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Do a pregnancy test. It's the only way.

Those symptoms could indicate anything from pregnancy to a brain tumour.

Here's the thing about the so-called friend zone: females own their bodies. And they are bodies, with a brain and heart and soul inside.

Women aren't vending machines that you put kindness into and sex comes out.

If you are nice to someone, it should be because you're a genuinely nice person - not because you expect something in return.

The friend zone thing doesn't exist. It's just a term guys use to explain away the fact that they got "rejected". Every female has the right to "reject" you regardless of how nice you are. She owes you nothing.

rawpadgin:
since both of u are no longer together, he shouldn't be bothered about the site u visits. dont u think?

Maybe... just no risks for me.

Depends on personality.

rawpadgin:
is ur ex a nigerian

Yes.

rawpadgin:
where?

Sorry no more info. If my ex find me here he report me to my brother :/

rawpadgin:
he will. where do u reside

Not in Africa.

No contact rule isn't about punishment - that's immature.

It's about healing and moving on.

Smh.

No such thing as leagues.

evegran:
Well said!

I try. Some ppl need logic injected.

niyot124:
Hey strahovski1, i discovered Indian has a form of aristocratic government.

For you to say,the curry-smelling,ginger-smelling Indians like yourself view the blacks as slave from Africa is degrading .

Have you seen yourself lately?

Indians are not white,you people are yellow / brown.

Indians are genetically caucasian.

India is one place I'd never go though. The government has bad attitudes to women, racist to everyone, caste system. Plus the food makes you sh!t bricks for three days and no proper toilet facilities. Ew.

bitchcrafts:
Every single thing, the concept and the approach. . . Im concerned about the Arabia ish tho...S.Arabia to a great extent is free from sexual immoralities when compared to neighboring West. It is literally free from it. When u talked about women abuse, what dya mean, the fact that women ain't allowed to ride cars is the only shiit u might probably have on em! If ur rape allegation were to be hurled at India, I might still say well, right. But S.Arabia? No, No.

My point is that no matter what women wear, they still get raped and disrespected.

When I was in Saudi, I was spat on for not covering my face. They have extreme rules when it comes to women's permission to lead life. Driving, going out, being in male company etc. because women aren't seen to be worthy of respect and autonomy. This exists in a lot of countries, but Saudi was just my example.

Women get raped everywhere! Everywhere! Regardless of what they are wearing.

If women were all covered up amd wore the same clothes, people would find reasons OTHER than their clothes to disrespect them.

That was my point.

rawpadgin:
apparently, u haven't moved on. see my dear, the best way to heal a broken heart is to love again. am sure u pretty & alway attracts the opposite sex, how come u haven't seen the right 1 after ur ex

Never let anyone in. I'm ok. I have a good heart and head. God will deliver.

bitchcrafts:
Don't bite off more than u can chew. You don't know shiits about S.Arabia. The way you pull stories out of your sorry ass just to make flimsy points should be checked.

I do. I've been there and I read a lot, honey. What exactly is wrong with my point?

dauntless15:
exactly glad you totally get what am trying to say, shes comfortable in it even if it calls her slut, dont force her to take it off, you're not the one the cloth is condemning and I've met alot of girls who dress indecently but inside there are good people even better than some people who dress fine, so don't judge a book by its cover.

Amen. Best thing we can all do is stop labelling women bu what they wear. Stop saying "sIut" about women when u don't even know them.

halfricanadian:
To join u pay d fee of donating one hot guy too to d coloney nd u will rule over billions of them na me talk am

Imma kidnap 10. They won't complain when they see where they're going

dauntless15:
everyone is worthy of respect ok? ..., but don't force her to change people are not animals so you just don't invade thier life and try to control them.

Word.

Also maybe she likes the clothes she wears. She's doing no harm by wearing them. It's none of anyone's business anyway.

When someone has ever said to me "i dont like your shirt", i say "well thank God u din buy and wear it".

halfricanadian:
i want to buy a whole coloney filled with hot guys mehn i tink nd do big

Male harem!!! I'll be there on opening day begging to join

Withambition:
Don't worry.

I worry a lot. TALK.

rawpadgin:
that means u haven't moved on from ur past relationship. why wil pple take advantage of u becuz u white? nigerians are not racist

No I mean ppl will use my whiteness to explain anything I say as rubbish or not understanding or whatever.

I'm trying move on. I don't know his moniker here I just don't want bump into him.

dauntless15:
lol you're very right, but am not contradicting myself at all, am with you on that thought about what your attire says about you to the society, dressing ungodly doesn't speak good of anyone but what am saying is correct them in an appropriate manner with RESPECT, that respect will increase your chances of being listened to. But without respect they wont like to hear what you're saying at all, do you get me now

My other point is, if you finish advising them, Dont force them to take it, that should totally be thier Choice to take your advice or not, your work is done, just allow them choose wether to listen or not, if they choose to continue dressing that way let them be, its thier life, if they listened to you fine you've saved a life, dont force them in anyway and don't try to embarrass them most times you end up embarrassing yourself, such girls dressing this ways mostly come from loose families and they can make you wish to disappear with only thier words, they have this corrosive tongue and you'd do well not to piss them of.

Some gals like showing off their assets. It doesn't mean they aren't worthy of respect.

halfricanadian:
if i cant even find i will get so rich i can buy one

Get 10. One for each day of the week and three extra

optimusmind:
Thanks for the word.
P. s. it's not my 10th time doing this. I know what goes where and what not

So organise someone else to do with you.

Someone with your same level of BDSM prowess. Will be more enjoyable.

rawpadgin:
he will sure come. why didn't upload ur dp, u might meet him here who knows

My ex is on this forum. I don't want him know I'm here.

Besides, I'm white so ppl gon take advantage of that and use against me :/

halfricanadian:
Me i keep praying happiness shd lamenate my life mehn tanx tho

I'm praying for you too. To find happiness and also a good man.

Breadmaker:
Rihanna dresses like a slag. Judgement passed already.

But maybe, just maybe, she may be good inside.

Is alright.

If our looks doesn't define us then how can we have the attire of a slug?

How can you say that she dresses like one?




Well, the cover of a book speaks a volume about the content.

I'm going by societal standards, not my own judgements.

I reserve judgement for God is all.

I can't assume to know someone based on one glance alone. It gives only a rough idea which may then be proved false.

halfricanadian:
all i want to see is u happy u special u deserve to b happy

So are u!!!

If you in a relationship you need to read "5 languages of love".

It's the best. I already read it so am prepared for my future husband.

Just waiting for God to send him...

halfricanadian:
so get out there go with ur wipes and get ur mans butt down here

Made me laugh so much. Go with wipes. Lolololol

rawpadgin:
word! i salute ur courage

Not courageous. Just waiting.