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halfricanadian:
Na God wasnt hiding he just wanted u to come to him

Lol.

halfricanadian:
Go girl wen a n*gga cheats turn d pain around give him twice as mch space and shut ur ears wen his ass keeps complaining

Seek God a good man nd woman is only from God

Amen.

I found God. He was hiding behind the couch the whole time.

rawpadgin:
& i respect u 4 dat, but u being independent doesn't mean u don't need a man. ok, wenever u are honey, how do u curb it?

I just keep on going. If God wants a man for me he'll bring it.

Breadmaker:
Morning dear.


Well, I firmly believe that my decisions define me. When I go shopping for instance, I only buy what I like, and when I wear it, I advertise that fact. So I show off my personality and reveal my character to those who see me.

When I make a conscious decision to put an article of clothing or something of the sort on myself, I always ask myself how people will see me because choice of my clothing speaks Louder than the talk.

The motives of my character is always seen by what I wear. People will always judge me by the looks.

I believe What we wear is a true reflection of the heart. Because it is from out of the abundance of the heart that the mouth speaks.

We always sell ourselves by our looks, hence the saying that seeing is believing and actions speak louder than words.

When a person dresses himself or herself, then their character is expressed by their choice of clothing. Anytime a person puts on clothes, they are expressing something about themselves.

How do you recognise a madman? First by his rag attire and then actions.

So you see? Our dress makes all the difference. A person's choice in all things reflect their character, even down to the details of their clothing

So you believe clothes make the person.

That's fine, but in the case where a man tells his wife wat to wear?

Either bedsheets like in Saudi Arabia, or "dress up hot for me so I can show you off".

Woman is supposed to respect her husband wishes. I know I did.

Also clothes never show you the HEART and SOUL of a person. Rhianna dresses like a slag, but she might be really nice person who cares a lot about injured animals. Michelle Obama dresses nice, but she might be a complete freak that likes cutting herself? I'm not saying that's the case, just examples because who can tell what's inside?

I don't believe in judging books by their cover that's all.

ADEWUMIMichael:
thanks I will try

Don't try, do. It's the only reasonable course of action.

halfricanadian:
Always self conscious

How so?

I don't want much. Just not to be called olosho by neighbours and not have cheating buttwipe for husband. Plus other stuffs.

iLUMeN8:
I thought I was the only one that shares this sentiment. I was almost lynched by my friends a couple of days ago when I told them this.

I expect it can be good when you love and someone loves you.

rawpadgin:
ur honey pot must be realy angry wit u

I can take care of myself. I got hands.

Married to amazing man.

Twin children.

Job as artist.

Respected in community.

Financially stable.

Husband never cheats on me (we have excellent sex life).

uyisteven:
******
Yeah..Thanks...I figure that much...

But am planning of stopping it...Not trying to control it...

Why be ashamed? Do whay makes you feel good with other *consenting* parties.

However, if you want to stop may I suggest you half watching violent pornography to begin with.

True but money isn't on my list.

I make my own money, he makes his. Each contribute to financial needs of household and step up when the other has a financial problem like taking time off work due to illness.

I'm sure MEN want the things on this list too.

Oh come on.

If it wasn't the way women dress you'd be finding anothet reason to disrespect women.

Look at what happens in Saudi Arabia. Women there cover up in bed sheets and still get raped. Women are wholly disrespected for no explicable reason.

Once upon a time, swimsuits for women were head-to-toe because knees were considered rude and offensive.

Now it's individuals who determine what offends them, a knee or a breast or what. So it's impossible for women to dress to please everyone and earn their respect.

Maybe treat every woman as an individual and don't go painting all of them with the same brush, look inside instead of at the clothes.

How would you like it if someone judged your ENTIRE character by your clothing choice?

This wat u need to do:

1. Break it off respectfully (see my thread How to break up with someone).
You haven't been respectful so far, you've been ignoring her amd lying to her. This drives some women crazy. So just break it off. RESPECTFULLY. Everyone deserves respect, even crazy girls.

2. Report her to family.
If she's suicidal she needs to be monitored. Not by you. By her family. Explain what happened precisely - that you broke it off and she threatened to end her own life. Say you dont want contact with her and they should watch her.

3. Practise no contact rule (see my thread)
Do it to cure her obsession, not yours. She will get better at living without u as each day passes. Soon u won't hear from her at all.

4. This is not ur fault. She's obsessed. If she gon kill herself, you didn't tell her to kill herself. God will be watching over her and so will her family. You are not obliged to stay in relationship due to threats and emotional terrorism. Especially when u dont love her.

I've been celibate four years.

My bills get paid.

Because I WORK, b!tches

Love without sex?

Like family or friendship love. Or God's love?

AnonyNymous:
Even if you had a crush on the guy?

Waiting for marriage this time.

NevetsIbot:
that's what I meant by Agape love... Only God loves that way. Humans? Tarh!!

You sound upset...

Blackfire:
ok.

So how are u holding up?
How is your heart doing, Gradually healing? .

My name is blackfire, am a specialist.

What are you specialist in?

I gat my eye on you...

sbabimbola:
your prince charming is on the way.... trust me! winks.

Really? Where? Tell me more please?

NevetsIbot:
dem ask me question, you dan do rush rush answer am. Na wa o. Long nose. And true love does end.... Except its agape love. Imma testament... It fades out when it isnt taken care of

It really doesn't. It can get stale, boring, but it never ends.

Read the book.

God's love never ends...

Horrible stereotype of gay men.

ourleader:
Who is in charge of Nurturing & taking care

Both parties have equal responsibility to nirture and care.

It takes two to tango. You can't make no effort and then blame the other.

Read "five languages of love". Good book for keeping relationships together.

And true love doesn't ever end.

dauntless15:
what happened to you op, did your mother drop you on your head when you're little? Can you allow your wife a thre,esome with two guys? I can't believe she stayed married to you and didn't notice how much a per.vert you are, she deserves better

Agreed. If you're not open to her doing thr same wit 2 guys, then you should check yourself.

The way u feel about fukking wit a guy is the same way she feels about fukking wit a woman.

Some women like it.

But if they've never done it before, you need to introduce it to them gently - one step at a time. Not a full beating and choking on the first fvck.

I believe in love.

It's just really rare and often unrequited. Life is sad.

If you do it you will lose your friend.

What is more important to you?

Your friend or 30 mins of trying to live out a porn fantasy?
Also, it's not that easy to do these fantasies anyway. There's a lot more time spent on sayinb "is that too tight?" and running off finding belts and doing logistics involved than time spent actually banging her, especially if it's your first time doing this.

Read my thread on no contact ti get rid of your obsession.

You cant truly love someone without the opportunity to get to know them properly.

You just want him because you can't have him - you've built an idea of what he is in your head and that will come crashing to the floor when you actually spend time with him.

What if you have very different lifesyles? Clashing ideas? Not sexually compatible? Be real.