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Jejemey:
A man whose name was not revealed has requested for opinions from the public after he sent his wife packing while she was six months pregnant.

According to the man, they had a little...

Read full story here

https://epasswords.com.ng/my-father-in-law-called-me-back-to-collect-my-bride-price-what-should-i-do-nigerian-man-laments/

Is your name Davido?

LaIabobo:
GL 8 is the entry level grade for graduate teachers in the civil service.
None of the winners are on Level 8. they can't be less than GL 12.

leave level and talk in terms of salary

Zzor:
Don't even think I read,yeye dy smell all over this post

Even to read..na work for you

When you don't have songs to promote, you ll become an attention seeker

Wendy006:
Hi Folks, to hide my identity i had to use my alternate account. Your advise is hugely needed.

This happened mid 2019, this new guy joined the office from a competition and we were sort of close acquaintance. We managed different zones, so there was no rivalry. Shortly after his arrival, he joined forces with the area manger to pull me down. The guys had this dislike for me, honestly i don't know why despite hitting/surpassing targets time after time and some cases i was a global winner. The hatred was immense that i had to confront them several times, just incase i was unknowingly doing something against their wish. The AM was unable to influence my transfer cos i had some folks at HQ behind me. When this was not achieved, then the scheming began, It got so intense that i had to write the management for a rotation to a different department. The whole Nigeria went berserk with the decision, when i was questioned, i gave them my reason. The rest of what happened should be a story for another day.

Recently, I was sent to audit their records and i found things that once i escalate will instantly cost them both their jobs. The questions remains, if you were in my shoes, what would you do?

Two options
1, escalate, they will both loose their jobs amd possibly detained
2, Give them an opportunity to recover the money or block it with personal funds.

Late scheme of events shows that management is just waiting for a ruse to ask them both to leave, and this should be the final nail on thier coffin. Seems i have been carrying a moral burden since last night.

Evil prevails when good people keep quiet. If you don't report them, if someone else find out and did, they ll assume that you are part of the plot

doggedfighter:
Has it gotten to that?

Did he pay bride price?
Thought it was just introduction.

Bride price can be paid anytime. It's not tied to an event

My neighbor's hubby paid her bride price after 20yrs of marriage

He's cow savvy not internet

robosky02:
Osimhen Named Man Of The Match In Super Eagles’ Win Vs Lesotho


https://www.completesports.com/osimhen-named-man-of-the-match-in-super-eagles-win-vs-lesotho/

Well deserved...a goal n an assist

Ghost1994:


Assistant referee will take over.

But see as competition be like say na 1986 dem dey play the game.

Match, no channel dey show am. If person com finally get a link to view it, na like say dem dey play the ball in year 1950.

Africa is still sleeping.

The match was suspended cos the reserve referee is from Ivory coast.

Ethiopia rejected him

Sheuns:
Well done. You can as well increase their pay. A level 8 teacher takes home less than 70k monthly.

How will he/she maintain the car with that ridiculous salary

Magnoliaa:
[color=deeppink]Me sef, I don't know. Are they?? What do they get from it? I mean, just bodies crushing each other and very restrictive. Can never be me doing it.[/color]

You should know. To the extent that they complain if it isn't done properly

Fcmb Atm? No wonder

Fcmb n scandals...

Patrioticman007:
The most common punishment for blasphemers was capital punishment through hanging or stoning, justified by the words of Leviticus 24:13–16. This for the Christians in the house, go & read your Bible.

However this effect of insanity, the man was supposed to be taken to mental asylum, however frustrated Nigerians transfered their anger on him.

Ignorance .... putting mosaic laws and Christianity in the same sentence.
Christianity was found on LOVE not laws. No christian lives under those mosaic laws

observanc1:
osimen scored scored the first. Onuachu scored the 3rd. Have forgotten who scored the 2nd

Etebo

obembet:
Most family do family planning to prevent unwanted pregnancies, some family even go to the standard hospital for proper care to avoid errors or mistake, but despite that, some women are still getting pregnant.

Dear Medical Practitioners in the house, kindly educate us and tell us the way out.

No family planning method is 100% safe

Zzor:
The pastor that can't keep his thing in his pants.His wife is beautiful but he's still not satisfied.

he's looking for a boy child. Don't blame him

NiRfreak:
The major academic or intellectual influence come from school, the quality of the school, the Calibre of pupils the child move it, environment...and discipline of parents ensuring kids behave well.

Ignorance

Both forms of teaching doesn't end at the four walls of the classroom

NiRfreak:
It's not big deal if she can't assist them intellectually. That's why we have lesson, home tutors.

...there are kids that orphan or who lost their mom while young, yet they still became educated...

Parents are always the first teacher

JudgeKronos:
I see..... but Oga, being schooled does not guarantee intellectual aptitude.

Most times, it does. I don't want to take chances

JudgeKronos:
This is unbelievable!
Like .... how can? You quoted his entire write up just to tell him that his kids will suffer for his choice of an ideal wife ?? Geeeez !!!
We need a total reorientation in this part of the world , honestly.

The kids are closer to the mother than the father. I will not have a wife that cannot engage the kids intellectually or assist them with school work

Ffk....the catalyst

LMS1:
Igbo Amaka...
Happy Birthday Sinach,
But Gradually The Other Lady That Wear Beret 24/7 Is Taking Over From You.

No competition among gospel artiste. Mercy Chinwo style is different from hers

NiRfreak:
Recently, I'm having a paradigm shift of the ideal woman to marry in the midst of tension and uncertainties surrounding marriages. A popular fact is that the woman a man marries determine so much about a man's achivement, happiness, health, longevity and the fate of his children, and since I cherish peace of mind so much I've decided to go for an uneducated woman.
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She will be a secondary school holder and I will set her up for business and these are my reasons.

1. Intellectual gap and economic difference between husband and wife is a big factor in determining the success of a marriage. Women generally will look up to their spouse and are easily moved and obligated to respect him when he's obviously superior intellectually and economically. Whereas, unnecessary power play ensues when a woman is very close to her man in terms of education and economic means. This alone has broken many homes and still counting.


2. New definition of gender roles: feminist and mainstream media are misleading women to reject their traditional roles that have made them successful and happy as women for thousands of years.This new mindset and role shift is largely incompatible with marriage and it's the reason why 70% of marriages in Western world hit the rock within 5 years of wedlock. Even in our society, divorce is so prevalent as women try to change marital roles and values to copy the oyibo. Only few men can cope with this role shift.


3. Uneducated women are more devoted to their men, as they have few engagements, amusements and lofty frivolities. When you are also a good man who shows her that you truly love her and care so much for her happiness, most times they go all length to pls you and you see them glow for you. They are more proud of having you and grateful for what you do.

4. They are more teachable. I believe you can easily blend them how you want. They are also very happy, when your educated friends come around and still shower them respect as Oga's wife, cos you don't joke with her or disrespect her.

5. Feminism promotes sexual decadence. Check what our ladies are doing on the internet. Feminism expose them to such. Most educated women, feminist and all, take their freedom too far that they do all kind of sexual experimentation and are more bold with less scruples to be sexually daring. As they are less religious, less modest, wilder, subscribing to strange philosophies that jeopardise marital values and family cohesion just for personal pleasure and happiness

This is not saying it's 100% foolproof for good marriage, women also have their personalities, either educated or not. but in general this limits avoidable tussle.
And some will say I'm only a control freak, well, men should lead, and there's nothing wrong if they are in control as long as they are reasonable, and a good woman doesn't have problem submitting to a man whom they love and respect apart from our new generation feminist who believe they are equal to men and thus want to dictate.

You may air your view as regard to this school of thought, either positive or negative they are welcome.

Your kids will suffer for it

She dey fear, why she no reveal all like the first one

The Nigeria Football Federation has confirmed that Winger Alex Iwobi has tested negative for Covid-19.
Iwobi was ruled out of Nigeria’s AFCON 2021 qualifying match against Benin Republic at the weekend after mandatory test result returned positive for the virus.

Super Eagles Manager, Gernot Rohr had cast doubts over the authenticity of Iwobi’s positive status.

Per Colin Udoh [ESPN] Gernot Rohr has told me that although @Everton’s Alex Iwobi tested positive for COVID on arrival in Benin, he believes the result is “fake”. A 2nd test has been taken and result due soon. Rohr tells me he’s confident Iwobi will play on Tuesday

On Matchday, the Nigeria FA tweeted the update on the test result, declaring the 24 year-old was in the all clear.

Update: @NGSuperEagles forward, @alexiwobi has tested negative after further COVID-19 tests were conducted

However, it is unclear whether the Winger will be available for selection on matchday against Lesotho.

Nigeria has qualified for the 2022 AFCON to be hosted by Cameroon. The team plays its final AFCON qualifying match on Tuesday against Lesotho.


https://www.brila.net/nigeria-vs-lesotho-rohr-was-right-iwobi-positive-covid-result-was-fake/

9jaRealist:
Reduced, I agree, but not likely to be ever completely eliminated...
Let’s not forget that the failure of goal-line technology was the reason Aston Villa was not relegated last season.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2wA4dFofnrA
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Epl is useless, nothing stopped them from combining var and goal line technology to judge the incident

othermen:
Why can't the goal be awarded then and the yellow card- rescinded?

Not possible after the final whistle . Referee error is part of the game

When he scored two offside goals against Bayern, it wasn't rescinded

Moneyboyz:
I just tire bro, those people didn't pay my money till date, I bought another land and developed it and now this is happening. I finished it just 2 weeks ago.

Just go for mortgage housing, seems your destiny doesn't want build from the scratch

Food poison

oloyedewaris:
A user shared it on Facebook where a Nigerian mechanic built a bike that could contain eight passengers

The center of gravity is compromise

Tell us about those that you didn't reject

Timarodear:
As a guy, can you allow your GUY(male) friend sleep on your chest?‚

When he's not mad.

Men are not wired with show of emotions like that