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Are you aware that one of the leading cause of throat cancer in men is giving women head? ...

Are you also aware that the females vagina almost always have bacteria as it's permanent resident?

I dunno the se.xual history of this girl, but as long as you're not the only guy she has slept with in a while, then I would be really worried if I were in your shoes ...

Red flag knows no denomination sir ...

But the fact remains that most girls of certain denominations tend to have very similar mindsets that are in my opinion very archaic ...

First off...
I can't advice any man to marry a girl who isn't a virgin, talk more of a single mother ...

But since you say you love her, that's fine, to each his cross ...

However...
I'm more concerned as to why "blood will gush out" of her vagina whilst you were having sex? ...

And I'm also concerned as to why you would stomach this "test" despite "all you've done for her"? ...

Either ways...
I can never be in your shoes (I don't do single mothers), but I wouldn't stomach this kind of prank from any female on planet earth ...

No one scares me ...
So either is fine by me ...

This shouldn't even be a question sef ...

Women are 99% to blame for the rise in single mothers ...

Who choose to spread their legs like rumor? Women ...

Who choose to sleep with irresponsible men? Women ...

Who choose to sleep around without protection? ...

Who choose not to take "after pills" after nacking raw? Women ...

There are very many ways a woman can prevent pregnancy, but she choose not to take advantage of any ...

So if she becomes a single mother, then she has only herself to blame ...

"It's her body, her choice" remember? ...

The remaining 1% are reserved for women who lost their husbands due to unfortunate circumstances ...

Not really OP ...

Whilst I believe that iphone is all hype and no real value, spark 4 CANNOT be better than an iphone 14 pro ...

If you had said Tecno canon 19, then I prolly would've agreed with you, but spark 4? Nahhhh ...

This is great news! ...

I pray more men take legal actions against stup.id females who go about destroying properties that their entire net worth can't afford ..

I know right? ...
It's never the woman's fault ...
The man must have done something wrong to his wife to make her leave him ...

...
Nairaland and cruise be like bread and acara ...

What's happening here? ...
Sheybi y'all said "go to court" ...
He is now in court, so allow the court to decide ...

I just hope that if he wins in court, Tinubu's supporters should not cause trouble and allow peace to reign, same way obi's supporters were calm and allowed peace to reign ...

advanceDNA:

My chief, should we tell them our mind about Nigerian girls? ...

Are they ready for the truth? ...

Bakrabas
With all due respect sir, you sound really naive ...

You said "What's good for Tom will also be nice for Jane", going by this logic, broke women should go for broke men ba? But is that always the case? ...

Fact is men and women have things that are considered really important to them...

Women (in general) want men that are more financially stable at the very least whilst men (in general) want women who are chaste and not wh.ores ...

But for some reason, the society have made the wants of women a norm and disdain the wants of men and it's bad that other men support that trash too! ...

Regardless of how broke and wretched a woman is, she will ALWAYS want a man who is more financially capable than she is ...

Is that a case of "good for Jane, good for Tom" too? ... I mean, broke to broke, "prostitute to prostitutes" ba? ...

Well...
I'm not one to condemn a person's choices, if you can be with a woman regardless of her past or as you put it "50-50 weight past", then that's fine - every man with his kah-ya...

However...
A woman's se.xual past is something that I pay serious attention to ...

Nia69:
You did.

Please read again ...

Nia69:
Women spend on wedding too.

Did I say they didn't? ...

And besides...
In those VERY FEW cases where they do spend little cash on weddings, how often have you heard them cancel that wedding because of cramps? ...

In 24hours of meeting a guy, you're already telling him your personal problems, and you're expecting him to continue gisting with you? ...

How daft can you be! ...

Were you expecting him to stay with someone who may potentially be a liability to him? ...

It's clear this girl is really in love with you and yet for some reason you're taking her for granted ...

Tis well ...

Why are all the men above me vexing? ...
Make wuna calm down jareh! ...

Let's see who this advice will hurt more in the long run ...

Any man that have not learnt from Hakimi is in all fairness really daf.t ...

Cause putting your lives work/achievement on the line, cause you're getting married to a gender whose emotions is as stable as "NEPA" is the most fo.olish thing to do ...

I'm not saying you shouldn't get married, please do if you so desire ....

However, make sure that you do all you can so that you do not lose your entire lives work to a person who played very little or no part in making you the man that you are now ...

The rise in the "hucup" culture is 100% the woman's fault! ...

She made the decision to spread her legs for money...

It's her body..
So it's her choice...
And it's 100% her responsibility!!!

And don't tell me "it's because men are throwing money at them" ..

Cause no matter how much money you take to the market, if no one is willing to sell let's say a bag, YOU WILL STILL COME BACK HOME WITH YOUR MONEY WITHOUT THE BAG!!

So hold every wh.ore responsible for her who.redom ...

And besides...
You said, "the hocup culture hurts women more..."

So a female knows that something will hurt her in the long run, but still SHE DECIDES to do it and then turn around to shift the blame someone else ba? ...

How typical of female gender ...

When they didn't spend a dime on the wedding, then any reason is "valid" enough to cancel a wedding ...

Divorce and sue for damages ...
That should fix it ...

LadyRosa:
The heck, the full gave her a 100k for a job obviously well done, atlesst she did the job of bringing out his fluid outta There's no point coming here to cap BullShiite!

I'm glad you know how you sound ...

How do kids act when their request for candy is turned down? ...

If you know the answer to the above, then you shouldn't be surprised why women (and sadly some men) act that way ...

An entitled fellow will never be grateful for little things and an ungrateful person is often entitled ...

No difference between the two of em ...

Or have you ever seen a grateful entitled person? ...

First of...
If you invite someone on a date, it is expected that you're treating the fellow and thus you should pay for their expenses ...

If you have intentions of going dutch, please inform the person prior to that ...

Secondly...
If you're invited on a date, abeg try eat before you comot for house, don't come and disgrace your village people by acting like an orphan ...

But a certain gender have the deluded ideology that it doesn't matter who takes who out, they will come with their entire age grade to a date and expect the other gender to pay ...

So pathetic! ...

It's not wrong to marry an older spouse OP, but I can't advice such ...

Women generally want older men because they believe that "older men know how to take care of a woman better than younger girls" ...

So if she's considering dating a younger male, then I'm willing to bet that she prolly is "running outta time" or there's something shady going on ...

Whatever "good trait" you see in an older woman, you can find in a younger girl who most likely has less baggage, so why settle? ...

To the folks above me and those after me, if you like insult and belittle people...

If you like, keep malice with people...
If you like get into a fight with people on account of politics...

Those guys you're supporting most likely don't even know of your existence...

Whether it's Tinubu or Obinor Atiku, I can bet that there are not aware of the existence of 99.9% of the people here...

I'm not even sure they know that a forum like nairaland exists ...

So all this gbas gbos that you're fueling cause of them will hurt you more than it will hurt them ...

I'm not saying you shouldn't show your support for your preferred candidate, please do ...

However, we can show support to whomever without insulting other people who don't agree with us ...

LadyRosa:
If you earn this 'much',you won't be bothered about petty girls with gold digging vibes except you be all this guys wey sabi tataffo pass saloon women.

Very cheap form of emotional blackmail ...

It's his money and what he decides to be "bothered" by is totally his business ...

When you earn "that much", you can decide not to be "petty" by throwing it at entitled people with "gold giving vibes" ...

And besides, you're not in any position to tell anyone how they should "behave" ...

It's not only ring o ...
You can use bi-bo to propose ...
Or maybe you use the gods of your fathers ...