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So she left out of annoyance cause what you were giving her was small, while on training. I don't know if you will learn o, but I'd say give her a distance. If you still want to be buddies, watch your back. The part you are missing is that she hs low integrity, I won't call her a bad person, but making money is more valuable than whatever friendship you both share. Limit what you tell her about your business. Incase you want to help her about anything, do it without making your business or clients as an example. Stop telling her about your prospective clients, state or proposals and so on. I think she is more business savvy or brutal than you

EriMma1:
Hmmm... I'm trying not to see her as a backstabber but she keeps doing things that make me suspicious of her.

Now the clients are telling her the letter of increment came in late. These are the things I would have taught her about the job if she had stayed a few months with me but she said I was making too much and giving her little. This is someone who didn't pay for the training she was getting o still she was busy calculating how much was coming in and how much was getting to her. That was why she left out of annoyance and had been trying to compete with me in every way. Im shocked.

Banilla:
Hm. So I'm wrong? Should I apologize to him? I just want to be certain he's serious. I guess I can't pressure him, right?

What's your advice?

Asking him to save in your own account makes you look suspicious. If you are serious about helping him save, find options that will put him in control while you monitor and encourage him. Apps like piggyvest can help.
I'm a woman, yet, i won't wholly trust a man that's asking me to save money in his own account.
So yes, apologise or recant, then give him other options to help him save

mcbreeze:
Most gullible people to deceive are Nigerians.
I had argument with many people over this.
How would person believe that report?:

I believe it is Nigeria government that indirectly pushed that fake news, so that the dollars won't climb to ₦1000.

This entered my mind too. Although it won't force the elites hoarders to dump their dollars, some folks will eat it up. Spreak fake news, inject some forex into the economy, reduce rate. But then, for how long?

The way you used your weird imagination to paint a picture that could turn the victim to a sexual predator is astonishing and deeply disturbing. What is wrong with you lot?

priceactionx:
Did he use jazz? How can he overpower her and still able to penetrate her successfully? was she induced? Its not adding up. she cant resist and bite the hell out of him even at gun point? Do they always sleep in the same room and she was so comfortable of opening everything carelessly without daring a grown up boy that may be thinking of evil towards her while she too does not mind?
If its just a natural occurrence, then may be there is more to it and she is just trying to save her face. Hope she is not the one that molests him to a certain degree of becoming a rapist? Hope the husband will not kick her out and believe her story.
For the boy, am sorry, he has bitten a large portion of prison bread and beans. Unfortunately, Ekiti , Lagos, and Ondo states don't joke with rape cases, life year imprisonment awaits him.
SAY NO TO A RAPIST!

libertyfather:
True...but his economy policy and security matter is zero

Economy and security, zero. So how is that true?

utenwuson:
stop speaking like an illiterate.... You re offering nine courses, at the end of the semester, you saw 7 courses score on the board, you re to simply approach your HOD to call the exam officer to fix it immediately,

no one hate no student, in fact most lecturers I know re always happy seeing students do well in their courses including me.

Stop trying to say what you know nothing of

lol. do you know the meaning of missing results at the point of final clearance? you are simply ignorant of the reality of many students in public institutions in Nigeria. I am talking about a situation where a student saw he passed a course at 200l but was told one or 2 of his courses at 200l were missing, right when he was to get cleared and proceed to service. He could have cleared the courses when he was at 300l, but they had to wait till after final exams to tell him his results were missing and he must retake the courses. Do you know what it means to see your mates move ahead while you are left behind? Cause some people failed at their jobs? I have seen HODs and departmental officers work hard to make sure no student experience such, but I also know the number of diligent ones is few. But how will things get better when people like you continue to deny these realities? 'What I know nothing of?' I went through a public university. Know nothing of indeed.

utenwuson:
These are mere hallucinations to make the tertiary looks bizarre.


I'm a lecturer and I can authoritatively tell you that this is not possible, the only possible thing here is that the student may not own that admission, was probably given a fake admission.


All the students have 100 percent access to their HOD, no HOD, will seat and see this slide.



The registrar office is there for a reason, he can approach the registrar, the exam officer will be held by the balls.



Let me give you guys how exams are computed, let say you offer 9 courses, this is 9 different lecturers, each gives you mark of over 40 for CA, and give you mark over 60 for exams, this is computed and you re graded and each lecturer have a time limit to send it to the department exam officer.

The officer input this scores in excel and send to the HOD, departmental meeting WILL be held to discuss result, performance and correction, each student is been evaluated here and at the end, the result is sent to the college exam officer then to senate for approval before it is displayed for students, only few mistakes can take place and its mostly subject to correction.

Please stop capping. Nigeria public education is a mess on many levels. What about a situation where they discover missing results at the point of final clearance? Happened for up to 3 years. General results will be released no issue, final results, some Core courses missing and no one was taking responsibility for it. I saw this happen, not a tale. This person was forced to give up cause nothing made sense anymore. Imagine you been told 100l courses are missing after you've concluded 400l exams? Come back, sit for em, then they discovered 1 or 2 courses in 200l are missing?
One of the things I learnt in school was that only a few teaching/non-teaching staff treat students like human.
If you like drop out, students still plenty for school. No sense of responsibility

One of those fake stories yea? I don't want to believe any human will be this stupid and wicked. She was crying and you still wanted to have sex with her? Cause you don't cheat? Are you a dog? She feels pains but you are gentle? Heeeei God!

blaise26abj:
You want to beat up your 32 year old elder sister because she is not interested in marriage .? You don’t fully respect your sister just some respect ? Yet she helps you financially .

You are a huge disgrace to manhood . You should be thinking of how to make money and be successful like your sister . You want to be beating her . Shame on you .
I think the story is made up though .

I was typing a response but stopped midway. This must be made up. No one can be that stupid

Stargurl20:
Trust most NL's men to criticize such lady for being overly selective, bad attitude, greediness etc if she seeks advice from this forum. Empathy is really a big thing we've lost in this part of the world. I'm not justifying the greedy ones, overly selective ones( of course select, but with moderation cos I don't advice anyone to marry someone who's abusive in the name of marriage), but most of them, once any post is made to bash women, they become excited. You will see them commenting and rejoicing that I wonder if these commenters are the kinds of men women are expected to settle down with. They are bullies, that can reduce any woman's self esteem to nothing. May God grant all good women out there good husbands, Aameen.

Nairaland is filled with shallow men and small boys. Their stupid comments don't even move me anymore. I miss the Nairaland of old sha. Really boring here now

Simplymax:
FG is right on this. Facebook should pay. They've been hash on Nigerian E-commerce Operators. It's unfair.

And who told you Nigerian advertisers are not paying tax? I pay tax for every adverts i run on Facebook and instagram

BATified2023:
u people will always display your ignorance everywhere u are found,people like u are best described as ignorantly aggressive

You are programmed to blame the government even when they are doing d right thing

Read n read again so u can have a better understanding of what the report is about

Lol. You are ranting about how people are saying wrong things while you refuse to say the right things yourself.
1. What laws are in place to cover ads over the cyberspace?
2. Talking about govt losing revenue, facebook advertisers from Nigeria are now subject to 7.5% tax. For every ad i run, i pay tax. So what loss of revenue are they ranting about?
The truth is, the social media has limited the powers of traditional media, including advertising. Instead of these loud people to sit up, tackle the challenges, take advantage like other nations are doing, they are running to court.

Prosperous111:
Lol I can’t stop laughing

You mean you mistakenly download the apps?

You mistakenly input your details why registering?

You mistakenly input your bank details and get an OTP for confirmation?

And finally you mistakenly withdraw the given amounts to your bank accounts why smoking agege weeds abi high on heroine? Lol

You’re not even sincere to yourself haha make una Dey try fear God sometimes nah.

You did that willingly and not by mistake mr Man

It's likely he didn't do all the steps at a single sitting. You'd be amazed what people do when they are alone and bored. Read from a lady that took 300k by mistake. She didn't even no what to do with it

Greattestman:
I didn't blame the parents. I mean parents will take caution after hearing this.


If they had paid attention to her movement, they certainly would have noticed she goes into the guys room and most probly would have warned her against it.

Lol. Can you even hear yourself? Pay attention to her or put a leash on her? Maybe add a tracker to sound an alarm when she breaks from the leash. A good parent should not have a life but watch every step of their 14 year old. They should not go to work or even use a bathroom cause a randy adult could rape them.

Theknowledge:
There is nothing like a deadbeat DAD! I was told this for the longest time but growing up as an adult my orientation changed.

No man goes into marriage with the intention of being a deadbeat dad, but life can present it's challenges and some women makes this time unbearable for their husbands making some mean lose their zeal and self esteem to strive for more.

A woman's needs are insatiable and it's continuous- Na relationship open my eyes! Only some men can take the bullshit from most women and still remain sane.

Our society is feeling this pressure as it takes both parents to raise a child- that's why the moral decadence that we see- as women are quick to label their husband (for better and for worse oo) deadbeat.

Omo marriage na work and support system if you know you can't offer this kindly stay single o

With all you typed up there, you still don't know humans and life yet. I hope one day, you will learn

Instead of you to raise the issue with her immediately she sent the screenshot, you brought the matter here for people that doesn't know you, her or the dynamics of your relationship.
If this is not immature, I don't know what is.

Lol. A guy confessed he almost raped a woman. The woman is not even here to add or remove from the story but you think it is women distorting stories or lying? How crazy is that? Like, seriously? Nawa for una o

Heathrow44:
yh no need arguing with u too, ur gender is notorious for bending the truth, and distorting d real appearance of things, d same way u people wear makeup to hide ur true characters and fantasizes b4 u try to deceive d gullibles with ur falsehood, surveys were conducted by many women from different races and the conclusion was reached,

Miravik900:
If she really loves him she will forgive he didn't even do it so what's there have they not gotten intimate before? You girls are something else swears I no sure sey I go marry sef!

I was talking to someone i trusted one day, in the course of the conversation, he raised his hand, as if to hit me, but he didn't. I knew he won't hit me, but after that, i saw myself giving space when we were talking, something in my mind was anticipating him to hit me.
If someone you trust confess they attempt to poison you but changed their mind, you won't freely eat whatever they give you after that. What if she changes her mind and poison you? What if whatever spirit that entered them comes again?

You'd be afraid of the person even if you love and care for him/her. You can never comprehend how rape can mess a woman up. The thought of someone having sex with me against my will alone is terrifying.

That girl is scared, trust is broken. It's either she gets help to overcome the fear or she lives with it. You won't continue to eat a food cooked by someone that tried to poison you... Will you?

Lol. Saying all these shows you are very ignorant on rape and what it does to the body and the mind. No need engaging with you cause you can't get it

Heathrow44:
u can say it in public, u hate rape but in reality, many stories abound to suggest otherwise, nobody should take girls words for it, they say things and mean d other, go and ask a newly married woman she would say she would rather die than cheat on her husband, 2wks into d marriage, they av sent troves of nudes to their ex bfs, even when they were pregnant, abi, u avant heard rape victims confess they enjoyed d act and even go to d extent of looking for the abuser?

AishaDant:
I think you need to seek mental help.

I feel sorry for every female in your life.

A lot of guys on Nairaland need mental help. Their stupidity and wilful ignorance could make a person sick to the stomach. I really hope they are not a mirror of the world outside the Internet

Most girls will look past an attempted rape? Y'all talk like a pro about wha you know nothing about. Eisshhhh

Heathrow44:
she has gotten a good reason to dump u, she has been looking for one reason to dump u and yh she has seen one, No girl that really likes u would dump d relationship on such trivial issue, Infact apart from use of force, she should even find it appealing, shows a whole lot of aggression that's typical with males, and it goes to show u av ability to fight for wat u want, most girls would look past ur act and even grow to admire u for it, dont call her or text her, keep calm if she takes u seriously she would come around

Heartfelt727:
If you are in Lagos, contact dis guy. A professor in the game ( +234 803 910 0448 )

Which area is he located pls?

What's your maintenance routine?

Heartfelt727:
Get an experience stylist that specialized mostly on dread-locks to handle ur hair.

Don’t give ur hair to different hands to handle, have someone u can trust to handle.

Mine is almost 7 years now.

Be ready to face shit talks, what matters is ur confidence - deaf ur ears ��

It’s quite expensive to maintain, though

He should mention the names so that everyone will know the disease he's suffering from? Which kin thing be that?

FreeStuffsNG:
Okay nau. Since it is tomato paste, please Go and Buy Bulk controlled substances to stock up your clinic with controlled substances. smh.







'Medications' he omitted their names yet called out his accusers for identifying them as controlled substances? Never mind. You can't understand

He said he's d onw using the drugs, or medical doctors can't take prescription drugs too?

FreeStuffsNG:
Unfortunately, like most Nigerian youths who comment online, most of you and other comments above are ignorant.

Controlled substances are not and should never be in the hands of medical doctors and non-Pharmacists to carry around. He is wrong and the police were right and should have prosecuted him but they went about it the wrong way.

Only licensed Pharmacists can be in stock of controlled substances in significant quantities because they are licensed by law , trained on how to handle them and have a poison register they keep that regulators monitor periodically for the well being of the public health . Just to dispose expired controlled substances alone must go through regulatory process and if not, those expired controlled substances will go back into circulation if you allow folks like him non-expert handling of controlled substances.

It is only an ignorant healthcare professional who does not know that a medical doctor's license does not cover his movement of controlled substances around. This is because he is not a drug expert, he does not know how best to store them and can be used as a conduit for moving fake controlled substances into the medicine distribution chain.

This is a lesson to non-Pharmacists not to be ignorant. The Nigerian police officers are not ignorant as you think o

Fabulouslouie:
There are no other side symptoms. Just a sudden irregular rythm and then it's gone.

I've had a bit of anxiety lately but can that really trigger something like this?

Yea, it can. Been struggling with this for a while.l too. I'll advise you monitor your bp, to be on a safe side, I'd advise you check your cholesterol levels too.

From my lil research, some palpitations are harmless, if they don't happen with chest pain and dizziness. Some Americans said all tests they did showed nothing, the heart is a tricky organ.

Op, stop disrespecting vampires

So doing facial treatment is the same as plastic surgery now? Is that the new definition?

Demigod22:
Being very unreasonable all the time is not a virtue. The things you mentioned, having them doesn't make me uncontented. In this context, we are talking about someone that is not ill but will go ahead to undergo surgery just to enhance her look and you are talking about gadgets.

Why arrest him anyways? You commit driving offence, you collect ticket and you pay. Arresting, using gun, taking his car is not necessary biko. The guy didn't say he was right, he accepted his fault na.

Blessedmercy8:
What's the deceit there?

Ok, agreed the man didn't tell her but did she at anytime ask the man if he had a child somewhere and the man denied it? No! So no case here.

Shes just wants to have her cake and eat it. Shes not willing to sacrifice or support her spouse. The man is also having a hard time and needs her support but no, she's only concerned about herself alone. she's just being self-centered.

There's nothing like deceit. She should learn to ask questions in her dealings with people next time. I guess she got carried away by what she was enjoying then and never bothered to do the needful.

Just shut up. Intially you sounded judgemental, like you are perfect, but now you are sounding stupid. A person was lied to but it was her fault for not asking if the man has a child. Like, that is just plain dumb and cruel.
You were not with her in the relationship, you don't even know her but you are playing the omnisincent who knows all things.
Just shup up and be humane for 1 min.

sylve11:
This Lastma of a thing is not important to Lagos roads. They do nothing but wreak havoc on motorists.

And cause traffic

Knowing where to talk and when to talk is a mark of wisdom which that guy obviously lacks. I, as a woman won't tell my man "i have seen more handsome men, you even broke you can't meet my needs but I chose you". I may be contented with him but that shows i settled. No one wants to hear or know you settled. Things like this are better said by the other person. Like my man sating, 'i dont even know what you saw in me, i am not that fine, i am broke, but you love me anyway'. Better that way

iamdapsyj:
This gender wars are not necessary to be honest. Only few can comprehend what that man said because it's deep.

You are just reading it from the surface and I wouldn't begrudge you because most women tend to take in words literally.

If you look at those that have extremely handsome and beautiful spouses, their seem to one friction or the other in their relationships and examples are abound for us to see. Nobody is perfect as we are all human and this man chose his wife's imperfection as it is and he is enjoying it.

That was why in his write up, he identified that she might not understand what she was saying.