₦airaland Forum

delpee:
Ignorant fools! Where's the money made from their foolish ventures? All they've achieved is to cause pain to some unfortunate women.

This one does not work what of several that work? You ask urself, why sudden rich of so many young lads across Nigeria in recent time?

Kimiso:
bobo you bad ohh

Check his previous post, sept 19 to be precise, he talked about redpill and how he is dealing with bitch , today he came clean that he can't face woman one on one, this is what constitute 95% of redpiler lamentation thread

Gadiola2:
I'm in my early 20's, and I can't relate to girls......I always have this negative feeling whenever i'm around them, sometimes I think that I might not really know what to say to start a conversation.....most of the times i start a conversation and don't know how to conclude it.

It has really affected me socially, especially in the school community, some of my guys could just be talking to a group of girls, and if I show up i won't even be able to stare at them for a few seconds, I will just disappear and find one isolated place to stay.

I know people will tell me to concentrate on my studies or make money but it's not all about that...... your social life also matters.
I don't know how to explain my situation better than this ...Abeg i need help

Yet I biliv you would also be given advice whenever they post issues pertaining to marriage and I'm very sure ur comments would be negative.......someone who can't to toast a lady that is giving negative comments on marriage institution as a result of imbroglio he found himself,.......... I think this an eye opener for few adult here.

Jeon:
Megan Fox, Nicki Amber Rose are what? under the LGBTQ COMMUNITY yet they still have kids and are also married.


go listen to certified lover boy

The line comes during the song “Girls Want Girls,”= "guy's want guy's "a collaboration with Lil Baby. He raps the line: “Starin’ at your dress ’cause it’s see through / Yeah, talkin’ all the s–t that you done been through / Yeah, say that you a lesbian, girl, me too.”

You sleep with man or woman and the sex resulted to kids yet you are claiming to be gay or lesbian........... Anybody that believes that his confused as nairaland urchins

aktolly54:
drake is also gay? First time am hearing this, anyway its been long I follow international artists on news

Drake is gay yet he had biological son (adonis) with woman (sophie) . ........I think I begin to start fear who no fear confused urchins

Pataricatering:
na your pant ?
No be jobless boys dey.shift.pant.up and.down ? Is it not better to increase.body count with a useful.person.than a useless, penniless person ?

I seeeeeeeeeeeee. Indirect advert. Looking forward to seeing ur own acct on faceless forum.

Rugaria:
Stop defending trash! You guys are too serious for your own good, yet you are the perennial back benchers in world affairs. Your army is not even rated like that of the Turks or Americans where these happens regularly.
Those two should be left alone. It was not a mutiny! It was just an ordinary marriage proposal.
If I'm the guy, I will tell the gal to submit her resignation letter immediately. Una too professional and serious like this yet Boko boys dey use una do sya anyhow for Sambissa?

Why is too difficult for you to obey simple rule and ethics of organization?

Military is not for everyone, if she can't keep to this simple rule how she would abide to difficult one, wen it come to defend her nation?

Stop sound gragra to defend trash pls, is that how everybody is doing what he or she likes in ur own family?

Newsmic:
https://www.instagram.com/p/CXt6rborhSN/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Before you know anonymous will surface from nowhere and start shifting pants oooo

Vddaz:
The most Useless national assembly in the history of this country

..in 8th assembly I biliv u re one of those who said, saraki is the clog in machine of buhari govt then

xalex77c:
atleast your sister na your blood...

I dey pity this bros... e be like e no dey read the numerous stories of women trashing their husbands after they move abroad... Na here we go dey, e go carry complain come give us later say e dey sleep for car and im wife dey maltreat am

U never read thousands of men leaving happily with their wife abroad? Several of people I know who migrated to UK & USA are leaving happily with their spouses there. Some 10yrs ,while the least is 4 yrs.


Have u ever asked urself if u re a good husband ( or u would be a good husband)? Pls do it now and be fair enough in ur judgement.

Ficient:
I'm a federal civil servant, wife just got a job in the UK as a nurse. This has been our plan, although she initiated the idea which I supported especially bcuz of our kids. As the time is getting closer I'm developing some cold feet, but eventually I'm sure I will move. Don't really know if leaving my civil service job and farming business is a good idea, I don't really have an Abroad game plan yet.

Take ur 30 days annual leave for the trip, if you get their and find it convincing and convenient, you send letter of goodbye from UK

Wen u marry our husband instead of my husband, watch out for wailing and depression that would follow it.

I think davido ,wizkid Exes can say more about their experiences

Hassanmaye:
Did he collected his share

Share? Lady that he had been dating for years, I am trying to tell you that the marriage is totally surprised and heartbroken.

grandstar:
This is a comic tand should not be taken seriously

of course, it might be film, but almost the same happened to my close friend then o, the different is that my friend not show up for wedding, on that Saturday evening, they just broke the news for all of us, including my friend, that Kemi got married today. This is girl that still came our hood ,a week back o.

OK, whenever I'm dating myself I usually distinguished it from wen I'm dating lady o.


The handwriting handwritings is are all over the wall, but blind man will never ever see them

If we are ready to abide with simple rules and ethics of organization we find ourselves, naija wouldn't have become banana republic, thank God this is not hijab people, it would have entered dangerous dimension, shouting religion persecution and infringement of fundamental human right

Fighting unnecessarily supremacy . they might be fighting on women, in fact it might me greet me I no greet u.

Handwork of hard drug and joblessness.

helinues:
You see, na why correct guys dey return the ladies rejection in folds even those that could still be as friends.

Beautiful ladies always have this believe that most guys must stare at them, most guys should approach them first and if they manage to be the one initiating conversation, it should be automatic relationship..

We are paying you ladies back gan

Hope you hope ur eye wide? Meanwhile, stop hallucination.


Bye and disappear!

Emmynator:
See ba, marriage is a very big risk, even if you vet more than anything, what's to say she won't change over time? If you have a solid frame to help mitigate some of her excesses, what's to say your frame wont shift?
Many times we laugh at married men who bring their problems to nairaland, we call them simps or whatever, but most of them only crime was getting married, nothing more, nothing less.
I'll share a story of what happened to my church member, he has been married for over 12 years, had 5 kids, marriage was going on fairly well, until last year, his wife changed totally.
She stopped giving him sex, stopped cooking, started being disrespectful, he tried solving it by himself, but he failed woefully and it kept getting worse, when she started dressing up every morning, without telling her husband where she was going, he had his fill and started calling for external intervention.
This woman rubbished every single person who came to intervene, she respected no one, elderly men and women, pastors, family members, respected neighbors, none was effective. The only reason she gave for her behavior was that she regrets getting married and she should have pursued her career. After 12 years, really?
Mid July, this year, the man went to work, came back to find an empty house, his wife and children gone. All efforts to get her to come back proved abortive.
The man has become slim with all the stress, interacting with him, i feel that sad energy, a broken spirit.
What did he do wrong? He got married, that's it.
He got married to a woman who 12 years back was more than happy to become a mrs. But 12 years down the line, she feels she should have pursued her career instead. That was his crime.

If at all you decide to get married, be ready for the worst.

Let me tell you bitter truth about how we guys/men choose life partners or gfs
mostly (85%).
We do choose ladies we met base on feelings (lust) for outward looks (curve) of the lady, so,in other for such lady to accept us, we heavily attract her with cash, gifts and little achievement we have. Meanwhile, the lady you are attracted with cash and kinds may not "really really" love you up to 50%,but forced to get ur attentions and love, when you finally get the lady, her loyalty and love for you would still base on cash and gift you would be giving.

Meanwhile, for majority of guys, having successful got the lady as wife, or even gf, the attentions and gifts showering on her would be drastically reduced,b4 u know, lady's loyalty and love which are not originally natural, would be shaking, hence, relationship/marriage bcom toxic.


The wife I married, from very first beginning, I didn't shower 1/4 of my love and attentions for her,ditto little achievement I had, but she loved and married me with whom I was/am, Till date she is not expecting gargantuan love, attentions or gifts from me, and this brings peace and eliminates any for of toxicity.

.........every guy should ask himself, the girl you are dating who claimed to love you wholeheartedly, if you don't give her money for just a month, would she still love you the same way? Has she used her own money on you before? If you request money from her, what's her reaction?

Many do resulted to bad mouthing........ Ehn someone we want to manage before, she too is doing shakara.


Fineboy or any other guy, must every girl agree to date u?

ValCon888:
They created the vampire and now it is drinking their blood.

Then, think they were pulling down Obasanjo govt, today, Obasanjo long forgotten but sharia has turned to monster, drinking and eaten human flesh, young and old, poor and rich and men and women.

They talk about high cost, I think INEC can push back the cost to each political part that wants to do primaries

isaiah4life:
As you are praying for a good husband, also be praying for a good mother in law.

E GET WHY.

And for the wife, she shouldn't work on her character.

But for some Slay Queens, they draw battle line with their mother in-law.

seunsiju:
This is not about Enugu only!! i msg a babe on Whatsapp some weeks ago, how i got her digit on my fone, i cant still explain....Hello, the next thing i go see is Hi, short time is 3k , Night 5k.....am amazed, i play along, she dey Akure, but i no dey Around, so she demand for TP which is just 1k down to Ado....I am perplexed but this girl doesnt even know me and she is ready to come down and then i see how easy for yahoo boys to get them used

If u sent that money, ur money for enter one chance.

Kobojunkie:
Who lied to you that God does not welcome your questioning of Him?

Job questioned God, and God answered Job, did He not? So who lied to you?

Again, hope u know the meaning of unquestionable?

DeepSight:
For it has always seemed somewhat odd to me, that one may create something, and then proceed to sit in magisterial judgement over it - in terms of condemning it to destruction or granting it life. In terms of saying that it is good or evil - Because - any such judgement is necessarily a judgment of the Creator itself and no one else, surely?

Who else is responsible for the nature of a created thing if not the creator of the thing?

Questioning unquestionable God?

Hope you know the meaning of unquestionable sha?

7victor:
Women are very wise.


That was how one girl came to me and asked me to come and see her parents.

She said i should marry her.

I said OK, I would meet her parents.


I didn't know she just wanted to make her boyfriend hurry and marry her.

She then went and told the boyfriend I wanted to marry her.

The boyfriend then called me and said that he heard I wanted to marry his girlfriend Ifeoma.

I said yes. He said OK. He said he believed Ifeoma was a wife material that was why I wanted to marry her. I said yes.

Speed speed, the boyfriend rushed to see Ifeoma's parents and marriage date was fixed.

The boyfriend didn't want to lose her to me.

Immediately she achieved her aim, she stopped picking my calls.

I just laughed.

The truth is that you cannot know what game a woman is playing even if you believe she is in love with you.

She could be playing some games to achieve an aim.


Maybe that love, attention and respect she is showing you is a game to get another man.

You guy always talk about girl and game, is game and cunning are for female alone? As far as I'm concerned, my fellow men had disappointed me far more than females do.

NotBeenPaid:
If you like continue voting for grandpas, your suffering will be endless. The world has long left us behind and there'd be no other country to drag "third world country" with.

As if youths better of, who among is bigger thief ? No be youth.

Arabaincubus:
It looks like you have a problem with understanding. I said we will support a peaceful engagement like love but not the violent ones like a lady soldier displaying animal tendencies.

People like you are the reason Nigerian society will not civilize.

People like you turn Nigeria to banana republic, give the military release for ur neighbor who knows how to read and understand, as a matter of fact the statement is devoid of any ambiguity

Unfortunate 9th assembly is toothless bulldog, even though bubu has put their faiths in the hands of Govs demigod who would finish them politically, they dear not veto bubu, they prefer to ruin rather than confront bubu

Arabaincubus:
If the NYSC is still fulfilling its intendment of promoting National unity, the Army should then wave the penalty for the female soldier. She was only promoting National unity by accepting another Nigerian from another place.

Even if soldier killed corp member during orientation, they should wave for national unity. (Pls think very well before you post pls)

Few weeks back when soldier bath female corper with dirty ,did u clamor for waver?