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Spain my first choice..

Germany my second favourite team.

I hope they make me proud so that I can get over the defeat of Naija.

I like this babe sha...

Happy birthday, Abena.

JamaicanLove:



I do have suicidal thoughts sometimes

Don't know what it means

But sometimes, whenever I think about taking my life, my thoughts go to my dad, how he would feel. The pains he would go through, when I'm gone.
He doesn't even know that I have chronic asthma, and sleep apnea.
I hide this things from him.
I'm an introvert, I don't associate.
Lots of things are weighing me down.
Who am I Kidding, no one here gives a fuc.k

I give a fvck...

Talk to your dad or anyone who won't be judgemental.

If you do something drastic you are going to break the hearts of many nairalanders because they are going to quote this your comment and regret not reaching out to you...

MissRaine69:
A year?
She is the immature one

Lol...I just think she hasn't evolved enough to be open minded.

Oops...bitch ain't getting much attention that she so much craves for...
But isn't she married? why is she still behaving like a tout

Off course I know Teddy A is a fake ass nigga, I hate when he uses that word Alpha. He just made the word lose Value.

Tobi is always my favourite...despite all odds it seems the guy was meant to shine.

Nothing bad in what Teddy A Did....why is she mad though?

What is it with baby mamas and Drama?...

I was having this discussion with someone on Friday and her reason was that she would disrespect him no matter how hard she tries and that she knows herself.
Another reason she gave was that, he would want to always show her he is the man and she cannot withstand it.
she said the age would always come up.

I asked her if she thinks maturity has to do with age, and not the individual concern, she gave me some random incoherent answer I can't remember.

Long story short, I was crushing on her but I guess I'll have to let her go. She is a year older than me...

@OP this place looks like Havilah Ice Cream, Kaduna.

Anyway congratulations. Happy married life in advance.

sean1000x:
Beautiful Biafran people...look at how attractive they are! Afonjas will be looking at them like this and asking...I thought we have sown a seed of hate to divide them perpetually. Wicked things!

Disgusting piece of shiit...

muyiwatosin:
please whats the common sense required here? i just wanna avoid a quarell which will be inevitable, but there could other ways am not seeing.

Ubunja already gave a succinct explanation.

It's just like using porn to masturbate. With time it changes your perception/response to sexual stimuli as you'll tend to get more easily aroused by porn than actual sex with a human being.

Asides that, spending too much time reading romance novel and fantasizing about the sex scenes reduces your productivity. It's also affects your relationship with your loved ones in terms of humanly connections.

Time that would have better been used in bonding and connecting with your spouse and loved ones, making memories, taking good decisions that would affect the family would be used in fantasizing about romance that is unreal and of someone's imagination.

In summary, why imagine living a kind of life when you can actually create the kind of life you desire.

vilight:
u said it urself 'tiny issue', so why are u raising dus? But if she listened to u 8years ago and stopped such habit, i'm guessing she will do so again, so take that 1st step and talk to her about it

Nairaland and "talk about it"...

Na everything them dey talk about...

Somethings just require common sense except if people have stopped using their initiatives...

This guy is very very high...watch out for his tomorrow's post "my account was hacked"

A year from now, he is going to realise how foolish and stupid he sounds and feel embarrassed that he would have no option than to deny he is not the one that made those post.

In his mind now, he is romantic and kind...

It's basically the same way Facebook reminds you of some post you made years back and you'll begin to wonder if really you were the one than made it or Facebook is trying to lie against you...

pocohantas:
I don't know where they bring that from. I find it very annoying, I think it is their way of imposing their secret fantasy on us

True...That is what I think too.

pocohantas:
I am not a potential lesbian!
I don't know where you guys get this shii from.

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I dey tell you... !!!

The way they confidently say it is just annoying even for me as a guy.

kimbraa:
It automatically triggered a feeling of guilt in me? What guilt? If I may ask. I asked 'cause I've always known/read that Islam is conservative so shouldn't it be unislamic to see a Muslim girl indulging in online relationships?

Okay.

Goodnight.

kimbraa:
How would you know if I had an ulterior motive or not? Are you a wizard?

I've stayed long enough on Nairaland to know how people behave, call it experience...

Let me tell you were you were headed.

The moment I said "within limits" it automatically triggered a feeling of guilt in you, like I'm trying to project Muslim girls as being virtuous, hence your assertion on other muslim girls, it was totally unrelated to my comment.

It's basically the same way issue of virginity irks many Nairaland babes.

kimbraa:
You became their spokesman when you took it upon yourself to answer if online dating is haram, so why getting irritated?

It was a simple answer to a question (your question) I thought was innocent...

Hence, why I even added " I think"

I guess I misjudged your motives. You already have your own mindset.

And here we go again..another projection, "irritation". Are you a witch, how can you tell what's going on in my mind... Do you have any telepathic powers?..

Don't flatter yourself...

Doctor stance doing strange things in the dark only to make a strange discovery..!!!

Get over it Doc...

kimbraa:
And you think she or other Muslim girls don't do these?

And where have I stated so..?

Heck, have you even asked me if I do it also..

Why jump to other muslim girls..? I don't speak for Muslim girls ..

kimbraa:
What limit is considered 'not within the limit?'

Asking for nudes...

Sexting ...

kimbraa:
Isn't online dating Haram?

No, it isn't.

That is, if it's within the limit, I think...

Beautiful...just like Love.

Holy shiit...

This stupid thread made front page After all ...

He got the virtue of selflessness from his dad...

Eyahhh

It's part of life sha, people rubbing people off their sweat just for their own selfish gains...

Take heart woman.

I like this woman already..

Kudos ma.

Younger girls are too self absorbed thinking they are the next best thing after slice bread but older women are mature and selfless.

They also carry this air of self assurance and confidence which in turn rubs on the men in their life.

In my opinion I think older women are more supportive, loving and don't think the world revolves around them.

They also don't have big ego.

My 2cents.

Half girlfriend...till he gets bored of fvcking her...

He doesn't look like a Nigerian...he is probably a Kenyan or Zimbabwe...

They are only smart when it comes to sex and it's related baggages..

When you are done ranting, please kindly fvck off...

You created a thread of which the title seemed like you were open for discussion only for the content to be full of condemnation, meaningless rants and unwarranted frustration.

Your moniker says "Elder" but your level of reasoning is worst than a 4 year old kid....