₦airaland Forum

ADAMUdaCOWBOY:
Are you married? May life not teach you with personal experience that men sometimes don't reap the fruit of their labour.

Men who take care of their kids properly are well taken care of in old age. Taking care of kids goes beyond provision for the records. I know mothers who wouldn't travel if their husband is not coming along with them.

muykem:
Let us be realistic. Political appointment is not employment. It's just for little time, no pension, no retirement benefits.

Is this meant to be a joke?

ednut1:
there are women who started with hustle jobs in US, got into nursing and later entered tech with the scrum/ cybersecurity.

Yes ooo. They are everywhere. Most importantly, "don't stop the grind".

I wonder how some of you sit in your homes and start giving unsolicited advice.

I have friends who did graduate studies in Canada, started with survival jobs, bought properties, and today, they are doing professional jobs and have forgotten their years of little beginnings. They are living the choice of life they want and are happy without praying for the basic needs of life like many of these advisers are.

If only all his actions had translated to a better monetary policy, perhaps, he did be justified. Anyways, I guess the average Nigerian cares less about his actions that does not translate to any improvement in their lives.

That said, those people justifying the actions of the current government should please continue. I hope they are better off than they were before the current government came aboard. If it is the converse for them and they are holding unto the praise of this government for reasons best known to them, then big shame on them.

Is everyone not feeling the heat of the current economic situation of the country? The question is do they even have the money to enjoy the celebration the way they want to at the moment?

I wonder how we intentionally mislead ourselves. Whoever wrote this article is full of deceit. They did not change their anthem, they changed a line in their anthem to allow for inclusivity. We changed ours in its entirety for no just cause.

freshStarz:
Good morning guys

If I go to the US on a visiting visa and during the period of visit, the school I applied to opens for the term, can I start schooling there without returning for a school visa

Is there a problem with this?

There is no problem however, you need a very good justification on why you want to change status from visit to study.

Opeyemi007:
😂. If it’s not a business/medical emergency, you can’t get an appointment till late 2025/early 2026.

Late 2025/early 2026? I thought they had resolved this backlog. Is it possible for one to go for an interview in a neighboring African country?

I will rather wait to hear the verdict of the judge. I hope the case will be dismissed or at most, a warning.

AngelicBeing:
Go for whole wheat bread 🥪, it is healthy and nutritious

descarado:
Just tag me anywhere you are confused and we will look for alternative

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I_6aMZwf9CU?si=pjcUuRhmL_YzNBd1

Thanks to you both. I will work on this.

descarado:
I actually agree with her. One can swallow once in a while but I have completely shifted from Nigerian cuisines. As you age, uou must be fat and obese. Nobody's fault but the low quality food we grow up with.
All the swallow, rice, yam, plantain, potatoes, beans will make you obese and prone to some diseases. A plate of an average Nigerian food is 90% carb. And portion control is thrown outta the window.

Madam, abeg list your recent food options ooo. I am thinking of starting a new food regime in another month or two but my challenge is bread seems like a very staple food I can't do without.

potland:
The old anthem is gone till further notice but the national pledge stands.

You mind explaining why the pledge would stand when you enforce an anthem composed by a foreigner on a sovereign nation? If you choose to be disloyal, you cannot be blamed.

INomorethief:
I payed for bride price and church wedding

Go to the village with your family and take your kids. When she is matured enough to understand that your family is about you, her, and the kids; she will come back home.

armyofone:
Raw egg - aka sunny side you try

Listeria scare would never let me eat half cooked eggs.

The yolk often times act as a sauce and ties the whole dish together. The yolk isn't totally raw na.

Deepspirituals:
. Men Should Go for DNA test to Confirm if that Child belongs to them Simple as ABC .

Whether Man Go Sleep with Another Woman , Make the Husband of the Woman he Sleeps with Go for DNA Test .

Whether the Woman Go sleep with another Woman Husband and she gets belle make the Husband still Do DNA.

Which Angle Una wan take am.

DNA must be done , So many una all Stop Defending Paternity Fraud

Did you decide to conduct a DNA on your children and someone told you NO? Speak for yourself and do what you think is needful for you and allow others do what they think is needful for them.

Jman06:
Unfortunately, we cannot all act responsibly because by nature, men are designed to seek sex from women. You and I may be able to act responsibly but whatever the other men?? It is now left for the married women to say NO to such demands.

Women have more control over sex and usually have sex with whom ever they fancy! So, they have more responsibility to ward off illegitimate sexual demands from men. Ladies in this forum, in a bid to absolve their gender of blame, usually blame men for marital infidelity with the ridiculous claim that men's promiscuity is responsible for marital infidelity. That, to me, is nonsensical because most cheating men do so with unmarried ladies while most cheating women do with unmarried exes or younger bachelors.

Don't you think this sounds like some double standards? It isn't appropriate for any party to cheat. Some of the men accusing their wife for paternity fraud also have their seeds out there in another man's home.

Jman06:
How is the man she cheated with the cause How you ladies come up with this view is mind boggling!

Except in the event of rape, women have sex willfully and with whom ever they fancy! They're the gatekeepers of sex as sex will not happen if they don't want it. What stops her from saying NO to the man proposing sex to her

Oga, I am a man for starters. When men chase after other people's wives and these women commit paternity fraud in their husbands, same men still act like they are the victims. The summary of it is "If we all act responsibly, it will reduce the incidence of paternity fraud."

descarado:
Many Nigerian wives have raised children that is not theirs.
You talk, in-laws will be on your neck.
And oh as long as men continue to sample outside, be least assured they will continue to raise kids that are not theirs.
You can't sample another man's property and expect yours to be pristine.
Let the sampling continue.
Women don't fight anymore, rather they will give you with the same measure.
At the end of the day, it's men that lose.
When after 20 or 30 you will learn your child isn't yours.
Also make sure you check your paternity, your father may not have sired you.

No wonder we are on the lowest threshold of poverty. When men think with their dikk and immediate gratification. They don't care about the consequences of their actions.

I guess the challenge sometimes is that these men don't remind themselves that some of the women they are cheating with are married.

I wonder how you sleep with another man's wife and you keep shouting paternity fraud. If the woman gets pregnant and pibs the child on her husband, is the man age cheated with not the cause?

I am still struggling to understand the rationale behind these madness. It's is a secular state so why subsidize pilgrimage?
We are just a bunch of religious yet not godly people.

Sunday Dinner:

Pounded yam with ofe onugbu.

Was ott of Cocoyam powder and substituted with oatmeal (saw someone do the same on YouTube). Came out very good and everyone loved it.

Sunday Brunch:

Waffles typed with strawberry and whipped cream and sunny side up.

Dinner from Saturday night:

Creamy cheesy polenta, spinach sauce, and grilled chicken thigh.

b0rn2fuck:
DNA should be made compulsory before enrolling children in primary school and should be subsidized by government

Why subsidized when it is the choice of a man/ woman to have kids? No one can also enforce DNA on anyone.

To God be the glory.

To as many going through one sickness or the other, I pray God provide the resources to seek medical attention and heal you completely in Jesus Name.

Babinski:
The solution to food security in the country is not everyone doing mini-farming in sacks and buckets. That is ridiculous, particularly when we have a lot of arable land that Fulani marauders and bandits have prevented people from farming.

The solution is having enough large scale farmers and a booming farming industry in the middle belt and all those areas with arable land without the fears of insecurity, bandits and Fulani marauders. The Government should ban open grazing to reduce Fulani cattle destroying crops and increase security to prevent bandits and kidnappers from discouraging farmers.

The Government should then provide funding, mechanization and other farming support and interventions to real farmers and not "CBN Farmers" or "Briefcase Farmers" that collect billions under the guise of farming in collusion with the managers of the Government Interventions.

That in my opinion is the way to go and not these subsistence farming kits. Unfortunately the Government appears not to have the moral strength to ban open grazing and address the security issues.

In the meantime, this intervention is still better than nothing. It is obvious the government doesn't care about the masses because the masses themselves do not care about themselves or are ignorant about what they deserve. If they chose to vote for people who have no good intentions for them due to ethnic and religious affiliation, then you should at least appreciate this effort.

Abeg, why fanfare irrespective of age? Let people be honored by the presence of their loved ones, for me, that is the best you can do for the deceased. I do not subscribe to burying young ones as though they never lived.

Creamypie:
No carry ur nigerian wife come join u for obodoyibo, she go become tiger, women, including all the females in my family,naturally crave for power, that they will and must unrepentantly abuse. Nigerian men no go learn

Lie from the pit of hell. You use one out of the hundreds in Nigeria family cases to judge everyone. I bow for you ooo.

It is indeed a good initiative if they pull through with the extension officers actively engaging the people and teaching them right. Would it make food cheaper, not really nonetheless, for those who choose to follow the lead, it will reduce their total expense of food which in turn allows money to be spent on other things.

LyfeJennings:
Don't joke with cooperatives
Those guy are very very liquid to the tune of billions
If only U know
Do U know NPF cooperative has it's own MFB and it's liquid in excess of billions
These guys liquid die
As in diee diee

NPF, I agree. They have the staff strength to have much in excess. I just need be convinced NCoS has such staff strength to pull such strings.

I understand cooperatives break bulk and also save but how are they able to make so much to build a gigantic hotel in Abuja? What I want to understand is how they financed the project.

TheWinterBird:
Dinner:

~Coconut Macadamia Crusted Salmon
~Creamy Pasta Carbonara & Shrimps
~Seaweed

Abeg, how did you cook the seaweed. It looks delicious. Please share your recipe.