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Holysucker:
THIS IS NOT RIGHT.

Madam, if you are not ready to buy something for your househelp when you take her out with your own kids, please leave her at home. She is someone's child too.

She came in with her husband, 2 kids and their help, another kid of about 11 or 12 years. Immediately they sat down, the husband left probably to come and pick them up later. She ordered three turkey, a Hollandia yoghurt for the kids and Star radler.

When it was served, she gave one turkey to her son of about 6years, one to the daughter of say 3-4yrs and the other one for herself. While they were feasting on the turkey and drinks, the house help sat on another table starring hungrily and helplessly. Every time the madam turns towards her, the house help will quickly look away to avoid eye contact with madam.

That lady even ate the little piece left by her daughter, paid the bills and left..

I know that she might not be the only person guilty of this despicable act, so let's have your comments and opinions on the matter so others like her will learn and probably change....

cause to me I feel her action might put the children at great risk of maltreatment and possible harm by the househelp.

The thing still dey pain me sha 😡😡😡

Are people not there to give her a stern look. Very wicked woman.

Nonexisting1:
My father is a simp and too nice to vaginarians. He is also very extravagant with money. Recently, the old man has been admiring me. I am the exact person he had wanted to be but I guess it's too late for him now. My stinginess and my zero tolerance for vaginarians and their shenanigans are on another level. Cheers to all the gentlemen like me jare.

Lol I hail o

Skyview01:
While thinking and reminiscing, I am thinking of my childhood and growing up, as kids, whenever our fatger would come back from work, we would allwys all run out of the house through the backdoor at the sound of his car horn.

The biggest reason is immediately he is stepping in, he would start complaining about things not being in their right places.
Chores not being done or improperly done, house not clean enough and he would always have something to complain about in an angry tone of voice.

I came to believe it was his own way of dealing with a stressful day at work and over time, it kinda created some tensions between us.

I told myself, no matter what, if I had my own family, no matter the stress I pass through during the day, i would never take it out on the kids or wife.

So whenever i come back from work and i see chores not done properly, my father's reaction would flash in my mind and i would take a deep breath and go the opposite directio , ask the kids and wife how their day went.
and generaly chit chat about them without making them uncomfortable around me.

At the end, I might ask my son, "sweetheart, when are you going to wash the dishes? Even at the peak of a very stressful day, I would find a way to smile and go to my room in solitude.

Secondly, shouting at the children while correcting the. My dad as a true Nigerian man would yell at a high octave while correcting us and it frequently drives me crazy as a teenager.

With my kids and family, I practice a low even tone of voice while i am angry or making neccessary corrections. I find this to be very effective as it made the kids receptive and willing to change.

The results, kids are free with me and can discuss virtually everything in their lives with me.

So, what did you see your father do while growing up you were unhappy with and wanted to change in your own family.

Non challant attitude to children upkeep and wellbeing. Womanizing engulf him so deeply, someone who served in his local government for 8 years yet didn't plan himself. Women, cars was his top priority despite all effort from his wife to make him reason well and invest. Now he totally got nothing and wrecked. Infact if it was not my mom struggle who was a civil servant bfr she retired that made us all GOTO school without his impact we would not have that privilege. I'll never neglect my kids or maltreat my wife. So help me God....

I'm really afraid of this country... Nothing is working....

24dro:
This is long but i would make it as short as possible.
Ok i know girl A (Alex) from school, was 2 levels above her when i left Uni and there's girl B (Jane) which i knew in my area then in Calabar around 2019.
Girl B (Jane) has been on my neck for marriage, actually she isn't in for money. She has never asked me for money before, she do tell me even though i wont marry her but i should at least make her carry my child and she would be ok. Like this girl really bugs me with this talk
that i sometimes get tired of talking to her. She would tell me she knows i don't love her anymore and she does most of the calling. Her talks mostly ends in 2 ways. If its not "i don't love her anymore", "its how do we plan to get married".
Now, i and girl A (Alex) started dating beginning of this year but we've been friends from school, prior to that (Jane) and i were dating. It was the pressure from her getting married talks that pushed me back to girl A (Alex). She knew about (Jane), i told her, it did not really border her but i never broke up with (Jane). I ghosted (Jane) because it would be expensive trying to keep with 2 people had to put 1 on hold. In fact it was her idea we became serious since we now understand ourselves better and we spoke a lot, was serving when we started everything was going well until this girl started acting smh. Like if she doesn't have money she starts acting grumpy. Me wea dey serve dey use 33k dey guide wea no dey reach me, after i buy food suff with almost 25k and i still get little needs i sha try assist in the little way i could, sent her 10k for her BD. Our relationship started sinking because no money and i don't do yahoo, she is mostly not happy and she kinda transfer it to me, if i try to encourage her she would say its motivational talk and she doesn't like that. She too enter camp and through out 21 days, she only had my time for 4 days, inside those days e no dey hours self. She was always busy that was why she could not talk. She's out and needed money to pay rent where her PPA is, she started acting grumpy. Told her i couldn't be in a relationship with someone that keeps acting this way, it wasn't going well for anyone that's why during my time i made sure is stayed in a place that had accommodation but she didn't plan and want to pressure me. Told her if she kept acting the way she acts i would stop communicating with her which i did. After close to a month she called me a day before my BD and said i did not notice she wasn't online, me wea no even send you again. My BD came and she no call, text or anything, I called her a day after to end it and everyone could go their separate ways, i would count it as a lose and move on but this girl done dey beg me, make i please forgive her, she's going to change, cousin called to talk to me too but i had deleted her number from my phone because of her i deactivated my Facebook too. Now its 7 months in and i last spoke to (Jane) earlier last month, she's telling me there are 3 guys disturbing to marry her. Showed me a chat were 1 said he has rented a 3bedroom so she knows he is serious me that is just 27yrs and i know marriage is not beans. Like she would tell me to just go see her people even if its just introduction i can afford that i should just do something, she doesn't wanna marry anyone apart from me and that she gives me a year to sort this. Now this girl isn't responding to me like before, like she's literally busy every time. Its so annoying that she would be online and she won't read my messages, i don talk tire, i vex delete her line from my phone.
I am confused, if i say i don't like the two of them then I'm lying to myself. Smh, i say make i start afresh again, delete both their numbers and stopped talking to them but (Alex) won't stop, what would you have me do?

Bro girl wey dey call you like u but u blew it... I don't know what to tell u but all the best in Ur next relationship cos it seem the girl wey dey bug u with calls sef don shift when u relegated her ...

Useless Oba allowing miscreants to chant his name to bully people....

Truvelisback:
Maybe, Mohbad broke their rules.

Hmmmm

Badadvisor:
Bro BKB happens in all confraternities in Nigeria.
Forget about all these their brotherhood alliance cap shit they are always chanting.

What's now the essence of belonging... Too sad for his life and how he go down....

Razkoda:
Over Sabi ......airlord is same as Eiye....

Since they are from the same sect, why didn't their head settle the matter for them... Why will one member threaten the other member.... No coordination at all....

Badadvisor:
Yes I'm correcting the dude who said he was BAN (fine boy)

Since they are from the same sect, why didn't their head settle the matter for them... Why will one member threaten the other member.... No coordination at all....

Nyanabo:
How old is she ?

29. 30 come December 17th...

He don buy job... Wicked doctor

I am following this thread for future reference...

Storypot:
Myself and Paul, very tight firends. So it happened that after high school and inbetween writting exams and seeking addmissions we learnt celebrity dating from one of our street Bros and here's how everthing played out.

Weeks after we learnt that update from Bros, we started working on our own and if we ran into any issues, we'd update Bros or go to his house. The way he taugh us, youd create a fake/clone instagram profile of a popular American celebrity then use the cloned account to spam the real celebrity's account followers impersonating and for scamish/catfish intentions.

I used ice spice as my cloned celeb and i started spamming with it. So this very Special Sunday, i was in church with Paul and my phone vibrated in my pockets. I wouldnt want to check watever notification it was at that time as i was on the Keys and Paul was on the drums. But my ohone had a mind of its own in that instance and it kept repeating the attention grabbing vibrant jiggle it made in my pockets to contunue dragging my attentiom from the song the choirs were singing that i was strumming the keys on the keyboard to. The choir stoopped singing for a minute and i was able to see whats up. Oh an instagram notification from Ice Spice well not tbe real ice spice, it was my cloned account of her and someone replied to my spam messages from one of her real followers that thought he was onto the real Ice Spice and his message read thus.


My initial spam message was;

Fake Ice Spice:
Hows it going Billy, if you ever get to read this, just know that i am connecting with you through my alternate account as my main page has handlers and is always busy and once a while i love connecting with my fans through comments that they make on my main page and get to know them. I'd like to read from and get to know you if you dont mind.

Till then Ice spice.


The response i got;

Billy;
This must be a dream Icey. I am a die hard fan and i have been supporting from the get go!! This is sureal! I'm honoured i must say. Ive got all of your songs and merchs! Please write me again when you read from me Icey, i'd be looking forward to it.


Tbc

Following

Aonkuuse:
Bro focus on your life, don't take steps backwards because you want to go and Bleep pussy.

Pussy wey akata don blee for 3 yrs straight... lmao

Snowx:
You know nothing..some carpenter make 500k in one job let alone..

Read the content of the post. He said he's a beginner, an apprentice at it... A solid professional can even earn way higher than what u type here.... Not someone who's just still learning...

Nonywendy:
I have been dating this my girl friend since 2017. She made me fall and believe in love, she ticked all the qualities I desire in a woman. When I we started dating she was in her 200L, and everything was going on smoothly. Now this is where the issue lies,
When she went for service in another state, I started noticing some changes, wen she comes back home during holidays I used to go through her phone.(note: she has access to my phone and I too).
So one of those period I realised she is seeing another guy in the state where she is serving. I confronted her and she opened up to me and confessed. I forgave her.

Then after like 4months again, I later noticed she is also seeing another guy different from the initial one I noticed, she denied that but I had to do my deep investigation and got an evidence, she opened up again, at this point I broke up with her and moved on. After like one month she came back begging for forgiveness, It took me time to heal and I forgave her.

Then this last one that broke the camel's back, I noticed she traveled to the state where she did her youth service for something and all this while I thought she was staying with her sister, not knowing she was staying with the first guy she dated while serving whch she apologised. She stayed with her for three good weeks. How I realized was, I called her line one early morning arnd 3am and a guy picked the call asking me who I am. At first, I froze cos I haven't been in that kind of situation, I calmed down and explained everything to the guy, and the guy also told me she has been with her for the past three weeks and that's the girl friend too. I was shocked. I have broken up with her finally cos I don't think forgiving a cheating partner is worth it.
The first time she cheated, 90% of my friends advised me to dump her ass and move on but I had to forgive on the basis of nobody is perfect, but this third time is a no no.
Now she has been begging and asking for forgiveness that she has really learnt her lessons. At this point I'm just so mad that I don't want to forgive her.
Now the big problem is that I'm always seeing her in my dream, I have not really moved on cos it's not easy for me. I have loved her for solid 6 yrs plus.
Note: all the family members from my side and her side are fully aware of our relationship and have approved but they are not aware that I have broken up. If you are my shoes will you forgive her for this very last time or will her cheating continues?
Your advise and suggestions will be well appreciated. Thank you

You're wasting your time....

inoki247:
Lol the name no go still affect the child buh come to Africa where you see beautiful and meaningful names and the Child still dey suffer....


Seeing Charity begging for 2k...

See Peace acting like a thug...

Patience doing ritual....


Wisdom daft like anything....


King doing Gateman work...


If you like name ur kid Bitcoinn or Dollar if he no go get value he no go get if the right tools no dey...

Uno get joy...

izonborn098:
How much is even this net worth' if Rihanna can relate with people like her present man despite having 1.4B Dollars compare to AP Rocky's 10m Dolls net worth' then your problem is pride. The problem with the average nigerian female celebrities...
Though Nigerian celebrities are only good in single moms...
The pride women get when they begin to make small money woundn't allow them find a man and even if they find a man many of the marriages don't last...

Nice illustration.... Look at Nicki Minaj and even folorunsho alakija
Some Nigeria women with pride but her choice sha, we are all entitle to it...

kingviny:
Often times, we look at a problem on the surface. But if we look deeply, there could be more than meet the eye.

If he is a good man but just that he has money issues ; he has little and in a bit to make it big he is trying gambling but always loosing it, perhaps it could be that he needs spiritual help , he also need counselling and then let him search for Jeffrey Benson on YouTube and be his devoted student for 1 year since he already likes speculative endeavour. Trust me, he would be ok.

Gambling is just a means to an end, it is not an end itself. He would need to learn functional skills as well. He can go into food business, digital marketing etc.

What type of gambling is he doing? Hope not lottery o ? as that one is a no no but If it is Forex, there is money in it oo. He just need to learn from those who are doing well in it. Out of 4 things I am doing, it is Forex that is giving me the most money to run my home right now and we are talking of 6 figures expenses monthly. I have 2 kids like you too and my wife is a teacher.

I know of someone who makes at least 10m monthly trading , his wife can never say he is gambling, she would say my husband is a fund manager and is doing so well .

Please don't leave him yet, help him if not for anything but for the sake of your children who need the presence and love of the 2 of you.

I am happy that you are a good woman. You have tried to have held forth for him all this while, not many women would do that even though it is not supposed to be a big deal if it is temporary. But if there is no end in sight , then it is right to shout out for help. Taking care of kids is a big job on its own.

How is your husband's family like? Are there successful siblings there ? Is your husband a lazy man or is it that he has not found help/job?

Try and get someone you feel he would listen to to join you in this mission. I can be of help to talk with him if you wish. We need to save your home .

Most men would want to work and provide for their families, only an irresponsible ones would not .

Above all, you need God's intervention.

With this points of yours, I pray you get all ur heart desires... I love the fact u look after ur family ND ur wife is also supporting by being a teacher. I use to tell people, in this present day Nigeria, keeping a family afloat needs the support of both party but it's pathetic if one party is the one running around for the sake of the family and as a matter of fact it'll be worse if such runnings is coming from the wife while the husband just look.

Culer:
Very nonsense song. Dude just went to the studio to TALK about fraud on a beat. He can't sing, he can't rap.
He will fade away soon like the rest of them.

He's in jail or EFCC don release am

ObedBaley:
All this elon musk boys !!!!

I don't even like that song....

adecz:
DVM
MBBS

12 years❗️❗️😮😮😮


The guy get time to waste❗️❗️😐😐

Do you add ASUU strikes and those bullshit....

Orc13:
This brother just placed Southern Kaduna on the map of achievements once again!

After studying Veterinary medicine, he furthered studied human medicine!

A coursemate had this to say about him on his Facebook wall;

"Some years back, we started it together at the University of Maiduguri studying Veterinary Medicine, and you were indeed brilliant amongst us. You graduated successfully with many distinctions at your disposal. You proceeded to the University of Jos to do what?

Most of us asked you with surprise that you are going to study Human Medicine. We all wondered what would have became of you. Unknown to us, you were already determined to get the unexpected done".

God bless you Doctor!

Credits: Lot Logyang

https://www.facebook.com/100053538765658/posts/pfbid02FWMGsJ44YVuUSSeWPBsK2vRjhtYSvwPhWpMCvjLrFBVRuzq491WrFKzPLaPvT2GZl/?app=fbl

With this qualifications he's going to stand out

kingsolomonjnr01:
How is that possible?.. I mean nursing and mass communication is absolutely different

She started sch all over again...

aysnoopy:
I studied Civil Engineering but jobless and roam about the street.
Life don tire me already.

Haaaa

Ofemmanu1:
I studied Microbiology..


Now a Store Officer.

Likewise. Lol may God help.
Wat region are u?!

LalastiklaIa:
Makes me remember a friend of mine who got dumped by a girl despite his money flaunting and gifts to her. Dude was pained and started flaunting tirelessly on the media. Started posting things like "no peace for the wicked" posts about registering your girlfriend mobile number to be getting your alerts.

I be like oga move on she saw all the money and stuff before she left and she has a reason she did leave so respect it. Showing how much more better you are doing just shows how unnecessarily childish and pained you are

❤️ Mk he move on

post=125553637:
GOOOOAAAALLLLL

Arsenal 3 1 Manchester Utd.

What a beautiful Goal by Gabriel Jesus.
Beautiful Finish.

GAME OVER

Did he call his mother...😁

nlfpmod:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/09/fresh-flood-alert-lagos-orders-residents-of-alagbole-meiran-kara-others-to-relocate/

Where should they go

Good day good people of nairaland

I just completed driving lesson in a school and I was issued a general certificate of driver education for license processing, But I am not yet ready for the processing and I was told the certificate expires, without being given any period of expiration to this effect.
I Just wanted to be sure if it's true or not and for how many months is the expiry period of the certificate.
Thanks in advance....

Illegal1:
omoh........i no dey lyk all dis kind strong/rough Bleep ooh,see as person dey sweat lyk christmas goat..

U aren't caught in that action bfr lol...