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Insecurity of the highest order

Just because she used your son's name as next if kin, you went
hay wire

If you know that you are man enough, you would have over looked that aspect and appreciate her efforts in building that house

Now you don't want to celebrate your family new house, let the leaving celebrate for her

Men, stop your ego and appreciate hard working women who have been doing your jobs for you

Pride has never served a man food, instead of envying her give her the support of loving her to do more

Young lady, don't make that mistake because you are likely to be a victim of what you swear to.

Men are not and never faithful
A man can only be faithful if he has the fear of God

Men have the ability to fall in love with three different woman and still manage and handle the emotions that goes with it

But women have only one chance of giving love, once they have another guy it will prove itself either by action or attitude

I am not supporting them but nature designed it do for them

Thatowhy you see them marrying a beautiful wife and still date

Don't go and kill yourself because marriage is a different institution where your certificate is given to you before admission

That means endless studying

truthsayer009:
Abi oo, Matured elder sisters is the right and only way.

Na criminal dey catch other criminals na.

True talk

She needs to be returned back to the prison

Life is better for her there because she doesn't appreciate freedom

Evtspez:
Ignore any grammatical errors please. I will make it concise.
My girlfriend visited me 20th December 2018 and we had unprotected s*x. Base on what she told me about her menstrual cycle, her ovulation period falls within the date. Before she left my crib early January she has started menstruating which came 4 days earlier than usual. Exactly a month she called that she has not seen her period.
My concern is am I truly responsible for it? Considering the fact that : She started her menstrual period before leaving my crib, even though I know semen can survive for 5 days in the reproductive tract of a lady but even at that her ovulation can't take place immediately which makes such chances slim.

Medical experts in the house can a lady get pregnant and still experience heavy flow of menses? My understanding is even if it occurs it comes light.

My reasons for seeking public/experts opinions:
I will travel so I would like to travel together with her if there's chances of me being responsible for it because I don't want her to suffer.
As no DNA test can be carried out at this stage, I don't want to take responsibility and at the end the pregnancy is not mine.
Thanks in anticipation for your inputs.

Having read what you posted, I am not sure you know what you are talking about or where you have found your self

Are you desperate to have a baby or you are madly in love with her and you can't leave her behind as you intend travelling

Are you that soft that you accept any thing you are told or are you scared of loosing her

How prepared are you with this adventure you are planning, both emotional and financial

Is it that you will marry her and travel with her.
That means finance is not your problem or are you scared of loosing her to another man

You don't want her to suffer just because she is playing a smart one on you that she is pregnant, let me ask you,
Are you not suffering to be able to stand as a man

Anyway it's your choice, since you lack some experiences, involve your matured elder sisters if you have any and the truth will come out

She is a very serious minded student

She was able to separate love and academics

How many of our ladies out there can separate that?

Very few just because they chose to place priority to love more than education

And at the end,
they find themselves on a lower grade

Ladies,
define your standard and guys will troll you with respect and love

barrMo:
and what exactly does he do for a living

Relying on his powerfull sisters

ChiefAzubuike:
This is why its always good to stay one place and stop chasing big pr**k up and down.

Avoid unnecessary waka waka if not this might be your disastrous fate.

Are you getting out of your senses or you just chose to be stupid with this calous sentence of yours

It could happen to your sisters or wife to be and you will know how it feels like

Idiot

God please take the life of those that are taking the life of your young girls

Young lady, rest in peace

AngryNigerian22:
trust me.if am a king I won't marry one wife,I will marry at lease 7 or 14

Lol, you are a real angry Nigeria

JONNYSPUTE:
..You nailed it .Your comment is very objective and devoid of emotions and sentiments.

Thanks dear

Techguyz:
Where are the Igbo feminists na? Come out we must discuss this one too

OK am here and let's put things clear

She already have a child when she was in primary school, for her to be soo loose to have a child at that age, it won't be easy for a bachelor to propose to her because it will be assumed she will be messing around

Secondly, she is from a poor home and she has to stop her education because of her early pregnancy, well I blame the parents their poverty made thier daughter to loose her self and follow men to get food at the same time pay with her pussy, hence the pregnancy

Thirdly, the husband to be is not as complete as a man, so for him to get a simple girl will be difficult despite the fact that his families are rich, situation like this they go for girls in the same category like him or go for girls that already pregnant or already have a child which is refared to as bastard

Fortly because the man is not organised, they need an organised woman to help coordinate his family and they will establish her into a business of her choice

The summary of this scenario now is that her marriage to that family will uplift her own family from poverty and get them established because they are now in law's and wouldn't want anybody to make mockery of their inlaw.

So if at the end she stays in that marriage and messes around they won't be suprise

Meanwhile that child she had out of wedlock is now the first child of the man and he is entitled to his inheritance along with his other biological children.

They can go and eat the corpse now

Devil incanates

Stupid man

Even with three wives, you are not yet satisfied with sex

Even the sex has made him dry like stick fish

That tribe the only thing they know is sex and rape

This is the only swagger king I know in Nigeria

No wander he has just one wife, he wants to live long and enjoys his living

Not those one's that will marry more than one wife as if its possible to bed them all at once

MONIKERREVEALER:
I love dealing with honest people

I think I will begin following you on nairaland

see you later

ps:

if you have a picture of yourself, please put it up.

thanks

Funny you, lol.

MONIKERREVEALER:
that's why in bible times, women were always required to be in the company of a male relative when going outside of the community where she's well known.

our modern lifestyle with it's attendant hypocritical approach to gender strengths and weaknesses has forced our ladies to be thrown out into the wild world filled with ravening beasts in the form of men who are ever ready to prey on their weaknesses!

nowadays, we have young ladies going off to college hundreds of miles from anywhere she's easily identified!

ladies need to be loved, tended to and guided in order to ensure future generations of kids remain grounded!

thanks for your honesty shortie...

Honestly you have said it all

I love your analysis and women

Only few men will reason like this but majority, reasons the other way round

It's just a pity that as at the time she was feeling Hot she made use of the available male around

She can as well do it to a 10yrs boy assuming that's the only male around her that moment

Women can be more crazy when feeling Hot than men

Men can control sex urge but not with women,

At 25yrs you are I a hurry to make money

They should just jail him before he graduate to killing his own family members for the sake of money making

Go to jail, that will slow your speed of making money

ChiefAzubuike:
How people can't be smart enough to escape a fire accident amazes me a lot..

With this your comment, it shows that you are under rating the power of fire

But you will understand better if you become a victim

If you like remove your womb, na your body go suffer am

Babyforever:
Hurray kemi has gone international

She won't get attention with this her madness was programmed for naija

Agbero done turn to vip and celebrity

Naija here we come

That is nonsense and stupid of her

She went too far and if anything happens to that lady she will be jailed and the man will get another woman to warm his bed

Will she ever swear that she has never slept with any woman's husband before?

Am a woman and I don't support her actions

Despite the rain that fell in yenagoa yet they came out under the rain to support pdp

That's a good ones

mrMeen:
How time flies See as the beauty fade and she come be like toothpick, is it illness, ungraceful aging or what?.

She lost her husband and brother the same month and year

That alone is enough to age her

GOFRONT:


Instead of her to think of how to get pregnant, put to bed and celebrate her new born, she is here celebrating with an old cargo....

Well, I wouldn't blame her, I'd put the blame on that weakling of a man called Banky W.......

And he has mouth to call out his political enemies who removed his campaign billboard..

Are you that bittered that you are now a monitoring spirit?

GOFRONT:


Instead of her to think of how to get pregnant, put to bed and celebrate her new born, she is here celebrating with an old cargo....

Well, I wouldn't blame her, I'd put the blame on that weakling of a man called Banky W.......

And he has mouth to call out his political enemies who removed his campaign billboard..

Are you that bittered that you are now a monitoring spirit?

Ladies of nowadays are getting it all wrong

She is dressed but naked and the man is looking more decent

Most they go naked to be noticed

newproject:
Am tired of hearing


APC

AND


PDP


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These are the one's breathing normally others are using oxygen to breath

hisexcellency34:
Too bad. I cant blame the husband until we hear his side of the story.

You don't need to hear from the husband to be sure that she was running away from abusive marriage

No woman wants to stay with a beast as a husband and no man wants to live with a monster as a wife

I will not subscribe to that, that's gambling