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I am currently working as a site engineer in a company, but then in d view of making an attempt to be independent, i want to make a quest along that part.
These are my two options..
1. To relax for some yrs to get my COREN and see if i can stand alone, but i feel this part will be harder as its too saturated.

The 2nd one wic im more interested in is to learn about auto mechanics, as automotive diagnostics and repair, car tracking installation and stuff.
But i dont kno anything about this part, so i need experienced opinions from pple along that line of work as to know how viable it is in Nigeria.

I'm planning to establish in either osun state or Ekiti state.

I woke up this morning and was i remiscing about my past life, from a broke, stammerer, friendless, kissless virgin and coupled with the feeling of hopelessnes that followed it, to the person that i am today.
I am not trying to say i drive a lambo now or fúck models but the point is the person i am now is completely unrelated to who i was 10 yrs ago.

Common mistake pple make is that they think their present situation is a hint to what the future will be like, but in 95% cases it completely wrong, things change any monent, it cud start with sn wrongly dialing ur phone no, or u mistakenly dialing a wrong no, or getting hit by a bike or just trying to rush into a bush to take a dump and then boom, your whole life will change completely.

Mine was one afternoon, i was returning from a failed biz, contemplating suicide wen a bike man was honking down at me to get out of the way, if sn had told me that another long life journey wud begin at that moment, i wudnt even give it a thought.

So what im i saying, well im too lazy to type this morning, but i think u can put the pieces together.

I will end this with a quote that says....When the student is ready, the teacher appears.

#dontgiveup.

Good morning.

NigPatriot:
what makes him a genius?

I dont kno, maybe u shld find out urself, cus if i tell u now, it might not make sense to u.

obafemee80:
Most people here don't appreciate the guy
Although his teachings were strange, he was really a genus and that's why he could easily control his followers minds

Yea very strange, i actually discovered osho wen i was 19yrs old, and since then ive always been reading his books, so hes like a father i never had.

And oh, im 28 now.

Speakdatruth:
Oh OK, they must have coined "Olosho" from his name

You shld read THE REVOLUTION by osho

This dude is just a fucking genius

You have too much ego.

You need to start breaking it like egg against the wall.
Start doing weird things
Embrace rejection, get rejected so much to d point that it doesnt matter to you anymore.
Start walking around naked
Just do sth very embarrassing and stick to it.

The return of jamariwolf

Welcome back bro

MissRaine69:
I practice mindfulness as much as this world permits .

Do u read osho's books?

MissRaine69:
One thing that annoys me to the hilt is someone telling me to calm down ....when I am pure zen!!!

Do u really do zen meditation?

MajorJeffery:
That lady is into you, please don't disappoint her and you will likely regret if you eventually do.

I don't see desperation, all I see is love. If you want what you term her desperation to slow down, then show her more affection and seriousness.

This
Your post gave me an epiphany.

Thing is ive been kinda indifferent to her cus i just don't kno wia to place her, i think i might just have to play along and see where it leads.

daewoorazer:
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My nigga

Wait till you ring her

The you go know say kaaki no be leather

You don’t love her, do not lead her on! Do not be shy about it...it doesn’t matter if you have met her great grandparents, better late than never!

Forget ‘don’t break my heart’ .... no be today!
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I can love her if i want, but then its the do or die affair that i do not understand.

MrHistorian:
She's over 30.

"Desperados"

She is 24 and she looks 22

So as an update to my last post.

Quick profile of this girl.

Her name is.........
She is light skinned, a nurse and she has a business she manages, so that means she makes more money than i do also thanks to her brothers that re out of this shithole country called Nigeria.

Initially that was what attracted me to her and to be honest i just really only wanted to smarsh, but then i got hooked.

Now back to the main point.
We ve been together not up to 2 weeks now and shes been wanting to see my parents, needs a ring, initially i was just taking it lightly until when she invited me to her brother's house, when i got there... the serious looks on their faces as they were meeting their son in law to be, she introduced me not as a friend, or boyfriend but as a fiancé, come and see as marital advises that i did not pay for just dey flow upandan.
Most of our outings, she pays the bill even the last one that i invited my friends to come along, to my surprise as i was about to pay, she just shoved me aside, brought out her bag and paid in full.

Now why im i scared
1. The sudden fianciation
2. The subtle talks that if i hurt her she wud die followed by pleads of pls do not hurt me.
I dont kno why shes doing all this, im feelin suspicious a lil bit, maybe shes tryna push something unpleasant on me like terminal diseases or barreness or some shìt.
Ive tried making some background research on her past but i didnt notice anything alarming as to warrant her desperation.

While this might just be baseless fears but then all her actions are causing me some serious concerns

Update.
Our last pet fight was about me telling her to stop getting me gifts, they were getting too much but she felt sad, but i just played it cool but telling her that we shld focus on little things like smiles, trust, affection as opposed to the material things.

Wish that everybody wud be rich.

Is it veiny?

eddyghali:
Did u actually kept her waiting to come get opinion she must be 16-18yrs. thumbs up to the OP for getting a minor

An 18yo old or 30yo old in love doesnt matter. Its d brain that calculates, the heart doesnt breh.

Btw a simple "we will discuss this on sunday wen we see" did it.

boss1310:
ask her to tell hers first then multiply it by 3

Ofcourse she did, and shes had only 2 bfs in her life, well thats not entirely conclusive but then. 2 * 3 = 6

Is that cool?

FrostyButter:
I don't know why truth is hard for you guys

I see nothing wrong in the question

No question is too silly, imature or sensitive when going into a relationship and about to give your all.

So when asked a simple fvcking question, just answer the damn question!!!

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Not when u re few digits from hitting 3 figures breh.

sainty2k3:
She is reading this with me on Nairaland right now :p
That line is not gonna work again

You re prolly the fat guy i stole her from. Amarite?

pocohantas:
On a serious note, look her in the eye and ask her, "do you really want to know?". If she says yes, tell her you've lost count , but you can only remember those who stood out .

Gotten my answer. Guess i will use this line.

Hush...now i can slp in peace.

donstan18:
Discuss what? The number of times you've had sex?

Its hard having an urbane discussion here without throwing jabs tho, but that aside i just like listening to diff opinions from pple.

In this case, shld i tell her the truth and shock her, or i shld just lie about it and take it to my grave while i break our relationship code.

I really like this girl and im open to where ever it leads.

pocohantas:
I thought guys are proud of their body count

Answer her, tell her a key that opens so many doors is a master key.
You're a man, wear your bodycount with pride. Na only babes dey simplify and divide

Well for me its not sth i brag about, its just a challenge that me and one stupid guy did sometimes in d past.

I cant tell her d truth, cus then if i did she will never trust me again...not that it bothers me but i just dont want to ruffle things.

XhosaNostra:
Don't. She'll judge you if the number is too high & when the number is too low, she'll think you're lying. If you must, simply tell her that right now (with her) is the only moment that counts.
It's very weird when people ask questions like that. They never go quite as planned & always raise unnecessary insecurities or other follow up questions, which lead to tiring, circular arguments.

Since our relarionship is new, we based our relationship on HONESTY and TRUST...meaning as long as she trusts me and on my part im always honest with her, then our relationship will be on d right part.

Now shes askin me some questions, now i can tell her d truth and im sure that will definitely shock her, so that will be a bìtch move. But then i just want to say fúck it and let the chips fall where it may just for d fun of it.

IamAirforce1:
That relationship isn't healthy .

She meant b4 i met her....our relationship is a week old

Should i tell her the truth?

Lets discuss

delugajackson:
It's a rare thing for ladies to woo guys, but it's real. And trust me it feels good to see them suffer at times.

Well, let me quit being a pompous wind bag, though it's just my way of being me. I've had my own share of ladies who were quite expressive. Mentally mature ladies to be honest. And you know the most amazing thing? They were both Igbos, beautiful and enchanting! And one thing I noticed about them is, iif they fall for you, they fall really hard, and they get jealous so easily. I can remember Jess getting mad at me because I used Amarachi's picture as my wallpaper. Those silly old days. Let me not go into details, else this page won't be enough.

The thing is, when a lady loves you to point of pulling the strings first, you better be ready for it. Some guys may see it as jackpot, but it's way more than that. You just need to be man enough not to play on her emotions. You might just need to play tough so you don't come off as cheap, it throws them off balance.

Im goin tru the last paragraph right now, but thing is i like her, and yea u have to be a man not to play on her emotions.

But then i feel caged somehow, as opposed to times when i was free like a bird, and damn i miss those good times and wud def relive them again.

All this happened?

MissRaine69:
I accept that it is hard for some people to just keep scrolling, why comment though? That thought process has always alluded me.
By the way if you cannot think laterally then this will never make sense to you.
Ever!

I kno u re just trying to be deep, but u re not capable of it.

Op if all you said is true, then i can relate bro, but fact is u re just making too much of a big deal out of it. 80% of the world population re living in thesame condition u live in but they dont bitch about it.

Pull urself together and be a man... Stop focussing on ur pains and start living till the life gets stuffed out of u.

Brace urself up and go approach some cutie

And again do u pray?

Worst relationship analogy of all time

Hisduchess:
any day that u ll stop trolling me nah that day ur phone go loss.(((serious swearing)))

Happy light skinned in advance sis.

hkidola00:
hmmm light skinned girls dealt with I and my friend.... they believe they are too beautiful for only you, they cheat and ur heartbroken

Nobody has monopoly over light skinned girls, it was ur turn and now its not, but i hope u enjoyed it while it lasted?