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Fear Fulani people, they'll always choose theirs no matter what. For Tambuwal to stab Wike despite Wike's allegiance, only means Wike is winning and the only way to sabotage it is to do what he did now.

Wike is simply bitter and very childish. His pained that they couldn’t achieve their evil plot of shaming Peter Obi. How can you mock a man that made his money through dignity of labour. Wike is unguided in his utterance.

First of, if you have the money, conduct a DNA test, if the result says yes, then claim full responsibility for your boy. Please endeavour to tell your wife-to-be what is happening and before conducting the test, she'll understand and forgive you if she's understanding, in fact this will test her convictions for you. If you fail to tell her before the DNA test it can back fire. Carry her along to avoid Ugochi sabotaging your life. You owe Ugochi no marriage, but you owe her sorry. Ask God for mercy and stop sleeping with people's betrothed wife's. God bless you.

If all the prominent people that supported this godforsaken government before assumption to power can team up and defend the land...we'll make serious statement to clueless leadership and define a new road map going forward.

I hope I am not late responding. In relationships beginnings are very important, please endeavour to state that you're a virgin from the day you said yes and let him know you intend to honor God by keeping the bed undefined until after marriage. After you've established your stand, ask him a direct question if he also desires to honor God by avoiding sex until marriage, in his response you'll get your answer if whether you should continue or not. Most importantly may God bring the person of same value your way, AMEN. Men value virginity but cheaters don't, unfortunately you've being meeting a lot of cheaters. From your write up I can assume that it's after the relationship has kicked off, that you start telling them how you don't want it, say it from the onset and you'll be the one winning. Principles are established in the morning and the results are displayed in the evening. Say your values early. Keep your virginity intact and the right one will come. God bless you and you'll be joyous soon.

Coder2Client:
But why do you celebrate this? Israel does not care about Christians as they don't share the same belief as Christ being the messiah as Christians do.

No disrespect but please make proper research and be guided very well before coming on public platform to type.

BeLookingIDIOT:
This is simply archaeologists doing their jobs. They are not trying to confirm your bible which have already been academically established as unreliable.

If God's word is unreliable then what is? I think you should be guided and tread with caution. May the spirit of wisdom rest heavily on you.
Talk against anything anyhow but please leave God and His words out it. His word is yes, truth and amen.

If it is you won't you like to be told? This life is too spiritual, God works in mysterious ways. Catching her there wasn't a coincidence, God just wanted you to warn your friend, you'll be an enabler of evil if you refuse to talk. Tell him and clear yourself. In fact tell him first thing tomorrow morning.

Joshmodest:
Are you a one minute guy ?
Or a one round guy ?

If not I don't get why after just a round you should be feeling any of those feelings you speak of ...

And if after three rounds or more , you still feel the way you feel , then u need help ...after you burst the nut 3 times , the only thing you should feel is complete satisfaction accompanied with sleep ,or what else are yhu expecting...

Some girls appear less than what they showcase , and after the whole thing you may feel the babe is over hyped, and didn't meet your expectations ...but that one can still be classified under disappointment , and not disdain and guilt ...those words are too weighty !

Except you 're one of those religious folks ,who like to think their God is against sex , when he's the one that created the tool ,and gave it to you without manual ...I don't see anything that would make you feel that way man ...
My advice is , try the service of our Allen sisters , when they are done with you........well u go see for yourself !!

"Except you 're one of those religious folks ,who like to think their God is against sex"
This opinion is wrong. God is not against sex, He is against sex with someone whose not your husband/wife.
Hebrews 13 [NIV]
[vs: 4] Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral.
1 Corinthians 6 [NIV]
[vs: 9] Do you not know that the wicked will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor male prostitutes nor homosexual offenders
1 Corinthians 6 [NIV]
[vs: 13] “Food for the stomach and the stomach for food”—but God will destroy them both. The body is not meant for sexual immorality, but for the Lord, and the Lord for the body.

1 Corinthians 6:18–19  [TLB]
That is why I say to run from sex sin. No other sin affects the body as this one does. When you sin this sin it is against your own body. Haven't you yet learned that your body is the home of the Holy Spirit God gave you, and that he lives within you? Your own body does not belong to you.

1 Corinthians 7:2 [KJV]
Nevertheless, to avoid (1223) fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.

Jude 1:4  [TLB]
I say this because some godless teachers have wormed their way in among you, saying that after we become Christians we can do just as we like without fear of God's punishment. The fate of such people was written long ago, for they have turned against our only Master and Lord, Jesus Christ.

Please don't assume, know the truth and it shall set you free. Bless you.

"Except you 're one of those religious folks ,who like to think their God is against sex"
This opinion is wrong. God is not against sex, He is against sex with someone whose not your husband/wife.
Hebrews 13 [NIV]
[vs: 4] Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral.
1 Corinthians 6 [NIV]
[vs: 9] Do you not know that the wicked will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor male prostitutes nor homosexual offenders
1 Corinthians 6 [NIV]
[vs: 13] “Food for the stomach and the stomach for food”—but God will destroy them both. The body is not meant for sexual immorality, but for the Lord, and the Lord for the body.

1 Corinthians 6:18–19  [TLB]
That is why I say to run from sex sin. No other sin affects the body as this one does. When you sin this sin it is against your own body. Haven't you yet learned that your body is the home of the Holy Spirit God gave you, and that he lives within you? Your own body does not belong to you.

1 Corinthians 7:2 [KJV]
Nevertheless, to avoid (1223) fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.

Jude 1:4  [TLB]
I say this because some godless teachers have wormed their way in among you, saying that after we become Christians we can do just as we like without fear of God's punishment. The fate of such people was written long ago, for they have turned against our only Master and Lord, Jesus Christ.

Please don't assume, know the truth and it shall set you free. Bless you.

In the name of Jesus you are delivered and your deliverance shall be permanent. No more dreams that will repeat the circle. Divine deliverance in Jesus Mighty Name!

Your current girlfriend is just evil and from her approach once married to you, you'll be unable to assist anyone that once mattered to you including family. Your ex is not an enemy, she was once a blessing to you, one that wished you well and had goodwill toward you. It will be greatly unfair not to help her family if you have the means. Don't help because she gave you money, but rather help because it is the right thing to do. We know people because of dire moments like this. Please reconsider your stand with this current girlfriend of yours and pray.
Anyone that was there for you when you where nothing no matter what should be listened to and assisted when you're in the position and they need it.

God bless you. It is more blessed to be the giver than the receiver.

He obviously has issues, but can it be corrected yes. Relationship is serious work in progress. In all you've said I didn't see one thing that suggested you corrected him, you only paid him back in his own coin. First off, seat him down and correct him, tell him your fears and that he needs to stop acting the "roleship thing" like you put.
If by the time you've told him, I believe if his sensible he'll apologize and adjust his behaviour. What you should be looking out is his response after corrections, is he teachable? Does he accept his wrong? If he is you'll be fine, but if after correcting him he still behaves in a similar manner, then consider ending the relationship. This is the time to work on each other and remove any attitude that stands in the way to your happiness and correction is the key not do me I do you.

Tell him how he should treat you and watch his response. For instance, you should have told him how uncaring he was after you noticed his nonchalant attitude after the money went missing and tell him you expected this and that, most times, men need to be told A-Z to understand and relate better. Teach him and if his not learning stop and end it.

Thank you and above all please be praying.

Dreal1247:
This is one way through which strange practices could be imported into the body of Christ. A canal mind cannot understand the things of the spirit. The Christian body needs to write the presidency as well as the law makers.

I agree. It's not the CAMA that's my issue, it's the motive behind it.

techmo:




Nonsense and ingredient... So CAN wants to tell us there are no Christians out of the over 400 National Assembly Lawmakers during the first and second reading, or the Public hearing of the bill



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Being a Christian doesn't make one a defender of truth, many are Christians but few are believers of Jesus Christ.

First off, your fiance is so unserious for him to be chatting about you with his ex, the chat is not the issue but discussing you negatively is. My counsel: As you've shifted the wedding, start shifting your mind from him too, the guy will believe anything he hears outside concerning you and a man who bases his judgment on public opinion is a dangerous man to be with. Be wise on time and change your route. Secondly, he still values the opinion of the evil ex and she'll be an influence on him as long as their communication remains open. Do you want your husband ears to be shared with another woman? think about this and advice yourself. It might be hard but you need your peace of mind and someone who'll take your word and defend you in front of anyone. I am an advocate of leaving foolish people early once realized rather than tolerating nonsense.

Nauttyprof:
Why can't you verify things before you comment. Are you aware that Oyedepo started in his ministry in the North? Kaduna precisely.

Oyedepo is more concerned and condemns the wrong in southern Kaduna more than any man of God known.

Please, learn to make findings before exposing cluelessness.

Very this government will take all our rights and we will have nothing to defend again.

Seriously you shouldn't be wasting your data and time replying such idiocy.

Self inflicted curses. It's not everything people should comment about, something it's better you keep quiet.

Mizflo:
Thanks for the advice. I have lost faith in Jesus because if he was there I wouldn’t have been suffering like this . I don’t want to look for him because he has never care about me and I don’t want to know him

Even when you can't see Jesus or trace Him, His there to help you. Your situation is a sorry one, but don't think God hasn't been involved in your life. It's okay to be angry but don't push Him away, try Him one last time, the faithful LORD won't put you to shame. The LORD that answers prayer show you mercy and help mightily. Divine Intervention is coming your way very soon that will make you to realize that God is still there for you.

The guy is not understanding at all. And it's a dangerous path when you're dealing with people that lack understanding because not only will they perish but you'll perish also. My counsel: any serious man in a long distance relationship with a lady that is still living with her parents and still expects her to come frequently to visit him is not a serious guy. You're lying to go see him, he'll use it against you tomorrow as a basis for disbelieving you when argument comes. Young lady the foundation is clearly wrong quit the relationship and save yourself. In a relationship always hold strongly your integrity, truth is a must and defend it, don't lie for anything, that's how you gain respect and value even when your supposed partner disagrees with you.

As a Christian follow Biblical guidelines for marriage and you'll be very fine.

ALEX182:
I think I will. I even asked him if it was Ebola but he said it wasn't and mentioned West Nile virus. Me I don't know if West Nile virus occured in Nigeria earlier this year so I just kept mute and decided to find out.

The guy is so much in love and part of me feels that this will break his heart and lead him to do something drastic. It's so troubling to me and a part of me just wants to waka far and act like it's not my business but another part is burning with anger at the scammers

I perceive God wants him saved from the hands of that scammer of an evil girl, that was probably why He made you to see him today, help him but wisely. For goodness sake his borrowing money.

ERCROSS:
For the sake of everything good, please tell him. If he finds it hard to believe, ask to prank the lady/benefit boy to send her location, that he's presently in Nigeria

I'll advice you tell him via someone else, and don't get involved with the scammers. Don't ever get involved with them, remember once a contact has been initiated you can be implicated. It's not EFCC o, it's FBI. They got their internet space well covered. Be guided. Say the truth but wisely.

Akanoaaa:
Please tell him.

Tell him via proxy, if you're scared it might hurt you professionally. Give him convincing evidence that his being scammed. Thank you ahead for standing up to truth.

Friday August 7, 2020

For the upright shall dwell in the land, and the perfect shall remain in it. But the wicked shall be cut off from the earth, and the transgressors shall be rooted out of it. Proverbs 2: 21-22 KJV

I thank God for the gift of His word; it makes our experience of Him wonderful with precise instruction on what to do and how we ought to live our life. People don’t just gain access to the best of God by chance or luck, upright living is among one of the keys that gives us access to what we’re seeking, the other key is work, because a lazy upright man will never see any significant improvement in his/her life. The one who is upright and goes to work diligently is the person that will become great. Upright-living makes man to experience the realities of the promises of God, and only people who continue in such acts remain in the blessing. It is so because along the path of the upright, temptations and afflictions will arise that will seek to destroy you, but the LORD will deliver you from them all if you retain your integrity and righteousness.

Today’s Thought: “Whatsoever that takes you up or gives you access is what will sustain you in life.”

This truth is an established one, anything that takes a man up is what will keep him up, if you abandon what brought you to prominence, you will soon lose your relevance. So the secret is in doing what makes you great and not stopping it because you’ve gotten what you want and don’t forget that the blessing that is not maintained will soon dry off. Job was a perfect man that hated evil and walked righteously before God and his fellow man, Job’s ability to continue being faithful and upright is the major reason why he was restored back and remained in the blessing despite the affliction. Job retained his integrity and sinned not. People who abandon the acts of righteousness are rooted out from the blessings because of their transgression. Transgression equals denial while Righteousness equals access.

KEYNOTE

Righteousness will exalt your life but iniquity is a reproach. Don’t be righteous today because you want God to answer your prayer. Be righteous everyday so that your requests will continue to be granted.

COUNSEL

Retain the practice that opened the door for you, and keep pressing and doing what you know is right. Don’t ever have the arrival mentality.

PRAYER

LORD, I thank You for this word today, I ask for the grace of continuity to rest upon me in the name of Jesus, I shall not rise and fall, I shall rise and remain up. Give me the grace to serve You well and to retain my integrity at all times no matter what comes my way in Jesus Mighty Name. I cancel by fire any spirit of arrogance and arrival mentality that will stand in the way to bring me down, by the power in the name of Jesus I pull it down. AMEN!

Dear brother, your case isn't peculiar to you alone, but the action you'll take now, will change everything.

1. Stop blaming anybody not even yourself. Excuses are dangerous for healthy reasoning and it'll always prevent you from taking action.

2. Ask yourself what am I born to do? What service was I created to provide? This is a question of purpose, and it's only when you know this that you can start working your life in that path.

3. Your mistakes of yesterday are no longer relevant today. Make the best use of today by choosing to be happy.

4. Nothing happens by chance, stop comparing yourself with others. Take action steps that will help you everyday, listen to something positive, read something nice.

5. Inasmuch as you don't want anything to do with God now, you still need Him to help sort you out, go to him in prayer, tell him your fears and I can assure you that you'll come out of this experience a better man with a clear vision of what you want to do with your life.

6. It's not too late for you at all, there are many of your mates today who will be seating for the forthcoming waec exam, some have graduated but no work, some don't even have a roof under their head, others don't even have parents to forgive them and guide them back, so be very grateful for your second chance and make the best use of it.

7. Study the Bible it carries your answers and you'll be just fine.

This is a phase and this too will pass. Tell yourself I'll make it. Listen to a nice motivational speaker or a good preacher of the word of God, e.g Dr. Pst, Paul Enenche, Apostle Joshua Selman, Joel Osteen, Steve Harvey and a host of others.

The faithful God strengthen you and help you mightily.

You shouldn't be asking him what he does, it's not your business. You're accusing him of an offense you're guilty of, because if you're not constantly visiting nairaland, how do you know his always commenting. Besides his not saying nonsense, his always making sense. Please lets mind our business. It's not everyone you see making constant posts that are jobless. Change that mindset.Thank you.

Separate thyself from him completely and avoid him if you love yourself. Be responsible for who comes into your life, not many people are graced to see the wickedness in the heart of those they call friends, but when one like you sees such, it saves you from a more greater danger in the future, which is why you must not allow him into your house. Be blunt if need be and block him. Forgive but don't get close. One last thing, stop showcasing your progress on Facebook, it's problem you're creating for yourself. That guy is jealous and His capable of anything, please DO NOT LET HIM IN. BE WISE!

Stay around those that love you, while you pray and act wisely. It shall be well.

Which ever one gives you peace of mind that's where your answer is. Follow your peace.

PWC is a major big 4 firm, they don't recruit to let loss, they spend resources to hire and train the best. My sincere counsel is get in and work hard. They're not known for letting employees leave, besides there's always vacancy in all the big 4 in Nigeria, reason been that some of their employees once they've gained some amount of experience, travel abroad or to another organization in the country where they occupy enviable positions. Get in and show them you're the real deal, even if a witch is following you, I can assure you that you'll be retained...believe people. All the best and God bless.

You are made whole this moment in Jesus mighty name, amen. Look for a bible believing church around and equip yourself. Don't forget to testify.