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@Tbadbad you are on the wrong lane, man. She ain't gonna quit her shit. Beat a retreat. Do not get married to this babe.

dairykidd:
Maybe he's a gigolo... its very common there. Because if u no be business man going in and coming out, I don't see what any Nigerian would be doing in Thailand for straight 7 years... I'm just saying tho

That's not quite correct. I visited Thailand in 2013 and I can tell you that even in Pattaya, a city with almost the highest concentration of prostitutes, I found Nigerians doing legitimate business. I also found an African restaurant managed by three young Nigerians, males, who had gone to Thailand to study but afterwards opened a restaurant.

The sex capital of the world, that is Thailand. The fact that this guy even managed to carry on a legitimate business in Thailand, and did not get distracted by the millions of prostitutes operating freely in open places in that country, is enough reason to allow him to stay.

crossfm:
Mama eze ndi ala.

Happy birthday mama.

Taa! Who told you? Ebele Okaro is Zubby Michael's mom in movies only, but not in real life. I know Zubby's family.

Praxis758:
Pls what are the diffenecences career diplomat and not career ones.

Those with knowledge of Int'l relations pls enlighten me.

To help you make the distinction, think of the non-career diplomats as ministers appointed to oversee the federal ministries, and the career diplomats as the permanent secretaries or civil servants in those ministeries. The career diplomats have indefinite tenure (just like civil servants who served in a permanent capacity and can move from one federal ministry to another) but non-career diplomats only serve on a fixed, temporary capacity, just like ministers who can come and go depending on the political dispensation or whims of the political leader. I hope this explanation helped?

To help you make the distinction, think of the non-career diplomats as ministers appointed to oversee the federal ministries, and the career diplomats as the permanent secretaries or civil servants in those ministeries. The career diplomats have indefinite tenure (just like civil servants who served in a permanent capacity and can move from one federal ministry to another) but non-career diplomats only serve on a fixed, temporary capacity, just like ministers who can come and go depending on the political dispensation or whims of the political leader. I hope this explanation helped?

Praxis758:
Pls what are the diffenecences career diplomat and not career ones.

Those with knowledge of Int'l relations pls enlighten me.

Exactly. You forgot to add Obasanjo Afenifere, Gani Adams Afenifere, Area Boys Afenifere, MC Oluomo Afenifere. The list is endless.

Herdsmen:
Abi o..
Afenefere geh reach 13...

Tinubu afenefere
Odumakin group
Fasoranti group
Apc afenefere
Yoruba afenefere
Original afenefere

Etc... afenefere...

Yoruba sef

Who said? So all those wives committing adultery are not in a marriage?

bizme:
I am aware this might not be the experience of every couple but the many couple I have interacted with, the story is pretty much the same: the wife losing interest in sex once she gets married to the man and especially once children start coming.

For certain couples it isn't as obvious as that, the wife simply approaches sex as a mechanical function that she needs to get over with and perhaps do something else.

Why do you think this is so? Can one say it's because once married the woman feels socially secured and doesn't need to put in any effort to win the man? Or does it have anything to do with changing biology?

False prophet, thou art. No political party but APGA will win the election in Anambra State.

FalseProphet1:
I see a startup party outside APC and PDP winning the governorship election in Anambra, I see the results seriously challenged in court, I see many uncertainties, I see power going to the new party, I see APC trying to revisit the verdict after 14 months, I see them in court, I see them loose the case. This I have seen.

It's all make-believe, guys. Do not believe that this was true.

There's nothing basically wrong with a young woman of 22 staying alone, though there are often negative consequences for doing so. A young lady related to me her experience of what she'd passed through while staying alone in a rented apartment. She lost her job a few months after packing in, and as a result was constantly having to endure pangs of hunger and could not renew the rent. The landlord took advantage of her situation and started to demand sex as condition to allowing her to stay. Things got so worse that she started sleeping with different kinds of men just to find money and make ends meet. She even ignored to ask for help from her relatives back home because they had opposed her decision to stay alone. So she was ashamed to let them know what she was passing through.
Then the unexpected started to happen: she got raped by the landlord's son but she was ashamed to report the incident, simply because she also was sleeping with the landlord. The boy who raped her had threatened to expose her affair with his father in the event that she reported about the incident; also, she feared being confronted by the landlady, who, according to the girl, had shown so much kindness to her. Then she got raped a second time, but this time by a group of suspected cultists, while returning from church one night. According to this girl, she had such a terrible experience staying alone as a single girl, and she swore never to advise even her worst enemy to try the same thing.

I would have just said, "Nda's goats ate Nda's yam. Case dismissed." But then I should desist from doing so but condemn the cruel act of these boys. Rape is a crime so they deserved to be punished.

Noted.

envoymedia:
Earlier Thread: https://www.nairaland.com/6356539/corper-odume-princess-paschaline-arrested



https://igberetvnews.com/1378791/corps-member-explains-killed-man-akwa-ibom/

98%? But how did you arrive at this figure, with no empirical evidence nor research?

debbydams:
not everybody cheats.. But 98% of men cheats

You are right. She just wanted to trend.

Queenslander:
Smh, lies from the pit of hell!!

Trayceey, with all due respect you should have been there to welcome your fiance to your house.

Trayceey:
I Need Your Opinion On This Issue That's Threatening My Relationship

My fiance wanted to come to the house to see my mum but I told him I won't be around because I'm about heading out to somewhere, so he asked me if my mum would be around, then I said yes and he said he would still go to see her and it doesn't matter if I'm not around.

When I later got home that night, my mum complained that he came empty handed. He didn't bring anything for her and she was the one who offered him her drink.

Although initially, I didn't see anything wrong with that but when my mum expressed her displeasure, I later called him to ask why he came to the house empty handed then I let him know I wasn't happy with him, that it would have been better if he didn't come. He tried arguing with me but I hung up.

Since then, we haven't spoken to each other nor visited each other. Was I wrong?

Recent events begs BEG to differ.

blackpanda:
Recent events begs to differ

Call her bluff. Collect the results and clear your doubts forever.

kingeze88:
I'm married with 2 kids, a boy, and a girl but I trust my wife that is why I have never thought of anything like a DNA test, I didn't do the blood group of my kids to know if they carried my blood group because I know my wife will never bring another man's kids for me. My wife do tell me what's happening at her office, how some of her colleagues are dating their bosses in the office.

When I saw DNA trending on Twitter, I clicked on it where I read the sad news of Mr. Tunde Thomas who died after he discovered that the two kids he thought he was their biological father belong to his Wife's boss, Mr. Adam Nuru of FCMB Bank.

I couldn't sleep that night, I concluded that the next for me is to do the DNA test for my two kids to confirm that I'm their biological father.

Immediately my wife left Home today, thank God schools have closed till further notice, I took my kids to our family hospital to run a DNA test, and the Doctor told me the results will be ready tomorrow.

When my wife arrived this evening, I told her that, the DNA results of our kids will be ready tomorrow.

My wife told me that immediately I bring the results home tomorrow and the results confirmed that I'm their biological father, she will leave my house immediately.

Please, Should I tell her I'm just joking or wait for the DNA result?

In normal and civilized societies, the more honorable thing to do would have been for the MD to resign, on moral grounds, and not merely take the leave. But this is Nigeria and he would not do it, even if you pointed a gun at his head.

FocusedDiva:
Yeah! Taking the leave is honorable thing for him to do now. May the soul of Tunde Thomas continue to RIP.

Share those six odds from Turkey among your kinsmen.

I just finished reading these 'damage control' explanations from you. My advice to you remains unchanged: Learn to stick within the limits of acceptable behavior when dealing with school children. Those children are still minors, impressionable, but at the same time wiser than you may think. Draw boundaries and avoid playing too much with the little girls.

Though I may be in a different profession now, but during my national service I taught in a secondary school (FGGC Ibusa, Delta State) and also in a primary school before then. I can tell you that it is okay for a teacher to make himself approachable to students, but never to such extent that he will become too playful with them and lose some respect by doing so. A good teacher must know when to draw the lines between playful tolerance and taking his job seriously when dealing with the school children. At FGGC, even without being told, I knew that some of the girls in the classroom had loose manners and would respond to lewd gestures from a male teacher, but I kept my sanity and retained respect by now overstepping the line. This is the point that I was trying to explain to the teacher who posted his experience with his classroom pupils.

Classickj:
have you ever taught before

Exactly my point. Not when the blackboard is there. What was he showing little children on the phone in the first place? Honestly, may I be forgiven if I'm wrong, but I am seriously suspecting that the teacher already had hidden intention towards the female pupils. The fact that he brought the matter up here and mentioned about one of the little girls sitting on his laps (Imagine a teacher! Not even a nanny for that matter) means that he has already started to imagine crazy things in his head.

JustMichael:
Let there be moderation in your relationship with the students. It isn't even proper to be showing them stuffs on your phone in the first place

Stop sexualizing small girls by referring to them as "little ladies". I am a parent and I should be worried if you taught my daughters. I also know that it is wrong for a classroom teacher to become too informal with little children, especially young girls, to a point of see-finish. You don't need to seek opinion from Nairalanders when you are too old enough to know the right thing to do.

SamJed:
So I am a primary 4 classroom teacher and I love my children and ensure that they learn in the best way possible.

Most times I gather them around me and tell them some real life lesson, current events, science, stories, and even show them YouTube videos of some topics or discussion we had.

I was just reminiscing about what these children have done to me innocently that almost put me in trouble.

One day, before teaching a particular topic, I decided to watch some YouTube videos. One of the talkative's in the class managed to find her way to my table and saw me watching the videos.

She went back to her classmates and of all things to tell her classmates, she told them that she saw me watching a video with two naked girls and a man.

Damn It was just youtube videos. I don't know what she saw that made her conclude such. I had to quickly call all the kids together and show them what i was watching, because I knew that from class it will definitely get to their houses and that could be the start of some problem.

Another day, one of the little ladies wrote me a letter detailing how she likes my teaching and don't want me to go. According to her, I should keep teaching her till she leaves the school.

She kept asking me for a reply. I still wonder how I wriggled out of that situation.

Another one was another little lady coming to sit on my leg and gbam it spread... I initially waved it off till the proprietress called me to be wary of the kids

The little guys don't have problem apart from always reminding me of the gifts I promised them for whoever comes out best in any challenge I give.

So guys have you ever been put into trouble by kids

One size does not fit all. The fact that a girl from a particular state behaves in one particular way or another doesn't mean that other girls from the state behave that way also. Just narrow your query to why she behaves that way, instead of trying to know if that's how Rivers girls behave generally.

Frankraj:
I met this girl from Rivers state
She gave me 10k bill, I did not pay
She told me to pay her house rent, I did not pay

But she keeps calling me to check if I'm fine and some sort of caring. Mind you she usually does the calls with her own airtime. I have not sent her N1 naira for now

Does it mean she likes me ?

Is this how Rivers state girls use to do ??

Guys tell me about River state girls and your experience with them.

HAS been accused (not HAVE been accused.)

Aonkuuse:
Ogun state commissioner for environment, Hon. Abiodun Abudu Balogun have been accused by a 16yrs school girl for attempting to rape her.

The young lady who narrated the ordeal also accused the commissioner for trying to use her for ritual.

The young girl explained in detail how everything happen in a video which went viral today, January 2.

Watch video here:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4gxIWlMPERo

Drug abuse is dangerous. Learn to quit when you can and you will live a healthier life. I have great hatred for people who take marijuana (Indian hemp) and will never admit them in my friends circle. They generally behave weird and tend to think they are right all the time. Stupid lot.

Please download Radiogram from Playstore. Select Nigeria from the countries list (you can select any country of your choice afterwards). Search list of Nigerian online FM stations and you will thank me for revealing this app to you. By the way, my favorite online radio station is Capital FM London which is available through the Radiogram app.

yYot:
I travelled out of my base to somewhere remote in kwara state. Luckily, there is strong internet connection but no radio station. What are your favourite online Radio?

A mother's gift to her child is priceless. You can't put a price tag on it.

biden123:
Land that is not worth up to 50K.

The spelling is correct. The last letter there is Y.

DuBLINGreenb:
Dem no spell Kingsley name well for that fan wey him hold so

Nnewi is in Anambra State, not Imo State.
[quote author=Despirado121 post=97559981]Daughter of Innocent Chukwuma, the chief executive officer of Innoson Vehicle Manufacturing, on Tuesday evening wedded her lover in a traditional ceremony, Igbere TV reports.

The ceremony held in Nnewi, Imo State, at the residence of Mr Chukwuma.

A former presidential candidate and newly installed Nnewi chief Kingsley Moghalu who was at the ceremony shared photos on Twitter on Wednesday.

Although details of the ceremony were still sketchy at press time, Moghalu said others who were at the wedding include Senator Uche Ekwunife, Chris Uba and Ben Okoye, Senator Victor Umeh and wife, and Senator Ifeanyi Ubah.

Kingsley Moghalu wrote;

https://twitter.com/MoghaluKingsley/status/1344289659103416323?s=20[/quote]

"He shared a video of three of his children playing ludo WHOT"