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Dudeladude:
guy no vex na... person no fit follow u play again

Ronaldo is not in the league and calibre of a player that one prejudiced he-goat can spew rubbish at.

Kayceenaz:
Thanks, bro. Can you be more specific?

use of word, diction and style

Raydos:
Bragging!!!! This is one thing i hate about this motherfucker, Do you think if you were still in Man-U you would win that UCL 3 times ?? Madrid helped your damn life!!


How many UCL do you win before the arrival of zidane?? It's zidane that came and changed everything in Madrid!!!


I will respect you only if you win UCL with juventus which is not possible!!

You are a big foolish, motherfucker he goat Barcelona fan. How dare you open your rotten stinking mouth to talk to Ronaldo like that...You are the biggest fool for thinking Rinaldo can not win in Juve, ur hatred and bitterness will be ur end. werey ara e.

thorrvik55:
Nice...

I sha hope ur morale would not be drastically reduced after a series of back to back 1's o...

Perseverance is key.

lols I pray o, cos it's not gonno be funny cos in my mind, I already calculated my earnings and even bought some stuffs I have wanted to buy..lol

Kayceenaz:
I paused for a minute, trying so hard to fathom why a young boy or girl could possibly delight in inventively turning medicinal substances to ones for leisure. "Don't they feel vomitous and dread drugs like some people do?" "Has this helpful blood-enchriching liquid also been converted to a means of leaving consciousness behind?" Few days ago, I came across a post on social media, alarming parents of the fresh trend wherein blood tonic is consumed by youngsters in large quantities for quickly reaching their peak, unfortunately in "highness." I marvel at that counterproductive ingenuity to this day. At one point or another, you may have been as perplexed as I was, wondering what is going on.


Among many vices assaulting a good number of youths today, it seems drug abuse has positioned its chair, confidently sitting down with crossed legs unready to depart soon. The relentless pursuit of an unusual but unhealthy ecstatic mental state by tomorrow's leaders makes it feel at home. One of the high-ranking justifications for involvement in drug abuse is that the doors of creativity are unlocked through its keys. Musicians, academics, writers, dancers, artistes, etcetera, get cited. Creativity shares no necessary link with drug abuse! The possibility of upsetting the brain and having body organs insidiously damaged remain high after or without achieving your goal.


Well, the lives of Cobhams Asuquo, Wole Soyinka, Mark Zuckerberg, Chimamanda Adichie, Kaffy, and Michel Angelo shed light on creativity as a product of research, deep reflections, risk-taking, consistent practice, and an undying desire to stand out. Neither gulping codeine nor blood tonic is needed to do these. Take a cue and enjoy the fruits of creativity in that area. Such enlightenment prepares you or your child/ward to dismiss those seemingly strong arguments for drugs overdose or taking a sip of those concoctions with a wave of the hand. Although drug abuse festers, doing nothing is as deadly.



©Kaycee Naze,
Concerned Youth.

I like the way you wrote this more than the message.. lol

Pegi23:
sense.



One thing I hate about you Nigerians is this. You guys can't help others without asking for something in return. No tell me how will this country survive when we don't help with our good mind

I don't need your Instagram sense...meanwhile how many girls get sense for Instagram..lol. If u get big yansh, dat should do me.

..Finally, was able to digest this thread from page 1 to 38 after stumbling on it last night...I hope it will help prevent me from asking needless and sometimes annoying questions by the time I get on board..lol.
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Kudos to everyone who has contributed in part to this informative and money making thread. You have gingered my interest with proofs of payments and pep talks on perseverance. I hope I will be strong enough like you all and won't run away after the usual series of initial set backs.

UK FC, or whatever you call yourself.. your father. Let's go make some dough.. Lols

Pegi23:
I'm a normal human being but fish are not to be eaten.

Follow up on instagram

What does your Instagram page have to offer me??

superlanny:
your wrong bro, cow and chicken and goats etc are widely accepted and eaten by a large number of people, whales, shark and the likes are endangered species and need to be protected, not all animals are for food.

stfu!!!

Pegi23:
animal cruelty


Call the po po(police)

That cute fish. No wonder I don't eat fish because I can't stand to see one being butcher by poverty stricken higher animals




I'm crying right now. But whatever follow up on instagram

why will u eat fish when u are ogbanje...mamiwater coast of the Queen...I can cry a river e no concern us..fish is to be eaten

kimozaman1010:
Your payback might destroy you o since you have made up your mind to marry an adulterous woman in the future probably with olosho's as children. Mr fvcker have in mind that if you ever sleep with an innocent Man's wife who is not in the fvcking league with you he's God will never forgive you.

Nobody decides or prays to marry adulterous woman...all men, especially the loyal ones, never hoped their hardearned wife would become a cheat..but thats exactly what's happening in life, say years after marriage, even months or weeks after marriage sometimes. So human attitude and desire is beyond anyones wish or prayer. So ur logic is a foolish one...Its better to be realistic than being in denial like you all

PartnerusIsBack:
I believe you are still young. You need a purpose driven life. Better still you need a job and some other responsibilities as a man to keep you busy and focused.

How does that dispute my stance. So older men who fvck other peoples wives and galfriend are young without job. Ode ni e sha.Typical Nigerians can't air opinions intelligently

usermane:
I don't see the bright side in red pill. It is a dark side, it is biased. I've learnt a lot from the mgtow or redpill community. They speak a lot of truth, but I was never convinced. Because they are biased and want to discuss about the harms women are capable of dealing men, never about the harms men are capable of dealing women.

If all you want is attention from women, then redpill works. But it works via psychological manipulation of another human being. Too much of mind games. I'd rather invest my mind in something else.

Just please yourself. Sooner or later, u will be running to latch on a straw just to save yourself.. good luck

HealingHeart:
Anyone that wear enough make-up and push up bras.

Whatever

HealingHeart:
Fvck any woman that gives you green light? Wow, and we wonder we expect women to be loyal to their man.

Not anyone of course, she must be desirable and attractive enough for me. You can't force or extract loyalty from any human, much less for women. Humans free agent with ability to change and decide how they are lead their lives per time

HealingHeart:
If you've been in this section long enough, you know the recurring thoughts about women here;

A. Women are gold diggers.
B. Women love aszholes.
C. Women are not trustworthy.
D. Women are cold, selfish and couldn't care less about men.

Unfortunately, there is plenty of truth in these thoughts, besides the sweeping generalization. But this is just one point of view of the story and in order to better understand why our women have come to this, we need to look at men from the women point of view. Are men just the innocent victims here?

Here are few vices of men, that women see too clearly, that the MGTOWs or RedPill are blinded to;

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1. Men are superficial and obsessed with looks; large bust & butt, pretty face, etc. Women generally focus more on character than men. Because men are obsessed with looks, there is no incentive for women to develop themselves in order to get men, all they need is to just look pretty and seductive.

2. Men are obsessed with sex, they're visually wired. Again, what does it take for a woman to get sex from men? Nothing! This obsession with sex, also means men are not trustworthy. A man can have the best wife in the world and still lust after another woman, eventually cheating.

3. Men are just as selfish as women. They may start out nice, but as soon as they get the woman in bed or in marriage, as soon as they decide she's losing her beauty, they start caring less, become more controlling and harsh towards her, before eventually divorcing or dumping her for a more attractive woman.

Any man who does not see the bright side or truism of the red pill philosophy is a coded and subtle fool. People like you learn gender dynamics the hard way. writing rubbish like a woman rapper. By the time u wake up, it will have been too late

Igetmyown247:
People who make this kind of noise only last 40 seconds in bed... next.

Ode ni e...This post is only trying to explore philosophical questions around fidelity...its not a brag about sexual prowess ode

damtan:
Why did I open this thread nitori Olohun

what did u see

Igbo men are generally misogynistic and chauvinistic

The rate of scammer on Nairaland is getting alarming.

YungMillionaire:
Funny because some1 might be fvcking ur own wife right now

And your wife too bro....so let's just be fvcking the already over-fvcked pvssy

Smh...And they pushed this to front page, a nairalander like me, like all of us...This is favoritism. Lala and seun, you are highly suspected on this gal matter.

elmagnifico411:
This one is sex-starved. Nobody dey interested in fucking u. Carry your turgid phallus to a soapyisland and self-service the hell outta your destiny. Nonsense and wife fvcker.

You dont know anything

tunjilee003:
this shows that someone have been fucking your wife to stupor and you decide to share it with us.

And this does not show someone is not fvcking your wife too...and if u haven't married.. it still doesn't show that someone won't fvck your wife...If pastors wife that preach on the alter can be fvvcked by members or outsider, there's no wife that can not be fvcked given the right circumstances and condition.

Dessy96:
Don't Bleep someone's wife o... Some husbands are crazy you can loose your life.... It's in the Bible "for a woman jealous husband will be furious and he will show no mercy when taking revenge "......if you feel the risk is worth it... Good luck

Yea you are right. there's pros and cons to everything in life. That's the major consequence, especially when dealing with the wife of a very violent and vengeful man...But then, there's always a code to preempt those risk...and enjoy an oily pvssy

OTayobami:
I just dey look you dey laff. But you go suffer sha o! Hmm

Which suffer? suffer for consensual sex

Enoch07:
so u cannot overcome simple temptation?may d gods have mercy on u

You mean I should spare your wife when shes already bored of your diick and wants to have a taste of a lover boys diick?...will so tear her pvssy

Enoch07:
this right here is a wrong mentality

You had better warn your wife not to flirt with me...or not to respond to my flirt if I find her attractive fvckable.

You are probably a cheat. 90 to 99% of Nigerian married men have cheated on their wife at least once. Many even enjoy cheating almost all the time. As a result, you have no moral gumption to feel bad if another person fvck and cheats with your wife.

Married men fvck our girlfriends, they entice them with their cars, and money. Even as a boss at work, they fvck others people's wives too, so if your wife gives me green light, I'm going to fvck her to stupor. And I don't care if my wife gets fvck in future, cos she will most probably cheat just like most married women of today who appear as angel and saint in the eyes of their gullible husband who is also a cheat anyway.
So I'm not going to worry about what I can't control. So if u are a married woman and u flirt anyhow around me, just know I will so pound your brain out that you will lose the taste of your husband diick...Nonsense and unrealistic fidelity. mtcheww.

jackals:
Good looks and handsome face are the only calculated antidote to warm a woman's heart,not ,money nor good personality nor intelligence.A handsome dumb guy is charming to women than an intelligent ugly guy. A molester is charming and attractive to women, the same way rape is okay so far the perpetrator has a fine face.



Girls, what is something that is not nearly “attractive” as guys think?

Looks remain the number one thing a woman look for in a guy. If an handsome guy approached girls with all these teachings of Harddon, they'd consder it attractive,But an ugly guy doing same is rude and insulting.She won't even look at his side. I have a friend who told me she don't even respond looking at a guy's face and noticed he's not handsome.....Looks,not money,solves all your problem when dealing with women

I’m a guy and I don’t want to mansplain but I’m gonna answer this anyways because there’s so many misunderstanding on this topic among both men and women, including answers to this question.

As a kid, you probably thought that, because you as a guy were attracted to physically attractive women and other guys could also have attractive and unattractive looks, girls also like guys with good looks. So if you ever were to date a girl like this:

You probably had to look like this:

But then, at some point people told you that women don’t care that much about your looks. What they would care about, varied depending on who you asked. Some tell you that you need to treat them nicely. Others put more emphasis on confidence. Some even went on teaching youall kinds of tricks that would make you an “Alpha” or a ladykiller. And of course, you’d buy them. Because to be fair, you as a young guy just want to get girls and if anyone tells you what to do to get women, you’ll try. Then lastly, there were also guys who tried these things and they didn’t work, and their conclusion was women are attracted to your money, and thus the solution was to become succesful and earn a lot of money. You didn’t want to believe it but somehow didn’t exclude the fact women care about your money either.

These things are, although maybe of some importance, overrated and you’re being lied to by delusional ideologies, from women telling you to “just be nice” to the highly mysoginist “Redpill” that tells you women actually want you to dominate them like a patriarch “Alpha”.

You were right as a kid. Looks are the most important feature in attraction to women like they are to men!!!

But let’s break the lies down.

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Confidence and personality

Both are very important. However, they’re not the only thing that matters. “Confidence” is mainly used to make unattractive men feel like they can fully control their attractiveness. Maybe watch certain episodes of the originally Dutch dating show “Dating in the Dark” in which people have dates in the dark. Often when the personalities click, but the women see the guy’s looks, they’re turned off by them anyways. One time, a woman literally said “I don’t get where he gets the [confident] attitude from because he doesn’t have the looks to back them up.” So yeah, confidence and personality are important to women, like they are to men, but after the woman’s already physically interested in you.

I mean girls, would you date this guy if he had a nice and confident personality?

Many women will actually be repulsed and annoyed when this guy shows confidence and approaches them.

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Money. Despite what some men might tell you, women aren’t golddiggers. If you’re unemployed and live with your parents at age 25, it might be a turnoff to women, but it’s not that an income of 200k is gonna make any difference compared to an income of 100k. A few women are golddiggers and you can get them with money, but in general your level of attraction to women is barely influenced by your net worth. This doesn’t even make any sense biologically; there’s no money in nature and having money doesn’t indicate you’re a good partner or carry healthy or strong genes. The men that tell you this are in denial of their unattractiveness in other fields, and say this to put the blame on women for being golddiggers.

Again girls, is this guy really able to make you Hot and able to make you love them you if he takes his wallet out of his pocket?

Maybe some women will go for a guy based on his money, like some men take a sugar momma, but this isn’t genuine attraction. It’s just biologically false and delusional.

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Being a patriarch alpha This is basically the politically incorrect, mysoginist Redpilled version of personality and confidence. It often means a guy needs to learn PUA “game” and needs to feel like he’s superior to women and treat them like that. Often, men who tell you poo like this believe there’s a huge feminist conspiracy that turned them into “beta males”, unattractive, non-masculine an weak men. But even considering patriarchy is natural, there’s no way guys who are so desperate they end up reading this poo advice would be attractive or dominant “Alpha” males in nature. Being an Alpha male or Alpha female in nature means an individual is the leader of the group and thus able to dominate the group in general, not just the members of the other sex. Some species have Alpha Males, other Alpha Females and others both Alpha Males and Females. As humans are very developed, both genders have a lot of members that would be considered Alpha in nature. Patriarchy is a scam. But even assuming we were to be a patriarchial species, there’s only a few men that would be dominant alpha males and thus get women. As there are at least some guys who have never had any trouble getting at least some girls, there’s no feminist conspiracy keeping you from getting laid or being an alpha male, you’re just not an alpha male.

Believe me, the Redpill only exists to comfort unsuccesful men. On the one hand, it spares their ego by saying it’s not about their looks and they’re destined to be succesful, and on the other hand it tells them it’s not their fault they’re not but it’s the women/feminists who brainwashed them. The Redpill is a disgusting, mysoginist and delusional ideology.

Women, I know you don’t like to be treated like property or like a kid by your partner. But assuming you were to be turned on by it, would you like this guy to be your patriarch husband?

I guess we all know the answer.

The truth, the undeniable truth, is that looks matter as much to women as they matter to men.

This is to say, personality, financial situation, hobbies, confidence etc. might all be factors that contribute to one’s attractiveness… but ONLY after your looks are well enough to even consider giving the other person a chance.

And maybe this sounds shallow, but its not. It’s biological, it’s inclined in our DNA, no matter hoe attractive or unattractive we consider ourselves, we all want to date someone we find physically attractive. And we can’t be blamed for wanting it.

This is not to say it’s over for you if you’re a physically unattractive guy; being physically unattractive means most women will find you unattractive, however there’s always gonna be some who will find you attractive, or at least attractive enough to give you a chance to attract them with those other factors. Actually, I’ve seen ugly guys with way better sex lives than me and many other attractive guys (although in my case it’s because I don’t really care about sex or relationships so I put zero effort in getting it), not because they could compensate for their looks and now most women were magically attracted to them for having a confident and interesting personality, but because this personality and social skills made them able to recognize and take the chances they got. And some of those chances are really hot tho, because everyone has his/her own taste including hot girls. So you shoud always keep hope and try self-improvement (and not Redpilled self-improvement because that’s BS). You can also try to improve your looks for a part, by hitting the gym, taking care of hygiene, finding the right haircut and whether you should have a beard (and if yes how to shave it). Try to maximize your looks at least.

Conclusion/TL;DR

There’s no key to getting way more women being attracted to you. The only thing you can do is take care of your looks, but in the end, your looks determine the initial attraction women feel towards you and not something you can easily learn or adapt. There’s no trick, no behavioral trait or PUA “game” that will make you a ladykiller that makes all of the women go crazy depeding on you doing that. However, you’re not bleeped either and self/improvement is still good. Yes, a majority of women will find you unattractive, but there’s billions of women so even a small minority is enough for you to find someone sooner or later. If you learn social skills and develop a nice personality, you’ll find out you have plenty of options to get women, just like the guys I just used as examples of unattractive men will have plenty of girls within the thousands reading this answer that will disagree with me and indeed be attracted to them. Even if it’s only a small percentage of the women in the world, you’ll be able to take these chances and have a happy and interesting dating life.

Personality and confidence might not be keys to the gates of attractiveness, but they are tools to decorate what’s behind it

You are a big miserable fool who is unable to get laid. Stop mis-informing gullibles. You know nothing about attraction and dating gals. How old are you? Ode You must be blind to see how ugly guys mostly get the most beautiful babes around. Have u been to campus? club? and alll....You need a re orientation abt gaming and fvcking gals...its even obvious you are so miserable as u are not even proud of your gender...you are using 'f' as ur gender while being 'm'.... You better face your trouble before its too late

ajog1:
That's a heck of a resource you just shared. Thanks bud!

You're welcome man!