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Marriage is good, lovely, sweet and enjoyable if both parties can accommodate each other regardless of faults from both parties

Men and women if you notice any sign of domestic violence either by words, actions or deed in any form and it has been observed more than 2 times

Abeg leave that marriage and save your life

Marriage is not a do or die affair, don't stay until your corpse will be carried out by others, walk out with your 2 legs and leave to tell the story

Only the living can explain the dead can't explain

zoba88:
A UNIPORT graduate,Abraham Okodugha,took to Facebook to solicit for help after he was adversely affected by the self medication he is taking.Below is what he wrote....

'Good people of God thanks for ur continuous prayers n encouragement, my name is ABRAHAM OKODUGHA a graduate of geology from uniport. plz i now need ur financial assistance to be able to access proper medical attention n get admitted for rehabilitation cos am reacting to the painkillers I was on for long due to self medication which was my fault looking for cheap relief n now it have caused worse damage to my body n only God knows how much damage it's caused, I know am paying for my own ignorance n foolish decision of self medication, the symptoms are getting worse daily n my body swelling n decaying with very offensive odour which makes it impossible to stay among pple. Plz I need ur help to save my life for I can't afford it myself, was hoping I cld work n hustle to save enough to attend to it myself but it's rapid growth n spread makes it impossible so I need all the help I can get to get through this, as shameful n embarrassing it might be for me to do this it's better I pass through shame n reproach n save my life than to die in silence cos of pride n fear of public Stigma. My gd God bless u as u have compassion on me to assist in saving my life for I might not survive long without proper medical attention cos I can nolonger rely on self medication to survive'


Source: http://www.trezzyhelm.com/2018/09/see-what-self-medication-did-to-uniport.html

Tell us what happened, how did it start, when and how it happened and what kind of drugs you self medicate that lead to this kind of sore and wond

We. Need to. Know the history and for how long you have been treating it

sosa993:
What he said isn't even my problem, but you'll realise he wouldn't want this for his own daughters. Most men don't wish their daughters bad at all. Lol

Lol, yes dear he wouldn't want it for his daughter's but he wants it from some daughters

Instead of him to encourage the single to try and pick their own husband he is encouraging them to mess up as if he will marry them.

Don't mislead our girls with this rubbish statement

How can a man of your age come start saying things that even the younger youths can't even say

If you are in support of polygamy, of what business is it to us

Your stupid, religion have given you freedom go ahead and sleep with as many as you want.

It's your choice
He is not even handsome.
Na woman wey no get option go allow you date her

I wish this girls will learn how to keep themselves

Girls should know that at this stage in their life, once you have broken your virginity, your sex urge will rise to a high level and the only thing your hormones will be doing is to be triggering your brain to have sex upon sex

Keep your virginity and save a soul

All this doesn't concern the guys
There own is to sweat mouth you and the only thing you can remember after that is to open your leg

Sex is meant for matured minds

Them don open this one chapter

My brothers developing all developable

IGBO Amaka we are all over the world

If you like hate my speach it's still better than skull mining

We don't deal with fellow naija, we operate outside

We are big fish.
That's why we operate outside the shores

That is called nursery stage of relationship (beginners)

The experience you get dating them, will see you through primary stage of relationship (undergraduate)

After that you move on to secondary stage of a relationship (graduate/applicant)

Finally you get to your final stage of relationship which is the tertiary stage (marriage). It's a school were your certificate (marriage certificate) will be given to you before admission.

I appreciate the fact that you said she was OK before the birth of your child,

Now after the birth of your child it became loose

Have you considered what she passed through giving birth to that child that made it to expand, don't you know that the vagina is expandable after birth

The main issue now is that your third leg is small in size so you need to work on it so that the size can increase

If because of that you are not happy when next time she is pregnant let her have a ceaseran operation instead of vaginal birth

CSTR1005:
No responsible man will allow you to take his children away.

If you steal them away, he will hunt you down.

You can leave since you don't like stress, but not with the children.

Says who ?

siliowhizper:
I supply Latrite (Red Sand) to Agura Gberigbe for N43,000 and it's for 20Tons.

OK. That nice, I will link you up soon

Pls how.much do you supply latrite to Agura Ikorodu and how many tones

The earlier you start planning on how to pack out the better for you

80k is not enough to get accommodation unless you are lucky to get a single room where you share your convinent with other tenants

Try to look for accommodation not too far from your place of work

Don't be afraid of packing out, I know it's because of taking care of your self that's your fear, you have to overcome that fear

When you start leaving in your own apartment that's when the reality of life will down on you to learn how to be self reliance

Don't let them give you the impression to pack out expecially the wife, it's expected to occur even more as you are a step to the man

Devil nearly use this one do monthly contribution

nwanneni:
is your passage not empty?
You want to display knowledge you don't have right?
And as a regular naija woman would,you skipped str8 to the moral game.
You are even emptier than i thought!

Senseless and empty talk

nwanneni:
empty passage.no technicality in all you wrote.
Any layman can say all these!

The moment you learn how to respect your self, you won't be having issues with people

Change your attitude and reason before making any speach

LegendVibes:
A young Nigerian lady wrote an Instagram message to psychologist, Joro Olumofin saying there's nothing wrong in having an affair with a married man.

See her reasons;

https://www.torimill.co/viral/9803/nothing-is-wrong-in-having-an-affair-with-a-married-man-if-he-takes-care-of-his-family-lady.html

Her choice

Some topics no need debate

Pls just keep calm and keep watching him, even if you go through his phone and see anything about his flirts just read them and don't take action, it's just for your own information and for you to be aware but not to create problems with him

Somethings can not be corrected by war or by force, he is yet to see himself as a married man, leave him let him exact all those games he is playing now so that when he is fed up he will give up and man up

Good enough you earn more than him, start saving for the rainny day

His parents and others have talked to him but he won't listen until he has satisfied his apitite for all the nonsense he is doing

Even if you have saved enough money for the accommodation, don't tell him because if you pay, you will continue paying the rent but if he say he has some money but needs your help to complete it then pls do so for the interest of both of you

He is yet to come to terms that he is no longer a bachelor

fvck:
I've given her head back to back,she keeps screaming and moaning,so that ain't it.

You yourself you never serious

When you are ready you will take action

Amakababe:
pls be specific. Can I go a lifetime without sex.I really want to be pure

There are so many reasons one have, to stay celibate

You can't stay celibate for the fun of it.

The reason for staying celibate is what will determine the duration

So tell us your reasons

You feel reluctant to go into a relationship because you get sexual satisfaction with what you are doing

If you don't get off that habit and get married, you will still have same mentality that, I can do it with out a female and still get satisfied

At the end of it, you won't be able to know what and how to satisfy a woman

Then she will get someone that will be helping you to do that for her

fvck:
The .matter has passed me so i brought it to Nairaland, when i touch this girl,the next thing her wetness is beyond river 9ja,but have enough fingering she doesn't allow my alligator to go in, times without number now, pls what could be wrong? And she dey chop my money join oh. She's the first girl I'm meeting in Nigeria,since i came from the state.

She is in a better position to answer this question

May be you should try giving her enough fore play, she will be engrossed and she won't even know when she looses herself for you

so far she is not a virgin

So if you were asked to name one attribute of wife materials you will say "alcohol "

Please stop adding to the existing problems of singles

SanusiGworo:
Remember the guy who climbed electricity pole to protest hardship in the land. The one that asked Buhari to resign, I've just found out he was picked up and is currently in DSS custody. Adeyanju Deji's Concerned Nigeria group are threatening to occupy the SSS office.




https://twitter.com/adeyanjudeji/status/1040984668450029571

Well all he needs is to state his reasons why he wants pmb to resign

This one go soon turn to celebrity, for naija na person wey get gurts to do what others can't do them they call celebrity

kestolove95:
Here is a man with one and half eyes and millions of Nigerians with two eyes can't see d good in APC

The other half eye sees more than someone with complete pairs of eye's

The thug boat is small to be compared with a ship but its mighty

The major work of a thug boat is to lead a ship or vessels from high sea to berthing point of the ship then assist the ship to anchor


Once a ship wants to berth, it doesn't berth or pack right or straight due to its load, once the ship gets to its berthing stand, the thug boat pushes the ship in, to gain balance it does that by shifting or pushing the ship at the back and at the front side until it reaches the wall that demacates sea and land at the berthing point before the berth men will tire the cord of the ship to a solid stand already created

The purpose of the cord or rope is to hold the ship from waves movement incase there is heavy waves

The government of lagos state is working hard to safe guard the life of the residents

No state can be compared to Lagos when it comes to development and safety measures

Gradually we will get there

DEGREE2466:
And you think raising another person's child will put her in a relaxed mood to conceive?

One thing I don't joke with is privacy and convenience. You cannot expect a young lady to bear the responsibility of another.

She can support the child from anywhere and take him in after she has given birth, but not without letting him know his real identity.

It is easier to advice people to do something but when the table is turned around.

No child wished to be in that situation

Anything can happen to somebody either by omission or by error and someone have to bail that person out

End of discussion

Guitarlife:
youa made some point, but the husband family is scheming to decieve the innocent child about his paternity and you want the OP to be complicit ?

This is why it is important to marry a man with the fear of God.

OK, but one can't decive nature, history will tell at the right time

Even the father of the child will come for that child one day !

It's because the want the child mother to look for another suitor that's why they are planning such

The family are realy deceitful but my own concern is their wife who made this post

I really want her to be in a relaxed mood for pregnancy to occur
Cheers

eniola1010:
My haier thermocool fridge regulates itself, which is good.

But now i got a gen, and this regulating stuff seem to be affecting the gen.

When the gen is on, and everything is working fine, once the fridge regulates, the gen makes awful noise, then after 4mins, everything gets back to normal, at least in an hour, the thermacool fridge regulates itself like 10times

Running a fridge with generator is not good because the fridge works better with a powerful generator and not the usual one we use.

You are damaging both the generator and the fridge, if you want to run the generator, disconnect the fridge from the generator and save your self the problem of repairing both generator and fridge

haryor14:
Going to two years I lost my wife now leaving me with 2 years plus old baby girl , but there is a lady in my place of work that moved closed to me after wife's death. I told her from the beginning that I can't date you but just friend because am not attracted or have any feelings for her. But she is forcing herself on me,now the problem is that whenever she sees with me with another lady either chatting or playing with them, she put up some attitudes by frowning her face and so on. Recently she is telling everybody that we are dating each other which is not. Everyone now believes we are. She has told them all sort of lies that I bought her things she is putting on including her phone, ring on her finger and so on. Please what can I do to let people know am not her man.

Since you have realised that she is forcing her self on you, what have you done to reduce the relationship

Stop bleeping her, stop inviting her to your place, select the kind of things you discus with her and be careful not to go deep with her any longer

Use maturity on her, still relate with her but this time around do it with caution

By the time she noticed that the relationship is dropping she will have no option than to move on and leave you alone