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What a write up

Check within your mind if you still love her, if yes ask her what led her to such act

Tell her Ron open up and tell you her reasons for doing so
Don't be suprised it could be that you don't or no longer satisfy her in bed, your appearance doesn't please her any longer or she has lost taste of you

If you think you can work on whatever reason she gives you, good and fine try and work on it, but if she said nothing then she will do more of it

And if you think you don't love her any longer, tell her to take the things she will need to stay with her parents without asking you to bring an item she forgot

Let her go to her parents, don't tell her parents anything, she will be the one to report herself to her parents

Meanwhile, all the time she is with her parents you are alone, go through your mind if you can accept her back without making reference to that incident

I can see that money is not her problem but there must be something that is missing somewhere

ClassicQueen:
Please all I need an advice concerning an issue in my home . I and my husband have been married for just a year plus and not up to 2years. I have a 2Months old baby. Before I had the baby that is immediately after our wedding, hubby told me about how he intended bringing in his elder brothers daughter of 11 to live with us and I declined. The reason I didnt allow it is because both of her parents are still alive ....The mother knew their condition and how they are managing and she gave birth to 5 children this family live in just one room in Lagos. The woman is not working while the man is managing a small laundry business which is not even thriving.

The issue I have now is that hubby is pleading with me to please bring the girl to help me baby sit my child while he will be responsible for her school fees. my maternity leave will soon be over and I need someone to help abit but not the girl because I don't want anyone to take my kind heart for granted and tell me that I'm maltreating the child or using her as a nanny . You know how people especially in laws behave that is why I'm still sceptical about it. Please my people what do u advise I do? Bearing in mind that our marriage is not even up to 2years we are still getting to know each other with my husband. Please advice...

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If you have a better option for a baby sitter inform your husband and bring her into the house

That her parents had 5 children in this hard times shouldn't make you feel angered about them

Poor people take solace in sex and they will still breed more kids since the wife have nothing doing always at home and the husband loves sex

Non of the 2 can caution each other unless real hunger

If you like the girl take her in and if you don't like her get alternative for your self

At the end of it all, you will be the one to suffer it more if you don't have anyone to baby sit your child

And you know what, hubby will just be looking at you just like that

GOFRONT:


U wan shake table ba??

Him done shake the table already but na him go fall because he is the one standing on that table he is shaking

Let me ask you a question, are you a virgin?

No

All the girls you disvigirned why didn't you marry them, so you want them to go back to their fathers house what makes you think you that disvigirned them is till a virgin or don't we have men who are Virgins

How many will you sample before you settle down with one?.

It's your type of men that women uses for practical when they are married.

There are certain sacrife one have to make for peace to rain in the family

If I were to be you, I will accept that child in, embrace that child as my child, use him as a point of contact for God to bless me to be a mother

You are yet to have your own child and you are not willing to live with a toddler you can nurture to be like your child, what impression are you creating

Even if the child will grow and look like the first child of the family, its just for your own children to bond with him when they start coming

What makes you think he will take the place of your first child, will your husband make him his next of kin or will you make him your next of kin

That child will grow to know you as his mother depending on the relationship you created with him, do you think he will forget you when he grows up?.

For the time that child will be leaving with you it will give you the opportunity to learn how to look after kids and even the family will careless about you not being pregnant for the time being

Tell him to arrange for that child to come over, when he comes teaxh him how to call you guys mummy and daddy simple

Whatever just keep hiding his identity

But you and your team were busy blogging about other people matters

Anyway your choice

queensera:
Slay king strips unclad after being caught while stealing from a boutique in Ilisan remo, Ogun State.

Source:
http://nairaplus.com/2018/09/slay-king-caught-while-stealing-from-a-boutique-in-ogun-state-video/

Serves him right, idiot lazy youth

The mumy thugs they are going to use for election preferred this to get high then pay them after the success of the act

Fourwinds:
wise talk....but I feel like beating you

Why naw?
I spoil show for you, lol

greyham:
These kind of weddings are for passport purposes only so it is not out place to insinuate a short-lived one especially when the couple has planned it all

How do you know that it's for passport purposes

They are very young and should be between their age brackets

If you assume so for youths like this, what will you say about guys of 25yrs who wedded their grand mother's age mate

But this is pure case of marriage by love and affection and joy is written all over them

Mztarstrechy:
According to Ndubuisi,police officers were spotted playing bet9ja while dressed in their police uniforms.Is this acceptable?

Source: http://www.trezzyhelm.com/2018/09/police-officers-spotted-playing.html

I will rather prefer them playing bet naija than collecting bribe from every commercial vehicles passing through their check points

maikbanj:
I met this pretty young girl in camp, she was this very friendly girl who was so free with guys. We got to know each other and now we are dating. I told her about her creating boundaries since we are now dating. She agreed and now the relationship is going smoothly.

But then there's this dude who's really on her neck. He keeps calling her and they chat a lot. We went for our clearance and they were both gisting and laughing. I was talking to a dude and next I saw her holding the guy round his shoulders laughing.

I got quiet and acted like nothing happened. Had to call her attention to this now and she was like she was sorry that she got too playful. She promised it will never happen again.

I really do not know how to make this dude back off cause we talk. But not really a friend.

You don't have issues with that guy

Don't go and embarass your self talking to him

Talk to your babe and watch out for changes

Besides you are not engaged to her so it might not be easy to keep her for your self alone

Once a woman is committed to a relationship she becomes discipline with people around her

Put a ring on her and see if she won't set her limits with other guys

lilmax:
the marriage won't last

Just imagine what you wished a fellow like you

Expect yours not to last as you have wished it for someone else

This is how you go about bringing ill luck to your self

Whatever you sow that's what you will reap

topher052:
Amaka was waiting in front of my house inside her Nissan car. I spotted her and entered the front seat.

"i was about calling before you came" she said the moment i shot the door.

" am good. how is my boy?" i asked

she didnt answer and went on.

"i wanted to see you. am lonely".

i thought this to be my get away plan so i said.

"lets take a long holiday away from town".

she looked surprised, and then a very wide grin spread on her face.

Amaka pls take him out of town

Alot have been happening to him only if he can open up to you

Mike need some rest the thing wey face am plenty

lilyheaven:
Somebody cannot ask you small question again.
My mind is still within, it has not drifted.
Good morning!

Good morning dear. I trust you because I know you think straight, lol

THUNDER4real:
@op u did not complete your write up, Wives should remember to submit financially, not seeing the man as the payer of Bills...When the left hand washes the right hand, the right will also reciprocate.

The wise men among you knows how to make a wife submit or contribute financially to their homes

If you as a man puts your eye's and interest in a woman's money, accets or valuables, she will barricade herself that kobo, you won't see

But If you remove your eye's and mind in what she has and also remove the ego in you and be helpful domestically and be tolerant at the same time, be respectful and appreciative, she will be the one to tender what she has, then watch you plan with her in what to do, to the benefits of the family

You can't be treating her like a house help, a lesser being or treat her like someone that have no option and expect her to surrender her money, no way it won't work

They should be freed, what kind of punishment do you think they deserve again

This is a country where there are no respect for the aged

Old age without care is suffering talk more of imprisonment at that age

Girls of this generation don't think straight at all at all

They personally turned their thinking faculty into sex upon sex

The only thing that makes them happy is who to open legs for and what to gain after that

Common to calculate their free period from ovulation period they don't know

At the end they will be the one suffering the pregnancy alone

Child bearing is for matured minds because it comes with its own challenges

Pls I need to know your (ibo) soup dishes and their prices, you can also paste pictures

I go to Work early and come back very late, no time for cooking

I Leave on the mainland

IchBinBrait:
Nwayioma you are one in a million..... All those side attraction (accessories) you mentioned will be inside one soup?? Mehnnn,, I don dey liçk mouth for here. Lemme goan put water in the fridge.

Nwoke oma, cheers

He must be from the Town in Anambra that honours a snake called eke


Let him try it will viper, then I will believe him

lilyheaven:
Frozen frozen, have you met any man like Mike in your life before? I used to feel how his rod must be, but ever since he joined cult, I have lost interest in him, this days all I do is pray for him for salvation

Lol just because I said I like Mike, your mind don go another place

Abeg pray harder for him he needs it

He must have been displaying some stupid attitudes when he knows that those security officers are looking for a scape goat to day that they declared seat at home

IchBinBrait:
Oh my sister,, God bless you as i've been searching for someone like you since morning. I believe your food will be muah. Help a bachelor out. I wanna eat something authentic. What did you prepare for breakfast? I'm on my way shaa..

Lol, that's interesting
I will prepare egusi with stock fish, dry fish the one from the North with cow leg

My kind of egusi soup, you won't see water there, I will serve you with medium portion of semolina and plenty egusi because the soup will be so rich with accessories that you will be filled with that little semolina

It will cost me 4000 to prepare that dish as an ibo woman and I can afford that for you

I am a woamn

This is how they go about creating problems for others

By the time you marry her and keep her at home, the real woman in her will come out

How can you say you bought pepper 50
Fish 200
Olo 100
Egg 50
Total is 400, but you said its 300*
False

From the picture there are 2eggs, 2 eggs is 100
the number of fish indicates that the there are 2 fishes there making a total of 500,
that pepper is with tomatoes minimum of 300
she didn't add Maggi, onion and other spices which will be around 200
By the time you calculate all you will get a total of 1,100


This are the type of women that are called pretenders

Belive her at your own risk

lilyheaven:
;
With which money?
He is only perfect in sex

Remember he has 500,000 that Amaka gave him
He is still with it

Yes he is perfect in sex, thats his hobby
We all.are good at one thing or the other

But I just like that Mike and I dey pity for am

Your God is good and has been faithful to you

What happened to you wasn't your fault, but thank God he was there with you as you took in the right time and delivered tripplets unde such situation

My advice goes thus
Don't quit your job for what ever reason, you don't know his plan against you, quiting your job will make you powerless.

You have pleaded enough just keep watching him and be a good wife and mother to him, just don't challenge his authority be more. Committed to your family

When you are with him innitiate love making if he response fine and if he doesn't endure it will get better

You can inform your family of what is happening and they will be aware. You acted the way you did by not telling him because of fear of loosing him, it's normal

He is yet to decised on what to do with you keep watching him and pray over it

Three children are blessings to the family unless he is soo rich and wanted more

The worst he will do is to separate or divorce you, don't be scared of that or what people will say.

You already have those children so what else

Lastly, keep your job in case of incasity

Benito8998:
Sandra has shut her heart against him.. He hurt her so bad.

Yea and honestly he did hurt but there is always a second chance

This is the ever first time Mike is hurting him

He should just go to her house and collapse

I really feel for mike, he is about loosing his sense of balancing

Mike go and reconcile with Sandra
No matter what it will take and save yourself the all this wahala

Oohhh Mike

Your mission now that you have joined bad gang is as bad as what have been happening to you

Relocate with your family and go to another region, save your life and your family.

ChiefAzubuike:
This is what the Nigerian army will want you to see.

They'll never show you the double brutality boko haram caused on their own side.

The Nigerian military is no where near winning that war. There are no soldiers to kill again that's why boko haram haven't been active these past few months.

Declare your stand

Are you happy the army are killing bokoharam or

You are happy the bokoharam are killing the army

If you are man enough, join any of those groups instead of creating
e-bokoharam

This bokoharam people stupidity no get rival

How will they just take up a suicide mission forgetting the pains their loved one will go through

Even the twenty two Virgins promised to them after death, how do they believe its possible

Meanwhile their leaders are enjoying their women on earth avoiding their own death, if not why can't they carry out the succide themselves

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