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 Romance › Re: Chinese Region Offers ‘rewards’ For Brides Under 25 by Fahvvy: 9:39am On Aug 30, 2023 |
Very wrong approach  ...Instead give the rewards to men and watch your population rise like an edifice ...Cause the last time I checked, it's men that go down on one knee to "pop the question"... It's also men that chest the bulk of wedding expenses ...Women more or less just stay at home or prance around desperately waiting to be married  ...But wait o... What of women above 25?  ...No hope? ...It seems the new age of (for want of a better word) "ENP" is no longer 30, it's now 26 ...Chei! Women have suffered ...Pleeeaax allow our women breeet ... |
| Romance › Re: Anybody That Blames The Girl Is A Fool, He Deserves What He Got! by Fahvvy: 9:22am On Aug 30, 2023 |
OP you're funny o ...So anyone that has a contrary opinion from yours is a fo.ol? ...Well... I don't care who's to blame, but every "damager" will pay for damages ... |
| Romance › Re: Lady Who Said She Will Never Date A Broke Guy Used Fo Ritual By Her Boyfriendr by Fahvvy: 9:31pm On Jul 06, 2023 |
AndrewTate:Yeahhh... You're absolutely correct ...Let's blame anyone else other than her ... |
| Romance › Re: Why A Woman Should Not Wait Too Long To Marry Or Settle Down? by Fahvvy: 11:46am On Jul 06, 2023 |
For those who are attacking the OP, I hope you're aware of the implications of late pregnancy? ... 7 Likes 2 Shares |
| Romance › Re: Why Do Young Ladies Who Are Into Fornication Find It So Difficult To Stop by Fahvvy: 11:43am On Jul 06, 2023 |
Because fornication for the average woman is a source of livelihood but for a man it's just for mere cruise ...As such, it is easier to talk someone out of fun than it is to talk someone out of their means of livelihood ...So I ask you dear OP, will it be easy for someone to talk you outta your only source of living ... 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Romance › Re: Should A Guy Collect Back Gifts He Bought For His Girlfriend After Break Up? by Fahvvy: 9:21pm On Jul 05, 2023*. Modified: 9:37pm On Jul 05, 2023 |
The gift I got is for my girlfriend ...And so if you're no longer my girlfriend, then you're no longer entitled to the gifts belonging to my girlfriend ...So kindly return my girlfriend's gifts, abi you be thief 1 Like 1 Share |
| Family › Re: Giving Accolades To Women by Fahvvy: 3:29pm On May 30, 2023 |
Nice2023:LMAO ...How so? ...For stating facts? ...My stand is simple... "A woman's ability to give birth alone doesn't warrant any accolades" If this stand makes you think I'm without conscience, then so be it ... |
| Family › Re: Giving Accolades To Women by Fahvvy: 3:21pm On May 30, 2023 |
Princessdainty:If this is what you could glean from my write up, then it you who had a very terrible upbringing ...Sincerely... I feel sorry for the folks that raised a child with this screwed up mindset ... |
| Family › Re: Giving Accolades To Women by Fahvvy: 1:15pm On May 29, 2023 |
That a woman can get pregnant doesn't mean we should "give her accolades", it's just one of those things of biology ...Going by your logic, I guess we should give single mothers accolades too ba? ...We should give w.hores who have no qualms doing an abortion after getting pregnant accolades too abi? ...Just imagine me saying, we should give accolades to men because they can produce sperm and impregnate a woman ...Sounds funny right? ...A woman's ability to get pregnant doesn't warrant ANY ACCOLADES my dear OP ...And just before you come at me with "you don't have a mother" and any of those BS, understand that I have a mother who so happens to be my role model ...And what makes her worthy of my respect is not the fact that she gave birth to me, nahhhh ...But because of the sacrifices she made that brought me up to this level - THAT'S WHAT IS WORTH GIVING ACCOLADES TO ... |
| Family › Re: Are Women From Divorced Homes More Likely To Divorce? by Fahvvy: 1:06pm On May 29, 2023 |
First off... If she comes from a divorce home, then there's a very high chance she won't be able to keep a home and history will most likely repeat itself ...Secondly... Our primary idea about what relationship/marriage is learnt from our parents... So how a girls mother treat her father is most likely how that girl will treat her own husband in future... So if her mum isn't treating her dad right, then she prolly would treat you the same way ...My advice? On a norms, I wouldn't associate with a girl like this, but if she has REALLY WORKED ON HERSELF and has the qualities that you consider really important, then I don't see why one wouldn't end up end up with her ... 6 Likes 2 Shares |
| Romance › Re: Marry Your Friend Vs Marry The Will Of God Vs Marry Who You Love by Fahvvy: 12:52pm On May 29, 2023 |
Marry your friend - whilst friendship is one of the pillars of a healthy, happy and long lasting marriage... You also have to understand that, that a person is a good friend doesn't automatically mean s/he will make a.good spouse ...Marry the will of God - who told you that this your friend is the will of God for you? Is it your pastor? Or did you hear God yourself? ...If you heard God by yourself, my dear enter the union asap, but if not, you might want to calm down first ...Marry who you love - I'm guessing this is not the first time you've fallen in love ...So all those people you fell in love with before now, how far? ...Point is, if the butterfly in your stomach is what you're referring to as love, my dear, die this matter ...Finally... I know for CERTAINTY that you're not ready for marriage! ...The fact that you need people you've never met (and will never meet) to "help you choose" is proof of this ...And even if we choose for you, will we also be there when things go wrong? ...When she denies you se.x and becomes unattractive in your eyes, are we also going to help you make a decision as to what you should do next? ....Oga grow up first before you think of entering this union ... 163 Likes 17 Shares |
| Romance › Re: Males, Females Aren't Responsible For Your Woes. Get A Life. by Fahvvy: 8:26pm On May 28, 2023 |
JustPowerApps:Omorrr... I was so disgusted by her boast eh ...Whilst people are boasting about the number of businesses they have and how many streams of income they have, someone is here boasting about eye lashes and make up, tweeeh, how pathetic! ...Omorrr... Her mentality is super shallow ...And if you check now, it's prolly a man who gave her money to buy it o ... 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Romance › Re: What's The Longest Time You've Spent Trying To Woo A Woman? by Fahvvy: 8:20pm On May 28, 2023 |
Wooing a girl in the 21st century is a waste of time ...If you ask her out, she no gree, MOVE!!!!!!!!!!!! They're too many girls on the earth for me to spend my precious time wooing just one ... 139 Likes 10 Shares |
| Romance › Re: What Would You Have Done Has A Guy If You Were To Be In His Shoes ? by Fahvvy: 8:05pm On May 28, 2023 |
Hahahahah ...The average modern woman is REALLY DAFT! Kai! ...Let's do the math... Oga earns 400k, if he uses 345k (86.25% of his salary) to get you a phone, he'll be left with just 55k... And from that 55k, I'm sure you'll still expect him to take you out and sub for you and make your hair and all ...What then will be left for his basic needs (transportation to work, feeding, accommodation etc) ...And what's worse is that, the fo.ol said "I didn't do anything wrong" ...Sighs... Tis well... 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Romance › Re: I Have Never Seen A Man Calling A Fellow Man Stingy/broke. Only Ladies Do That. by Fahvvy: 7:53pm On May 28, 2023 |
Jodha:As usual, blame anything/anyone other than the females involved ...Everytime society this, society that ... Since we're on the subject of society, did the African society also make women become feminist? ...The answer is no, but are there feminist in Africa, the answer yes! ...People are ungrateful and entitled simply because THEY WANT TO BE! - shikinah ...@OP... If a woman calls you broke or stingy, sincerely eh, see it as a compliment! ...Don't allow their cheap emotional blackmail to make you path ways with your money ...Since they're not broke why are they begging you for money? And since they're not stingy why aren't they going about feeding the poor? |
| Romance › Re: Don't Fall For Broke Ladies by Fahvvy: 7:39pm On May 28, 2023 |
Hahahahahh ...I was laughing seriously the entire time I read this ...Dating a broke girl should be a crime punishable by law, like it should be forbidden! ...Cause most broke girls will are lazy and will literally sleep with ANYTHING just to get money ...Their idea of love is money, so any man who doesn't spend on them does not love them ...Dating for most of them is survival mode ...Blimey, if a broke girl tells you she loves you, guy RUN!!!! ... 6 Likes 2 Shares |
| Romance › Re: If You Are Still Single At The Age Of 25. You Are Useless!!! by Fahvvy: 7:31pm On May 28, 2023 |
Am I the only one seeing the irony in the OP's post? ... |
| Romance › Re: Why Is It That Guys Hardly Fall In Love Anymore? by Fahvvy: 7:27pm On May 28, 2023 |
I see someone up there asking why the guy couldn't tell her he wasn't interested rather than lead her on ...Well... First of... It is not certain who was leading who on ...How are we sure that the girl wasn't the one leading him on until it was too late for her? ...Who knows, the guy may have been her plan B & unfortunately for her, both plan A and B failed ..Secondly... We all have got to come to the acceptance that not all relationships will end in marriage ...So whether or not marriage was promised or you've dated for years, it's no guarantee that, that relationship will end in marriage ...Accept this reality and move on! Thirdly... How are we sure that it wasn't something that the girl that made the guy back off? ...I mean, do you expect a guy to see a glaring red flag and still jump inside? ...So before we crucify the guy, let's think first . And lemme address the ladies... Understand that, All girls are date-able, but not all girls are marriageable ...This is a reality you have to come to terms with ...Men know EXACTLY what they want in a WIFE and if you're not it, THEY WILL DUMP YOU FOR SOMEONE ELSE ...So just because your boyfriend is putting up with your excesses and not complaining doesn't mean he is okay with it ...He will most likely be silent, but he has already taken a decision that he'll never wife you up ...So before you "give him small drama", understand that, that "small drama" could be the very reason why he'll dump you for someone else .. 27 Likes 8 Shares |
| Romance › Re: What Could Be The Problem? by Fahvvy: 10:24am On May 26, 2023 |
I don't know what the issue is OP, but one thing I do know for CERTAINTY is that a trip to the hospital will yield a far better result than a post on nairaland ... |
| Romance › Re: Why Do Some People Always Over Keep Low Profile?? by Fahvvy: 10:14am On May 26, 2023 |
Na so monitoring spirit dey take start until e later evolve to familiar spirit ...OP mind your business and allow God use you ... 17 Likes 2 Shares |
| Romance › Re: Nigerian Man Gets Angry After The Person He Sent 10k Said It Wasnt Enough (vid) by Fahvvy: 3:46am On May 26, 2023 |
Females be funny... Some person's don't even that much in a week and yet you're recieving stuff on a platter and you're being ungrateful, nice one ...And in their minds, they are showing that they're "high class", oshey!!! Senior student ...Men are learning, it will surely bounce back ...And men, continue giving eh ...You're doing well ... 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Romance › Re: She Lied Her Husband Is Dead I Discovered And She Confess Wat Should I Do? by Fahvvy: 9:58pm On May 25, 2023 |
When we say things like don't take single mothers serious, some people will bash us and call us names, but see am ba? ...I have no advice for the OP, do what you wish sir ... Cause nothing wey we go talk fit change your mind ...But to every man out there that's reading this, please note that, it is not in your best interest to wife up a single mother (except God Himself thunders from heaven and tells you so HIMSELF) ...But to every man his own sha ...Your life, your single mother ...And like we'll say "one man's poison is another man's food" ... 15 Likes 1 Share |
| Romance › Re: Advice Needed.........should I Call Her Mum Or Lock Up. by Fahvvy: 8:00am On May 25, 2023 |
Godoverevery:That women are naturally selfish doesn't mean that you have to put up with ...Believe me when I tell you that there are lots of women out there who would PRACTICALLY cook for free, lots of em!!!! So don't even entertain the idea that "all women are like that" ...I can't tell you what to do, but if I were in your shoes, this is what I'll do... 1. Call her mum and tell her that if she can get all the materials you'll need then you'll install everything for her free of charge if need be... 2. Kick that girl outta your house and life... From your post, I can opine that you already consider that girls family to be your family... Whilst this is admirable, the fact is that SHE IS NOT and she OBVIOUSLY doesn't consider your family to be her family !!! ...So take a step back and reevaluate matters... Fact is, whatever traits you can't deal with in dating/courtship, it's best to call everything off before the marriage becomes a war zone... 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: Men Should Learn To Fast As Coping Mechanism When Their Wives Deny Them Sex by Fahvvy: 5:16am On May 25, 2023 |
First of... A spouse shouldn't deny their partner access to s.ex ...The man has a right to his wife's body and vice versa, so denying your partner s.ex is you infringing on their right ...Secondly... If the reason why you're fasting is because your wife said no to s.ex, blimey, FASTING WILL NOT SOLVE IT!! ...The fact that it has gotten to a point where she is denying you s.ex is proof that there's an underlying issue in the marriage and until that underlying issue is dealt with, you wouldn't get so much result ...Thirdly... S ex is a NEED for man, so a woman denying her hubby s.ex is invariably pushing him to going outside... Whilst I don't support extra marital affairs, if your wife were to deny me s.ex without any valid reason that has properly being communicated, then I believe it's time to find her replacement ... |
| Romance › Re: Smelly Pusssy Or Ugly Face, Pick One by Fahvvy: 3:56pm On May 24, 2023 |
1Sharon: No where in my previous write up did I opine the bolded, but here we are?!! ...Tis well ...And besides... All this boils down to females not taking good care of themselves ...The "health condition" you spoke about could be STI's, and last I checked STI's are majorly as a result of women spreading legs like rumor ...So whether a females vagina smells as a result of "health condition", hygiene or whatever, it doesn't change the fact that if a woman's vagina is smelling, then it's her fault ...Take very good care of yourself and your vagina will smell, in your own words "neutral" ... 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Romance › Re: Smelly Pusssy Or Ugly Face, Pick One by Fahvvy: 10:01am On May 24, 2023 |
1Sharon:Whoever told you that hygiene isn't a cause of a smelly vagina lied to you ... 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Romance › Re: When A Lady Tells You "Don't Judge Me By My Past" by Fahvvy: 9:49am On May 23, 2023 |
Men if you like, continue acting like fools by taking these kind of women seriously (relationship wise), you'll DEFINITELY regret it ...With all the research out there that shows how disadvantaged it is to be with such women, y'all still have refused to learn ...To every man his own sha ...As for me, if she isn't a virgin, she's not worth taking seriously and is for recreational use ONLY ... 9 Likes 1 Share |
| Romance › Re: Nairaland Singles: Which Of These Can You Accept As A Spouse? by Fahvvy: 10:27pm On May 21, 2023 |
Vinnie2000:Yup... I agree with you... I hope you also know that there are married individuals in this Nigeria with spouses who don't have any of the above mentioned traits and their marriage is going strong? ...Either ways sha... I can't deal with any of those traits you mentioned up there ...I'd rather stay unmarried ... 10 Likes 1 Share |
| Phones › Re: Techno Spark 4 Of #25,780 Is Better Than An Iphone 14 Pro Max Of #1,200,000 by Fahvvy: 10:07pm On May 21, 2023 |
skywalker240:I'm glad you recognize how I viewed your comment ...Sha drink water and you'll be fine ... |
| Romance › Re: How Many Days Or Weeks Should A Mother-inlaw Stay When She Visits? by Fahvvy: 1:58pm On May 20, 2023 |
Solofresh2:I totally agree with you... As long as she doesn't interfer with how I choose to run my home, I'm cool ...But once the cho-cho-cho starts, she's leaving the very next day ... 2 Likes |
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