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He must marry her corpse and do the complete marriage rites

That's tradition for you

If you refuse, she will not be buried and expect calamity up on calamity on your family

The devil that pushed you will complete it for you

Alepa:
Correct man

What is correct man?

He must do the needful or loose family members when they get to her age

So tell me
Who will allow his own child to die for him?

Tiffbuxas:
my dear people nerd to watch what they say... There shouldn't be any justification for being silly.. Not all women re loose with their mouth... I can't imagine anyone giving my mother or my sister slap cuz the opportunity will not arise... She obviously had it coming and did nothing about it cuz he feels she's a woman

Lol

Evablizin:
Wow. Two wrongs can never make a right,he should have overcome this temptation. He might lose his job because of this act.

Thats true

He will loose his job

If you follow woman mouth, na so so beat you go dey beat am

There strength is in their mouth
Just walk away

kaen1317:
Walking on the street..you dey send text message. Driving car....you are making call. Cook food...you carry phone. Why will the cylinder not explode. RIP

It's rear to see or hear that cylinders do explored

It's always from the cooking burner

Both of them are premature adults

Very unfortunate for the defaulters

Heart breakers everywhere

You can't eat your cake and have it

She will continue to monitor you until you get something doing for her

Sorry for the mess

Use the experience you have gotten from the relationship and build a new one

Don't feel sad,
Shits do happen and it must happen to someone

gabazin080:
I have heard people saying one has to love his kids equally or don't show it even if you love one more, but I find it hard to pretend .

I have 3 kids, a boy and twin girls. I love the 1st born more than the rest because he is a boy and love one of the twins more than the other.
I place the male as the number in the home even ahead of the mom. he is very smart for his age and resembles me 100 percent. and for the twins, I love the one that looks like my late mom and very smart than the other.


help I find it hard to love them equally or even pretend to love them equally and it's causing division in my home

You are the problem and you are the solution

Talk to your self
Changing your mindset will go a long way to hlep you

If you continue like this and they grow, get matured to see the difference

You will regret it and by then you are getting weak to sort yourself out from what you brought to yourself

Talk to yourself and things will be put in place

holuwamosey:
hmmmm nice but aw cme does people from d east who did nt study bussiness admin tends t do well dan does dat studied bussiness admin. Education is purely scam in our nigeria of today

You need to see where a non graduate and a graduate business man reasoning and arguing

One is arguing in a reasonable way
While the other is arguing senselessly

Besides that igbo's are business oriented

Rindo69:
Mass Communication

Business Administration

Political Science.

Banking and Finance

You know what, you are better of learning a trade and focusing on it than waste at least 4 years on any course in our universities cos at the end, there is a 80% chance you will not need the degree and you may not even get a job in this present economy.

The essence is to acquire the knowledge first

Even if you end up doing business, there will be a difference between a graduate of any course in the university and a mere secondary school certificate holder in business

Rindo69:
Mass Communication

Business Administration

Political Science.

Banking and Finance

You know what, you are better of learning a trade and focusing on it than waste at least 4 years on any course in our universities cos at the end, there is a 80% chance you will not need the degree and you may not even get a job in this present economy.

The essence is to acquire the knowledge first

Even if you end up doing business, there will be a difference between a graduate of any course in the university and a mere secondary school certificate holder

A very matured and decent way of approaching issues that both of them would have been abusing themselves in the social media

Weldone Sir, el rufai will caution her

Enough respect sir

Ralphlauren:
Did you see this ?

https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2019/1/dj-xgee-who-just-committed-suicide-was-my-violent-and-abusive-boyfriend-in-university-tope-akinsemoyin-writes.html

I read where she meantioned it, in this blog site

She was running for her dear life

MiddleDimension:
and that's what shameless idiots like toke and you do, hiding behind the stupid culture of don't touch a woman and go about provoking men because the government sanctions your behaviour against men, and instead of punushing you for being badly behaved, it makes you feel secure in your bad character by arresting the man who couldnt stand your behaviour!

i have warned those women like you, if you cannot stand a man, do it run your mouth against him, simple and short!

you can imagine the other time a guy went to marry a lady and the family of the lady was giving the guy a stern warning that he should never raise his hands againt the lady no matter the provocation! what got me offended the most was the NO MATTER THE PROVOCATION! as if women are immune to provocations themselves!

they also went ahead to tell the man that the lady has a basket mouth ooo, but that he should NEVER get provoked! they never warned the lady to take care of that aspect of hers before venturing into marriage.

All this your protest na for woman abi
No worry when you marry, you go understand

Okoyeeebos:
You must be mistaking me for your father. Fortunately, I don't share his misfortune.

You are so poverty-stricken that I can seduce you with cooked noodles and half of a boiled egg.

Even my dog eats better than that.

Now I know why your sisters are so cheap to bed them, with just ordinary nooddles

Philpham:
I support Toke 99% of Nigerian men are very use.less. They are nothing but sperm donors.

Even the sperm they are donating is breeding the same attitude in them

I don't know how comfortable a man will be heating on a woman

Then when they are tired of life they will go and drink sniper and put the blame on their wives

Okoyeeebos:
I knew you'll be here to support one of your kind.

Toke is a prostitute who sleeps with married men for favours and Bolaji is a wife-beating idiot who should be castrated.

Toke is a bitter Jezebel and if you have no brain to use, that's your misfortune.

You called her a prostitute because you can't afford to have her

She will feed you for life

That's what those shameless idiots do, to hide under one stupid culture and treat a woman to a state of being speechless

I have warned those wife beaters, if you are tired, walk away we can't hold it against you

Women are made for men, leave her for another woman.

Nonses

alonzoiv:
Rubbish pageant. Waste of time.

Miss Big for Nothing.

This is 2019 o, all these nonsense must stop pls.

It's not rubbish they are all spies of life

alonzoiv:
Rubbish pageant. Waste of time.

Miss Big for Nothing.

This is 2019 o, all these nonsense must stop pls.

They are all spies of life

How do we explain this now

Premature lovers or the same devil at work

Who do we blame for this marriage engagement

Goodplace:
Please advice, wish to get married, live in a self contain but working for a salary less than 80k. Is it reasonable to live with a wife in a one room?

There is no need for this question

Are you getting married to impress your wife or getting married because you are ready for the challenges

Instead of you to chase objects you are chasing shadow

ExcelDeBaron:
Hello Nairalanders, am relatively newly registered on this forum even though I have been an observant guest. Its so unfortunate that the first news am posting here is about armed robbery and theft.

Am putting this out here so that Nairalanders who own my type of car will be on high alert as they have started again. The car is question is a Toyota Corrolla 2006 model. Take note. Funny enough, I parked into this estate in Lagos newly and was assured that its the safest place in the world after heaven . Funny enough again, I ran away from my former area because people's house were being burgled. I now decided to move to an area that is gated like an estate.

Now to the matter. On the 1st of this month, I came back from crossover service and parked my car. It was intact and everything was safe. By 7am, my neighbour and friend woke me up that our cars have been vandalized! I went out immediately... Lo and behold, this is what I met in the pictures below. What annoyed me most in this matter is how everybody was trivialising the matter in my neighborhood saying things like "Its a normal thing, Are you the first his car was robbed, are you the only car robbed, There is hunger in the country and boys must chop. These are the few terrible thibgs I have heard so far. So because its a normal thing, I shouldn't react when am robbed? Funny world. When I say Nigerians are highly religious but the most wicked, backward and irresponsible people I have seen in this world, it will be like am going far. But thats a story for another day.

I reported the matter to our estate chairman and the estate security. They were absolutely clueless as to what transpired. The chairman promised to do all within his powers to make the area more secure. But I believe that if preventive measures have been in place and the security was on more high alert, this would have been prevented! Infact, this is one of the reasons that prompted this thread because I believe people should put more preventive measures going forward to forestall attacks and armed robberies. Outlined is what I feel should be done;

(1) On festive periods like Christmas Eve and night, New years Eve and night, Salla Night, Easter night, Owambe and party nights, people should not be carried away by the euphoria of celebration. Be on high alert! Armed robbers and burglars capitalize a lot on this because people will be carried away by enjoyment and too much flexing! Also not to forget nights when it rains heavily with thunderstorms! Criminals capitalize on this too!

(2) Install car trackers and Alarms in your car. This is very important. If possible get a mechanic to find a way and make your car to be shocking at night when you park it! Maybe car battery or something. If you noticed, I have steering lock in my car. Also put this. Because they may soon be jacking full cars while you sleep!

(3) Get a body guard that will be protecting your house alone aside estate security. I heard these criminals atimes jump gated houses too to rob cars! Highest 15k in a month. But it will save you a whole including heart attack!

(4) Get a wicked security dog like Bull Mastiff, Alsatian or Pitbull. Train them to be ruthless to intruders at night. This will also save you a whole lot including your life! Train them to kill with precise precision.

(5) Install CCTVS too. Even though this may not catch the thieves, I believe there faces will be captured and exposed.

(6) Pray and keep faithful to the highest security in the universe. You know who am talking about. Thanks a lot.

N.B
Things I lost in the car are these;
A Brainbox
All 4 Automatic window controllers
Back window glass through which they centered the car

Sorry for that and God will see you through

Those guys are caused and they know that they are burnt offering

ChiefAzubuike:
On top Toyota corolla you no want make we hear word. No be your mates dem vandalize their rolls Royce and they simply import spare parts from obodo oyinbo to fix the damages.

Keep quiet
You don't even have ordinary condemn tyre to roll

Do you know the cost of keeping a car talk more of replacing the damages

He would have just built a duplex with that amount naw,

Haba, at least it would have worth it

If that's the case, then he has attitude issues

He has finally paid the price of what he bargained for

You see, I prefer this type than killing your spouse

Let him go and meet his creator both of them will have interview

This has nothing to do with rituals

He is just Hot and can't afford to either pay for the service, let's assume he doesn't have a wife at home

Wonderful

This couple will be busy till the end

What a double double gift



Congratulations
Who says there is no God