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Nextleve89:
Please house what's the best skill for a nursing mother to acquire

selling provisions

MasonKendall:
Harry Kane is from England and plays in the English league, so what's the fuss about a Nigerian playing in a Nigerian league?

Please don't quote me with the crappy excuse that the EPL is the best league in the world.

Lalasticlala

A dead epl is better than a living Nigeria league. You can't compare the facilities and exposure

Dpharisee:
When Rashidi Yekini came back and played for 3SC, the stadium in Minna collapsed due to the surging crowd that came to watch him, I was there

Julius Berger not 3sc

omoyeni37:
Musa, 28 years? chai!!!!!!

When you refuse to leave football, football will leave you at your real age

Fahdiga:
Wrong move

home sweet home

Why the replay? It was on FP during Easter. You have to bring same thread to FP twice in 14days....kilode gan

God didn't do this surgery. She looks artificial

Soso990240:
you calling someone u don't know an illiterate already shows ur level of knowledge. Keep wallowing in ur stupidity and ignorance

I don't need to know you. Your reasoning is just like that of a folly. A stark illiterate.... That's what you are, you can quote me anywhere

Casalindal:
Three days inside relationships dem don give me second chance twice, I no know why I no dey hear word!!!! So as you all know I have been having issues with my husband and at the moment we are separated.

Well I met this guys during the weekend say (Friday) and we both went on a gateway trip out of Abuja to Lagos, well long story short Mr A is giving me the second chance in the relationship to make it work. Guys please help me out. Do you all think I’m trouble??

You can't keep a relationship cos you don't relate well with others. Bad energy stay far away

Orld777:
Six yrs ago I left my city to a different city for a greener pasture, I left behind my wife and 2 children. I was a faithful husband to my wife and used her whenever I can everything was peaceful. Then come 2018 I have had planned to return back to my city in 2018 ending because I have had saved a lot of money to start business over there. Then the devil came to tempt me by sending me this beautiful woman till now I don't know how I gave in to her because I have vowed all my life to never cheat on my wife. But this lady won me over. We started dating and always sleep with her with condoms on to make sure that she doesn't get pregnant. But I was shocked jsut three months into the relationship, she drop a bombshell that she was pregnant, I was confused and I asked her what about all the condoms that I have been using and there's no way she could be pregnant but she insisted that I was the father. I told her I wasn't ready for the baby and I am married all I could ever do for her is to give her the money to terminated but she refused. She wanted to keep the pregnancy so I told her to keep it at her own risk because I will have nothing to do with her or the baby. I gave her the money incase she change her mind and decided to opt for the abortion she can use the money. She left my place in tears and she blocked me. I didn't know see her again till I left the city back to my city, actually I knew her house but I didn't bothered to go look for her. It has been 2 years plus since I am back with my family and I have never told my wife anything and she has never found out about my affair too. Last week I was in my office ( I am self employee) to my suprised the lady I had an affair with show up with a small girl who just look like me first time seeing her I was in tears . I was in shocked  and started wondering how did she know my office I was angry what if my wife was there but I decided to keep my cool and listen to her. She said she was attending a funeral jsut 10 mins away from my place and she begged me to watch the child for her and she will be back in an hour. I asked her about the person who gave her my office address but she didn't respond she said she will tell me when she return back. She gave me her number to call her incase of any problem. Honestly I don't know how I have accepted to watch the child for her thinking that she will be coming in a hour like she said, but she never came back. Her number was not reachable she also gave me a wrong number. I was shattered and I didn't know what to do with the child, I was at my office until 10pm trying to figure out what to do with her. At the end I have to drop her at my cleaner house where she is now. My cleaner hasn't been coming to work because she is taking care of the child and I am restless because I have no idea what to do with her. I blamed the lady for everything when I have asked her and given her the money for the abortion and why did she choose to keep the pregnancy then later to abandoned her with me when she fully know that I never wanted her in the first place. What will I tell my wife and will she forgive and accept her that easily. I love my wife and kids so I don't want to this my illegitimate child issue to break my home. Please house advixe me.

Tell her that you are about to adopt a little girl that lost her mother from your village

Only him helped Napoli? What a terrible headline

Jasonjay101:
It's only God that knows what you guys here on nairaland really want from a woman.
After reading some ridiculous comments here from guys that the babe is pushing the guy too much, she's stressing the guy and she should leave the guy alone with 75k salary in this present Nigeria
If a girl is not doing anything to support financially you guys will say she's lazy and not adding anything to the relationship, if she's not motivating you or supporting with word of encouragement you will say she's not wife material. Now you have a girl who earns her own money and also trying to push her guy to also try to do better next you guys are saying she's pushing too much. Nawa!!!

Not everyone is gifted in huzzling. If your destiny is attached to salary, if you like huzzle pass alabarus in mile 12, nothing tangible will come out of it. People should respect other people's lane

Lovethaa:
Have been friends with a babe at my workplace and from her frequent visit to my office plus the way she calls me to check on me . you could easily tell that she likes me .

One thing led to another and we ended up kissing , after the kiss I told her to tell me about her past relationships plus her sexual life .

She opened up to me that she was introduced to sex at 8years old by one neighbor uncle ,
she told me how the uncle take her to his room and ask her to play with his Prick and sometimes would make her suck it ,she claim she couldn't tell her mom because she will beat her mercilessly

She said she officially started having sex at 10 ,she disclosed that she had done 4 abortions so far although the abortions were for the same guy . mind you she is just 24 years old

She claimed she's telling me all this because she loves me and wants to be honest with me .

But hearing all that I was weak.. this babe is from a wealthy family , she travels to yankee like someone going to a neighboring state plus she is an MSC Holder , unknown to her I have decided that I would marry her because she's educated and wealthy family is like a bonus but now she actually disgust me and I wish she didn't tell me all that ..

Ladies are doing shit behind forget all that pretty gentle face.. if I was to judge with the face I could have bet with my life that this babe was a virgin or atleast not that experienced in sex ...


and pls ladies if you have such dirty past ,I think u should keep it to yourself...



I'm just lost for words , wish I could unhear everything

High mileage but neatly used

Kileleyi

Coca-cola bottle leleyi

Idamond:
Why does a country who prints her own money still borrows from other countries. economists in the house please help.?

This question again....read more about inflation

He's brainwashed

Soso990240:
Na so ada Jesus take start, see where she is now. Learn to say only the things you are sure of

Illiterate

crixlight2:
What if Ada sickness is part of the fake and well prepared miracle , since she don forgive her now , Odumeje will now heal and you see how fast she will recover

Scammers everywhere

Lagosinter1:
That girl's issue may not be connected to any of these people.

Her issue could be purely medical.

You dey mind the gullible nairalanders.

They always believe sickness is as a result of Spiritual attack

Illiterates everywhere

You are part of the badbelle cos you couldn't honour him by declaring June 12 as democracy day

Kriss216:
Sometimes, I sit back and ask myself...


"What if I'm not Igbo, wetin I for tell my children"




God bless Igbo!

Third class citizen

Awọn omi olowo

Hope they won't start singing about when they were selling plantain

highchief1:
im a native doctor are u not afraid to die

You are dead already. You should be afraid of not having a proper burial

Penguin2:
Davido is eyeing politics.

Ain’t no two ways about it.

He said it already. He ll stop singing by 30.

Adelekes are known to be politician

creolehunt:
Sometime last year, I met a lady. At the time I met her things were not working for me the way I had expected. In fact, my career had somehow stagnated even though I was in a new job then.

Prior to meeting her, I was seeing someone who I once overheard complaining to a friemd of having sex with someone in her dreams and in that dream, she already has a family with this strange person in that dream. This coupled with other negative feelings i had made me leave the relationship.

Now comes this new girl. Within 2 months of meeting her (5months into the job), my employment was confirmed with a promotion to booth. I must say that this confirmation typically takes 1yr to 18months. 4 months later (totalling 9months on the job), I was promoted again to a mid level managerial position. Again, this typically takes around 3yrs for others. My company cited "exceptional service delivery", but deep down I know it's not just that, I'm that instinctive. Now, I'm not the type of person to easily find favor in people's eyes or the type people just wants to stick out for. But since I met her, even at my workplace, my superiors have taken special interest in me, I just can't do any wrong.

Now, deep down, I know some things have changed. Even mentally, i have become more purposeful as she is a very driven person. I've never mentioned to her about these changes I've noticed in my life.
The thing is that when we talk, albeit jokingly she always say that she came into my life and everything changed, that the day I will try nonsense with her (cheat or breakup), my life will just scatter. Even today she said it that the "spirit" (context is important here) working for her had to smoothen my life when she came into it, lest I infect her with my troubles, I jokingly replied that my mother's prayers are working wonders in my lofe, and she said that I should be happy she is in my life. A lot of the time, she has made such comments. There was a day she said that if I keep her happy, that I will keep enjoying. She says God answers her prayers and honestly, her life is good. It just feels like she has everything all figured out.

Honestly, everything feels better around me since I met her and i also believe in the notion that some people can pull good fortune to you, but I'm also apprehensive. What if i cheat on her, what if i break up with her?

Has anyone had this type.of encounter? Please, she is not a bad person. I'm just wondering if there are truly people like this.

Nonsense!
If God answers her prayer on your behalf. Why is her prayer over her life not answer. She still depends on you for stipends. Abeg forget all those superstitions

Kestolove:
but wait! will this new dress code end boko haram? nonsense ingredients

It will help them embezzle money

philanthropic:
Some may say, once you are born again, you are totally free from everything or problem, no deliverance is needed..

But that is not totally true? Why? You have seen born again Christians with one issue or the other, such as attacks, repeated sicknesses, marital delays, oppressions etc.

It's true. I believe, being born again gives you the access to deal with certain issues of life through Christ. Please what is your own view? And if you feel am wrong, hope you have never had any issues in you life that required deliverance.

Being born again is a ticket to heaven

To wage Spiritual war, you need to use your spiritual armor.

An afflicted Christian is like a soldier in the battlefield that refused to use his sword

Afiastikal:
Good day all

I noticed that most churches especially the not so new ones insist intending couples seek the face or mind of God towards their union.

This is to ensure the supposed union has heavenly approval.

So the big question is this, Do they really hear from God, like words to the ears or is it the usual God given instinct that every one possess that they eventually rely on

I know for instance that that if someone meets a good wife or husband material, there is this peace of mind that comes with being with the person or the thought of getting married to the person.. It is worth to note that this feeling, instinct or intuition is also present in a normal human being

So,please do you guys really hear from God before getting married

Instinct
Peace of mind
Agreement

That's the mind of God

highchief1:
what u don’t know is bigger than u

Your thinking is small

I lend only what I can give away

highchief1:
i can strike u for this comment.pull it down now

Fake people everywhere

Miracle4all:
God bless you all niaraland members.

For a little now I have been privileged to serve God as a pastor in a newly planted church, to the Glory of God. There is no great building yet, just a temporary structure made with wood. I am not bothered about that, because humans are the church and not the building.

Now my experience is this, I have come to realize that many of us are going through economical problem, rather than spiritual problem. Anyday I am sitting in church for counseling purpose, majority of people that comes for counseling are those looking for what to eat, you will hear things pls pastor whatever you have give me to eat.

One day I shed tears, because I could not have anything to help some persons. My conclusion is this, churches should help each other. I am setting up a day for compassion purpose, even though we are not much in number yet, members we be encouraged to bring what they have to help others.

Most of them are not working I guess. Tell them to find something doing with their hands and the Church will support you.

The poor will always be in the Church anyway