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Phasesone:
If you add what I said and what foolinlove said........... then I think you got a bright shot at this

Go team!

sbabimbola:
He has sent you several pm now....... LOL

EVERY MALLAM WITH HIS OWN KETTLE..

Ok. I have hundreds pms...

It's fine. Your ex doesn't rule your life.

Just be prepared: the second girl may turn you down in case she doesn't want to offend your ex. Depends how good of a friendship it is - maybe she'll value her friend more than you.

Bottom line: it's her choice, not yours, should ypu choose to tell her.

senibo1:
yes, she shouldn't put all the blames to the side of the guy both of them should share it...


I'm doing great, Maxwell my name, I don't think your name is foolinlove. sound so funny to me what's behind the nick

Hello nice to meet you. You can pm me if u want know my name etc. I don't give it up publically soz lol

He cheated?

Or just hurt her feelings with nasty words?

Clarify.

Same goes for men.

Stupid men relied on me. Now I'm broke af too.

Can't buy me love no more.

senibo1:
by her making the story original, miss good girl @op



btw.... yeah. hope you doing good?

Unfortunately a lot of people go thru this... it happens a lot.

Am ok how are you?

bitchcrafts:
All those rules that seemed extreme to you are in place to PROTECT their women. However stringent those rules may seem , that society still a relatively happy and tension subdued; That's essence to me!

You talk about being spat at in the face and I tell u that's a very big fat lie! If u didn't cross some boundaries no fukcing body will humiliate ya like that.

Yes, rape happens everywhere cos there are assholes everywhere, but when you're to measure the success level of Saudi against other places where morality has been fed to the dogs, the difference is clear! ... I mean, whats bad is bad, we should not rid the apparel its function of protection of human dignity just because we wanna preach the gospel of freedom! They two different things!!

Bolded is my point - you have illustrated that women are seen as property and not humans.

I was spat on, for not covering my face. As I said. Maybe that was "crossing a boundary" because I'm not protecting myself adequately from rape and dishonour?

I pose it to you that women shouldn't bear this unfairness. That men should stop raping, rather than womenhaving to constantly defend themselves against it. That men should be blamed for rape, rather than blaming women for failing to adequately protect themselves from it.

And in addition, that women should not be seen as dishonoured for being raped. That the dishonour should lie 100% squarely on the man/men who raped her.

For your second point: dignity and modesty lies in the eyes of the beholder. As I said before, there is no way a woman can dress that will live up to the different moral standards of each different man. So she may as well dress the way she wants... because she deserves happiness and comfort and the freedom to express herself WITHOUT JUDGEMENT.

senibo1:
you'd shine teeth for me


How are we sure you typing the truth? girls can lie

How can anyone be sure? People lie, not just females

PunkyV:
Not true. They do it for aesthetic reasons. South Africa is not as racist as some would like to believe & the whites aren't as privileged as they used to be in their hey-days. So it's not about thinking white = success, when we have affirmative action in place & other means to make sure that blacks do succeed eg. black economic empowerment, NSFAS etc. In fact, I think blacks have more privilege since 1994 because we have a lot of catching up to do since our needs were overlooked during Apartheid. Being black in South Africa today is an advantage.

I stand corrected.

She wanted debate though. Then ran away...

todayguest:
I'm not in support of cheating. However, killing the man she vowed to love on matter what, is far too extreme. What will be her fate, now that she had murdered him? Jail and stigmatization from the society.

He deserved a beating. Maybe not to death, but definitely a beating.

JoeArmsD1:
I don't know again ooo

i guess, she love the husband more

There's no accounting for some ppls taste :/

lordizak:
Hi.

Wanna go to a baby shower?

Blackfire:
yes i am single. . Wait let me write it in capital letter.

I AM SINGLE.

Lol. Pm me if u want.

JoeArmsD1:
my opinion though but i also felt that she should endure and stay since it is a vow she took in the altar of God.

I don't think God would approve of his behaviour. Maybe He sent the kidney failure so this lady could find her REAL husband.

God work in mysterious ways.

I know how u feel bro.

Many guys look at me. I get followed everywhere by handsome men.

How do I explain that I just wanna take them to a baby shower and introduce them to my fam and marry them?

Blackfire:
maybe the ones u gave me...

So u r single or wat?

JoeArmsD1:
He totally refused both test and everything.
According to the presenter, he never showed any feelings of helping his wife out.

Marry the second one then. I don't even know why there's a question. First one sounds like a buttwipe.

todayguest:
What a heartless woman! For woman to kill and throw off her husband corpse in the river. She must have been possessed by a very powerful demon.

Maybe the husband deserved it for being a cheating lying marriage-vow breaking butt-hole.

JoeArmsD1:
According to the OAP in 92.5 dream fm Enugu, A man whose wife was diagnosed with kidney failure refused donating one of his kidneys to the wife.
The wife later got helped out by a young man whom is now asking her "that he wouldn't mind making her his wife".
According to the presenter, the woman brought the issue to the station to seek the opinions of the audience.
And the OAP was asking, What should the lady do since it seems obvious that the husband doesn't love nor care about her life.

Was the original husband even a match?

You need to test blood types and HLA for match before donating... maybe he didn't refuse at all, he just wasn't a match.

Greene66:
Lol

Why lol? You wanted debate... here it is.

omonighoblessing:
thank u jare my sister

Look at it this way: you can walk away knowing u did all the right things u could. You can know you behaved honorably.

Can he say the same? No.

Blackfire:
my speciality is to make u happy literally(hope u wont run).
I gat my mind on u.

Ha. What would your girlfriend/wife say?

This happen to me too.

Men are The Worst.

He will get his karma. Everything you do to someone happens to you too.

I feel your pain.

The title of the thread is WHERE black is not beautiful.

Study conducted in South Africa. Which has a history of apartheid and monstrous racism.

Even though apartheid is over, many link white skin with success, due to the lasting bad attitudes toward black ppl - meaning white ppl still enjoy many privileges over black ppl.

Maybe this is less to do with beauty (which is in the eye of the beholder) and has more to do with racism. Black ppl feel they can't be successful in that particular country without having light skin, so they bleach in a desperate attempt to enjoy success via privilege.

It's sad. Black ppl are gorgeous the way they are. Everyone is gorgeous the way they were born, in the way God made them.

Personally, I'd love it if someone were that jealous about me.

Shows how much they care and love you. They really don't want to lose you.

Sigh.

MilesLamar:
Ma we just met.. not evn up to 24hrs haba

So get over it and move on.

So you think Jill Scott speaks for all women just because she happens to be a woman?

Get a life.

Gigihealth:
Douching is the act of cleaning out the inside of your vaginal with either water or other mixtures. You want to know if douching is safe for you? Click on the link below
http://www.gigihealth.com/douching-helpful-or-harmful/

Douching is not recommended by any doctor who has good training. It's bad for you. Don't douche.

MilesLamar:
You are wrong ma.. check ur dictionary for the meaning of friend zone.

The friend zone is what you were in before you realised she wasn't interested. You were in her zone of friends BEFORE she "rejected" you.

Only you see it differently. That you were a suitor and then you got rejected and put in the friend zone.

Dude, you were in the friend zone the whole time. It's also known as : BEING SOMEONE'S FRIEND.

Breadmaker:
And you think it is only women that friendzone men?

I have a lot of friendzoned ladies too, and I agree with other part of your comment.

I appreciate them for whom they're and what they have been to me but I owe them nothing.

Am talking in terms of the male op. Were it a female, I would have reversed the genders.