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HealthRe: My Girlfriend After Checking Her HIV Status Told Me This by folks4luv(f): 8:44am On Jul 24, 2022
I did one at a private hospital and i was not given a result too. I went there for another blood test but the attendant recommended it, and it was free. She may be telling the truth.

Fadafada231:
Please guys is there anything like involuntary HIV test in a government hospital? I sent my GF to the hospital to check her status and she came back told me with smile on her face that she is negative, I demanded to see the result but she said they didn't give it to her.

I asked her why? She replied me that the man told her that the receipt of the result can't be given to her because it's involuntary test. Hmmm local man is confused
TravelRe: Tanker Explodes, Catches Fire On Lagos-Ibadan Expressway by folks4luv(f): 10:12am On Jul 13, 2022
There goes another one cry thank God no live was lost
Foreign AffairsRe: Boris Johnson's Scandals That Led To His Resignation As British Prime Minister by folks4luv(f): 9:26am On Jul 08, 2022
budaatum:
No he actually does not! He was pushed and pushed and pushed by lots of resignations until he eventually fell.
Have we been able to push the incompetent ones here to resign?
RomanceRe: Should I Shoot My Shot Or Let Her Be? by folks4luv(f): 5:09pm On Jun 04, 2022
'she looks mature more than her age', that's usually the line of child abusers.
FamilyRe: My Wife Of Less Than Two Years Says It's Over Between Us by folks4luv(f): 2:49pm On May 26, 2022
Those are symptoms of post-partum depression. I beg you, take this serious. Find a way to get her to see a doctor and then a psychologist. What she is going through is a serious stuff, pretty common but under-played in this part of the world.
She doesn't hate you or the baby, right now, her mind is in a fix. I know you are hurt too, but help her
AutosRe: Innoson Set To Slash Keke Price To N300,000 by folks4luv(f): 6:03pm On May 21, 2022
tnerro1:
Better don’t try it, most Nigerians are useless, the guy I brought an okada for to assist him and him family for free sold the okada and came to tell me the police impounded it and if I could lend him money to buy another one. It was our gateman that told me he sold it. I was shocked
Seriously? That's another level of madness and greed.
RomanceRe: How Do I Save My Friend From The Claws Of A Manipulative Woman? by folks4luv(f): 6:02pm On May 21, 2022
So, you are yet to explain how this woman is manipulative o. You said she told your friend she is not interested in him, your friend won't let her go but somehow, it's her fault?
AutosRe: Innoson Set To Slash Keke Price To N300,000 by folks4luv(f): 11:41am On May 21, 2022
I really doubt the feasibility of this, but if they can, it will be a good development.
I wish most Nigerians are honest, would have wished to invest in 2 and give them out.
HealthRe: My Tooth Is Killing Me, Help!!! by folks4luv(f): 4:25pm On Apr 16, 2022
How did you use the garlic and honey pls?
grandstar:
heydays

I too have a problematic bad tooth I have vowed never to remove as it will adversely affect my ability to chew food.

What I notice is that the toothache is not due to the condition of the tooth but to bacteria. This particular bacteria loves sugar that's a big reason the pains goes into overdrive when you touch sugary stuff.

See your toothache the way you see your armpit sweat. The sweat itself naturally does not smell. What causes it to produce a horrid smell is the bacteria that feeds on it.

For your toothache to go, attack with gusto the pathogen that feeds on it.

I find garlic to be quite effective. Garlic is a natural antibiotic. It kills bad bacteria.

Another is honey. I finished a small bottle of honey in 3 days. For about 2 weeks after that, I realized my toothache had disappeared.

So, try any of these 2.

Last but not the list, do not rince your mouth after you brush. Flouride inside your toothpaste is an antiseptic. That's medical advice.

Pls note I am talking from the point of a layman. My use of garlic and pure honey were my observations based on my personal experiences.
HealthRe: My Tooth Is Killing Me, Help!!! by folks4luv(f): 4:23pm On Apr 16, 2022
Reason i have been very reluctant to visit a dentist. I have been having problem with impacted wisdom teeth, on both sides o. I know I am scared of the pain that comes with extracting em but I am afraid of the complications of done poorly, and the possibility of that is high
LadyRosa:
You're actually not feeling any serious pain yet.Person wey teeth dey pain no go get strength or mental stability to chat.

By the way, there's no such thing like dental surgeon in Nigeria,even if they are,very rare.What we have here are dentist whose only specialty na to uproot and fill up your teeth and after few months,back to square Everything go just open waaaa!Or you swallow the crown along with Amala.

My elder brother is making plans to travel out to get his dentition done after spending so much on the so called dentists in Abuja and Lagos.Nonsense!
RomanceRe: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by folks4luv(f): 10:37pm On Apr 13, 2022
immortalcrown:
Okay. Next...

Leaving him is a good choice because a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. Good luck in your marriage. But the problem is most humans, especially women, are insatiable. You have left him. If he gets another woman or gets richer, you will begin to regret leaving him.

I like the fact that you publicized this. If you mess up in your marriage, your marriage will remember this publicity and do what will vindicate the man you accuse now.
The man was beating her but you are saying she'd regret when he becomes rich? Seriously? Like seriously? Can't stop wondering how some of y'all think
PoliticsRe: 2023: Buhari’s Ministers Under Pressure To Resign by folks4luv(f): 6:27pm On Apr 11, 2022
Are you thinking about starting a news blog but you don't want to start from the scratch?

Newsnownow.com.ng is available for sale (plus a Facebook page with over 6k likes).

Interested? Reach out to folukemiogundiran@gmail.com
PoliticsRe: Osinbajo’s Presidential Declaration Video Sets New Nigerian Internet Records by folks4luv(f): 6:26pm On Apr 11, 2022
Are you thinking about starting a news blog but you don't want to start from the scratch?

Newsnownow.com.ng is available for sale (plus a Facebook page with over 6k likes).

Interested? Reach out to folukemiogundiran@gmail.com
RomanceRe: I Told My Girlfriend That I Am Getting Married & She Burst Into Tears by folks4luv(f): 8:54am On Mar 25, 2022
Yea, she kept coming back for 3 years, but somehow, now that you want to marry someone else, you were able to get her off your back. Wehdon sir
Foreign AffairsRe: Putin Wants Rubles For Russian Gas by folks4luv(f): 9:35pm On Mar 23, 2022
seanwilliam:
Like for biden share for Russia




. I buy all countries giftcards. I buy GREENDOT/PAYPAL FUNDS @ your own rate. I sell google voice bulk and unit @ cheaper price ✅
Do you buy funds on Tremendous Visa cards?
PoliticsRe: Domestic Debt: Lagos Borrows Over ₦126 Billion In 3 Months by folks4luv(f): 12:54pm On Mar 21, 2022
efrebor177:
Adsence account for sale: contact info.fremigr@gmail.com
Just sent you a mail
FoodRe: Which Of These Biscuits Made Your Day Way Back? by folks4luv(f): 2:53pm On Mar 10, 2022
No Okin biscuit, how come?
CareerRe: I Was Promoted Ahead Of My Superior by folks4luv(f): 3:15pm On Feb 16, 2022
Even when you hold physical meetings, note the points and resolutions, send to them via email and copy your superiors. Don't try to befriend them, they are not your friends. Be very official. Copy your superiors in all communications.
RomanceRe: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by folks4luv(f): 8:28pm On Feb 09, 2022
Jman06:
Op, I can understand your plight.
The reason is that an average Nigerian girl is not interesting to be with and to make matters worse, they don't even make attempts to improve on themselves since they believe that only the guy has the responsibility to bring everything into the relationship---the fun, the funds, etc. Many of them can't even hold conversations.

So, after enduring a few months of boredom, it is only natural for you to lose interest.
Only him dated 6 girls within a single year and you think Nigerian girls are the problem? When will y'all stop blaming other people and tell one a other the real truth? Hian!
CelebritiesI Didn’t Break My New Husband’s Home, Mercy Aigbe Insists by folks4luv(op): 8:44am On Jan 29, 2022
Popular actress, Mercy Aigbe, has rubbished insinuations that she was the spoke that crashed the wheel of her new husband, Kazeem Adeoti, aka Adekaz’s marriage to his first wife, Funsho.

A photo shared by her former husband, Lanre Gentry, which went viral on the Internet showed the both of them with Adekaz and Funsho at a party.

However, in a terse message sent to Saturday Beats, Aigbe stated that Gentry and Adeoti were never friends.

She said, “They were never family friends as speculated by Funsho and what is been peddled on social media. The picture (in question) was taken in 2013 during Adekaz’s fortieth birthday, and I was still married to Gentry then. [/b]I attended the event with my then husband. My husband is a Muslim and he is allowed to have more than one wife. I did not break his marriage to Funsho.”

Meanwhile, Angela Tolulade, a United States of America-based woman, who claimed to be a family friend to the Adeotis [b]told Saturday Beats that Adekaz and Juwon were not on good terms before Aigbe came into the picture. She said, “Adekaz and Funsho got married 20 years ago in the US. A licensed mortgage broker, Adekaz relocated to Nigeria to start a movie production business.


“He came to Nigeria with Funsho, who later went back to the US, saying she did not want to stay in Nigeria. The marriage was on until Funsho refused to come over and her husband kept pushing for her to be around. It is important to note that this matter had dragged on for almost two years. He (Adekaz) told her (Funsho) point blank that he would marry another wife if she did not return as agreed.”

Tolulade also insisted that Adekaz never shirked his responsibility to their three children. She said, “Till date, Adekaz still carries out his duties as a father. He pays the school fees of the children and foots their other bills. Funsho cannot say he neglected her because she was the one adamant about not returning to Nigeria.”

[b]Speaking further, the family friend stated that despite pressure from her husband, Funsho refused to relocate to Nigeria. She added, “It is on record that Funsho bluntly told Adekaz that she would not return to Nigeria because she can’t live in Nigeria anymore. [/b]She told him that if he chooses to marry another wife in Nigeria, he can go ahead but once he does that, it would be over between them.

“She gave her husband an ultimatum to choose between coming back to the US or staying back in Nigeria, marry another wife and everyone would go their separate ways. Funsho cannot deny not knowing that her husband was taking another wife as she was fully informed.

“If Funsho wanted her marriage to work, she would have returned many years ago. But she stayed put in Minnesota. Their first child is in a private university in the US, and Adekaz pays her fees. Their other kids are also not abandoned. Meanwhile, Adekaz is a Muslim and he has the right to marry more than one wife.”

Source: https://punchng.com/i-didnt-break-my-new-husbands-home-mercy-aigbe-insists/

CelebritiesRe: Funke Akindele Sends Cryptic Post As Juliana Reveals Why She Left Jenifa’s Diary by folks4luv(f): 2:01pm On Jan 27, 2022
Except that the 'show' being displayed by Julianah and her ex-pastor does not exonerate Funke.
Never cared bout whatever issue they had but Funke's reaction is quite dumb
CelebritiesRe: Mercy Aigbe And Funsho Adeoti Dancing On Their Wedding Day by folks4luv(f): 9:41pm On Jan 24, 2022
Mavor:
hoes of the same feather flock together tongue
Bla bla bla
CelebritiesRe: Mercy Aigbe And Funsho Adeoti Dancing On Their Wedding Day by folks4luv(f):
She snatched someone's husband, sha married her ex-husband's friend or acquaintance, bla bla bla.
Till you know at least half of the story, you don't have the right to judge or slut-shame anyone.
RomanceRe: What I Did To A Female Friend That Brother Zoned Me by folks4luv(f): 9:23am On Jan 21, 2022
You are very naive, very childish even. You had something good going, friendship some of us wish we have. You just said you don't have feelings for her, so what's with the have sex with me or leave?

She hurt you, so? Friends offend each other and move on. Or you have never hurt her all the years you have been friends? It is not like she was using you to catch cruise while she was dating others. You both were friends, you had yours, she has hers. If along the way, you started getting jealous of the time she spent with other guys, then calmly reassess the situation like an adult. She didn't friendzone you, you guys were friends.

What she did was wrong but friends wrong each other, it's part of the package. You basically lack the maturity to maintain a good friendship with an opposite sex.
Plus, you blew the whole thing out of proportion cause you were influenced by what your other friends were telling you. You lack depth sir
FamilyRe: 12 Things To Say No To In Your Marriage by folks4luv(f): 8:24am On Jan 16, 2022
jeff1993:
No 3

Most Nigerian women are greedy in nature.... They have been wired to use "Your own is our own ... My own is my own"... If I can find a Nigerian lady who is not greedy with her money and had an average character ... Am all in for marriage!!!!

No 7

That's is if u married a proper home made woman not all this shawarma and pizza slay queens!!!!.... You can't be putting on long nails and want to cook with it for me .... I can manage if she is not super good in the kitchen ....Eating outside would balance the equation!!!!

No 10

Divorce is always a very big and Fat option ..... Please as a Man or woman, ur Pearce of mind is ultimate and Paramount!!!! .... If ur spouse can't give u peace of mind, if he or she can't make u happy, there is no need trying. Divorce him or her. You can still be a great parents to your children without being together .... That's why I advise Men against spending excess money to do an elaborate marriage that is not even necessary..... Na the money the man take marry him dey think na him dey make am hard for am to divorce!!!!!


Lastly truly marriage has no manual .... Each marriage is unique on its own .... Elderly people will say when u want to marry as a man, make sure u have seen enough of life before u marry, not because u have enough money!!! .... Build your tolerance level to a nearly absolute level.....
Yea, divorce is an available option but the point is not to use it as a weapon to get the other person to do one's bidding. Like a wife that knows her husband loves her, then uses divorce to threaten him to have her way. What she is doing is breaking the bond they share, putting her husband on the defensive and making him plan for a life outside the marriage. It goes both ways.

If divorce will be mentioned, make sure you mean it and you wanna go through with it.
RomanceRe: Masturbation Is One Hell Of An Addiction by folks4luv(f): 4:34pm On Jan 15, 2022
Sku8Tufik:
I really like masturbating, but only when I'm alone. If I masturbate and somehow touch my genitals during intercourse, it makes me uncomfortable. And it's not just the naked body that turns me on. I like an athletic body. I love boxers and different power men. For example, watching erotic videos on a special site with pumped up and athletic men is a great option to satisfy your needs. It turns me on a lot.
You are evil. Help the poor guy na
RomanceRe: Religion Is Slowly Ruining My Happiness by folks4luv(f): 3:58pm On Jan 15, 2022
Adsexpert:
Honestly I don't know if am the only one.. this christainity of a thing is taking a toll on me..

I have anxiety and most times find it difficult to make decisions for myself or try to out my happiness first before others even though it's ruining me or not in my favor..

And I am trying to leave but still feel some intense fear , and that whenever I hear God Jesus, churches it begins to give me phobias..

Hell fire, the Jesus is coming of a thing and all those shits and voices in my head.. am so sick and tired of these ..

The best thing African parents should do to their children is letting them old enough, to decide if they want to be religious or not.. and not force them into anything..

Am thinking about it, like if something is giving me phobias and fears then I should stay sawy from it . Please don't bring in devil of a thing Rts is real
1 John 4 [NIV]

[vs: 18] There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love.

You see the verse up there, letting it sink in will solve the issue of fear and anxiety that you are going through. There is a way you fear someone, not of terror but of love. Like a husband afraid to hurt his wife, not because the wife can get him killed but because he fears hurting the one he loves.
There is also a fear a woman have for her abusive husband. Not from the place of love but from the place of terror.

Like a lot of us, religion might have messed up with your head so much that the thought of a church or prayer make you panic. But you need to stop submitting your mind to these feelings and speak the truth to yourself instead.

God loves you
He knows you are not perfect
There is nothing you can do wrong or right that will shock him.
He is as compassionate and as merciful.

Let your mind rest in the fact that He loves and accept you in your imperfect state.

Now, when i think about my weaknesses, i think about how Jesus has become my righteousness. I don't go to God and say hey, 'your perfect creation is here', ain't perfect, can never be. Therefore, i am using Jesus as a cover, a shield. He is perfect, and so am i.
That is what it really means to accept Jesus into one's life. Use Him as the cover, both in good moments and in bad
RomanceRe: Religion Is Slowly Ruining My Happiness by folks4luv(f): 3:57pm On Jan 15, 2022
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CelebritiesRe: 2baba Idibia: I No Dey Give Women Belle Again, I Don Change (Video) by folks4luv(f): 6:05pm On Jan 13, 2022
IDOMA VOICE observed that the Okpokwu-born Africa Queen crooner stated this...
Does this makes sense to whoever wrote this junk? Op and Igbere TV are so annoying to read.
CrimeRe: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by folks4luv(f): 11:34am On Jan 12, 2022
Wait, you slapped her, she was bleeding and you went on with the rape even with the sight of blood? What kinda animal are you?

Anyways, you should not wait till people notice. You need to open up to someone your wife respect, that can talk to her. Explain to the person and let the person talk to your wife. It will be easier to deal with if your wife can open up to someone. A neutral party that is not a family will be better.

I wish you all the best.

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