₦airaland Forum

thesicilian:
He's obviously not a wise person. A wise person would know that the grass is not always greener on the other side of the fence and one should always remain humble and cautious as fate is unpredictable.

Which kin talk B dis.we know 2hat is greener and what aint
Stqble life is greener
Electricity os greener
Safety is greener
Security is greener
Proper education is greener
Healthcare is greener etc

Adgraced:
This thing wey u write is it sensible to u? How many people own their own house in this country? You do you own your own house?! if adoption is to be pegged on the amount you quoted, how many average family can then adopt a child?

1st off yes I own my own home and many more U think say me n U na mates. Also, you do not expect people who are not able to feed themselves properly to adopt a child. Go and read up the requirements you need in order to adopt a child in western countries then come back and check if what you wrote has any iota of sense, lazy youth!

chopnaira:
https://nairametrics.com/2024/03/24/top-10-states-that-borrowed-from-the-cbn-to-pay-salaries-in-nigeria/?amp=1

So no delta or Rivers wow

mastermaestro:
This is too much unless he has a lot to throw around. Between 6 and 8 million will give him a suitable bungalow. Leave those civil engineers with their overpriced fees. It's the reason most of them don't get building jobs.

things are xpenssive these days that 10 tyre tipper of sand is now about 90 to 100k

Davehasmadeit:
Alaye calm down, sey na story building him dey build ni? U dey mention pillar, basket. That kinda building wouldn't be more than 2m

ahahah even rent is 2million for a 3 bedroom in some places let alone build an entire house, long span roofing sheet for that house will be more than N1m

Treasure17:
How did you know? Should 1M be okay with the first building, I'm down for it.

just think roofing alone, will gulp up to N1.5m

CountinBlessins:
If this happens that means power supply bout to go super crazy

on 6.1mw. O please

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Gobdddd:
Good evening brothers and sisters in the house.

Pls I need a little guidance on what next to do
My building project is at the level of Plastering right now.
Can someone help me out with the approximate materials I'll be needing to execute this stage.
Reason am curious is, I don't want to be stock in-between.
I also need to be guided.
The building is a 4 bedroom duplex with 3 kitchen, 2 front sitouts, ante-parlour, living room together with the dining.
Each room is approximately 12×10. Master bedroom is approximately 14×12.
The parlour is not too be with the dinning, about 25×20ft².
No need to plaster the deck cos it will carry parapet.

Thank you as you respond

Start with 40 bags see where it goes.then do the maths of howmany you have used per room.

;DThe Guy No talk again, Fuel finish for E PHONE, E nor even know say Auction and lot number is on the Car and can easily be searched

maureensylvia:
Seller A
Normal price N70,000
Promo price N35,000

Seller B
Price N70,000
Promo: Buy 1 get 1 free

Which of the two pricing options do you think customers will grab faster?

buy one get one free

Adgraced:
Government should make adoption more affordable and easy so that these kind of rubbish would fade out!! Anyone knows a genuine and reliable adoption agency should DM me. Location : Lagos.

Adoption cannot be cheap so people do not turn it i nto trafficking, If I was i n charge 1st qualification would be you need to own your own house and guarantee of a good life for the child, this is easily more than a N20M request.

Wisdomkosi:
Source : https://politicsnigeria.com/nigeria-government-owes-n100-billion-in-electricity-bills-distributors/

COs they do not have Pre Paid ahaha

DeepThroater:
Defending human trafficking and breeding camps.

God you people are pure evil

Go and sit down, if you have no clue of the subject matter and cannot read the initial post and comprehend its best to learn from other comments on here. You lot like to spread your ignorance like wild fire. Rest abeg.

JuanDeDios:
Yes, no surrogacy law in Nigeria. That's why I said enact one. I'm sure you lot can comprehend that.

well let me enlighten you a bit, even in the UK there is no clear cut surrogacy law, the part of law that concerns surrogacy is the surrogacy act 1985 and here is what it say and its limit, you will understand why I said it is limited or do not work
In the context of surrogacy, the role of a solicitor is limited. Let me explain:
Surrogacy involves a woman carrying and giving birth to a child for another person or couple.
There are two main types of surrogacy arrangements:
Traditional Surrogacy: The surrogate is artificially inseminated with the intended father or donor’s sperm. In this case, the surrogate not only carries the child but also donates her egg, making her biologically related to the child.
Gestational Surrogacy: The surrogate is implanted with an embryo via IVF. She is not biologically related to the child. Often, the sperm and egg of the intended parents are used, ensuring that the child is biologically theirs1.
Legalities and Surrogacy Contracts:
Surrogacy law is complex, both in the UK and overseas.
Solicitors cannot arrange, negotiate, or advise on a surrogacy contract for payment. It is against the law for any third party to do so.
However, it is strongly advisable to have a written agreement in place, even though solicitors cannot directly negotiate it23.
Expert Guidance:
While solicitors cannot negotiate the contract, they play a crucial role in providing legal information and ensuring that the necessary documentation is in place.
They help parties understand the legal complexities and guide them through the process.
If you’re considering surrogacy, consult with experienced surrogacy solicitors who can offer support and ensure a smooth journey1.
Remember that while solicitors cannot negotiate the contract, having legal guidance during the surrogacy process is essential to protect all parties involved.
I hope you now see why it is Complex and why we have these makeshift Agents plugging the gap.

oyetpel:
Hi, not minding money and trying to get a washing machine for the first time, which one is the best to buy between Front loader washing machine or Top loader washing machine.

Front Loader all day every day
Mostly Automatic
uses less water
Has the ability to spin dry at high rotational speed since it has heavy balance beam inside
Can fit under kitchen work top so can be plum easily to waste pipe under sink.

successmatters:
Don't mind them, they resort to insults when its clear they have been outclassed. Its a shame.

ofcos what do we xpect, this was how one on here was typign craap and I went to his page to dig up and i found out his brother was a choir master who only was not a thief but fvck young girls in his church even under age, now he shuut up frm here

kelvindj98:
Your daughter will also used for this. Say Amen? Why I dey pray sef. Na u go sell am.

See this foool, so up till now you have nothing constructive to even add the the argument, your brain is wet and this could have been avoided by simple use of condom by your DAD, shyte 4 brains.

kelvindj98:
Your daughter will also used for this. Say Amen?

Did your next door Nabors not remind you that your Dad got you from there

Ipobfraud:
Alaye shut up you’re not making sense at all.
Does government recognize baby factories? No
Does government recognize surrogacy? Yes

Carrying a child on someone behalf have to be legally bounded and government have to know about it. If the one that’s causing this fuss is recognized by government, police wont parade them.

This is business for people, it’s a lucrative business that’s why you people can’t stop. People that smoke weed won’t like weed vendor busted, druggie wont like the news of busting drugs same as child traffickers wont like hearing the news of busting baby factories, thesame way yahoo boys don’t like police and efcc.

where in Nigeria have you seen service of surrogacy publicly advertised? Even in the Uk you cannot advertise it, you lot just come online to type craaaaap and make no sense. You throw about big words and yet cant comprehend the meaning, Have you in your Entire life seen anyone in Nigeria who came out to say they had their kids fru sorogacy in this Nigeria you live in?dont that shyte tell you something?
if you bothered to read what I posted to someone on here just now abut the legal part of it you will see that no law binds it as the pregnant woman can claim the child at anytime. So it lays on goodwill of the carrying mother whether you pay her or not. The law only comes to play when it goes to court about the recognised mother but the father remains same as his sperm contains the DNA same as the offspring.

https://www.gov.uk/legal-rights-when-using-surrogates-and-donors

michlins:
the public already has cast a bad light on it and the stigma is too strong.

We're not ready for this conversation yet. Until then, this is an endless thing that will continue to come up

true talk, well, when it gets to thier turn they shall know!
Thank God nah to be grand parents remain for us!

sirjamesjnr:
No sane human will support human being to be traded. For what you stand for, it shows clearly you are beneath the surface I walk on. Why not give your kid sister to baby factory? Ewu

coming from you who has a brother who is a thieve and have sexx with church girls in choir even under age?Is your elder brother not the man who is a chior in church who stole your Mum.s Money and fvck young girls some under age in CHURCH?? did you not write this?




An Experience That Make Me Not To Respect My Elder Brother Till Tomorrow by sirjamesjnr(m): 10:39am On Sep 06, 2020
Saw him stealing my mum's money and lie to her. He force me to lie that he was not at home.
Growing up,he was a choir master. I steal a letter to his girlfriend and give it to my school sweetheart.He sleep with a lot of girls.
We are core Christian family, till date I can't trust him even when he is telling me the truth. Do anyone experience this and how do you handle it?

sirjamesjnr:
I will do the right thing by engaging in a legal means to have kid. Human are not to be sold. Get a life.

And how do you think you will go about that? IVF?

JuanDeDios:
Since they're all related, I think they can have a law that covers surrogacy and adoption and everything. If FG isn't moving, the SE governments should enact these laws since that's the region most affected. Hopefully, they can persuade these roadside people to register and go legit.

there is no law of surrogacy in Nigeria
however for your own info this is what the Uk say https://www.gov.uk/legal-rights-when-using-surrogates-and-donors(for your own reading)
let me ask you lot, those Sperm sold by guys everyday where do yah all think they end up?

sirjamesjnr:
you are too useless if you defend this nonsense. You have no soul.

you have to say Im useless when in fact I am of much value than your entire lineage. If I go fru your entire post on nairaland now we will see you aint shyte and you are here running your gutter you call mouth!

sirjamesjnr:
you clearly don't have any soul.

you are being Emotional, lets assume it was you wont cant have a child and this got said to you at your point of need, would you be of same response? All those family and friends that you praise God with in church with triplets etc, how did you think the came to be?

Ipobfraud:
Some people are just stupid in this country.
Someone like you now will dress and go out, people will be counting you as human being.
You’re an educated illiterate.

when you are Man enough come back with your real username, not hiding like one of them ANT

Judolisco:
baby factory and Surrogacy has a lot of difference, in Surrogacy there is a legal agreement btw all the parties involved, and it's also regulated in many countries... Baby factory, it's a business as u can see they are only concerned about selling babies, and then get ready to give birth again,if there's any complications during child birth, nobody will take responsibility..... Plus they use underage girls, dis girls are supposed to be in sch learning... Can u allow your younger sister volunteer for that type of job?

OK that is your understanding but you are indeed wrong. Both are the same in Nigeria as there is no legal framework to separate them unless it is proven that indeed the girls where forced to get pregnant which in court of law would be called RAPE, false imprisonment and kidnap .The term baby factory is a word formed by people on the street. Those agents you see there charge up to N5million cos they have to pay doctors some times to do IVF on girls.so if an agent have up to 5 girls/clients, he/she has to put them somewhere, they rent a flat or hostel to accommodate these persons. Feed them for 9 months then one person will report to police that oi here is a baby factory cos 12 girls live there and are pregnant. Then case goes to court and get dismissed. I there is indeed evidence of false detention and holding against their will happy days police would and should do the needful. These are very sensitive matters and the police should never have paraded anybody until case proven

Jman06:
You should be ashamed of yourself for making the above post.

So, humans should now be equated to animals that can be kept at a place, bred by some irresponsible men with some bad gene pools and then traded in the market like some articles No more dignity for humans? Mind you, many of those girls are held against their wills! That's worse than slavery!

where in the publication did the girls say they where held against their will? point us>

JuanDeDios:
The people on the street can't solve baby factory. It's those "raiding" the place who can solve it. Ask "baby factories" to register and become legit adoption agencies. Make the process of baby adoption simpler. Put measures and monitoring in place to ensure nothing untoward is going on. That's how you tackle serious problems like this.

i think child adoption agencies are under a separate ministry in service. There is no legal frame work for surrogacy either that a legal agreement would be reached by the three parties, ie Agent, Client and the woman and all paper work signed. Where the girl lives when she get pregnant is up to the agent. Some times an Agent can rent a full hostel if he/she has a lot of client. I have witnessed this go to court in PH and the case was dismissed as there is a legal agreement between all parties. .let me remind us that people who pay for these services are not poor or average, the mostly spend millions.

Judolisco:
so because your wife can't carry a child now it's alright to contract small kids to give birth on her behalf and then u buy? Baby factory and surrogacy are two different things...

Well what is the difference between baby factory and Surrogacy, lets pick your brains, we are having an open discussion and I am sure loads are reading this my response and yours.

Ensa777:
When your that your church member or distant who had been trying to concieve and suddenly you hear she has given birth after 9 yrs but you saw her sometimes ago and she didn't look pregnant.

From what I know here,girls who took in unmarried and can't fend for them are advised to go to such places by ppl.They claim to travel, birth their babies and return to their families quietly .They are also compensated
Those babies are adopted since most orphanages refuse to give out the ones they have to avoid closing down.

Nobody impregnates anybody

Thanks for shedding this, I did not even know of this part. Society need to stop castigating these brave girls. All these IVF kids that people come to church with Sunday in and out where do they think the girls live for the 9months caves?I just wish all you lot here castigating these girls do have wives and husbands that can bear their own children if not you will have to go fru IVF and pay millions and you will have to pray no one intarupts the process with baby factory aggravations.