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Capensis:
Will you pay attention and stop this victim mentality. It is either you will take advise, since you brought this matter to the court of public opinion, or you will narrate your experience, believe your wife is the worst woman and conclude that you are leaving a marriage. You are sounding emotional and your feedback system has totally clouded your judgment.

Pay attention:
Being a husband is a full-time job. Just like any job, it comes with serious responsibilities and repercussions if you fail to understand how the game is played.

1. It is your responsibility to get the money, pay the rent, pay kids school fees. You are the chief medical officer of your home, so everyone's health including your wife's and kids', are under your care.

2. You are the chief security officer of your home, you must check that all doors are locked at night and ensure the safety of everyone in the family.

3. You are the chief romance officer, you must master how to play women with sweet words, give her massage every evening, and make sweet love to her during the massage sessions, and I mean this. Get a massage table, it goes for about 180K to 300K for a good one. If you cant afford that, then buy massage mat. Prepare the oil and get some candles.

4. You must join her in the kitchen, even if there is a maid to do the chores and help her out, you must learn this. Wash those plates sometimes.

5. You must lie down with that woman on bed after sex, hold her face, and tell her truths and lies of how you love her. Then if you have nothing more to do, do some gossiping with her. Stroke her nicely and tell her how hard you are working to ensure your family is financial stable for the next 100 years.

6. You must stop thinking like your ancestors. Define your own path and ignore customary and traditional ways of running your home. Times have changed. Why wont you fetch water and wash your own hand. Seems she is the one doing all the kitchen work and you are the African man waiting to be served. It is not mandatory, besides do you know if her mother used to serve her father that way? It might be she got a different kind of training.

7. Do not ever think you have done enough, cos you havent done jack. If you feel that your wife is cheating, then rent a place somewhere else and move towards a different location. It does not matter if you own the house you are living now. Go and rent someplace nice for a year and move there and change your children's school so as to forget the shame and embarrassment your quarrel may have caused. If it is your house, you can return back after a year.

8. Always remember that most women are like babies. You must master how to lie to them if you know that truth will hurt. Learn all those skills from yahoo boys how they control white women and use it for your marriage. If you do it right, your wife might be giving you pocket money sometimes and you all will fall in love again.

Do you think your wife is bad? You have no idea. No one will tell you what is going on in their homes.

Master how to manipulate women, and you will control them like a intimacy gadget.

This is what happens when a man has lost focus in life

He will attack his family when he is against the world

Having sex with your 3 daughters, of what gain or pleasure do you think you will get from it

He is a beast, let him wrought in jail so that other people children will be free from his escapeds

What kind of thing is this

If he disobeys order not to go for election because of his marriage, he will be queried for disobedience

Now he obeyed and got killed

What a life

How does she want that lady to cope

This life is full of mysteries

What a good way of helping each other

All these churches should emulate this woman

Saving the life of those that are in ill health touches the heart of God more than them driving exotic cars

May his gentle soul rest in peace

He served God and died with God in his mind

May God give the family the furtitude to bear his loss

BUSHHUNTER:
So this girl can fade!




She no even fine again...msteew

Thats pregnancy and motherhood for you

This Mike case is getting tougher by the day

What he is passing through is enough to lead him to depression

But since he is still getting good attention for s3x, he will blend and survive it


Using one to relieve another

This Mike case is getting tougher by the day

What he is passing through is enough to lead him to depression

But since he still gets good attention for s3x, he will blend and survive it

lilyheaven:
Frozen how far?
Long time

Guy free me ooh.

Mike just Bleep up, no updates

These are the lazy youths we are talking about

They can't go and decide their future and if the old ones decide for them they will be complaining that the youths are not carried along

koppa:
Evening all,was at the Somolu general hospital yesterday, the doctor said it's some sort of hormonal imbalance, and said I should go for a scan which I couldn't do cos of the amount,but I was surprised when she checked my BP and it reads 150/100,like that is way too high for me,she further said I should go for blood test.... which I will do once I have enough cash.....just thought of updating you guys and if there are things I should stop doing to reduce my BP......thanks

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Relax yourself and you will be fine

Your BP is semi high because of your stress over your chest development

Try and check other government hospitals where the scan can be done cheaper

Though me cure at oshodi does such test but I don't know there prices

Just male your survey and check the one with lesser price

What about your night gowns or night wears?

Every time you want to show off, ask her to contribute money to treat an ailing fellow citizens

You won't see her contributions

How much is gel, ordinary hair gel to compare with the head injury.

This is how they treat their wards as if their own biological child is untouchable

Preshy561:
This is what happens when a man treats his woman right.
Respect, love, submission, prayers, and all things will.come naturally.

You are absolutely right

You took the words out of my mouth

They can also declare Monday so that it will serve for before and after election

They can also declare Monday

Heaven knows that women are more passionate about children than the men

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MTN data is a reap off.

I still prefer airtel to them

Ugosample:
this right here

Men sees marriage as a favour to women and women are
proving that it's not a do or die affair


is you stylishly doing the blaming



but you are right in your last statement

But like I said before

Men and women alike are culpable in making marriages miserable for their partner's

but women get away with theirs most of the time

because men In general are less inclined to "cast" as its said in Lagos

that is the narrative that has to change tho.

Women are just as culpable as men

Rightly said

asuustrike1:
Not true is boils down to the personality


Not also true because some persons don't take marriage serious. With the way many men and women are behaving, some feel that they should just get married have children and then divorce.

Probably that's the trend now

Ugosample:
Typical of you

Always blame the man

According to your logic, women are never to blame


after my life experiences, I often scrutinise befire I take the woman's side or any side

If you had read it well, you would have think twice before your comment

I said no marriage is sweeter

Men sees marriage as a favour to women and women are proving that it's not a do or die affair

So where did you see me put a blame on the man?

That thing you are calling life experience is nothing to compare what you will see in marriage

My own is any marriage without love and happiness is like a pot of soup with full ingredients but lacks salt

Eroms4life17:
My sister, at 19 that girl can take decisions for herself. She knew what she was doing by marrying the man who might have promised her heaven and earth. Now her eyes are open. She didn't even think of proper ways of disengaging from him than to kill him. I think she and her lover planned this crime and they should go in for it.

My dear, at 19yrs
That girls is not even matured to take certain decisions

If you look well am sure she might have not finished her secondary school

The only thing her brain is telling her just sex and sex

Upbringing matters alot

Her parents let's her lose her freedom at an early age

As for me she is a teenager and doesn't even know the gravity of what she has done

I still blame my ibo brother that settled for less, just because she is likes sex

I the real sense, her mates are planning to write the next jamb but because she has no future plan than to Bleep around that's why she ends up in that guy's bedroom

She will go in for it

Men should stay away from these premature girls, their wahala is much because of their youthful exuberance

Date matured ladies who have experience life and you will be amazed the way they will treat you like a king

All these small small girls they give hypertension.

Eroms4life17:
All these Yoruba girls that Start seeing men from early age. Am sure they didn't pay her bride price. Now look at the result. She doesn't love that man that's why she cheat on him

You see this yoruba girls they can do anything to get married to ibo men

To be Frank, no marriage riggts were done, he just pregnant her and that's it,

I blame the ibo man who messed up going for a teenager

What kind of cheap deal is this ?

What will this girl offer to him except free pussy

He has paid the price for his stupidity

Harmony92:
Cute lil man All our female celebrities want is to get pregnant n divorce their husbands

My dear, no woman goes into marriage and wants divorce

Some situations and circumstances leads to it

Those things that leads to such behaviours are displayed during courtship but the ladies would be thinking it will get better, rather it gets tough and bad every day

No marriage is sweeter

Every marriage is like different pots of jollof rice with different tastes

Even the men are seeing marriage as a favour to women and the women are proving to them that life goes on if the marriage doesn't work

No body prays to be in a marriage that lacks love and happiness, its like eating a pot of soup that doesn't have salt but every other ingredients are in it

May their souls rest in peace

I blame poverty for this misfortune

Who leaves the house for a house girl that doesn't know what it takes to birth a child ?

They will frustrate her in that school

She would have endured

Those that are not happy because they strip him naked should come down here and see how his counter parts are being babiqued

This is one of the reasons I don't like ladies wearing high heels

It has no balance on the ground talk more of tiles

Expecially plumpy ladies

DateMynd44:
stop talking rubbish or were you drunk while typing this?

It takes a drunkard to know one.
Beast

All this ones na leaner

Well, nothing good comes without a price tag

Best option for you is to marry her no matter the her age

Besides, she is working and can take care of the family

This is just an act of wickedness

Why punishing an innocent man over an act of another

So he lost his wife and lost his job because of campaign

Too bad.

The sack is uncalled for

Assuming its a pdp campaign and he lost his wife, that means he would have been promoted and the state will give the wife a state burial

Double wahala.