complete it,...you can still smash on the condition that you did a good job before.

onyeego:

This is the exact words a woman will use when she wants you to allow her play around with other men.
Once she starts saying that you are insecure just know that she's feeling uncomfortable with your monitoring and wants you to let her do as she pleases.

You are very correct. if you start giving me this insecure talk I won't say anything, just don't let me catch you because na the end be that.

Autobot05:
Tbh it's not bad if she misses an old schoolmate or old friend ... but since women are not to be trusted you have every right to suspect her

Go full detective mode

Are you really serious about this?...A married woman telling another guy that she misses him?.

thesicilian:
Ordinary 6k self I'll create a scene bigger than that

me wey almost shut down gtbank Apo branch customer service because of 5k failed POS transaction nkor!

funkmrflexx:
3 of my sisters children live with my mom. I'm the one in charge of their school cus their parents don't live in the same city. So I found out the last one which is about 7 years Fingered my neighbors daughter of about 3 years. The father of the girl who's a good friend of mine told me.
He said it had happened twice, first about 3 months ago and again before Christmas.
He said after his daughter told him the first time he warned the boy but the boy did it again. I asked my mom and she mom said it's a lie that the boy can't do anything like that, I even later find out that my mom told the little boy to stop greeting the man.

So I took the 3 of them to my house for holiday and after I heard the issue I promised the girls father that I would find out the truth, he told me that the boy is very smart but we need to be careful with him. And the reason he didn't take the issue very far Is because of me and I apologized to him and told him I would deal with the issue.

When we got to my house, I bought cane and I flogged the boy, at first he denied it but later confessed that he did it, that it was another boy (of about 20 years that showed him how to do it) that the boy even fingered his anus twice. I severely punished him and he promised not to do it again

Now the issue is that I don't feel like letting the boy going back to stay with my mom cus the other ones are saying it's my mom is one of the people spoiling the boy cus he's her favorite grandchild. I'm thinking of taking the boy from my mom and have in stay with Me and my wife but my wife thinks he's too small (he's just 7) she said we should wait till a bit older and we should take one of the other ones who are older.

But I feel a little boy having gone through something like this needs to be straightened out now before it's too late and I also don't want to make it an issue with my wife.
I'm scared that if the boy grows up and becomes something else knowing that I could do something when he was little, I will feel very bad because that's how them bobrisky take start

Start by reporting the matter to the parents first.

Your wife should calm down, why does she want an older person?, is she looking for who will help her do house chores or to help save someone's life?.

yungchop:
The best route is through school route.. even 1M carry you enter USA that's if Dem no deny you visa sha

Can you pls explain this statement further?.

michlins:
Honestly,it takes special grace not to utterly hate the men of Nigeria police force.

How the force keeps recruiting the very worst of Nigeria people and do everything to protect their own is appalling.

Anyways I hope they have a change

why can't they use the same method of recruitment like the DSS or even the army is what I don't know.

Aladdin1:
No be lie.Tinubu fine pass dem sef.

See that one with open teeth...

Magnoliaa:
This is literally going to be me with anybody I date lol.

They look so funny and cute at the same time.

And it's how these kind of people always find themselves for me. There's one couple like that on TikTok/YouTube Shorts, too... . Crazily tall guy with a petite girlfriend.

Best wishes to these ones and their love ❤.

I am tall o!...

God1000:
I don't believe this, how can she be pregnant for months without knowing.

So the baby never made a move inside her body, some people can lie sha.

as in ehn!, the matter shock me too.

Okoroawusa:
Morocco fall my hands abeg...

buhari congratulated them.

Thebest12:


Hmmmmm my body language should have told her that . I don't reply her texts anymore buh she keeps sending

why did you ask her out in the first place?.

ahnie:

You just love arguing too much,and it's tiring honestly.
Merry Xmas in addy.

lol, this is not an argument but a conversation. Merry Christmas to you too.