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brain54:
Where is the fun in dating/marrying a 100% submissive woman…

Na robot you wan date or marry?

Everybody with their own sha… as for me I can’t last 2 days in such a relationship.

I like my woman independent and knows what she is about. Not some over submissive “anything you say boss” type woman. You even said “rules and order”. Is she my pupil or employee? That’s weird.


Like I said everyone with their own.

Boring!

First off...
The idea of equating a submissive woman to a robot is not absurd, its stu.pid!! And it's an insult to every submissive woman out there! ...

Secondly...
Where is it written that a submissive woman cannot be independent? ... This ideology that submissiveness is anonymous to independence is fallacious! ...

But like you said, "to each their own" ...

donbachi:
who is a real man?

Who is a real woman? ...
Someone who sleeps with her best friends fiance ba ...

Evolutionlove:
70% of Men are Cheap like Tissue Paper. Most especially Blvck Men.

First of...
Can you share me a link to the research that proves the validity of your claims? Or is this one of your imaginary statistics? ...

Secondly...
What's the relationship between my comment (which is in line with the thread) and yours? ...


@everyone
Let's observe something here ...

A female who is not a virgin is UNFIT to be a wife and it beats my imagination why men would bother to wife up ran through women ...

dammyz101:
This is what the civilization the white man brought is doing to us, just imagine this happening precolonial era, bought of them would have died mysteriously. But come to think of it, ur husband ur taking side with is the muster here, for hid dick to even stand wee ur mum is. Jeeeezzzzzzz

Then the woman who slept with HER OWN DAUGHTER'S HUSBAND is the saint ba? Just dey play ...

OP...
A man wanting to sleep immediately after se.x is not because he doesn't love his woman or because he has "gotten what he wanted", that's just BS ...

A man wanting to sleep immediately after se.x is simply because he's tired! nothing more ...

Do you know how much energy goes outta a man during se.x? ...

advanceDNA:
That islamic section mod no get chill at all...

same way dey behave in real life....they dont want criticism of their religion in their islamic state...ordinary protest na crime.... yet they can talk down on another person's faith

Omorrr...
Those guys are extremist honestly ...

My issue is with the bolded...
If you don't want someone to talk down on your beliefs, then don't do the same to others ...

And what's even more annoying is the fact that the mods are even allowing their stupidity to blossom ...

They talk down on another's beliefs without consequences, but if the tables are turned, you'll see signs and wonders ...

donbachi:
Anything anti legspreading is welcomed.

As in eh...
Anything that will stop our girls from spreading legs like bama on top agege bread is WELCOMED!! ...

The rate of infidelity is too much abeggi ...

advanceDNA:
U get luck...the islamic section mod bans pple for many years.... Oga Seun ...some of your mods dey over do oooo....how can u ban someone till 2032

Hahahahha ...
Just quit nairaland or you open a new aza, that's all ...

Jerryherd:
Why should a lady objectify herself by personally placing a price on her self like a slave

The average modern woman has a price tag on her head ...

There are still virgins OP ...

Just that compared to the wh.ores we have, their numbers are insignificant, but they exist nonetheless ...

Everyone should respect everyone OP ...

Respecting people just because of "who they may be" is nothing short of hypocrisy!! ...

And the truth is, some of the things the people on Romanceland refer to as "bashing" or "insults" are just plain facts ...

This doesn't mean that some boys don't insult females o, but the point let's Sha learn to differentiate between insults and facts ...

Borntosmoke:
You don vex me. This girl is in trouble. Even though I have bad experience beating female gender I'm still going to beat her. I go treat her fu. ck up. Thank you for your advice.

If you had dealt with her immediately she slapped you then it would've been considered as far play ...

But anything you do now will regarded as assault, so just die the matter ...

BigYash:
1. Stop pentronizing olosho,and stop justifying rubbish ..

2. So,bcux they sell themselves for money, are they forcing you to buy?

3. This same hypocritic you will come out to say "All Nigerian girls are the same" tomorrow. But you join those when they turn them to be the same.. And even if the op was a comedian, what he is saying isn't a joke..

1. How did you come to this inference? ...
2. Since they are selling their bodies, then they should be blamed ...

Stop blaming other people for other people's decisions! ...

3. Point out ANYTIME where I have ever said this? ...

If you can't show me ANYWHERE I said "All Nigerians girls are the same" it means your inference is erroneous and only fo.ols make erroneous statements ...

Animegirl:
Is not bad to train someone. Is your intentions that put you all on the spot. Must you marry the Lady?

The reason why men will bother to sponsor a girl to school is because they intend to marry her, so what are you saying? ...

@OP...
It is stupid.ity of the heighest magnitude to train a girl to school in hopes of getting married to her ...

It's better you use that money and rear fowl than do the above ...

If you both love each other so much, marry her first, let her go to school in your house ...

I honestly don't feel sorry for men who get scammed by females on such matters, they'll learn soon ....

BigYash:
Op men are the problem,married men most especially. If men stop paying heavily on these gutters,oloshoism will reduce.. Man go just transfer 500k give girl for just bj alone, meanwhile another girl when dey do legitimate job go dey earn 30k a month.. After many deductions,her take home fit no reach 20k sef.. Na men cause the high rate of hookup.. So,men should be discouraged first...

Honestly eh...
If the gender behind this moniker is a male, it'll be a very big shame ...
If it's a female, then I won't be surprised ...

An adult female decides to sell her body for money and rather than hold THAT ADULT responsible for her actions, you're blaming someone else? How does that logic work sir? ...

@others...
It's like y'all are new to nairaland, cause the OP is popular for making hilarious and illogical post ...

Just read, laugh and move on ...

favour32:
The video is a reality.
Doubt to your own peril.

All those people saying fake either didn't watch the video or are very naive ...

Girls if you like keep sleeping around for money eh, it's good ...

Bintabisiriyu2:
if i change am for her it might get messy, am just trying not to over react

It's not about being messing or over reacting oga ...

There are ways you can sternly make someone understand that they're being disrespectful without causing a scene ...

But it has happened already Sha ...
Just ignore her from now on ...

One thing I hate about women is the fact that they refuse to take accountability for their actions and will almost always find someone or something to blame ...

She claimed she was drunk and all, but I ask...
Was the drink shoved down her throat? ...

She wore her dress and made herself up -- her decision! ...

She carried her two left leg to the party -- her decision! ...

She collected a cup of alcohol -- her decision! ...

She allowed herself to get drunk by drinking too much of it -- her decision! ...

Alright, let's assume that her actions under the influence of alcohol wasn't her fault ...

However, everything that led to her getting drunk, everything that happened prior to her getting drunk is 100% on her! ...

Personally...
I can't even roll with a lady that drinks alcohol or goes clubbing, talk more of one who allows herself to get drunk in a club and acts like a dog on heat ...

Oga OP...
Please advice yourself ...

ItisWell22:
She’s a widow! 😒

Yeahhh...
That's terrible, I agree...
The death of her husband prolly wasn't her fault...

But she's still a single mother REGARDLESS ...
So that makes her not good enough to be taken seriously (relationship wise) ...

As funny as this sounds, there's truth to it ...

Then call me evil, cause I believe it is STUPIDITY OF THE HEIGHEST MAGNITUDE, to involve third parties in the affairs of your marriage in most cases ...

Cause all those third parties will give you counsel that is biased by their own experience for the most part ...

And what works for A may most likely not work for B, cause the circumstances surrounding A's marriage is totally different to that of B ...

Besides even if the circumstances are the same, their spouses are not ...

The ONLY TIME I can advice a third party is when the couples themselves have tried repeatedly to solve a problem and it doesn't work...

Bringing in a WISE & EXPERIENCED third party that both sides respect and listen to in cases like this is recommended, asides this, you'll only destroy your marriage if you do so ...

And the accountability you're talking about shouldn't be to anyone but your spouse (in this context) ...

Happy birthday ma'am...

donbachi:
Why not.
You guys don't marry them in nigeria.but, will come overseas and marry great-grand mothers.

Atleast for the most part, there are benefits attacked to marrying these alleged great grand mothers (finance, green card, connections etc) ...

Can you tell me one benefits attached to getting married to a single mother that has three kids here in Nigeria? ....

@OP...
I don't hate single mothers, however, unless God Himself thunders from heaven saying "Marry this one", I'd rather be castrated than end up with one ...

And I can't advice any to marry one too ...
Let her go and marry any of her baby daddy's ...

7david7

Go to any hospital and see a doctor...
What they'll most likely do is shave all of his hair (what we call skull or gborima-kpa) and they'll use that to do a tissue culture in the microbiology lab...

From the results they'll prescribe some drugs that should solve the problem permanently...

Ctrl S ...

Google alxafrica.com and see how far...

They have arguably the best IT program in the world and it's free...

Check it out and see how far...

Hmmmmm ...
This your analysis get as e be o ...
How much man go save? ...

Let's do a bit of analysis...
Let's save oga saves 25k out of the 75k every month...

25k * 12months = 300k per year
So oga will need 20years of consistent savings before he can raise 6million naira...

Even this amount of money may not get something really good ...

Oshey!!!! ...
The woman is smart ...

Lemme paint y'all a picture ...
Woman marries the man who buys the house...
Two years after, she divorces him and keeps his house and takes half his money...
When the money isn't enough for her anymore, she offers the same deal to the next unfortunate man...
And the cycle repeats itself ...

Nice one ...

This is the height of wickedness ...

I'm sure she prolly knew your boss was deducting it out of your salary every month and STILL she didn't think to stop? ...

I dunno about you, but a thief is not someone I want around my kids, cause kids be learning from what they see ...