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He should be donated alive to medical students for practical

Or inject him with chemicals that can trigger any illnes

No food Ohhh

Just leave him here he will beg for death

They wanted to be creative but it was not well arranged

maj59:
I've never heard about employment opportunity in CBN. Are the staffs there immortal?

My dear, its coded

This one never ready to settle down

Make una leave am alone

By the time she will be ready, she might end up dating herself

idowuswap:
igbo people will spoil it with stupid.fraudulent act.i dont know why tinubu can not deport them back to thier potopotor land of criminal tribe.or

Keep monitoring the ibos

Don't go and look for your own success

Anuofia

They should just leave her to contest alone

Breakingfamous:
This is not common in Nigeria. A Nigerian lady will hardly do this.

Here is the moment a beautiful South African lady knelt down, brought out ring and proposed to her boyfriend in public.

People were just watching the whole incident as the boyfriend was looking surprised, apparently it's a surprise proposal from the lady. The young man said yes and the people around clapped for them while they hugged.

Watch the romantic moment HERE

Guys, if your girlfriend gives you a surprise marriage proposal like this, privately or publicly, how will you react?

Ladies can you do this?

What if the guy had said no?

Source: http://www..com/2019/03/south-african-lady-kneels-down-to.html

South Africans are more exposed than Nigerians

If a lady should try this in naija, hmmm

The man will be treating her as if she is nobody just because she made the proposal

The man will be forming for the same reason

They guy will leave the running of the home for her and if she nag's, he will remind her that he wasn't ready for the marriage and he accepted her proposal out of sentiment

Then after all this, he will now tell her that if she can't cope, she can go or he will leave the house to marry another woman.

That's how the man life will become a gambling life

helinues:
Back and forth

Honestly, causing confusion

Now this parade of madness will affect his vote count

If there is a way women would manipulate their pussy and fashion it the way they fashion every other part of their body

Men would have a great choice of varieties

She has been targetting that teacher

Unfortunately, it worked out for her

I was thinking of an innocent person being picked at the bustop and his hands cut off

The moment I read where cult was meantioned, I knew that he must have warranted it

If the government have thought of this very well, and have value for humans

They would have created a lane dedicated to only, firs service, ambulance, bullion vans, medicals

On this route, the above meantioned names have vehicles with special colours

They will be the only one to ply that route because of the essential services they render to human life

That means making safety our priority

This Mike escapedes no dey finish

From one big trouble to another

Erums:
Tnks man... Much appreciated

Woman pls

That means automatic ticket for him

That's life

AfonjaConehead:
Hey don't fall for that guy's bait,he ain't Yoruba.. He is one of those northerners against southern unity.
Some yorubas might be agberoes but majority of them are hardworking men/women.

Lol,
I will believe you

I give God the glory that she came back alive and save her adopted mum the embarrassment of suspecting her in her missing case

That woman that abducted her should just be left in a room to starve and die

She deserves a painful death

Antipob777:
Saturday is not far, just mess up, we are ready for you people.

I swear with my life, I will lead the beating on Saturday, don't duck with us

It's because you don't have value for your life that why you are swearing with your life to lead the beating on Saturday

Don't be suppirse you will meet your death that day

This is how you fashioned your life to hate the ibos, uptil today you haven't find your bearing

The ibos you are staging war with are busy looking forward to their business success

Keep monitoring them as you have nothing to do again than thuggery

Yes we are developing everywhere and lagos is a no man's land

You guys have sold your inheritance to us, what next?

We have our shops every corner of lagos all you guys do is to go round daily to collect peanuts from us

That's your source of living,
that means if we are not doing business you guys will starve.

Non of the yorubas can stand the kind of business risk the ibos go through, yet you lick their ass daily to get fed, collecting reminants from the traders on daily basis

We have come to develop and all over naija we owned commerce

It's our own natural gift

But the yorubas gift is thuggery

Now tell me who is more stupid?

We will make our futune and still travel down to the east and celebrate success

You guys have no where to go because we have bought your inheritance

Making you visitors in your father land

If you think you loved him so much and you can't let go, come out open to him to make you his second wife

If he agrees fine that shows that he needs you but if he objects to it, let him go.

You can't get another man unless you drop him

But if you think he us the only one on earth and after him nothing else, become pregnant and have a child for him

In life, we have different ways of getting happiness, it's your choice to choose yours

Just be ready to defend the outcome of any decision taken by you

lighteast:
Good day fellow nairalanders, I have been a member here since 2013 not until I lost the account, every effort to retrieve the account never yielded any progress because I do not have access to the email used in the acount creation, so I decided to view as a guest.
I virtually sleep and wakeup here everyday, it makes me laugh, read news all around the world and learn new things everyday, infact it is part of me I can't let go easily, so that is why I decided to bring this up here as my last resort, been planning to post this for long but lack the courage , your piece of advice I shall consider because I believe we have intellectuals here, enlightened fellows who won't stoop low to degrade another.

The circumstances trailing my birth was controversial, I grew up without a father figure in my life, I am twenty three now in my third year in the university, I will try as much as possible to hide the identity of the two characters involved in my story including yours truly.

My mum got pregnant for a man which sparked an outrage some years ago, the man denied my mum and left my mum to her fate, my mum bore all the burden and tantrums thrown at her at that time all alone, she got rejected by her people, her church and friends, but she never gave up, she took me far away from home to train, in return I never disappointed, my brain and personality was too hot my teachers and classmates would wonder which planet I came from, from my primary school days till I graduated from secondary school, I never for once settled for second position in the class overall termly report.
things where going on well in my innocent mind I never bordered thinking of my life, what the future has in stock for me nor the reality that will soon set in.
Let me not bore you with my story, fast forward to my university level right now, mum lost her job and things changed immediately I got admission to study the same course my father studied, now that was a coincidence as I have never met the man nor heard anything about him, I got to find out we share same trait, same look and same level of intelligence [maybe] from a man I came across.
life became a nightmare for me in the uni to the extent I contemplated suicide on several occasions.
I could recall how I summoned courage to ask my mum about my dad, wouldn't it be fair I get to know him atleast to help ease the situation of things, like get support from him knowing full well she can't cater for my education anymore, maybe a Daniel will come to judgement through him, he is a public figure and an affluent now, but my mum said I should never think of that, that if I ever try that then bear it in mind that I have hurt her, that she will never be happy, that if I leave her after going though all this suffering because of me, she will never be happy.
life is a living hell for me, should I listen to her and keep struggling with life until I make it or throw caution to the wind and go for the man whose blood run in me, I am scared of dropping out and becoming a nobody in life, still thinking how to pay my hostel fee that is due but no help whatsoever. been at home since school resumed, I believe she is still bitter with the man, I don't know if I should get both of them to reconcile and forgive each other for my sake or should I just move on with my life, please I need your advice on this.

Your mum is very sad with your supposed father and women that find themselves in such situations hardly forgive the men

It's nit easy as you said that you wish to reconcile them both with time it might work out

I suggest you go on discrete investigation about your dad

Keep it away from mum

Find out from dad why he has never looked for you

Listen to him and deduct meaningful things from your discussion from him

Let him know that you want him and mum to come together even if it means him renting an apartment for her where the both of them can be seeing each other

Meanwhile get some cash from him and let him know the efforts your mum have made to put you through

Gradually you will start talking to your mum again why you want her to reconcile with your dad

The final decision lyes in your mum but you must be patient with her because she went through tough times all this while

infortech:
I needs your advice, please I got married in 2017, before my Marriage everything was going on well, in my business and my Contacts work. but my problems started immediately after my traditional marriage, my car catch fire, I used all the money I got from my traditional marriage to fix the car, dat one was not enough, the day of my white wedding my car spoiled Dat morning of my wedding, is like dat one was not enough again, I was kidnapped 7days after my wedding, all the money I got from my wedding was collected in process of kidnapping me. on the process of this things that happened to me my business went to zero.
My big problem is that is like my wife married me because of what she saw initial time, now things is very difficult for me she talks to me any how, comparing me wit other men out side dia, complain too much, I don't give her upkeep money, she can't allow it to happen, insulting me any how even when she no all the things we passed through. we can't stay up to 4days without having some problems, pls what should I do because am not happy with what is going on in my family.

Early stage of marriage is very difficult especially when the couples are experiencing financial difficulties

Could I say your predicaments started when you married your wife?

Well it could also be a coincidence, for the time being pray over it and watch the way things unfold

If by any chance you think you guys can live separately pls do do and also watch how it goes

Some gives luck while some takes luck away from man

A man can never determine his destiny until he is married

Erums:
Hello guys,

I'm going to be brief,

Im starting to receive pressure from family to get married, mind you im just 27 and i have a job, payment is average if compared to the nigeria economy monthly basis if i work pretty hard 200k upward. It's not really abt the money but my family feels I'm all prepared to be married as at now. Thou I have the intention of traveling to the west and starting a life, what I'm gonna do there I don't know yet, thus I'm still keeping a low profile on that not letting family know.

I just need candid advise from matured minds.

Is it not too early to marry?

Can 200k sustain a family pretty well?

. I don't want my family lacking, atleast my wife and my kids should be able to get thier demands averagely met.

I need experience people to guide me out here. Thanks

The amount you mentioned us enough to sustain you as a beginner

If you have a serious woman in your life, you can consider getting married

But she has to be working or trading

There is never a time a man will be ready for marriage

If you start early you end child bearing early and have enough time to plan your family

Finally ask yourself are you ready for the challenges of marriage ?

Hmm Ruth done enter voice mail

So she could do this to Sandra, because she wants to have Mike for herself

Too bad

Chenzee:
During my primary school days; my parents, especially my dad always boasted he was the best student in their own time. The only position he ever came in class was first position. Though I later found out that 2 of my friends' dads who happened to be my dad's classmates in school, always came first in class too. It's as if everyone in that class always came first in exams. Some one must be lying...

Any time, anyone of us ( myself and my siblings) comes home after a particular term's examination, with any position apart from first in class, will always receive discouraging remarks from my dad like:" I don't know where you got that brain of yours". "Your mates are taking first position, now see what you've brought". " I am just wasting my money", I always came first in class, etc.

Do you think such negative comments and remarks motivates a child to do well or not?

To me it's not a negative comment, it's a way if gingering a child to read hard and get first positions because it runs in the family as the father claims

Assuming the child always comes first position in class, he wouldn't be telling him that

He only wants him to read hard

jayyem:
A friend asked for my advice and I will like to get advise from married couples who must have passed through same circumstances.
My friend has been out of job for some time now, shortly after getting married and he has been doing his best to keep the house running, the wife has refused to take up little jobs coming her way and also not serious about learning from numerous handiworks that exists nowaday despite several pleas.
Problem now is that my friend just received a grant from his family to start up a biz and the amount given was exatly the amount needed to kickstart the business, while he was busy setting up the business, the wife was busy requesting for money to finance irrelevant materials which is kinda aggravating other issues.
At the moment, the marriage has not produced any children after three years of marriage

How do you deal with such a woman?

Tell him to go ahead and start his business plan and let's see if he can find his bearing

As for the wife leave her to continue constituting nuisance in a bad situation

If she is satisfied with her idleness and folding hands to watch the husband, he should return her to her parents if he can't stand it

Children comes from God but i don't know how they will be able to care for a child

Satan66:
This woman should be a role model to all the unborn females.
You must worship us men like a God because we can deal or end you whenever we feel like it

Na your type women they take do Practical

If you take a good look at her picture, you will agree with me that she doesn't have any hope at all.

She depends on that man for everything except her breath

That's why we encourage women to be self reliance and independent,
so that once you sense danger you sort yourself out

Marriage is nit a do or die affair, that you have children for him doesn't mean you will die inside the marriage

Some men doesn't deserve your loyalty and faithfulness

spiceadole:
They will soon arrive...

"How can a woman lodge in a hotel alone? "
"No responsible woman stays in a hotek"
"She deserves to die.. Olosho. "
"Why didn't she stay in her house"


Waiting for this gang

You are not a good person

What's wrong if a woman lodges in a hotel alone ❓

Didn't you read where he said she came for work?

Stop thinking like a frustrated man

Another man's problem is now another man's chances of getting victory

The present government is now well positioned

His luck anyway

Even if he has to seat on a bare floor, it's still OK so far he is getting the right treatment.

It's only in naija that medication is costlier than food

candlewax:
The husband should send the mother back to Nigeria asap.... I'm not there but I know the mother is the cause otherwise it would have been the couple fighting

I get headache o

My dear, decisions are not taken that way.

A man can not send his mum packing out from his home

It's a taboo and and not justifiable

I blame the man for not being able to handle this issue until it gets out of hand

A man will aways find himself in between these two people and he must be able to play his game well

Women are very manipulative so he has to find a way to handle the both of them

It's even easier for him to control or talk sense to his mother than his wife

But he became tired of their constant quarell and lost it out

Now by the time his mother travels back to wherever she comes from, his wife will set a fire that will burn only him at home

That woman came for a visit and she doesn't deserve such treatment from her daughter in law

Even if she never wanted her son to marry her, for the fact that her son went ahead and she becomes his wife, the daughter in law should have known that she is already in the marriage

Well she is a woman and if such happens to her she will understand the pains better