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FashionRe: Ladies: Can You Attend Events Without Makeup? by Godmystrength:
My
''without'' make-up days are more than my ''make-up'' days regardless
of the occasion or event.......even my wedding day... grin grin
Felvet: @ topic, with white powder I'm good to go.
me too
i do admire good make-up on people but i dont have the time and patience. The eye shadows i bought for my wedding are still as good as new.
FamilyRe: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by Godmystrength: 3:52pm On Sep 16, 2014
^^^^

Some days ago, someone told me about a bad incident that happened to my ex (he lost his first child), i felt pity and without thinking, i looked for his number and sent him a condolence msg through whatsapp (big mistake). Since that day, na fresh trouble i enter o. He tried chatting with me yesterday night on my way home from the office and the things he was saying got me so angry and pissed that i passed my busstop.

He was saying he will continue to regret not marrying me even till the last day and that he was thinking about me and narrating me to his sister who would have been my iya oko (SIL) and that the lady wants to meet me. who does that even with what just happened to him. I just told him to leave me alone, and focus his total love and thought to his wife and stop cheating on her emotionally. I told him i won't take such from my hubby and i also don't expect his wife to find it funny if she get to know of it (i don't know if i said the right thing or maybe i just made a fool of myself).... He was about telling me something else but i told him that he just made me pass my busstop and that later. I couldn't even tell my hubby all these. i don't even know whether to tell him because of the day the guy will send me a msg and hubby will be d first reader, before he will now be asking me how long this has been going on.

sorry for my long essay. I don't know how to summarize ni
FamilyRe: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by Godmystrength: 3:51pm On Sep 16, 2014
^^^^
When i was getting married, i invited our friends and he was aware, wanted to come but something came up(according to him). Meanwhile, i already told hubby about him. My thought was that he will rest o but alaa, i was very wrong. He got my pin and was always sending messages to me. Hubby sees those messages. I wanted to delete him but hubby said i should leave it. (he said he wants to be seeing all the chats. he assumes that if i delete him, he will be calling me and maybe he thinks he will not be able to know what we discuss cheesy)

He keeps telling me how he regrets not marrying me, calling me his wife bla bla bla, that he has told his wife about me, that his wife feels bad about why we didn't get married and some other rubbish talks that i won't even be able to type. I had no choice than to delete him from my contact. Only for me to get a message from him again on my bb and i was wondering how come. Hubby now told me that he picked my phone one day and didn't see him on my contact bla bla bla and that he sent a request to me and he was the one that accepted it. I didn't know what else to say. Since then all responses to his chats were limited to hello, hi, yes, okay, later, busy etc.....till my bb got damaged and i got a nokia phone. So communication with him stopped....
FamilyRe: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by Godmystrength: 3:50pm On Sep 16, 2014
edwife: hmmmm,waiting.....
sorry for keeping you waiting for long. i was busy with some reports grin grin grin



There is this guy that we dated for almost 7years (my first love grin grin) but for some reasons not my fault and maybe not his (that na long tory), i decided to move on with my life. So i left him about 7years ago. He wanted me back but i already took my decision. He kept pestering my life and so i severed ties with him.

He got married 5years ago. some few weeks to his wedding, his sister called me(i don't know how he got my number) and was begging me to come back to his brother because he has threatened to do something funny if i don't. I was so angry and told the sister to stop calling me and shift her love to her new found SIL to be. This guy called me afterwards and was still begging me. i stopped picking his calls and that was it. He went ahead with his wedding ceremony and got married. I was so happy for him.

This guy was still disturbing me and he was like he will never leave me alone until i get married. i just ignored him. he sends messages through sms,facebook etc but he doesn't get any response from me.
FamilyRe: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by Godmystrength: 3:11pm On Sep 16, 2014
aisha2: Explain myself ke? Not doing that am waiting for the running mouth to come back and tell me what makes me a fake super woman.
It's women like this who will create issues for themselves and come and form victim.
I am ready for my first nairaland fight in 8 years.
oya no vex o. i don't like fighting things at all. i try as much as possible to stay away from things that can make me engage someone in a fight whether na e-fight abi real-fight.
FamilyRe: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by Godmystrength: 3:02pm On Sep 16, 2014
aisha2: Pray tell me what makes me a fake, super woman please?
The fact that I take issues head on?
Feel bold enough to quote me and call my name rather than " some people" if you don't agree with my ideas state it clearly instead of throwing stones in a market. If someone offends your sensibility be bold enough to say it and have a healthy debate rather than throw accusations wildly.

Should you need clarification about my lifestyle ask me rather than clog me with some woman in your office.
aisha2, no need to explain yourself. this is NL. we agree to disagree. Just shake it off...

you see now? Na the thing we/you dey talk you just do now abi? if na me, i fit just ignore since my name no dey there. you stomach is too small, e no get enough space to dey keep something ni? come make i borrow you from my own join grin grin grin
FamilyRe: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by Godmystrength: 11:21am On Sep 16, 2014
Me i have a new story o and i need advise. will be back with the gist shortly
FamilyRe: Violence: Again The Double Standards by Godmystrength: 10:26am On Sep 16, 2014
aisha2 see wetin you cause now grin grin cheesy
FamilyRe: How To Be A Nigerian Woman By Elnathan John by Godmystrength: 10:22am On Sep 16, 2014
FamilyRe: How To Be A Nigerian Woman By Elnathan John by Godmystrength: 10:00am On Sep 16, 2014
lezz: I don't know what your religious lining is but i'm a christian and i know that every married woman has a ministry and her first ministry is to her husband.
Okay. But is it only the woman that has a ministry? What is a married man's ministry
FamilyRe: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by Godmystrength: 9:48am On Sep 16, 2014
I don't have time for in-laws palava so i have learnt to mind my own business. if i feel offended/hurt by any of my in-laws,i just let my hubby know and i end it there. I won't even refer to it a second time and i care less if he takes action or not. My telling him is just that i don't want to die in silence and also let him know in advance of why i might not be able to go out of my way for someone/somebody.

If you hurt /offend me and i know that my speaking out will cause more harm than good, i keep my mouth shut and be more careful around you.....
FamilyRe: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by Godmystrength: 9:40am On Sep 16, 2014
alutacontinua: Chaiiiiiiii!
Women! undecided
Like you are not part of them... Me i am not decieved by this your new gender status o grin grin grin
FamilyRe: "If Only You Knew..." by Godmystrength: 6:20pm On Sep 15, 2014
dytbabe: Sometimes am not serious
Jst take this as one of the times
grin grin grin grin grin
okay o cheesy
FamilyRe: Can't Find A Wife by Godmystrength: 6:18pm On Sep 15, 2014
lastchild: is like you people are missing something here, these girls don't even give me the time to know me well, even ashawo comes and run after the first meeting, telling me something wanted to kill her while sleeping or something, I can't just understand
shocked shocked then this must be pretty serious if true
FamilyRe: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by Godmystrength: 6:01pm On Sep 15, 2014
mamateniola1: hummm, at all. remember my S-I-L that i said doesnt call me whenever she dey come my house? as usual, she came last month and overheard her telling dh she don meet a man she go marry. heeehehheeeee, if you see the way my stomach sweet me! i sang all though when i was taking my bath. she never tell me oh, but if na matter wey dem don break her heart or tripping for a guy who no notice her or in an unhealthy relationship, she go come to me come gist and need advise, now she no even tell me say she meet a man.it concerns me not sha. me am just thanking God that she go soon go her husband's house and will know what it means when her inlaw treats her like she no be part of the family, when her inlaw enters her kitchen and rearrange her things with impunity, burst into her room without knocking. heheeheeheeehe, cant wait for the wedding, my gele go big pass DSTV dish! i thank God say i never confront her all through despite driving me crazy with her insensitive attitudes, they will say its because, she never marry! hummmm
cheesy cheesy grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
FamilyRe: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by Godmystrength: 5:58pm On Sep 15, 2014
Wendy80: Som men no be here oh. I remember sometime last year, a close colleague caught her hubby cheating thru text msgs and she confronted him, his response was "and so? shocked Omoo na so she freeze 4 some mins. She came to d office wth swollen face, obviously cried all thru d night. D gist plenty jare.
shocked Love don end/finish be that o
FamilyRe: "If Only You Knew..." by Godmystrength: 5:34pm On Sep 15, 2014
dytbabe: grin grin grin
I think I have


cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
you are not even sure.. cheesy cheesy
FamilyRe: Pros And Cons Of Sleeping With A Married Man by Godmystrength: 4:47pm On Sep 15, 2014
shizzleStar: This thunder youre sharing, abeg make e no reach my side'o cheesycheesy
I am not sharing any thunder o. Just redistributing it... grin grin
How are you doing? How ya weekend?
FamilyRe: How To Keep Your Gay Life Secret In Naija By Chinua Onwukike by Godmystrength: 4:09pm On Sep 15, 2014
pickabeau1: ..
FamilyRe: How To Be A Nigerian Woman By Elnathan John by Godmystrength: 4:01pm On Sep 15, 2014
2scorehigh: OP like seriously?

Since when is a female dog known as a dam?

Na wa o...

Smh for dis Seun sef... shocked
wetin concern Seun in this matter?
FamilyRe: Do You Shop With Shopping List Or Just Spontaneous Buying. by Godmystrength:
I make a list of what to buy and also include the expected price (i give little allowances for the unexpected). I try as much as possible to abide by the content of the list but i still end up buying some more things than outside my list.
Overtime, i have come to realize that the purpose of the list is actually to ensure i don't forget to buy any of the items on my list. So my shopping list is a list of MUST buy and not ALL to be bought.
FamilyRe: "If Only You Knew..." by Godmystrength: 3:47pm On Sep 15, 2014
dytbabe: I love u
grin grin
you have never told him that? shocked grin grin
FamilyRe: DID You Buy A New Bed For Your Matrimonial Journey? by Godmystrength: 3:45pm On Sep 15, 2014
a month to our wedding, we got our accommodation and hubby was the one living there alone till we got married. Before he moved in, we started buying the things for the house (this includes the BED). Since bed was just about a month old, there was no need to change it. We just continued using it like that. But if it was that he already had a bed he was using and it was in good condition, we would have continued using it like that. No money to waste. GOOD BED is not cheap.


if i want to change bed because of the reason stated in OP, then will i also change his body parts as well starting from his lips? Abi i know how many girls he has kissed with it
FamilyRe: Was She Right Or Wrong ???? by Godmystrength: 3:38pm On Sep 15, 2014
5minsmadness: God/Father = Man. Man build house and another man live in it= good.

Woman build house for man and man live in it = bad/emasculation.

Food/Sex, Shelter and Clothing IS what makes a man! Man is supposed to provide these three for his woman. Once woman take any of these from man, man no longer man but sissy.

Unforgivable.
That means there are so many sissy(s) around theses days

But why did you group food and sex together??
FamilyRe: Is It Right To Beat Your Child?- NFL Player Deactivated For Beating His Son by Godmystrength: 3:25pm On Sep 15, 2014
shymexx: My bad - I posted the wrong pic at first. grin


NFL has gone nuts...and the society we live in today is going to hell in a hand basket. As the black sheep in my family, I grew getting my ar.se whooped with belts and all kinds of things...and that obviously instilled a lot of things into me. It made me stronger physically and mentally, also made me fear my parents. Heck, to date - I can't even look straight into my pops' face and chat shiit to him. Despite being far taller, stronger, and bigger than him.

You should be allowed to beat your children!
And you think this is okay? Would you want same for your children?
FamilyRe: Can't Find A Wife by Godmystrength: 3:20pm On Sep 15, 2014
Elantracey: you need to relax abi grin grin its needed jare
yes o. cheesy
FamilyRe: If Your Partner Hits You ONE Time, Would You Leave Or Stay? by Godmystrength: 3:20pm On Sep 15, 2014
snazzylove: Na opinion we dey share oo. No hard feelings grin.
How u dey? And family?
grin
I am good o and my family dey intact.....
FamilyRe: If Your Partner Hits You ONE Time, Would You Leave Or Stay? by Godmystrength: 2:08pm On Sep 15, 2014
snazzylove: ...And read my post again, I said if am very certain my hussy is not the abusive type.

I can't remember asking or telling anywoman to do whatever I wish to do.
And am still entitled to my opinion and how I choose to handle my marriage.
snazzybabe cool down jere grin grin
FamilyRe: Can't Find A Wife by Godmystrength: 2:04pm On Sep 15, 2014
Elantracey: Glad to here that , do extend my greetings to your husby and hope another baby is on the way? wink
shocked shocked for where? Not this year jare...
FamilyRe: Pros And Cons Of Sleeping With A Married Man by Godmystrength: 2:03pm On Sep 15, 2014
hermesprogidy: wetin concern thunder for all this nahuh? grin grin grin grin grin we need to save the thunder for our politifians grin grin grin
There is more than enough to go round them. So don't worry. grin grin
FamilyRe: Can't Find A Wife by Godmystrength: 1:49pm On Sep 15, 2014
Elantracey: I've been thinking that since but didn't want to just ask cheesy cheesy



how's JJ , I've missed you o.
he is doing fine. a big boy now. missed you too. grin grin
FamilyRe: Can't Find A Wife by Godmystrength: 1:44pm On Sep 15, 2014
Elantracey: cry cry cry
don't do that o. You are a very sharp babe.

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