₦airaland Forum

freshdude2: Na wa for you o. Where's ya sense of humour, eh?

trities: I was speaking to a friend of mine recently and he was of the opinion that he can never date a virgin and to him a lady should have been disvirgined before the age of 23, Now he isn't the only I've heard saying such and that makes me to wonder, how fashionable is it to be a virgin in this corrupt world of ours? Are virgins respected as aforetime? For those that married as virgins, at what age did you marry?

satope1: Yeah true. But not so common.

stan4b: . She's bringing out of love. Its cooked food,like two plates of jollof rice.

pickabeau1: look at the moniker... sweet something

wants to sleep with the sis

Maybe na lezz

pickabeau1:

Are u gay

satope1: Ok better. The impression i have seen her tells the opposite that was why i was asking for clarification.

MARKone: of course with her consent, am not that barbaric, mine is to keep her talking while topping her glass....end result can be quite electrifying.

satope1: You don't understand. I mean if the op were male. Would your thinking and advise be the same?

1stCitizen: What a question? No be person dis-virgin me? haba? Na ghost?

1stCitizen: Even sef, Virgin dey Nigeria again? abi you no sabi say woman wey claim say she be virgin na him dey no dey gree do for wedding night and dey frustrate him hubby with the way she go the contract the thing to mimick virginity, then run enter bathroom like say she dey bleed. We don hear plenty tory my bro.

1stCitizen: Seriously.
I said I am very sexually experienced. Why should I marry a virgin when I am not one. We will definitely not be on the same wavelength.

MARKone: [size=5pt]
Used to induce mine with Alcohol back then, till she mastered the act u can try it[/size]

1stCitizen: My personal preference though. I cannot!!! simple. Those that did that I know of had too many issues that created marital problems for them. That of the OP is even trivial and can be sorted compared to others. I am not encouraging pre-marital sex but being very realistic. A sexually inexperienced woman with a sexually experienced husband is recipe for disaster.

1stCitizen: Who send you go marry virgin?

ladyju: I think both of u should talk to a doctor. Maybe she's lacking some vitamins.... I don't know what else to say

justcallbuki: kia see advice o!. I no won talk i beggi but men; wot u cnt take stop doing it to us!
Here is my story.... 1yr in my marriage hubby n ex keep updating there sef every 5min(even @ mid-9t),i was so uncomfortable wit it even beg it to stop,all he told me was dat i was so feelin insecure! He did dat for a whole yr! Den i decided to pay him bk,by calling my ex after yrs of break up..he was happy(cos i neva wanted him to call me)and told me to tell hubby(he was lyk do whatever u wot,am nt feeling insecure) he calld me @ mid-9t,hubby was fast asleep he had to wake up sweating under AC,he grabbd my phone call my ex names and he scatter my phone(u can imagine d rest)lemme stop der jare!

ozalogbo: I married my wife a virgin. Because of our religious sensibilities, we abstained from sex before our wedding. But two weeks after our wedding, there was no sex. She allowed pre-intimacy, but once I tried to penetrate, she withdrew even without 'contact'. I was patient, thinking it was just a question of fear because of the stories she probably heard about how painful it might be. But on the third week I practically forced my way through... It is two years now, and sex has been far less than fulfilling. First, she never gets wet or even aroused, no matter the pre-intimacy! And after giving birth to our daughter, I still have to, no, I still MUST apply a lubricant to penetrate her.
Is this normal? Is there any help?

eighTHREAD: abeg leave me alone with my body language . We go dey catch later

nurey: What she needs is TWO in ONE, a MAN who is PATIENT and CARING. He has to be patient with her because she would reject his advances and caring in that he would stand by her no matter what, eventually she would change her mind set about men.

eighTHREAD: yes o! I think sey na the one I produce with wife. Abeg I be small boy o!

eighTHREAD: I was sick jare. Abeg I never marry o, No come spoil market for me

eighTHREAD: old mama, you no even ask of old papa! Why na?

cococandy: You mean feminism makes guys yansh other guys?

satope1: You guys can misquote a person. He never made mention of intentionally doing it. He made a presumption that if you stared too much at a young kid, your mind me wander not to the kid but to a comparison of what the kid has. I.e a naked woman. He is in effect being aroused by the thoughts in his head and not the kid in his front. More like the look took his mind somewhere else.

Naetochukwu: Well before then i will explain to hubby why my baby's name have to Chinonso. The meaning here should be of high priority and not my ex

Naetochukwu: Well chinonso was my first boyfriend but i always loved the name before i met him

coogar: till he/she is 15.
by 15, she should be ripe enough to write her o'level or a'level exams. by 16, she's already an adult & she would know the right choices to make.

pickabeau1:

With a bïtch

That one Na ebodõggy....

lofty900: I'm not a paedo, aisha2 and co should desist henceforth from calling me names. This joke has gone far enough. I'm out

lofty900: who said anything about being a nigerian ? f00l