₦airaland Forum

RadicallyBlunt:
I shake my head at some people's inexperience. Some people like this actually think life starts and ends with nairaland. You can choose to marry someone youre older than with 30yrs sef, its your life. I spoke my mind. What the westerners do and end in divorce is what you think would work in for an African woman? Ladies like you are praying to find a loving husband who's older than them and some resolve to marrying a man younger to them with 2yrs max, but you want to settle for 6yrs difference. My dear you shd marry a teenager o, I thinks its better. Then in the next life marry your grandson mate.

Oga u deserve d kain sense-upgrading slap Ade dey receive 4rm im papa 4 crazeclown.

Winnelyn:
he loves her, but the problem here is, ' people advised him not to

If deres no oda reason apart 4rm d age ish, abeg make those pple swerve enta river Niger joor.

policy12:
Hmmm religion...

Dude dt 2nd pic was deep. Any MOG dts advocating & threatening his congregation 2 pay tithe is nothing bt a reformed gangster. Dey reduce the Almighty God 2 d status of a mafia don & elevate demselves 2 his henchmen or made men who extort pple in His name by such actions. Dey threaten pple d same way these collectors do saying d money is 4 protection (4rm d devourer, dey say). Dey love-vendor out d word of God 2 d highest bidder, making pple blv dt God blesses pple based on wt dey put in d offering basket 4gtn dt Jesus Christ described God as he who sends d rain on both d just & unjust. Dey r lyk d pharisees of old of whom Jesus said dey lay heavy yokes on men & do not lift a finger 2 help.

pressplay411:
It's always been there but as small PIkin wey u be, e nor consign yew.

D missionaries dt left their more comfortable lands 2 battle d heat & mosquitoes of West Africa didn't demand 4 tithes when dey brought xtianity 2 us. It was wt d advent of Pentecostalism (late 70s, early 80s)dt ds tithe mata started in 9ja.

kingobozy:
I see absolutely nothing wrong in creating an app that members can use to pay their tithe. It's God's commandment that we pay our tithe and sometimes your tithe can enter into thousands of naira. With cashless policies and all it would be quite difficult to pay in cash so going cashless can come in handy in this case.

I think where Freeze and other hypocritical people will come in is that the church is trying to extol their members. They have forgotten that CHANGE is CONSTANT.

Let me repeat something I posted in September
"ds tithe mata shows a lot of xtians dnt study their bible well. Tithing is a carryover 4rm Judaism. Nw lemme xplain y God told d Israelites 2 tithe.Israel was made of 12 tribes wt d sonsof Jacob as patriarchs (actually it was 13, Joseph's tribe was split in2 d houses of Ephraim & Manasseh). When d Israelites entered d promised land, Joshua divided portions of Canaan & gave evry tribe their inheritance xcept d tribe of Levi. Dey were supposed 2 attend solely 2 d tabernacle & assist d priests (who were descendants of. Aaron, a member of D tribe of Levi himself). So in order 2 sustain d tribe of Levi, oda tribes were ordered 2 bring a 10th of wt dey earn. No1 bt a levite was supposed 2 receive tithes. Dts y it wasnt recorded dt Samuel (4rm d house of Ephraim) received tithes or Elijah, Elisha collected tithes. Dey only received offerings. Even d author & finisher of our faith Jesus Christ didn't collect tithes as he descended 4rm d tribe of Judah neither did he instruct his disciples 2 do such. So any man who didn't descend 4rm d tribe of Levi isn't supposed 2 collect tithes. So until 1 of these MOGs can provide concrete evidence dt his genealogy originated 4rm Levi, im nt giving him any kobo, penny or cent as tithe. All I can gv is offering or gift".

omocheche:
Now you want the whole world to help out just because a woman is indirectly asking for your help? But you won't mind to ask her for sex the very 1st day you met her O! Abi? See ya life

So $£x wt a woman is nw a commodity 2 b traded wt abi? SMH later it's still u dt wld carry ur mouth & say men dnt respect u. Y wld a man respect u when u tnk dt 4 sleeping wt him, u deserve compensation? Somtn d both of u wld still enjoy (if he does it ryt)? Any woman who has an atom of self worth & respect shld as much as she can avoid asking a man 4 money. If d man decides on his own 2 gv her, she can accept. Even if she has 2 ask, she shld make sure she pays him back (wt money nt $£x). Any woman who feels she's entitled 2 take money 4rm a guy because she's sleeping wt him is a pro.stitute IMO.

omocheche:
Now you want the whole world to help out just because a woman is indirectly asking for your help? But you won't mind to ask her for sex the very 1st day you met her O! Abi? See ya life

So $£x wt a woman is nw a commodity 2 b traded wt abi? SMH later it's still u dt wld carry ur mouth & say men dnt respect u. Y wld a man respect u when u tnk dt 4 sleeping wt him, u deserve compensation? Somtn d both of u wld still enjoy (if he does it ryt)? Any woman who has an atom of self worth & respect shld as much as she can avoid asking a man 4 money. If d man decides on his own 2 gv her, she can accept. Even if she has 2 ask, she shld make sure she pays him back (wt money nt $£x). Anytn short of dt makes d woman an olosho IMO

Eddodoh:
5k minus battery replacement and workmanship. That's more than 5k

It's not even the money that is the problem. I don't subscribe to ladies taking someone for a Maga or some kind of fool.

If I am dealing with a prostitute, let me know. I will know that I should pay for her service.

Guy chop knuckle wherever u dey. Most girls nowadays no sabi wetin shame mean. Wetin dey vex me b say on top ds type of wretchedness, D babe go dey form. She wan take way 2 turn op in2 her Maga. Awon elebi oshi!

ransomed:
::-- She did not report the issue to the school management but went home to call her bouncers who inturn brought police. The teacher may serve jail term but, i am sure her brothers cannot teach her and they even posted her picture for the world to see. No school administrator either private or public wants an indisciplined and egoistic student in their school. They see such as bad egg. The teacher made a mistake but locking the teacher up will send the wrong message to that little girl that might affect her later in life.

Wetin b mistake? Beating a harmless child 2 D point of inflicting a head injury on her? In law, deres nothing lyk mistake & wt he just did was child abuse & grievous bodily harm. Let him go & flex d muscles he used 2 injure d child 4 d pple in cell. Wt d child did wasn't even terrible. A simple verbal rebuke or seizing d note she was copying & repeating wt he said b4 wld hv solved d issue. U r blaming d child 4 reporting d teacher 2 her family members? U wntd her 2 cover up 4 d teacher? Who else shld she hv reported 2? 4rm wt op posted. D family members (nt bouncers) went 2 skul d next day 2 confront d teacher bt d coward went AWOL. Since d skul wasn't being sufficiently reasonable, dey did d ryt thing by involving d police. Dts is called allowing d law take its natural course nt taking laws in2 ones hands. Even if d girl has 2 switch skuls & repeat a class, I blv dt d ryt course of action was undertaken by her family. We hv 2 end ds madness dt permits d enactment of violence against harmless children. Children wld b children & wld @ some point in their lives exhibit mischief. It is up 2 b d adults 2 act lyk d mature beings dey r supposed 2 b & correct d child wt out resorting 2 violence & physical abuse. I blv dt d main lesson a child learns while being beaten is dt violence solves evrytn & might is right. D main reason I tnk we love beating children is because it presents an easy fix. It is very easy 2 hit an erring child; wt isn't easy is looking 4 more humane alternatives in child rearing & making sure dt we live lives dt our children wld love 2 imitate because children tend 2 do wt dey c d grownups around dem do nt wt dey say.

joceey:
The teacher went too far for bring out blood from the girl head but als You people are just looking at things from one angle the teacher was teaching and she was busy coping note can't she wait after school and take the note home to copy.If she is not responding well the parent will say the teachers are not teaching them well..

Abegi! So he cld nt seize d note until d end of his class or d closure of D skul 4 dt day? He cldnt tell her 2 sit or even kneel in front of D class so dt he wld b able 2 keep an eye on her? Even if he was angry, he cld nt gv her a few strokes on d palm? Stop trying 2 defend wts bad. Imagine if d head injury she sustained was fatal & led 2 her death, wt wld he tell d court? D man deserves wt he got IMO. He has serious anger management issues & a penchant 4 violence.

Justdulla:
Madam sharaaap its a camp not a house... People want to be co. fortable all their lives without having to make any sacrifice... if she no do make she quit... NYSC isnt by force

Oga sharrap dere too! Somewhere dts nt fit 4 animals 2 live in! Meanwhile NASS members r buying cars worth billions & u r defending such rubbish. I can bet dt huge amounts of money were budgeted 2 make d place habitable bt some greedy, corrupt kleptomaniacs siphoned d entire thing. D way u r even justifying d wretchedness if d place, hw r we sure u r nt among those gangs of thieves?

Na d reason y I lyk 9ja. As ds coun3 bad reach, dem no born anybody well 2 try ds rubbish 4 here even when military dey power. Abacha wan try am, person gv am apple chop; obj bn wan try am wt 3rd term ambition, NASS 4k am up. I no tnk say 1 person don rule ds coun3 4 up 2 10 yrs.

Kingsley1000:
If u pass through versity without COPULATING,you'll surely regret it...only vet/medical students,animal scientist will understand me

As in... Na my main regret b dt. Dere were few half chances I was presented wt bt as a nyc guy, I didn't wnt 2 overstep my boundary because wt women, u can't b sure if dey r giving u green light or r just being nyc.

Ichel:
ifa hear say nigeria cap dis guy, i'll be d least impressed with NFF decision, after all his shakara. Nigeria should reject being a dumping site for england rejects.
Paz

Gbam!!!! U hv said it all. We shldnt make ourselves a 2nd choice coun3. When d going was gud & he was playing 4 Liverpool, he snubbed us. It's nw dt he's in Bournemouth he nw wants 2 play 4 us because he sees we r lykly 2 qualify 4 2018 world cup. It's lyk a girl dt rejected a guy because he was broke & followed a ready-made guy coming back 2 beg afta he has made it & d ready-made guy dumped her. If our coun3 wasn't gud 4 him 2 play 4 when he was in Liverpool, den he's nt good enuf 2 play 4 us since he's in bournemouth. Rubbish.

osaslord500:
They never deserved to be on the list, thank God yaya Toure is not there too. I think aubaneyang will win that award

It's obvious dt mahrez wld win it. Epl MVP & won a title whilst playing, scoring & assisting goals regularly? He has done more Dan enuf 2 win dt prize.

Allsouls:
Those Igbo's you said that are afraid that Biafra won't be better than Nigeria, are Igbo's that don't believe in them selves and Igbo way of life. ie when you get to the bridge you will know how to cross it.

They shouldn't be afraid

Inasmuch you plan how to develop Biafra, you have to cross the first huddles, You have a lot to do before getting the independence and they are ongoing.

The structures laid by Nnamdi KANU under ipob I which makes them to stand firm up till now even financially is a good example. Have you ask how they manage their resources to with stand government propaganda and actions?.

Their investments will be their for them, does Nigerians don't have properties all over the world and what happend to them in those countries?
Meanwhile we value life & freedom more than wealth, because if they kill them or burn those properties they will start from scratch too so does it makes any meaning.

As you said that nigeria foundation was on faulty foundation should we remain like that?, No we can't we will move ahead to tackle those problems squarely.

The majority will be the determining factor whether they are touts, jobless or which ever name you call them.

#All hail Biafra #Freennamdi KANU #freeBiafra.

Dts d mistake zik & awo made during d fight 4 independence. Dey didn't sit wt d pple & iron out knotty issues sufficiently. Dey were so desperate 4 d British 2 go dt dey jumped in2 bed wt d North, who didn't wnt independence, thereby agreeing 2 cede power 2 D most backward region of D coun3. U can c hw dt grave error is still costing us 2day. Look @ d US. Even b4 dey won independence, Thomas Jefferson wrote d declaration of independence & had started working on d bill of rights. Any nation whose pioneers dnt tnk abt d future & make concrete plans 2 safeguard it is bound 2 fail ab initio. Imagine if dt proverbial bridge u speak of isn't dere, hw do u cross? Hw wld Biafra b structured so dt vices lyk corruption, nepotism, godfatherism, impunity, terrorism etc found in Nigeria doesn't infect Biafra? Hw can u make sure dt oppression is nt reenacted in Biafra? Wt structures wld b place 2 make sure dt d freedom, power & resources meant 4 d pple dnt end up being waylaid by a select few? Hw wld problems lyk poor infrastructure In d southeast b tackled & surmounted shld d dream of biafra b realized? Until Nnamdi kanu & his acolytes can gv a reasonable, specific ansa 2 d pple, majority wldnt b sold on d idea. D actualization of biafra doesn't automatically mean dt everything wld start working fine. Look @ South Sudan nw. Dey seceded & yet till 2day, dey r still fighting, pple r dying, children r starving in d war btw d president & his vice. Things r worse nw dan b4 dey seceded. Leaving Nigeria wt out ample preparation wld b akin 2 jumping 4rm d frying pan in2 d fire.

givan:
I'm Igbo. I don't want to leave this country. Let's stay together.

D reasons I tnk most Igbos r afraid of leaving r 1. Dey dnt wnt a repeat of D genocide enacted on dem by d federal government. 2. Dere is presently no concrete plan by the advocates 4 separation 2 build a beta nation dan dey r presently in. Dey r more engrossed in fighting 4 Biafran independence dan drawing up solid short, medium & long-term plans 2 create a nation dt wldnt only stand d test of tym bt metamorph in2 a cynosure 4 oda African nations & nations of D world in general. I blv ds is d more important part where utmost attention shld b paid. 3. Most Igbos r settled elsewhere. Majority of dem r based & hv their businesses scattered outside d southeastern region hence relocating in most cases wld b tantamount 2 starting 4rm scratch.
Bt despite all these, it doesn't erase d fact ds nation Nigeria stands on a very faulty & shaky foundation & trying 2 sweep things under d carpet wldnt benefit our coun3.

Oh!!! D dude dey called scholar saka. Our paths briefly crossed during my brief stint in d University quiz team. He was on my team wt some oda pple. Dude was quite gud & came across as a principled hardworker (unlyk me, an amoral slacker).

Paulscholari:
You are such an ultra synthetic mooron. If you can't comprehend my letters then go hang your self at the back of sambisa forest. The guy died for what he swore for so stop being stupid about it. Thank God am just seeing these after a long while else I would have serve it hot to a seething bastarrd and ignoramus like you.

Is ds ur best shot? Afta all ds tym? Of cos u saw ds long ago bt u took ample tym 2 compose wt u thought was a highly cerebral, scathing response bt plzzzz!!! Ds weak, dumba$$ crap? Dnt make me laff. Just take my advice & STFU cos if I get riled up, u wld get vocally eviscerated by urs truly. If u kip on biatching dnt, complain when u wld find ur self either biatch-slapped or f**kd up. (drops mic)

robo16:
stupid yourba fool I wan try that tinx bt I they fear person no fit get hiv frm that?

Unless u hv deep mouth sores whist doing it.

StupidYorubaFool:
wow brilliant....
but pls I ain't a veteran in this romance field cos I ain't a philanderer...
my apprehensiveness is escalating daily.....
I used to think the cl!toris is the same as puzzy(Virginia)
but I think I'm mistaken... pls where exactly can the clitor!sbe located and how is it like??
sorry that was just my first time with a lady...
pls I'll be anticipating your reply.

It's on top d vag. In some girls, it's covered by a hood like fold bt when she's aroused, u wld feel it like a bump on top d vag.

jidxin:
ewww but its disgusting no amt of love could make me do dat.....iyanma

Bt u go lyk am when she gvs u head & beta deep throat ehn? Beta go & learn hw 2 eat dt thing b4 oda guys assist u in dt area wt ur bae.

tjfulloption:
LET US KILL CUCUMBER BEFORE IT DETHRONES ALL OF US, THE MEN!

"National Assembly should urgently intervene in this Cucumber matter. This fruit is a threat to men's relevance and dignity.

They should pass a law to restrict the purchase of Cucumber by single unaccompanied woman below 50 years of age.

It is in the interest of all men of all creed to act fast otherwise, we will all lose our bragging rights and relevance to a common fruit.

Some naughty Igbo girls have publicized the misuse (of this hitherto innocent fruit) as cheap but effective woman happiness-assuring instrument.

Cucumber when wrongly used is fuller, stronger, longer and even more steadfast. It is also handy and ever ready to be used, reused and be used again without complaint or sagging. It can also keep secret.

Let's us all join hands in fighting this wicked fruit that would do to men what the discovery of computers has done to typewriters.

With cucumber, who needs a man?

I have warned my wife that I don't want to see the evil fruit around my house. In fact, to avoid any chance occurrence, I have banned European salad dishes in my house. Only African salads are allowed henceforth.

Instead of discovering cure for diseases, these small girls are busy inventing man-humiliating devices.

Cucumber is a threat to mankind!

As u hv said only African salad, doesn't dt mean she wld hv access 2 big cassava?

QueenthDee:
This cucumber is tempting

It can't b beta dan d thing btw a man's legs. Counterfeit can neva surpass original. Neva!!! U tnk I'm lying? Just contact me 4 a test run

jahsson:
Hehehe... GIBBERISH...

Does sanity hold meaning 4 d insane? Wld a nitwit nt laff d teachings of a genius lyk Einstein 2 scorn, branding him imbecilic? Some infinities r just greater dan oda infinities. 1 sign of chronic ignorance is mocking higher knowledge. So I wld do as d bible instructs & nt cast my pearls b4 swine.

Op I beg 2 differ. Marriage increases stress. Look @ most Catholic priests. Dey look younger dan their age. U wld c 80 yrs priests still very agile & coherent. D only thing I tnk marriage gv 1 is a strong will 2 live so as 2 available 4 their spouse & children despite d stress.

[quote author=jahsson post=51160276][/quote]Ds is an apt case of who d cap fits. It's obvious dt I struck a nerve wt my comment because perhaps u applaud such ignorant practices hence u irrationally responded wt threats & derision. If such is d case wt u, it is neva too late 2 engorge ur intelligence & shed ur intellectually-stifling chitin of sexism.

Congrats 2 D dude & his wife bt I hope he didn't kill d catfish based on d sex of d child. We need 2 eradicate dt archaic notion dt a male issue is more superior 2 a female issue. A child is a blessing & shld nt b stratified in2 superior & inferior sexes. When I hear stupid things lyk a man blaming his wife because dey keep hvn girls & somtyms chasing oda women, I feel lyk smacking commonsense in2 their thick skulls.

It's obvious dt d army is deeply infiltrated by Bokoharam agents because he did dey know dt a top officer was supposed 2 b dere @ dt particular tym? Besides, Isn't it standard 4 d men 2 sufficiently secure d area & set up a gud defensive perimeter 2 ensure d safety of their CO? Ds govt isn't tackling ds BHT issue well @ all. I suspect deres an element of truth in d allegation dt top Bokoharam commanders were released in exchange 4 those chibok girls.

bastien:
No body dey thank the coach for yesterday match, no body see the transformation of the Super Eagles yesterday! And no coach no fit sit down through out the 90mins.

Rohr tried o! His tactical approach 2 D match was on point. D Algerians didn't do their homework well. Dey dismissed mikel & Moses as persona non grata (even me sef dismissed mikel bt I backed Moses 2 deliver) choosing instead 2 focus on iwobi & iheanacho, who had bn our hitmen recently. Rohr decided 2 use these rejected stones as d chief cornerstones in dt match. He even revealed b4 hand dt he wld build d team around mikel bt d Algerians thought he was bluffing. Playing iheanacho in d 9 position also destabilized dem because dey expected him 2 play as an AMC still dey committed men 2 him thereby freeing players lyk Moses & etebo 2 do their thing. Mikel too was phenomenal. He was a totally different player 4rm d sluggish, sit back person he was against Zambia. He attacked hungrily & kept d ball well. He moved forward intelligently & played his role as a midfield linchpin perfectly thereby playing a key role in our 2 goals - he supplied dt 1,2 pass 4 Moses 2 make dt beautiful run 2 score d 1st goal & he received a penetrating thru pass 4rm etebo, beating d offside trap set by d Algerian defence b4 calmly placing d ball beyond d reach of Algerian keeper's right hand in2 d net. I'm sure Rohr wld hv instructed our players 2 focus their shots on dt side afta discovering their keeper was weak on dt side hence our 3 goals entered 4rm dt side. Also pairing balogun wt troost ekong & shunting omeruo 2 ryt back position where his bloopers wld hv a lesser chance of costing d team big time was a gud move.

Drabrah:
Death 4yrs after wedding, my dear there's much likelihood dat ur sis either didn't die of d HIV (except if she died of d psychological complications emanating frm it, depression for example) or she's contracted d HIV b4 d marriage.

It cld b dt it was an aggressive strain of HIV she was infected wt or her immune system wasn't so strong initially hey it collapse quickly due 2 her failure 2 use antiretrovirals 2 slow down d rate of infection.

Laveda:
Maybe, but that's the only help I can think of.

You don't expect her to deny her husband sex, or ask him to use condom everytime they wanna make love..

Don't you think?

I'm nt understanding. U r saying a woman shld hv unprotected sex wt her husband even if she knows he's fooling around & might b infected wt HIV/STD & u r a woman? Me sef as a man can't advise a woman 2 do such. Starve d randy bastard of $£x until he learns self-control & undergoes medical tests 2 show he's clean. If he tries 2 involve extended family, threaten 2 expose him 2 D pple he wants 2 involve. So because of 1 stupid 'love', D woman shld carry AIDS when she's nt Messing around? Mbanu!!!